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The 2 child benefit cap lift will be cancelled out by the weekly benefit cap

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Pinkbowls · 12/11/2025 13:24

I keep seeing all this talk about families with 6+ kids “racking it in” if the two-child benefit cap is lifted, and honestly, it’s hogwash. Here’s the reality:

If the Labour government does lift the two-child cap, it will mainly help low-income working families and families who are claiming disability benefits. These households aren’t subject to the cap, so the poorest families and those who genuinely need extra support for a third or fourth child are the ones who will benefit.

For a single adult with two children outside London, the monthly benefit cap is around £1,832 (~£423 per week). In London, it’s higher, about £2,108 per month (~£486 per week).

Now let’s break it down roughly for someone renting privately:

  • Assume the standard allowance + personal allowance for the adult + child elements (for 2 kids) = around £1,200–£1,300/month.
  • Private rent in many parts of the UK, and especially in London, can easily eat £800–£1,200/month.
  • Add council tax support (which helps a bit, but only partially) and you can see that most of the cap is already taken up.

So in reality, lifting the two-child cap doesn’t suddenly create a pile of extra cash. For families on benefits but below the cap, the extra child element for a third or fourth child may only leave a modest amount after rent and council tax.

The idea that parents with 6+ children will suddenly be sitting on a fortune is completely overblown. The system is designed so that the support goes to those who genuinely need it, not to families already comfortably above the threshold.

The main winners of this policy will be:

  • Low-income working families who are earning enough to be under the cap and can actually receive the child element for additional children.
  • Families claiming disability benefits, who aren’t subject to the cap at all.

It’s important to separate myths from reality: this is about helping the most vulnerable and supporting working families, not about rewarding large families for being on benefits.

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Ticklyoctopus · 12/11/2025 18:16

Leavesfalling · 12/11/2025 18:14

I dont think anyone has said that. That's just you who has referred to people as "scum of the Uk ".

But remember. Its other people who are financing your better life. To their own detriment as taxes will need to go up.

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The emotive ‘workhouse’ language is used to shut the conversation down.

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:16

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 18:13

So people who are born with no disabilities must be fucking walking miracles compared to the lucky ones of us being told we should be grateful for being the scum of the uk for trying to make our lives easier

People who were born with no disabilities AND in the UK are indeed incredibly lucky.

do you want know how people with disabilities live in countries where a government genuinely can’t afford supporting them, at all? Because that’s where it’s going if the UK goes bankrupt.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 12/11/2025 18:17

Ticklyoctopus · 12/11/2025 17:42

I know several people with children with very profound autism (not speaking at 4/5, no understanding of anything) and that’s definitely real and in my opinion increasing. But not too sure about the other cases.

I have 9 nephews. I suspect over of them are on the spectrum with one profound. My own son still only speaks single words and he is nearly four and waiting for an assessment.

RaininSummer · 12/11/2025 18:17

I wonder if people on UC think those of us who are not claiming are dining on steak and other expensive things regularly. In my house regular dinners are jacket spuds, pasta, fish finger sandwiches and big pots of chilli, curry etc. Steak is my bloke's birthday dinner annually.

TigerRag · 12/11/2025 18:18

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:06

Yeah but when there are millions like that, it adds up.

of course you should be helping him out; in fact he should get no UC whatsoever nor housing benefits, you as parents need to bear this cost until he finds a job.

why is it a government problem and you think you should not be “helping out”?

And if someone's parents can't afford to help them out?

Leavesfalling · 12/11/2025 18:18

Ticklyoctopus · 12/11/2025 18:15

I’m disabled and I am 100% lucky that my lifesaving medications, fiercely expensive elsewhere, are paid for by the NHS. Very lucky indeed. I’m very grateful. Nothing in life is free, and none of us are entitled to a lifestyle, only a life.

This. We all might need a safety net at some point and luckily in the UK there is one. That's our luck to be born here, not something that is automatically due to all humans.

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 18:18

Ticklyoctopus · 12/11/2025 18:15

I’m disabled and I am 100% lucky that my lifesaving medications, fiercely expensive elsewhere, are paid for by the NHS. Very lucky indeed. I’m very grateful. Nothing in life is free, and none of us are entitled to a lifestyle, only a life.

It shouldn't be lucky. Its not our fault that others have it worse is it.

You are not lucky to be disabled to start with. I do not see myself as lucky. Fortune to not be living elsewhere yes. But not lucky.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 12/11/2025 18:18

RaininSummer · 12/11/2025 18:17

I wonder if people on UC think those of us who are not claiming are dining on steak and other expensive things regularly. In my house regular dinners are jacket spuds, pasta, fish finger sandwiches and big pots of chilli, curry etc. Steak is my bloke's birthday dinner annually.

No we don't but neither are those on UC living in luxury. I can't remember my last steak actually. 😂

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:19

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Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:20

TigerRag · 12/11/2025 18:18

And if someone's parents can't afford to help them out?

Then this person very quickly finds ANY job to support themselves

TigerRag · 12/11/2025 18:20

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:16

People who were born with no disabilities AND in the UK are indeed incredibly lucky.

do you want know how people with disabilities live in countries where a government genuinely can’t afford supporting them, at all? Because that’s where it’s going if the UK goes bankrupt.

Nothing like a bit of victim blaming eh? Whilst ignoring the fact that some are on disability benefits because the ridiculous waiting lists mean they're waiting for treatment

UserFront242 · 12/11/2025 18:20

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PIP is literally given to disabled people to level the playing field. The key is in the name.
What do you think it is for?

WanderlustMom · 12/11/2025 18:20

Winteriscoming80 · 12/11/2025 15:58

No it shouldn’t be lifted at all,there is a family near me who has 12 children and she’s pregnant again!

But as the OP says, they’ll be a benefit cap regardless so she isn’t going to benefit? Unless her children are disabled.

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 18:21

UserFront242 · 12/11/2025 18:20

PIP is literally given to disabled people to level the playing field. The key is in the name.
What do you think it is for?

Buying steak

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 18:21

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Yes they are. My God. You honestly have no idea. Its embarrassing.

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:22

TigerRag · 12/11/2025 18:20

Nothing like a bit of victim blaming eh? Whilst ignoring the fact that some are on disability benefits because the ridiculous waiting lists mean they're waiting for treatment

Where is victim blaming here?? Who is the victim?

UserFront242 · 12/11/2025 18:22

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 18:21

Buying steak

😂I hope it is some of that fancy Wagyu steak. Go big, or go home.

Youdontseehow · 12/11/2025 18:22

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 17:30

2 DV is optimal because it replaces two adults with 2 kids so maintains working population levels

well you’re clearly not a statistician lol

Ticklyoctopus · 12/11/2025 18:22

WanderlustMom · 12/11/2025 18:20

But as the OP says, they’ll be a benefit cap regardless so she isn’t going to benefit? Unless her children are disabled.

We’ve addressed this - so many people and children have a form of ‘disability’ now that the majority are uncapped

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 12/11/2025 18:22

chrisssssy · 12/11/2025 18:15

I know a woman who has 6 kids and has never worked a day in her life and now with the cap lifting she says she dosent have to work until her kids are older now.

The cap should not be lifted.

Isn't it the 2 child limit they are lifting, not the cap. So she probably won't get much more, if anything.

Bootsies · 12/11/2025 18:22

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 18:07

Lucky. Wow.

there are some really horrible people out here tonight. Shocking. Some obviously have lived very sheltered lifes. Many don't understand they are just one accident away from needing support themselves.

I actually have a steak in the fridge. I shall fry that up now! Fingers crossed Goldwren and some of the others don't choke on their dinner when they read that.

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 18:22

UserFront242 · 12/11/2025 18:22

😂I hope it is some of that fancy Wagyu steak. Go big, or go home.

5 times a week. I even give one to the cats on a Saturday

ElderlyCat · 12/11/2025 18:22

Hyasinth · 12/11/2025 17:50

You always get this kind of response on these threads.

Nobody here is talking about people with severe learning difficulties, serious illness etc. These people and their families should get more than they currently get.

We are talking about the thousands of people who are fit and well and could go out and get a job or attend college if it was in their financial interests to do so. But the system has developed in such a way that it is not.

There are posts on here clearly stating no one on benefits should live a comfortable life style. So that includes disabled people. There are also people saying that disabled people should be in some kind of residential care. For a child a quick google of costs for a disabled child is in the region of £281,000 a year. We get around 8% of that a year in benefits.

This is one response:

Basic shelter, basic food, appropriate care and appliances (eg wheelchair - but through NHS). No luxuries, no trying to have “comfortable life” like people with 2 incomes. Fun things like outings through charities.
Would it be easier for you if there were goodresidential facilities which provided 24/7 care ? (Genuine question)

People on this thread are absolutely saying disabled people shouldn’t get the support.

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 12/11/2025 18:23

Is government funded steak the 2025 version of the flat screen TVs and free goats?

K0OLA1D · 12/11/2025 18:23

Goldwren1923 · 12/11/2025 18:22

Where is victim blaming here?? Who is the victim?

You obviously. Having all your taxes taken away so we can eat steak

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