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camelofdestiny · 07/11/2025 09:56

I think the fact that they are reportedly 'big softies' and affectionate, gentle animals 99% of the time is what's making them so lethal

Yes, this old quote gets wheeled out every single time an XL bully kills someone. Its become so common that I think anyone who hears this phrase should back away slowly from that person's dog because its very likely they'll be its next victim

BackToLurk · 07/11/2025 09:58

ACynicalDad · 07/11/2025 09:45

I would extend the dog ban to all muscle dogs, some can probably just be neutered so they die out, and not need muzzles, just have Labradors and smaller you would get one death caused by a biting dog a decade, and a few more from being licked to death.

How are you defining 'muscle dogs'? The statistics on fatal dogs attacks suggest that there is a real problem with XLs, they are massively overrepresented in statistics. However, the historical statistics suggest that it is very much about ownerships. There used to be far more staffy and staffy types in the numbers - although it's still a small amount. They barely figure now, and no more than other dogs like rottweilers. So either they all suddenly gave up the killing or it was about they way they were kept.

Again, XLs aside, (and sometimes even with them), if you read follow up reports on fatal dog attacks you will frequently see things like "they were kept outside all the time" "they were never allowed near people". These are not well-socialised, trained family dogs, regardless of breed.

rainbowunicorn · 07/11/2025 09:58

Ihatetomatoes · 07/11/2025 06:09

Another poor child, a 9 month old baby, killed by an XL bully.

Should they be muzzled indoors around children and babies?

https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/police-reveal-breed-dog-killed-32819908.amp?int_source=taboola&int_medium=display&int_campaign=organic

They should all be rounded up and put down

Alittlefrustrated · 07/11/2025 10:02

A man was killed, a 5 to 10 minute walk from my house, by an XL Bully. He was walking his own dog in a residential area.
Some reports claim the owner ran out if his house because the victim threw a stone at his window. His 2 XL 's followed him, and the male chased the man and attacked.
Both XL' s had previously attacked dogs in the area.
The owner was jailed for 3 years.
The breed needs to be eradicated.

BackToLurk · 07/11/2025 10:03

This is probably a repeat of yesterday's thread that got pulled, but I think we have to separate out XLs from other breeds and look more widely at legislation around all dogs. Licensing, compulsory training etc. We don't just hand people the keys to a car and let them get on with it. We require them to know what they're doing with a car, we ask them to make sure that car is roadworthy. The idea that we let just anyone have pretty much any dog of any size, is IMO mad.

AberforthDumbledoresGoat · 07/11/2025 10:04

ACynicalDad · 07/11/2025 09:45

I would extend the dog ban to all muscle dogs, some can probably just be neutered so they die out, and not need muzzles, just have Labradors and smaller you would get one death caused by a biting dog a decade, and a few more from being licked to death.

Ah. I wondered when the puppy farm advocate would rear his head! I’m unsurprised how someone who supports animal abuse and cruelty - and knowingly so - could be so melodramatic about particular dog breeds. FTR not all bull breeds are the same, just like all spaniels aren’t the same.

But then a puppy farm supporter is never going to know that sort of difference. Are they?

Personally I’d rather a boxer (which I imagine would fall under ‘muscle dog’) than a puppy farm reared Australian labradoodle.

ResusciAnnie · 07/11/2025 10:05

‘It could be any breed’ - I really don’t think a dachshund could kill a man, unless it bit in a few very specific places. And in order to get to those spots, the man would probably have to already be unconscious, otherwise would just kick the dog off. Even then would its teeth be long enough to bite deep enough? Probably not.

Aubrielle · 07/11/2025 10:06

ACynicalDad · 07/11/2025 09:45

I would extend the dog ban to all muscle dogs, some can probably just be neutered so they die out, and not need muzzles, just have Labradors and smaller you would get one death caused by a biting dog a decade, and a few more from being licked to death.

It's pretty inappropriate to talk of being "licked to death" under the circumstances.

It's also untrue regarding Labradors and smaller, because if you look at dog death stats you'll find a fair few terriers listed. And if you talk of all dogs bigger than a Lab being outlawed you're also penalising the Gentle Giant breeds that aren't known for aggression.

The problem is medium/large crossbreeds like Bullies, Pitbulls, crosses of Bandogs, American Bulldogs etc. That is where the problems lie. You can't legislate by size because the fact is that none of the breeds banned by the Dangerous Dogs act are gigantic, they are just bulky. And some of these dangerous dogs are no "bigger" than the average Labradoodle, just a lot stronger.

ACynicalDad · 07/11/2025 10:09

AberforthDumbledoresGoat · 07/11/2025 10:04

Ah. I wondered when the puppy farm advocate would rear his head! I’m unsurprised how someone who supports animal abuse and cruelty - and knowingly so - could be so melodramatic about particular dog breeds. FTR not all bull breeds are the same, just like all spaniels aren’t the same.

But then a puppy farm supporter is never going to know that sort of difference. Are they?

Personally I’d rather a boxer (which I imagine would fall under ‘muscle dog’) than a puppy farm reared Australian labradoodle.

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What a lovely person you are too. My dog came from a family home, I'll advocate for the breed not the breeders, that is the choice of the purchaser. I'd have my ALD over any other dog, he's wonderful. Well trained, beautifully behaved won't harm a fly and liked by several of my children's friends who are otherwise scared of dogs.

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 07/11/2025 10:10

AberforthDumbledoresGoat · 07/11/2025 10:04

Ah. I wondered when the puppy farm advocate would rear his head! I’m unsurprised how someone who supports animal abuse and cruelty - and knowingly so - could be so melodramatic about particular dog breeds. FTR not all bull breeds are the same, just like all spaniels aren’t the same.

But then a puppy farm supporter is never going to know that sort of difference. Are they?

Personally I’d rather a boxer (which I imagine would fall under ‘muscle dog’) than a puppy farm reared Australian labradoodle.

Edited

I think you'll probably find most bully dogs are puppy farmed and flogged on shitty sites like gumtree and pets4homes with zero checks.

Also well done for creating the biggest strawman known to man...

AberforthDumbledoresGoat · 07/11/2025 10:11

Whatwerewetalkingabout · 07/11/2025 10:10

I think you'll probably find most bully dogs are puppy farmed and flogged on shitty sites like gumtree and pets4homes with zero checks.

Also well done for creating the biggest strawman known to man...

Actually, Boxers and other dogs that full under ‘bull’ tend not to be puppy farmed.

and that poster has repeatedly advocated and recommended puppy farmers to people. I have no time for any nonsense he sprouts. I’d get more sense from a chinchilla

Aubrielle · 07/11/2025 10:12

ACynicalDad · 07/11/2025 10:09

What a lovely person you are too. My dog came from a family home, I'll advocate for the breed not the breeders, that is the choice of the purchaser. I'd have my ALD over any other dog, he's wonderful. Well trained, beautifully behaved won't harm a fly and liked by several of my children's friends who are otherwise scared of dogs.

I could say exactly the same about my gentle giant breed dog, yet you would have her outlawed because she happens to be considerably bigger than a Labrador.
What a lovely person you are.

Trainarmrestfairy · 07/11/2025 10:13

ACynicalDad · 07/11/2025 10:09

What a lovely person you are too. My dog came from a family home, I'll advocate for the breed not the breeders, that is the choice of the purchaser. I'd have my ALD over any other dog, he's wonderful. Well trained, beautifully behaved won't harm a fly and liked by several of my children's friends who are otherwise scared of dogs.

You have repeatedly advocated and recommended puppy farmer breeders in the ‘Dog House.’ It’s a bit of a running joke from what I can see from other threads you’ve contributed to there.

Anyone who says their dog ‘wouldn’t harm a fly’ isn’t fit to have a dog because any dog can harm - the difference is that most of us with big breeds take precautions because we’re aware of the stigma our dogs face!

Mistyglade · 07/11/2025 10:14

Sorry but those dogs shouldn’t be bred, they’re not dogs they’re fucking monsters.

ACynicalDad · 07/11/2025 10:20

Trainarmrestfairy · 07/11/2025 10:13

You have repeatedly advocated and recommended puppy farmer breeders in the ‘Dog House.’ It’s a bit of a running joke from what I can see from other threads you’ve contributed to there.

Anyone who says their dog ‘wouldn’t harm a fly’ isn’t fit to have a dog because any dog can harm - the difference is that most of us with big breeds take precautions because we’re aware of the stigma our dogs face!

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I advocate for the breed, I don't advocate for individual breeders. There are some great breeders of every breed, there are some that aren't great, that is buyer beware.

When I say wouldn't harm a fly I'm not leaving any dog, including mine with a 9 month old, it's a metaphor. You probably learned about them in primary school.

FastFood · 07/11/2025 10:24

unicorntail · 07/11/2025 09:21

Too many people who know nothing about dogs getting dogs and don’t know how to train them.
Gentle parenting doesn’t work with dogs.
I have never had a dog and that’s ok but I still know dogs and babies don’t mix and a responsible breeder or homing charity would not allow a dog to go to a family with youngsters for a reason.
Everytime I read about these stories I think how stupid of the parents to risk their baby with an animal known for killing babies and children, it’s like leaving them in a paddling pool and saying I didn’t know the water would kill my baby because it’s usually so calm - parents would be held responsible just like if they had baby in a lion enclosure or shark tank.

Respectfully, "gentle parenting" (as known positive reinforcement in the dog world) absolutely works. Well trained dogs are not trained by force. And I'd place a high stake bet on the fact that those dogs that attacks kids/people are not trained with positive reinforcement, but rather with force. That + the fact that XL Bullies are poorly bred of course.

Now, positive reinforcement doesn't mean permissive, it's just means rewarding desirable behaviours, ignoring bad ones and, crucially, setting the environment to avoid those undesirable behaviours to happen in the first place, the nature of a dog being that they'll reproduce behaviours that they're rewarded for.

Not letting a dog alone with a kid is part of "setting the environment" and its just common sense really.

LondonLady1980 · 07/11/2025 10:26

Izzywizzy85 · 07/11/2025 09:25

This is what I don’t get though.
People keep talking about leaving the dog alone with kids. It doesn’t MATTER if an adult was there supervising-there is no way they could control one of these dogs or overpower it. They kill grown adults. No amount of supervision in the world would have prevented this.

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I absolutely agree.

There is always this strange assumption that the baby/child died because it was left unsupervised with the dog.

There could be any number of adults in a room when an XL bully decides to attack and I imagine it would still result in the infant/child being killed.

rainbowunicorn · 07/11/2025 10:29

GehenSieweiter · 07/11/2025 09:24

Any dog can attack, however bigger and stronger dog attacks will be more serious.
Only an idiot would leave a dog and a baby alone, and it is a certain type of person who keeps these dogs.

Being in the same room as one of these dogs isnt going to stop it killing a baby. It will probably kill you as well. Have you ever seen the footage of one of these XL bully attacks? I have and i can guarantee you nobody can stop one once it has gone into kill mode. About a year ago tbere was an attack and police shot it 6 times before it finally gave up its grip on the victim. They should all be rounded up and put down.

Ahfiddlesticks · 07/11/2025 10:31

camelofdestiny · 07/11/2025 07:38

This breed needs to be completely eradicated. They should ALL be put down and I say that as someone who has and loves dogs.

At this point, its clear its the breed - there are bad owners of other dog breeds too and they arent killing people- including children and the elderly on a weekly basis.

We dont allow guns in this country on the basis that some people might be sensible with them because the harm of the other % is too great a sacrifice to make. Same with this horrible breed. Put them all down.

Exactly. People can say "it's how you raise them" but it's like knives - all knives are dangerous in the wrong hands but the difference between a carving knife and a butter knife if you accidentally slip, is huge.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 07/11/2025 10:35

ShesTheAlbatross · 07/11/2025 07:19

Should they be nuzzled indoors around children and babies?

No, they should remove the exemption certificates from owners who have children living with the dog, and remove the dogs (and put them down). There is no coherent argument to be made that the dogs are too dangerous to be unmuzzled in public but are fine to live with children. They can’t be muzzled constantly.

I agree.

Luna6 · 07/11/2025 10:39

LondonLady1980 · 07/11/2025 07:59

One previous thread, a woman who lived on the street of the incident posted and said it wasn’t actually the family’s home or their pet.

The parents (and the baby), had gone to visit another family member at their home and it was their dog.

I don’t know if this is true but the poster seemed genuine.

Still makes the parents totally negligent. Who visits a house with a dog when they have a small baby?

AlexaBeQuiet · 07/11/2025 10:39

Ihatetomatoes · 07/11/2025 06:09

Another poor child, a 9 month old baby, killed by an XL bully.

Should they be muzzled indoors around children and babies?

https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/police-reveal-breed-dog-killed-32819908.amp?int_source=taboola&int_medium=display&int_campaign=organic

Two people now arrested and released on bail

unicorntail · 07/11/2025 10:46

I have a 10 month old little boy and cannot comprehend putting him in this situation, knowing the risk how can anyone take any risks with such a helpless little life that’s dependent on you keeping him safe.
My heart breaks just looking at my little one happily giggling away and knowing that little boy isn’t here playing with his toys like him anymore because his parents chose to gamble with his life.
No sympathy to the parents just anger at their parenting. His whole life gone, and they’ll probably not face prosecution.
Should be done for causing or allowing the death of a child same as they would be if a known to be dangerous partner was allowed to live there and killed him.

Audhumla · 07/11/2025 10:47

Dog breeds are so varied because we've bred them to do different jobs. It's absolutely nuts to fail to think about a breed's traditional role before you get one, because those instincts go deep.

I've had pointers and they point from being little puppies. Nobody shows them how or trains them to do this. Yes, some pointers are better suited to be actual working gundogs than others, but nobody should be surprised when their pointer points at prey animals. Nobody should be surprised when a herding breed exhibits herding behaviour. Nobody should be surprised when a guardian breed barks at strangers.

Blood sport breeds should not exist. There is no role for them in a society that has quite rightly condemned blood sports. They were created to fight, to bite and hold on with all their considerable strength. They are not appropriate for anyone to own because there is no legitimate reason for dogs with these instincts to be preserved.

Ihatetomatoes · 07/11/2025 10:47

AberforthDumbledoresGoat · 07/11/2025 08:12

Another thread that the anti dog brigade can use to further their agenda. Didn’t even take ten posts before it began.

Staffies, Boxers and many other bull breeds are as dissimilar from XL Bullies as a lab is from a clumber spaniel. The fact people pipe up on these threads suggesting otherwise is just amusing at this point.

But please, do let your hysteria, ignorance and lust for pitchforks stand in the way of common sense.

Stand in the way of common sense? Surely, common sense would suggest not having a baby anywhere near a XL Bully dog! That's common sense.

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