It’s all a bit unusual op. Clearly you’re a sahm with a very high disposable income, income being money you personally earn, so likely rental properties or shares etc, as you’re saving for thousands and thousands of pounds worth of plastic surgery, which is what a mommy make over is, yet you don’t want to spend a couple of hundred a month on wli, which you clearly desperately want.
i mean personally if I could afford a mommy make over,not that I’d ever even consider such a thing, and really wanted the drugs, then I’d do that also,
id recommend forgetting the plastic surgery, getting the drugs if you want them, and as your “friends” told you. Put the work in. Eat clean, eat your protein, drink 3 litres of water a day, limit alcohol, and undertake a fitness program incorporating strenght, resistance and cardio, thus ensuring you lose fat and not muscle, and then when you hit goal weight, do the work on body recomp, dropping fat, increasing muscle and it is highly unlikely you will need plastic surgery,
that’s what people mean when they say put the work in.