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Instagrammer reminding followers to change bedding on last day of month 🤢

268 replies

Travelfairy · 02/11/2025 12:45

This page I follow, she said she always changes her bedding on the last day of the month and reminded her followers to do the same....
I commented does she only change them once a month and she said yes unless they need before that.

I thought this was completely gross!!! I change mine once a week. Absolute max maybe 9 days if particularly busy etc

YABU- once a month is fine
YANBU - thats gross

OP posts:
Dontlletmedownbruce · 02/11/2025 13:38

I sleep naked standing up to avoid dirtying my sheets.

Strawberrypicnic · 02/11/2025 13:40

I used to be a 'whenever I remember' person but now it's weekly and I couldn't go back. I absolutely love the feeling of being freshly showered and getting into clean sheets. It's a little treat at the end of a routine day. I know the hot water use isn't great but we use eco-friendly detergent without any of those nasty scent products, we don't tumble dry and we haven't bought new bedding in 3.5 years. We also minimise our consumption in lots of other ways

WeCouldBeNiceToEachOther · 02/11/2025 13:41

Blanketfull · 02/11/2025 13:38

What do people think will actually happen if they sleep in a "minging bed"?

I change mine once a week(ish), but what would happnen if I didn't for a few weeks?

I just think it's not very pleasant.

On a Sunday (my usual bed change day) I can tell my bedding smells a bit, and I quite like the ritual of changing my bedding, putting all my washing away and then having a nice long hot shower, and getting into fresh pyjamas.

TattooStan · 02/11/2025 13:43

We change our bedding whenever we can be arsed.
It might be once a fortnight, or once every 6 weeks - or longer, we don't keep track or have a routine.
We typically shower daily, and sleep with the windows open even in minus degrees, so we aren't really sweating.
It's not killed us yet anyway.

Ilovepastafortea · 02/11/2025 13:47

Blanketfull · 02/11/2025 13:38

What do people think will actually happen if they sleep in a "minging bed"?

I change mine once a week(ish), but what would happnen if I didn't for a few weeks?

Well I suppose you could say that about a lot of things. What would happen if you didn't regularly change your towels, vacuum your carpets, wash your kitchen floor. Probably nothing, but it's not a pleasant experience to sleep in a minging bed, use a musty towel, walk on carpets with grit, things brought in on your feet, you don't eat off or prepare food on your kitchen floor, so what does it matter if it's dirty? It's a matter of making your home comfortable, keeping it clean and, probably has a lot to do with how you think visitors may perceive your home.

Our Grandmothers used to scrub their door steps every day - no particular reason why, but I think they wanted people to know that they kept clean house and anyone could happily visit or eat in their house without catching fleas or being poisoned.

Foundress · 02/11/2025 13:47

Blanketfull · 02/11/2025 13:38

What do people think will actually happen if they sleep in a "minging bed"?

I change mine once a week(ish), but what would happnen if I didn't for a few weeks?

Absolutely nothing probably. People shower and bathe so much more regularly nowadays I can’t imagine sheets getting that dirty even if they are only washed once a month. Best thing I ever did is start sending my bedding to the local laundry. It’s lovely getting it back all washed and ironed. It’s worth every penny. The PP’s who mentioned bedding changes when they were children I honestly can’t remember our beds being changed! I am sure they must have been at some point but I have no recollection of it whatsoever. I remember when nylon sheets came out. My Mam loved those😂 I had some natty dark purple and lilac striped ones.

Blondeshavemorefun · 02/11/2025 13:48

I’m a weekly girl. Always on a Friday so a clean fresh bed Fridays night and lie in Saturday (or as much of a lie in with an 8yr)

SnowFrogJelly · 02/11/2025 13:49

Once a fortnight for me

Vaguelyclassical · 02/11/2025 13:50

Ilovepastafortea · 02/11/2025 13:12

One of the great pleasures of my childhood (I was born in 1962) was the Sunday night bath followed by clean PJs, drinking Bournvita, Ovaltine or Horlicks in front of 'The Onedin Line', 'Poldark' or whatever the 7:30pm Sunday evening series was that night, and getting into a lovely clean fresh bed.

Of course, my mother (like most mothers back in the day) had a twin tub washing machine, tumble driers were an expensive luxury so everything was dried outside so usually smelled of the fresh air-unless the weather was particularly bad when the house looked like the set for Widow Twanky's Chinese Laundry with items spread on airers, over the banister, on hangers on doors, picture rails, everywhere in fact - then they smelled of the woodsmoke from the open fires used to heat the house.

I once had a neighbour who put her children into clean PJs & bed every night. I felt that, not only was she making work for herself, but depriving her children of that lovely warm, clean, cosiness of a fresh clean bed as their bed was always a clean fresh bed.

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You mean you had wood fires, not coal? (Everything else was totally ringing a bell to me!) Bloody luxury.

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · 02/11/2025 13:50

I change mine when I think I'll be able to wash them and get them dried within a reasonable amount of time. So more often in summer if the weather is dry, less often in winter.

I'd like to clean them a bit more often, but logistically it's a bit of a nightmare.

GreyCloudsLooming · 02/11/2025 13:51

Once a week is far too often and wasteful, to me. We do every two weeks in summer and once a month in winter. Ish. It can vary, depending on the weather outside.

BitOutOfPractice · 02/11/2025 13:51

DickDewey · 02/11/2025 12:57

It doesn’t have to be extremes. Such a tired old trope in response to basic hygiene standards. Not washing bedding for a month at a time is minging. The alternative is not washing bedding as soon as you look at it.

Once a week is just basic cleanliness.

The only tired old trope on this thread is the op. “Ewwww! Once a month! That’s gross / minging / grim / skanky” etc etc.

Ilovepastafortea · 02/11/2025 13:52

I remember when nylon sheets came out. My Mam loved those😂 I had some natty dark purple and lilac striped ones.

OMG I remember them 😱My maternal grandmother had them. Horrible scratchy, sweaty things. As you say they came in purple, loud flowers & stripes or yellows & pinks that I swear glowed in the dark. When you got into them in your poly-cotton nightie sparks would fly.😂

Pollqueen · 02/11/2025 13:53

WalkDontWalk · 02/11/2025 12:48

Every Ash Wednesday, without fail.

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🤣

WeCouldBeNiceToEachOther · 02/11/2025 13:53

BitOutOfPractice · 02/11/2025 13:51

The only tired old trope on this thread is the op. “Ewwww! Once a month! That’s gross / minging / grim / skanky” etc etc.

But it is

WeCouldBeNiceToEachOther · 02/11/2025 13:53

GreyCloudsLooming · 02/11/2025 13:51

Once a week is far too often and wasteful, to me. We do every two weeks in summer and once a month in winter. Ish. It can vary, depending on the weather outside.

Wasteful of what?

JHound · 02/11/2025 13:54

Ilovepastafortea · 02/11/2025 13:47

Well I suppose you could say that about a lot of things. What would happen if you didn't regularly change your towels, vacuum your carpets, wash your kitchen floor. Probably nothing, but it's not a pleasant experience to sleep in a minging bed, use a musty towel, walk on carpets with grit, things brought in on your feet, you don't eat off or prepare food on your kitchen floor, so what does it matter if it's dirty? It's a matter of making your home comfortable, keeping it clean and, probably has a lot to do with how you think visitors may perceive your home.

Our Grandmothers used to scrub their door steps every day - no particular reason why, but I think they wanted people to know that they kept clean house and anyone could happily visit or eat in their house without catching fleas or being poisoned.

Visitors aren’t getting into my bed so I don’t need to worry about making it comfortable for them

Pollqueen · 02/11/2025 13:54

Once a week, on a Sunday for me. Regular as clockwork. Can't beat the feeling of getting into a clean bed

lalalapland · 02/11/2025 13:54

WeCouldBeNiceToEachOther · 02/11/2025 13:53

Wasteful of what?

Energy 🫠 Ours get an extra wash when it's sunny snd batteries are fully loaded. Also can get them out to dry.

CremeBruhlee · 02/11/2025 13:55

We do ours once a month. We both shower daily and wear nightclothes in bed. We have a bedspread that is pulled over once bed is aired in the day.

I am considering investing in some nice new bedding and getting them laundered and pressed each payday at a local laundry and ironing shop. They do a king size deal for laundry and press for around £11 and we have busy lives and jobs.

I don’t think this timeline is odd really

NeverDropYourMooncup · 02/11/2025 13:56

Ilovepastafortea · 02/11/2025 13:12

One of the great pleasures of my childhood (I was born in 1962) was the Sunday night bath followed by clean PJs, drinking Bournvita, Ovaltine or Horlicks in front of 'The Onedin Line', 'Poldark' or whatever the 7:30pm Sunday evening series was that night, and getting into a lovely clean fresh bed.

Of course, my mother (like most mothers back in the day) had a twin tub washing machine, tumble driers were an expensive luxury so everything was dried outside so usually smelled of the fresh air-unless the weather was particularly bad when the house looked like the set for Widow Twanky's Chinese Laundry with items spread on airers, over the banister, on hangers on doors, picture rails, everywhere in fact - then they smelled of the woodsmoke from the open fires used to heat the house.

I once had a neighbour who put her children into clean PJs & bed every night. I felt that, not only was she making work for herself, but depriving her children of that lovely warm, clean, cosiness of a fresh clean bed as their bed was always a clean fresh bed.

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That's an interesting way to look at it - they were 'deprived' because they didn't get to experience the novelty factor of being clean for a change. It's like not feeding a kid enough Monday-Saturday because then they'll really appreciate having food on Sunday, IMO.

menopausalmare · 02/11/2025 13:58

I change mine when the clocks go forward/ back.

ButtonMushrooms · 02/11/2025 13:58

WeCouldBeNiceToEachOther · 02/11/2025 13:53

Wasteful of what?

Electricity - both in terms of saving money and saving the planet.

Cheeseontoastghost · 02/11/2025 14:00

therewasafishinthepercolator · 02/11/2025 13:06

By MN standards you are still dirty. Unless a boil wash of some description occurs at least every 3-7 days...Dirty.

Surely it's washing and boiling everything everyday!
You skank 😂

ScaryM0nster · 02/11/2025 14:00

Surely it depends massively who's in the bed, what they’re wearing to bed and what they’re doing in it.

On OPs sheet washing views, I can only assume rampant orgies on a regular basis.

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