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Instagrammer reminding followers to change bedding on last day of month 🤢

268 replies

Travelfairy · 02/11/2025 12:45

This page I follow, she said she always changes her bedding on the last day of the month and reminded her followers to do the same....
I commented does she only change them once a month and she said yes unless they need before that.

I thought this was completely gross!!! I change mine once a week. Absolute max maybe 9 days if particularly busy etc

YABU- once a month is fine
YANBU - thats gross

OP posts:
therewasafishinthepercolator · 02/11/2025 13:03

That said, as much as I wouldn't judge, I wouldn't feel I was in a position to advocate publicly on social media. I'd be keeping that nugget to myself. 😂

Oneeyedonkey · 02/11/2025 13:03

My sheets normally take themselves off the bed to the washing machine, all the action they see, my sheets are exhausted and very sweaty

BauhausOfEliott · 02/11/2025 13:04

DickDewey · 02/11/2025 12:57

It doesn’t have to be extremes. Such a tired old trope in response to basic hygiene standards. Not washing bedding for a month at a time is minging. The alternative is not washing bedding as soon as you look at it.

Once a week is just basic cleanliness.

Why does it matter to you how often someone else changes their sheets? You’re not going to catch anything from them.

NigelForage · 02/11/2025 13:05

Every Friday.

ThrushorSparrow · 02/11/2025 13:05

JudgeBread · 02/11/2025 12:54

I mean duh, I'm a Mumsnetter, obviously I change my sheets every day and wash them at 100°

Even though I sweat L'Air du Temps and my farts smell like petunias it would be completely grim to not change them that often, alongside scrubbing my husband with brillo to ensure he's clean enough to be allowed in the bed.

Brillo and wire wool, I assume.

RememberBeKindWithKaren · 02/11/2025 13:06

Good for her..We should be saving energy, water etc where we can .

therewasafishinthepercolator · 02/11/2025 13:06

Hobnobswantshernameback · 02/11/2025 13:02

I don't actually have a bed but levitate in a meditative state every night.
far purer for the soul
poor op having to lie on a bed to sleep unlike us higher beings who have forsaken such trivialities

By MN standards you are still dirty. Unless a boil wash of some description occurs at least every 3-7 days...Dirty.

seaelephant · 02/11/2025 13:06

I’ve already changed my sheets this year so that seems rather excessive

thecalmsea · 02/11/2025 13:07

I do fortnightly, but I have 2 showers a say, every day and force my family members to have at least one.

sunshineandkindle · 02/11/2025 13:08

I do everyones on a Sunday, along with uniforms and towels. Makes me feel ready for the week

LarryIsMyRomanEmpire · 02/11/2025 13:09

I roll in sheep dip before bed each evening and then change the sheets hourly.

Simonjt · 02/11/2025 13:10

We change ours twice a day and bathe in bleach.

Wexone · 02/11/2025 13:10

WalkDontWalk · 02/11/2025 12:48

Every Ash Wednesday, without fail.

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🤣🤣🤣
mumsnet needs the laughing emjoi back
🤣🤣🤣
for what's it worth i only change every 2 weeks in my house. only because its a super king and bloody effort to change 🙈
op you don't need an influencer to tell you what to do with you life 🤣

CoralPombear · 02/11/2025 13:11

I love a fresh bed so probably do mine weekly. I’d feel grim after a month but maybe she is particularly naturally fragrant and doesn’t sweat like us or use products in her hair etc.

Ilovepastafortea · 02/11/2025 13:12

One of the great pleasures of my childhood (I was born in 1962) was the Sunday night bath followed by clean PJs, drinking Bournvita, Ovaltine or Horlicks in front of 'The Onedin Line', 'Poldark' or whatever the 7:30pm Sunday evening series was that night, and getting into a lovely clean fresh bed.

Of course, my mother (like most mothers back in the day) had a twin tub washing machine, tumble driers were an expensive luxury so everything was dried outside so usually smelled of the fresh air-unless the weather was particularly bad when the house looked like the set for Widow Twanky's Chinese Laundry with items spread on airers, over the banister, on hangers on doors, picture rails, everywhere in fact - then they smelled of the woodsmoke from the open fires used to heat the house.

I once had a neighbour who put her children into clean PJs & bed every night. I felt that, not only was she making work for herself, but depriving her children of that lovely warm, clean, cosiness of a fresh clean bed as their bed was always a clean fresh bed.

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therewasafishinthepercolator · 02/11/2025 13:15

@ilovepastafortea

I love that. You've inspired me to strip my bed today. I want that Sunday feeling. Now, to convince someone to go out to the shop to get me Horlicks...

lalalapland · 02/11/2025 13:17

Eeeeew. That's gross. Once a week only? You're disgusting OP

Shineonyoucrazy · 02/11/2025 13:17

@DickDeweycant you see that once per week is completely arbitrary rather than “ basic cleanliness?” If you live in the UK this is a country that takes far, far, far more of its share of the world’s resources, so you can wash your sheets weekly and feel superior to the ”minging” 80% of the world population that either don’t have sheets or water or hot water or detergent or drying facilities or physical strenght to wash sheets this often?

AffableApple · 02/11/2025 13:17

I think bedding is disgusting. Why on earth would you use sheets? Like loo brushes. Urghh. I dont care that you can wash all these things. I just exist in a cave and try not to think about my own filth. (My neighbours wont stop parking in front of my door though.)

Catpiece · 02/11/2025 13:17

Ilovepastafortea · 02/11/2025 13:12

One of the great pleasures of my childhood (I was born in 1962) was the Sunday night bath followed by clean PJs, drinking Bournvita, Ovaltine or Horlicks in front of 'The Onedin Line', 'Poldark' or whatever the 7:30pm Sunday evening series was that night, and getting into a lovely clean fresh bed.

Of course, my mother (like most mothers back in the day) had a twin tub washing machine, tumble driers were an expensive luxury so everything was dried outside so usually smelled of the fresh air-unless the weather was particularly bad when the house looked like the set for Widow Twanky's Chinese Laundry with items spread on airers, over the banister, on hangers on doors, picture rails, everywhere in fact - then they smelled of the woodsmoke from the open fires used to heat the house.

I once had a neighbour who put her children into clean PJs & bed every night. I felt that, not only was she making work for herself, but depriving her children of that lovely warm, clean, cosiness of a fresh clean bed as their bed was always a clean fresh bed.

Edited for typos

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Also born in 1962. Also had that Sunday night routine. Bath. Hair wash. Boiling hot hairdryer. Cotton nightie. Lovely clean top and bottom sheet all tucked in. Only thing that spoiled it was school the next day.

Namechangerage · 02/11/2025 13:17

JudgeBread · 02/11/2025 12:54

I mean duh, I'm a Mumsnetter, obviously I change my sheets every day and wash them at 100°

Even though I sweat L'Air du Temps and my farts smell like petunias it would be completely grim to not change them that often, alongside scrubbing my husband with brillo to ensure he's clean enough to be allowed in the bed.

This made me laugh 😆

WonderlandWasAllAHoax · 02/11/2025 13:18

YANBU for finding it gross.

YABU to care what other people do.

Foundress · 02/11/2025 13:18

Oneeyedonkey · 02/11/2025 13:03

My sheets normally take themselves off the bed to the washing machine, all the action they see, my sheets are exhausted and very sweaty

Lucky you! 😂

feelingalittlehorse · 02/11/2025 13:19

We’re supposed to change it?

JHound · 02/11/2025 13:19

I don’t even change mine once a month.🤷🏽‍♀️