AIBU to be hurt about song dp dedicated to me

[User12345666]

So me, DP and a few friends were discussing on a group chat which songs we'd dedicate to each other. DP chose this

AIBU to be hurt by this? He always says I talk too much (I'm very chatty. This has been the cause of many arguments) and he's complained about our sex life before (says we don't do it often enough). He's even put it as his ring tone for me on his phone now!

Absofuckinlutely not unreasonable. Making your relationship the but of a cruel joke. What the actual fuck.

What does this relationship give you? because its not respect.

As for the comment about you not doing sex often enough, does he realise that him being a prick is probably a massive turn off and him demanding sex is nothing more than seeing you as an object to satisfy his needs... 👋

He sounds very immature- how old is he?

@Hayley1256 he's 34 🙁

I would make it crystal clear that this pathetic immature behaviour is the biggest turn off ever, and now you aren’t sure you will be able to bring yourself to have sex with him at all.

LTB

Perhaps you could dedicate Lily Allen’s banger ‘Fuck You’ for him… just a thought

It would be funny if it wasn't a sensitive spot for you! Have you both spoken openly in your friend group about these arguments? Feels like it should be private.

@Vivisays not a fan of Lily Allen but good idea! Or maybe Not Fair 😅

YANBU. He sounds grim 🤮

Time for you to play The Bay City Rollers 🎶 bye bye baby, baby goodbye ….

Is he an Elvis fan? Another ick.

Remind him that two years after that song Elvis was singing "always on my mind"

Lol he sounds funny!

This! I’m sorry OP, that was a dick move on his part. I’d be reconsidering the relationship tbh.

That’s a dick move on his part. You definitely need to dedicate an appropriate song right back at him.

Millie Jackson the Phuck U Symphony.

That good in bed, is he, that he can afford to insult you?

Is there a song somewhere called 'On your way, sonny'?

This would be the ring tone on my phone for him

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Hit the road, jack?

Sorry I think it’s quite funny and also an inspired choice as it sounds accurate by your own admission. However probably better to share between the two of you rather than in a group chat.

I think that's quite funny

Greetings original commenter
My heart goes out to you, most surely no way are you being unreasonable
What he's joking about isn't humorous but humiliating - Especially because he shared this with God knows how many others, on the group chat
Hope you're ok? I'd most surely have to communicate my upset to someone whom's meant to love & respect you 💚Wishing you all the utmost best

How about ‘These Boots were made for walkin’ by Nancy Sinatra? And then walk the hell out of his life.

That is just absofuckinglutely awful and disrespectful.

I think the fact he's posted it for all your mates to see is lousy. Somehow that's worse than if it was just a daft comment in real life chat, maybe because it gets more scrutiny and is obviously premeditated (not the right word but I can't think of a better one.)

This is the cliche sort of thing bald middle aged men say to jokingly put down their wives.

@User12345666 if my BF dedicated something like that to me I’d sharply dedicate back something like Fleetwood Mac ‘You can go your own way’! 🙃

Yanbu at all. What a twat