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To think Toby Carvery is working class ?

333 replies

JoanneTeresa · 26/10/2025 18:46

I went this week and was looking around at the likely demographic

OP posts:
user793847984375948 · 27/10/2025 12:33

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:22

Because it’s far, far more complex than chucking a few lines on a mumsnet post. It’s also the accumulation of a number of factors, nuanced, not black and white.

Are you able and willing to grace us with some rudimentary form of outline of these classes please?

Did you see The Guardian thing about 10 years ago? It was focused around hobbies but also assets and income. I came out lower at the time. My friend came out upper. We had fun doing that together via email at our respective jobs that day.

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:33

user793847984375948 · 27/10/2025 12:29

Just means that’s what I think and it is an interesting discussion to have.
Yes, I read quite far into a book about it being based on jobs, and as I agree with you that wages vary wildly for professions, as I actually said in my original post, no, you cannot base it on profession. That’s why I say it's not based on profession, but on income, as in the amount you earn.

Yes I think people are socially mobile, (slip around classes). As I say, my parents both grew up middle class. I was brought up working class. One parent is now middle class and another is out of work, so the 1st class I mentioned in my little list, which is not definitive nor does it have any intrinsic meaning. It's just a fun little discussion.

What about when you’re made redundant, what class are you when you don’t work at all? Depends on how much money have access to. My parent who I call middle class does not work. Though when they didn't work when I was growing up he was (let’s just call it) lower class.

The thing is these ideas are just…. Not related to what class actually is. People don’t slip around classes from one year to the next. That’s not social mobility. Social mobility is very different and has different impacts.

this reminds me of starting university conversations all those years ago. I remember one person saying to me “well my dad is a millionaire with his own commercial Businesses and he left my mum to bring me up in a council house so what am I?” And I felt like saying what?! How can you not know the answer to that?! (Welll, what I really thought is you’re Welsh so obviously you are working class as there are no middle class Welsh people- I was also thick as shit back then)

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:35

user793847984375948 · 27/10/2025 12:33

Are you able and willing to grace us with some rudimentary form of outline of these classes please?

Did you see The Guardian thing about 10 years ago? It was focused around hobbies but also assets and income. I came out lower at the time. My friend came out upper. We had fun doing that together via email at our respective jobs that day.

There are loads of these quizzes all the time, they usually detail socio economic groupings rather than working/ middle/ upper class. They aren’t anything more than a bit of fun

user793847984375948 · 27/10/2025 12:35

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:33

The thing is these ideas are just…. Not related to what class actually is. People don’t slip around classes from one year to the next. That’s not social mobility. Social mobility is very different and has different impacts.

this reminds me of starting university conversations all those years ago. I remember one person saying to me “well my dad is a millionaire with his own commercial Businesses and he left my mum to bring me up in a council house so what am I?” And I felt like saying what?! How can you not know the answer to that?! (Welll, what I really thought is you’re Welsh so obviously you are working class as there are no middle class Welsh people- I was also thick as shit back then)

well I'm still thick as shit and I'm wildly interested in your own personal classifications,.

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:37

I don’t personally classify class for
other people. I do think it’s fairly well accepted that income from your job is pretty much the opposite of a class indicator. As I say, There is no point in my throwing out some examples to get picked apart out of context. There is LOADS of literature and media about this topic

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 12:37

user793847984375948 · 27/10/2025 12:35

well I'm still thick as shit and I'm wildly interested in your own personal classifications,.

Same 😂

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 12:40

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:37

I don’t personally classify class for
other people. I do think it’s fairly well accepted that income from your job is pretty much the opposite of a class indicator. As I say, There is no point in my throwing out some examples to get picked apart out of context. There is LOADS of literature and media about this topic

So what are you and how much do you earn? Are you on 50k+ self identifying as working class because of your grandparents wanting to tell middle class people we’re privileged because of a vibe?

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:42

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 12:40

So what are you and how much do you earn? Are you on 50k+ self identifying as working class because of your grandparents wanting to tell middle class people we’re privileged because of a vibe?

£50k 😂😭 here’s a shocker: I was earning £50k 20 years ago when newly qualified. I think £50k is a very average if not low wage 😱

It has no impact at all on my class identity.

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 12:45

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:42

£50k 😂😭 here’s a shocker: I was earning £50k 20 years ago when newly qualified. I think £50k is a very average if not low wage 😱

It has no impact at all on my class identity.

So you do want middle class people to feel bad about their “privilege “ while you probably earn three times the average wage.

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:47

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 12:45

So you do want middle class people to feel bad about their “privilege “ while you probably earn three times the average wage.

feeling bad about privilege isn’t a productive thing. I would rather white people/ men/ the able bodied would consider the privilege that comes with their good luck when making decisions that impact the less fortunate around them, of course.

Hidingbehindthechaos · 27/10/2025 12:48

What a horrible thread. Some lovely posters on here 🙄 and 50k a low income, it absolutely isn't.

elliejjtiny · 27/10/2025 12:48

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:42

£50k 😂😭 here’s a shocker: I was earning £50k 20 years ago when newly qualified. I think £50k is a very average if not low wage 😱

It has no impact at all on my class identity.

£50k is loads higher than average. My dh was on £22k at the height of his career 11 years ago. I think £28k is the national average.

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:49

i think it is a low wage. That doesn’t objectively make it one.

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 12:49

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:47

feeling bad about privilege isn’t a productive thing. I would rather white people/ men/ the able bodied would consider the privilege that comes with their good luck when making decisions that impact the less fortunate around them, of course.

YOU are privileged to think 50k is a low wage, probably far more privileged than the majority of white people middle class people and men 🙄

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:50

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 12:49

YOU are privileged to think 50k is a low wage, probably far more privileged than the majority of white people middle class people and men 🙄

I certainly am privileged, and I acknowledge that and use it positively in the decisions I make and in the ways I use my influence and access to power.

as we all should

AllThisTime · 27/10/2025 12:55

elliejjtiny · 27/10/2025 12:48

£50k is loads higher than average. My dh was on £22k at the height of his career 11 years ago. I think £28k is the national average.

I thought the average full time salary was £37/£38k in the UK now?

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 13:00

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:50

I certainly am privileged, and I acknowledge that and use it positively in the decisions I make and in the ways I use my influence and access to power.

as we all should

acknowledging it by waffling on about being working class while being completely unaware most middle class people and white people are on way less money than you. And lecturing us on our privilege ?

user793847984375948 · 27/10/2025 13:03

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 12:42

£50k 😂😭 here’s a shocker: I was earning £50k 20 years ago when newly qualified. I think £50k is a very average if not low wage 😱

It has no impact at all on my class identity.

Right I've lost track a bit to be honest but you reckon you're middle right?

Or do you reckon you're working class?

Nah, 50K is not working class. But as I said before it's all completely subjective and all the words we're using have different connotations, implications, inferences, for us all, and they're probably all coloured by our own egos too.

You especially though. You won't share what you think as you believe it's something so esoteric that you couldn't possibly explain it but I don't believe you.

Give it a go! go on. go on. go on ah go on.

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 13:05

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 13:00

acknowledging it by waffling on about being working class while being completely unaware most middle class people and white people are on way less money than you. And lecturing us on our privilege ?

Where did I waffle on about being working class? Can you refer me to the post? Only I think you must be thinking of a different poster

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 13:06

user793847984375948 · 27/10/2025 13:03

Right I've lost track a bit to be honest but you reckon you're middle right?

Or do you reckon you're working class?

Nah, 50K is not working class. But as I said before it's all completely subjective and all the words we're using have different connotations, implications, inferences, for us all, and they're probably all coloured by our own egos too.

You especially though. You won't share what you think as you believe it's something so esoteric that you couldn't possibly explain it but I don't believe you.

Give it a go! go on. go on. go on ah go on.

Have you explained how a brick layer living in a council house who earns £100k can be upper middle class as you have suggested?

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 13:09

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 13:05

Where did I waffle on about being working class? Can you refer me to the post? Only I think you must be thinking of a different poster

Come on it’s heavily implied don’t be obtuse

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 13:11

”waffling on”

and

“heavily implied”

couldn’t be more different 😭 I don’t think even you know what your point is any more

Hussaini · 27/10/2025 13:12

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 13:06

Have you explained how a brick layer living in a council house who earns £100k can be upper middle class as you have suggested?

Does a bricklayer actually earn 100k? Or you being hyperbolic? People spending twice as much on private rent or a mortgage should feel guilt tripped by someone living in a council house? 😂

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 13:12

Yes they do

user793847984375948 · 27/10/2025 13:13

Bambamhoohoo · 27/10/2025 13:06

Have you explained how a brick layer living in a council house who earns £100k can be upper middle class as you have suggested?

Because I base it on Income as that is what has the impact on our lives and the lifestyle we can afford. But yes, I also explained it in my reply to you. you're so funny 😅

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