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Another day, another clown show - Epping asylum seeker and rapist released from Prison ‘by mistake’

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WildLimePoet · 24/10/2025 18:12

You literally couldn’t make this shit up.

This country is broken.

Reform should send David Lamey a big thankyou note for this gift.

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Mamalasira · 25/10/2025 17:22

Thank you, @ginasevern . I think people shy away from details about the grooming gangs - understandably. However, your points are valid. We only need to look at the language used about these girls to understand that.

AnareticDegree · 25/10/2025 18:00

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 16:50

I have a weak constitution unfortunately, I don’t think I could stomach reading the accounts of horrible things happening to anybody 😥

I thought you had better things to do with your Saturday?

All day you've been at this without making a single valid point, is the aim just to drive traffic to the site or what?

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:03

merkinmanipulator · 24/10/2025 18:57

Oh, so because non-immigrants rape women, why bother trying to stop immigrant rapists entering the country. Sorry ladies, tough shit, you'd get raped either way.

No, the issue is those of anti immigrant sentimentality are calm and relaxed about white men committing plenty of crimes against women! You only care when it's an immigrant and it's the over exaggeration that they all do it and barely any white men do it!

PippyGreen · 25/10/2025 18:03

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 14:33

You are far more likely to be attacked by someone you know, like your husband or your brother, than an asylum seeker. These cases only make the news because the right wing press are determined to find anything they can to fault these poor people. We even have very dubious anecdotes from posters on this thread claiming all sorts of likely fabricated things to make people incensed and angry about immigrants when it’s the billionaires we should be focusing on.

Personally I think sites like X are heavily to blame for this rapid change in online culture. Labour need to move quickly and remove access to rogue social media sites that peddle misinformation before it takes root amongst disenfranchised working class communities.

Right wing press? Like what, the guardian? That's where I get my news from and today they've published a running blog on this incident with up to the minute updates. I think you're talking rubbish.

CoffeeCantata · 25/10/2025 18:17

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:03

No, the issue is those of anti immigrant sentimentality are calm and relaxed about white men committing plenty of crimes against women! You only care when it's an immigrant and it's the over exaggeration that they all do it and barely any white men do it!

Oh my God! These posts are getting more desperate by the second.

So - pps on this thread, listen up: WE DON’T CARE ABOUT RAPE WHEN ITS DONE BY WHITE MEN.

I’ve heard it all now🙄

WigglywagglyWanda · 25/10/2025 18:23

merkinmanipulator · 25/10/2025 16:57

You are trolling

Yeh i said that this morning. Has to be a windup.

The "so called" grooming gangs wtf? Shes saying now they only dunnit because of British culture. And as for folk immediately adapting to our culture give me a friggen break of course that doesnt happen.

And basically calling a genuine poster a liar for her lived experiences and having to retract it?

Meh.

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:23

EasternStandard · 25/10/2025 11:54

When you say ‘mess we’re in now’ and Brexit what are you referring to, the asylum process?

Other EU countries have similar male violence issues, look at Dublin over the last week.

We had European workforce making up lathe labour shortfalls and the Brexit voters listened to Farage telling them to hate fellow Europeans and lied that all of Turkiye was coming here and magical amounts of money would come and the gullibles voted for Brexit and to protect the off shore tax havens of a man that ran off to safeguard he and his son's EU citizenships!

So all those sat on benefits who claimer the foreigners were stealing their jobs are still refusing to do those jobs, we've a huge shortfall in labour, the Tories went on TV and offered the jobs to the wider world and that kick started people trying to flock to this country because Brexiters gave them jobs! We lost rights to return, we don't get a lot of help to manage the situation because we left the club! And that's why we've had this record breaking migrant crisis since Brexit that's now hell to rectify because we are overrun! And when the far right scream for them all to be immediately deported, who do they suggest fill the lathe amount of vacancies they voted to create! The people suffering because there's no care resource, the blocked hospital beds! Brexit caused hardship to the entire country and problems for many industries.

We bought two bags of groceries and box of cat food from Tesco this afternoon, no booze, nothing fancy, just produce etc - £88! And that was £116 without a clubcard! Life was a damn site cheaper before Brexit!

carchi · 25/10/2025 18:25

ilovesooty · 24/10/2025 18:20

I don't see how David Lammy is personally responsible for this appalling cock up. I'm sure Reform and its groupies will be crowing about it though.

Well someone needs to take responsibility because that's how government works. If Reform can stop this abuse of women in our country by migrants then why not.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/10/2025 18:28

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:03

No, the issue is those of anti immigrant sentimentality are calm and relaxed about white men committing plenty of crimes against women! You only care when it's an immigrant and it's the over exaggeration that they all do it and barely any white men do it!

Did the Reclaim The Streets marches go right over your head when Sarah Everard was raped and murdered by a white British man? Can’t let that get in the way of some hyperbole eh.

WigglywagglyWanda · 25/10/2025 18:28

Spooky2000 · 25/10/2025 17:03

It can be done.

Ah Spooky nice to see you again. You didn't answer last night the question put to you.

You say about this super super secret information you have but aren't allowed to give us....that was bolloxed up when Brexit happened.

How comes ROI is still having huge issues when they obviously still have this super super secret info? They aren't in Brexit. People rioting on the streets seems the super super secret stuff isn't very kosher.

TheNinny · 25/10/2025 18:31

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:23

We had European workforce making up lathe labour shortfalls and the Brexit voters listened to Farage telling them to hate fellow Europeans and lied that all of Turkiye was coming here and magical amounts of money would come and the gullibles voted for Brexit and to protect the off shore tax havens of a man that ran off to safeguard he and his son's EU citizenships!

So all those sat on benefits who claimer the foreigners were stealing their jobs are still refusing to do those jobs, we've a huge shortfall in labour, the Tories went on TV and offered the jobs to the wider world and that kick started people trying to flock to this country because Brexiters gave them jobs! We lost rights to return, we don't get a lot of help to manage the situation because we left the club! And that's why we've had this record breaking migrant crisis since Brexit that's now hell to rectify because we are overrun! And when the far right scream for them all to be immediately deported, who do they suggest fill the lathe amount of vacancies they voted to create! The people suffering because there's no care resource, the blocked hospital beds! Brexit caused hardship to the entire country and problems for many industries.

We bought two bags of groceries and box of cat food from Tesco this afternoon, no booze, nothing fancy, just produce etc - £88! And that was £116 without a clubcard! Life was a damn site cheaper before Brexit!

It’s not migrant workers who are in these asylum hotels though or who people are taking issue with. It’s the asylum seeking men hanging around in groups leering/assaulting women and girls or working by illegal means that are causing the problems in the areas i’ve referred to.

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:31

CoffeeCantata · 25/10/2025 18:17

Oh my God! These posts are getting more desperate by the second.

So - pps on this thread, listen up: WE DON’T CARE ABOUT RAPE WHEN ITS DONE BY WHITE MEN.

I’ve heard it all now🙄

Because you don't! You see that as part of life! You don't protest or get upset! You wouldn't be that bothered of it had been a white guy that stabbed the lady 23 times! You'd have got on with your life! But two immigrants commit crimes and suddenly you claim it's all immigrants and massive nasty protests start! And you know I'm correct! The the fact the screaming, exaggerating and protesting is only for immigrants confirms it! I must have read about 4 white blokes being prosecuted fur sex offences in the last week or two in my local papers and not an eyelid has been batted, no national news interest because it doesn't get the clicks and shares that immigrants do!

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 18:35

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:31

Because you don't! You see that as part of life! You don't protest or get upset! You wouldn't be that bothered of it had been a white guy that stabbed the lady 23 times! You'd have got on with your life! But two immigrants commit crimes and suddenly you claim it's all immigrants and massive nasty protests start! And you know I'm correct! The the fact the screaming, exaggerating and protesting is only for immigrants confirms it! I must have read about 4 white blokes being prosecuted fur sex offences in the last week or two in my local papers and not an eyelid has been batted, no national news interest because it doesn't get the clicks and shares that immigrants do!

They just don’t care, when you show them the data that says white British men commit sex crimes at a higher rate than any other nationality they try to deflect and go off on rants about how it must be in other countries. You just know they have never visited these countries either by the way, they just go by whatever the social media puppets on X tell them to think.

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:35

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/10/2025 18:28

Did the Reclaim The Streets marches go right over your head when Sarah Everard was raped and murdered by a white British man? Can’t let that get in the way of some hyperbole eh.

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Yes I know but that was women having having a peaceful march wasn't it! Nothing the rabid protest we see every 5 minutes from the far right! And nobody said every white man is a rapist or killer like the far right do about everyone not white and British. If that lady had been stabbed 23 times by a white guy, the far right wouldn't raise an eyebrow.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/10/2025 18:37

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:35

Yes I know but that was women having having a peaceful march wasn't it! Nothing the rabid protest we see every 5 minutes from the far right! And nobody said every white man is a rapist or killer like the far right do about everyone not white and British. If that lady had been stabbed 23 times by a white guy, the far right wouldn't raise an eyebrow.

Have you even read the whole thread? Yet more hyperbole would suggest you haven’t.

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:38

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 18:35

They just don’t care, when you show them the data that says white British men commit sex crimes at a higher rate than any other nationality they try to deflect and go off on rants about how it must be in other countries. You just know they have never visited these countries either by the way, they just go by whatever the social media puppets on X tell them to think.

Exactly! It's like the hate they have for Albanians at times, I've been to Albania twice including this year, it's a lovely country and nice people but it's very mountainous and I've been through some of it for three hours on a bus to Macedonia and I can see that it's a lot of uninhabited landscape and small villages and that's why there's a job shortage there.

BettysRoasties · 25/10/2025 18:40

Honestly I think a lot of people in general just don’t feel safe to go on those protest marches.

Because a lot do break out in some sort of violence no matter what side you are on. Then the risk of loosing your job from being on the “wrong” side.

I’ll sign petitions and such but I’m not risking work or health on an actual protest march.

No man no matter what colour or creed should be raping anyone. I’d be more that happy to lock up white British and all rapists in a hole and throw away the key giving them slop for meals no freedom but alas human rights for criminals exist.

Though I do wonder how a holiday destination clearly since so may mumsnetters have visited them ends up a place for people to be running away from claiming asylum in some cases.

WigglywagglyWanda · 25/10/2025 18:40

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:03

No, the issue is those of anti immigrant sentimentality are calm and relaxed about white men committing plenty of crimes against women! You only care when it's an immigrant and it's the over exaggeration that they all do it and barely any white men do it!

I was date raped many many moons ago by a white British person, so dont DARE to tell me I am calm and relaxed about it!

But being as i am intelligent I can care about a lot of things, one does not cancel out the other.

I still say if these scary white men here are so awful, having been brought up on a nation where women are respected, then why bring in those who have been brought up to think women are mere chattels for their use?

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 18:41

FlyMeSomewhere · 25/10/2025 18:38

Exactly! It's like the hate they have for Albanians at times, I've been to Albania twice including this year, it's a lovely country and nice people but it's very mountainous and I've been through some of it for three hours on a bus to Macedonia and I can see that it's a lot of uninhabited landscape and small villages and that's why there's a job shortage there.

Oh I’ve heard Albania is a wonderful country too, I would love to go backpacking there one day.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 25/10/2025 18:46

A small point (or maybe not ...) but someone asked yesterday whether the UK gathers DNA samples from asylum seekers

Apparently not; they're allowed to offer (as if Hmm) but it seems that actually requiring it would be illegal as things stand

WigglywagglyWanda · 25/10/2025 18:48

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 18:41

Oh I’ve heard Albania is a wonderful country too, I would love to go backpacking there one day.

Well there you go, why not go online today and plan it all out?

After all, in spite of your procrastination you dont actually appear to have "better things to do with your Saturday, and youre leaving now terribly disappointed..."

Telling little porkies eh😁

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 18:52

WigglywagglyWanda · 25/10/2025 18:48

Well there you go, why not go online today and plan it all out?

After all, in spite of your procrastination you dont actually appear to have "better things to do with your Saturday, and youre leaving now terribly disappointed..."

Telling little porkies eh😁

If I left then the racists would win. I don’t want to toot my own horn but many people have told me how I have a talent for bringing folks round to my way of thinking. I am not surprised you wish I was no longer contributing to this thread but disappointing hateful people is something of a speciality for me.

TheaBrandt1 · 25/10/2025 18:55

Your way of thinking is hopelessly naive and utterly ill informed. Terrifying if you persuade anyone else to join you in your delusions.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/10/2025 18:55

TheaBrandt1 · 25/10/2025 18:55

Your way of thinking is hopelessly naive and utterly ill informed. Terrifying if you persuade anyone else to join you in your delusions.

Took the words right out of my mouth.

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 18:57

Your snide comments don’t bother me, I know I am doing good here by putting forward sensible and reasoned arguments against the prevailing narrative. History is on my side. Hatred and division will never win.

People see through you.

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