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Another day, another clown show - Epping asylum seeker and rapist released from Prison ‘by mistake’

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WildLimePoet · 24/10/2025 18:12

You literally couldn’t make this shit up.

This country is broken.

Reform should send David Lamey a big thankyou note for this gift.

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WildLimePoet · 25/10/2025 08:51

ColinOfficeTrolley · 25/10/2025 08:39

No. Not at all. I'm saying that nobody gives a flying fuck about VAWG unless the perp is not white or British.

White British men make up the MAJORITY of people who commit heinous acts EVERY SINGLE DAY in this country. Rape, murder, violence against women and girls they know.

There are no protests about this.

Yes - there is an illegal immigration issue.

Yes - I agree unvetted men should not be allowed to wander round freely in communities

But where are all the protests against violent horrific crimes that happen EVERY SINGLE DAY to women and girls.

Some people reform voters only seem to care about non-white VAWG

Another one who doesn’t understand basic math and proportions and representation.

Honestly, it’s so concerning that so many people lack such basic skills.

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RisingSunn · 25/10/2025 08:51

ColinOfficeTrolley · 25/10/2025 08:39

No. Not at all. I'm saying that nobody gives a flying fuck about VAWG unless the perp is not white or British.

White British men make up the MAJORITY of people who commit heinous acts EVERY SINGLE DAY in this country. Rape, murder, violence against women and girls they know.

There are no protests about this.

Yes - there is an illegal immigration issue.

Yes - I agree unvetted men should not be allowed to wander round freely in communities

But where are all the protests against violent horrific crimes that happen EVERY SINGLE DAY to women and girls.

Some people reform voters only seem to care about non-white VAWG

No. Not at all. I'm saying that nobody gives a flying fuck about VAWG unless the perp is not white or British.

This is true - reason why a good number of anti-immigration protesters are (quite rightly) tagged as mere racists.

AnareticDegree · 25/10/2025 08:54

What is wrong with smart immigration?

What is wrong with detaining and immediately deporting illegal immigrants, if the country does not have the resources or infrastructure to accommodate them?

Why does asking those questions make me a racist?

EasternStandard · 25/10/2025 08:56

RisingSunn · 25/10/2025 08:51

No. Not at all. I'm saying that nobody gives a flying fuck about VAWG unless the perp is not white or British.

This is true - reason why a good number of anti-immigration protesters are (quite rightly) tagged as mere racists.

Do you want to keep the system as it is, why?

RisingSunn · 25/10/2025 08:57

EasternStandard · 25/10/2025 08:56

Do you want to keep the system as it is, why?

If you had read through the thread - you would find that I don't want to keep the system as is.

EasternStandard · 25/10/2025 09:01

RisingSunn · 25/10/2025 08:57

If you had read through the thread - you would find that I don't want to keep the system as is.

So why agree with that pp? You don’t want this system either.

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:03

This thread is full of dangerous and quite frankly racist rhetoric about immigrants. I am wondering if it is worth reporting it to the police, is that possible? Will they take it seriously?

IDontHateRainbows · 25/10/2025 09:05

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:03

This thread is full of dangerous and quite frankly racist rhetoric about immigrants. I am wondering if it is worth reporting it to the police, is that possible? Will they take it seriously?

Ffs

HansHolbein · 25/10/2025 09:06

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:03

This thread is full of dangerous and quite frankly racist rhetoric about immigrants. I am wondering if it is worth reporting it to the police, is that possible? Will they take it seriously?

I’m sure I read this week that they weren’t taking the professionally offended seriously going forward?

EasternStandard · 25/10/2025 09:07

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:03

This thread is full of dangerous and quite frankly racist rhetoric about immigrants. I am wondering if it is worth reporting it to the police, is that possible? Will they take it seriously?

Probably not. But why are you moved by an mn thread but not a crime such as that suffered by Rhiannon, her family including her sister who had to tell her five year old. What’s going on that this system needs to be kept?

matresense · 25/10/2025 09:07

@Mamalasira

agreed. But this is many of the young boat men, including the guy who killed Rhiannon. It’s not acceptable to even entertain their claim, really, given the numbers

AnareticDegree · 25/10/2025 09:09

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:03

This thread is full of dangerous and quite frankly racist rhetoric about immigrants. I am wondering if it is worth reporting it to the police, is that possible? Will they take it seriously?

Hopefully they'd charge you for wasting police time.

How is any of this thread rhetoric and how is it dangerous?

Any chance you could respond to my questions a few posts down, to enlighten the people like me who are so "racist" they are daring to question Starmer's inability to manage law and order? I won't hold my breath.

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:11

EasternStandard · 25/10/2025 09:07

Probably not. But why are you moved by an mn thread but not a crime such as that suffered by Rhiannon, her family including her sister who had to tell her five year old. What’s going on that this system needs to be kept?

Because he will be punished and go to prison for the crime he committed. The law is working as intended.

What isn’t working however is the horrific slander that people who claim asylum to this country have to go through because of a few bad eggs, who may have been influenced by British society to commit those crimes so I don’t even know why people are blaming Eritrea or wherever they lived previously. Maybe we should look at our own culture before pointing our fingers at others who we see as ‘inferior’.

RisingSunn · 25/10/2025 09:14

EasternStandard · 25/10/2025 09:01

So why agree with that pp? You don’t want this system either.

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You do know that you can partially agree with someone? Agree on some things - disagree on others?

WildLimePoet · 25/10/2025 09:14

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:11

Because he will be punished and go to prison for the crime he committed. The law is working as intended.

What isn’t working however is the horrific slander that people who claim asylum to this country have to go through because of a few bad eggs, who may have been influenced by British society to commit those crimes so I don’t even know why people are blaming Eritrea or wherever they lived previously. Maybe we should look at our own culture before pointing our fingers at others who we see as ‘inferior’.

Just stop. You’re embarrassing yourself.

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EasternStandard · 25/10/2025 09:14

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:11

Because he will be punished and go to prison for the crime he committed. The law is working as intended.

What isn’t working however is the horrific slander that people who claim asylum to this country have to go through because of a few bad eggs, who may have been influenced by British society to commit those crimes so I don’t even know why people are blaming Eritrea or wherever they lived previously. Maybe we should look at our own culture before pointing our fingers at others who we see as ‘inferior’.

That’s a bit late for Rhiannon, her family and her five year old son, who incidentally screamed at the news the one person he cared most about wasn’t coming home. It won’t bring her back.

Why not do better for women and girls, why would you deprioritise them always?

bozzabollix · 25/10/2025 09:16

PreciousTatas · 24/10/2025 18:31

Because these crimes would not have happened if the UK asylum system was working. Those little girls and women would not have been raped or killed if these men were not in the country.

Some nationalities commit some crimes at disproportionate rates to the native British, that should not be ignored or swept under the rug. It helps no one.

I'm far from a reform supporter as an immigrant myself, but this is just stupid. Unvetted criminal men should not be given an opportunity to be freely roaming the UK committing crime.

Where’s the statistical basis for the claim that some nationalities commit more crime?

I ask that because I have searched on this, and found the foreign born people are slightly underrepresented in the prison system.

Fluffyholeysocks · 25/10/2025 09:18

The law is working as intended

Recent events show it it absolutely isn't working as intended.

Julen7 · 25/10/2025 09:19

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:03

This thread is full of dangerous and quite frankly racist rhetoric about immigrants. I am wondering if it is worth reporting it to the police, is that possible? Will they take it seriously?

🙄

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:20

bozzabollix · 25/10/2025 09:16

Where’s the statistical basis for the claim that some nationalities commit more crime?

I ask that because I have searched on this, and found the foreign born people are slightly underrepresented in the prison system.

There isn’t any. The real statistics will show again and again that white British men are the most dangerous men in this country (and probably the planet too but that’s a whole other story).

Mamalasira · 25/10/2025 09:20

EasternStandard · 25/10/2025 09:14

That’s a bit late for Rhiannon, her family and her five year old son, who incidentally screamed at the news the one person he cared most about wasn’t coming home. It won’t bring her back.

Why not do better for women and girls, why would you deprioritise them always?

It's depressing, we fight for years for our rights and for equality, but our needs and concerns are still a low priority for some.

Dockerty · 25/10/2025 09:20

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:03

This thread is full of dangerous and quite frankly racist rhetoric about immigrants. I am wondering if it is worth reporting it to the police, is that possible? Will they take it seriously?

Hi Starmer, you’re doing a terrible job. Please resign (or even better, call an immediate general election).

WildLimePoet · 25/10/2025 09:21

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:20

There isn’t any. The real statistics will show again and again that white British men are the most dangerous men in this country (and probably the planet too but that’s a whole other story).

You really struggle with math, don’t you? But since you mention statistics, do share.

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AnareticDegree · 25/10/2025 09:22

@SwiftasthewindIllegal migrants have repeatedly expressed VAWG in a completely random and unavoidable way with knives and machetes in public places, against women just minding their own business.

White English nonces and domestic abusers are often already known to police, can be traced a lot easier and some of them start online. We now have the Online Safety Act and let's hope it's used to full effect.

What is Liebour doing about large numbers of unchecked men who don't speak English and drain resources that the country doesn't have, having to be chased down and caught after their atrocities.

Swiftasthewind · 25/10/2025 09:22

Mamalasira · 25/10/2025 09:20

It's depressing, we fight for years for our rights and for equality, but our needs and concerns are still a low priority for some.

Fighting for our rights as women does not involve making up false claims about a group of people and scapegoating them to make ourselves feel better. It’s like the so called ‘grooming scandals’ that the media won’t shut up about, despite the actual threat being our own fathers, uncles, brothers and friends.

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