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what size/weight do you think iam?

237 replies

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 19:48

im 5ft 7.

what  size/weight do you think iam?
OP posts:
Theresabatinmykitchen · 22/10/2025 20:58

I think there are posters on here who have those magic mirrors that they use in shops which make you look much slimmer than you actually are.

buffyreboot · 22/10/2025 20:59

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:48

Size 14, 14 stone? I looked something like that at that height, size and weight

Do you have any photos. Where did you carry the extra 3.5 stone vs the OP?

Some people do carry weight differently
i am a size 14 at 15 stone (5ft 10)

MrsPositivity1 · 22/10/2025 20:59

Size 10 and about 9½ to 10 stone

Mrspatmoresapprentice · 22/10/2025 20:59

Theresabatinmykitchen · 22/10/2025 20:58

I think there are posters on here who have those magic mirrors that they use in shops which make you look much slimmer than you actually are.

If only they had one for self awareness.

Irenesortof · 22/10/2025 21:01

You're not at all fat OP. Ignore whoever it was.

PickAChew · 22/10/2025 21:02

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:12

10st 5 and size 10 to 12 depending on shop. I was called fat today and its really got to me :( Most people were pretty spot on

Whoever called you fat is just bloody rude.

Trendyname · 22/10/2025 21:03

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 19:48

im 5ft 7.

Size 8 or 10. 60 kg?

Solaire18381 · 22/10/2025 21:04

Without looking at previous comments, I'm guessing 12-14. Weight difficult to say without knowing height, maybe 80 kg.

TangledUp679 · 22/10/2025 21:04

I was going to guess size 10-12 and 10 stone, so I was pretty much spot on!

daisychain01 · 22/10/2025 21:04

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

Next time someone asks you what size your dress is, tell them to mind their own business. How rude! Protect yourself, they aren't worth it.

Disturbia81 · 22/10/2025 21:05

buffyreboot · 22/10/2025 20:59

Some people do carry weight differently
i am a size 14 at 15 stone (5ft 10)

Yep some people on this thread are just thick.. they think we’re all clones.

Alwayswonderedwhy · 22/10/2025 21:07

Size 12/14.
10/11 stone?

KuanKaKu · 22/10/2025 21:07

11 stones and size 14

LikeStrawberriesAndCream · 22/10/2025 21:11

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

Who is the someone who asked you - because that is incredibly rude!!

No way are you fat, and no way does that dress look size 16.

Was the someone trying to "neg" you?

Mary28 · 22/10/2025 21:12

I'd say size 10-12 - I'm thinking 10 but would need a side view too to be sure.
I'm guessing between 9-10st.

I'm the same height and a 12 usually and I'm close to 11st now unfortunately and I think you look slimmer than me. I carry my weight on my legs though and am slim on top.

Moro93 · 22/10/2025 21:13

I’m an inch taller and this is around my build when I’m a size 12, weighing between 11 and 11.5 stone.

londongirl12 · 22/10/2025 21:14

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

Who was this person? If it’s a stranger than just ignore, if it’s someone you know when also ignore and block!! How rude.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 22/10/2025 21:16

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

So she didn’t call you fat.

She said she thought you looked at least a size 16.

Two different things I think?

AnnaPhylax · 22/10/2025 21:18

Size 14 and 85 kg

Cucy · 22/10/2025 21:18

Who was this person?

Some people are awful at guessing sizes and so don’t take it to heart.

You look like you have an incredible figure and you should be proud of it.

Toadetta · 22/10/2025 21:18

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

I'm bigger than you and nobody has ever been that rude to me.

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 21:18

buffyreboot · 22/10/2025 20:59

Some people do carry weight differently
i am a size 14 at 15 stone (5ft 10)

I get that and when I was 14.5 stone I was also in a size 14. I have heavy bones and a broad frame. I look heavier than I am. But I can still absolutely say that the OP is nowhere near 13 stone or whatever other stupid guesses people are coming out with. And nor do I believe that anyone is 13 stone and looks the same as the OP. She has a slender figure that you just wouldn’t have at 13 stone. Unless someone is going to show evidence of themselves at that weight I will choose to disbelieve them.

wherearetheturrets · 22/10/2025 21:19

Size 12, 10st7lbs

Stravaig · 22/10/2025 21:20

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

So this is where, instead of getting sucked into someone else's reality, you instead learn variations of ignoring, deflecting, changing the subject, asking 'why do you want to know', or stating outright 'it's none of your business'.

Assert your boundaries. Don't play on their terms. Don't play at all. As you learn to value yourself, and protect yourself, you'll also become less dependent on how you look for validation.

CausalInference · 22/10/2025 21:26

11 stone, size 12-14

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