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what size/weight do you think iam?

237 replies

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 19:48

im 5ft 7.

what size/weight do you think iam?
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Gowlett · 22/10/2025 20:28

Size 12 / 11 stone

Anxietybummer · 22/10/2025 20:28

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

You should just feel sorry for her, she’s clearly lost her mind.

DiscoBob · 22/10/2025 20:30

Size 10-12/ 9-10.5 stone. You look slim and a healthy weight.

BengalBangle · 22/10/2025 20:31

Size 12 and around 11 stone.

I suspect that your dress makes you look larger around the waist in this photo than you are in RL.

Gwenhwyfar · 22/10/2025 20:31

HesarealJacquelineHigh · 22/10/2025 20:25

How can it be difficult to evaluate without knowing her height when the only bit of writing on the post tells you her height?🤔

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I missed it. It can happen.

Goditsmemargaret · 22/10/2025 20:31

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 20:16

Yes in your dreams you might look like the OP when you weigh 13 stone 😂

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You're wrong. I'm OP's height and when I was 13 stone looked very like that.

Izzywizzy85 · 22/10/2025 20:32

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

i can’t ever imagine a scenario where I’d be rude enough to ask someone what size dress they’re wearing. She was going out of her way to be a cow.

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 20:35

Goditsmemargaret · 22/10/2025 20:31

You're wrong. I'm OP's height and when I was 13 stone looked very like that.

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As I said in my previous post I doubt it although I can believe that you think you look like that.

MsTamborineMan · 22/10/2025 20:38

Goditsmemargaret · 22/10/2025 20:31

You're wrong. I'm OP's height and when I was 13 stone looked very like that.

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Yeah I thought I looked liked that too at 13 St 🤣

BernardButlersBra · 22/10/2025 20:40

Well, she was a bitch. You're slim with a great figure. Zero chance of you wearing a size 16

NewDogOwner · 22/10/2025 20:41

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

This person was being a dick. You look great but that dress with the big spots isn't the most flattering.

LindtCurves · 22/10/2025 20:42

Size 14, 14 stone? I looked something like that at that height, size and weight

Hammy19 · 22/10/2025 20:42

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

They were definitely being intentionally rude or unkind!!

Nonono18 · 22/10/2025 20:42

You look about 12-14 size and 11 ish stone? You look very normal and healthy

flutterby1 · 22/10/2025 20:43

Size12 10.5 stone

MasterBeth · 22/10/2025 20:44

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:12

10st 5 and size 10 to 12 depending on shop. I was called fat today and its really got to me :( Most people were pretty spot on

Well, you're obviously not fat, so they are wrong

Givemeachaitealatte · 22/10/2025 20:44

OP threads like this go terribly usually. I've seen people who are clearly in their early 30s get seriously told they look 57. MN is bizarre sometimes

You are clearly NOT fat - before you revealed I was going to say 10st 10 and size 10!!! Do not take hurtful comments to heart, they usually say something about them not you!!!

Jacopo · 22/10/2025 20:45

You have a perfect figure and lovely legs. I would have guessed size ten and 9.5 stone. Whoever it was that made that remark was being a bitch, and is either jealous or deliberately trying to undermine you. Bin them off.

LindorDoubleChoc · 22/10/2025 20:47

Size 12 to 14, weight 10 stone 7 to 11 stone 7.

Katie0909 · 22/10/2025 20:47

You are not fat and that person is seriously ignorant and unpleasant. Ignore them, they are clearly trying to upset you and, if they do it again, you should call them out for their rudeness.

freedo · 22/10/2025 20:48

Size 14, 14 stone? I looked something like that at that height, size and weight

Do you have any photos. Where did you carry the extra 3.5 stone vs the OP?

Disturbia81 · 22/10/2025 20:51

Glowingup · 22/10/2025 20:24

I have a wide skeleton at 5’7” too and I look much bigger when I am 13 stone. However in my head I’ve thought I look like the OP but the photos tell an entirely different story and I am sorry but I do not believe that you look anything close to that slim at that weight and height as you’d be not far off being obese. Have you looked at the full length picture rather than just the torso? For a start she has very slim legs and hips which you wouldn’t have with a wide skeleton

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You are very nasty to just discount peoples real experiences. This isn’t body dismorphia, I have photos at every weight. We all have different weight distribution.

Mrspatmoresapprentice · 22/10/2025 20:53

Darling, you met an arsehole. Sadly, they walk freely amongst us, but they are best ignored. You are no more a size 16 than I am an astronaut. Ignore!

SoSoLong · 22/10/2025 20:56

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

Don't give that cow a second thought. I would have guessed size 12 (maybe 10 lower half), lovely figure.

DollydaydreamTheThird · 22/10/2025 20:56

takeadaytomyself2025 · 22/10/2025 20:19

I really struggle with not feeling good or pretty enough and when someone asked me what size my dress was she said she thought it would've been at least a 16 not a 10.

Total cowbag whoever she is. Ignore! There will be some pathetic reason why she felt like she needed to make you feel shit. Power trip, jealousy, miserable life, bully. Whatever the reason is let it fall out of the back of your head and if possible limit time around this person who is a total mood hoover by all accounts. You look great OP.