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Smilersam · 19/10/2025 03:16

TheGrimSmile · 18/10/2025 20:26

The whole party is a joke. None of them know what they are doing. I can't believe people have fallen for Farage's bullshit after the shit show that is Brexit. God help the country is these incompetent muppets get in.

Brexit passed in a Conservative Government. But it's Reforms fault. LOL.

spoonbillstretford · 19/10/2025 03:18

I'm glad the local government reforms will get rid of KCC and divide it into unitary authorities.

Timeforabitofpeace · 19/10/2025 04:27

Done be daft @Smilersam. Farage instigated the whole thing. After he’d got himself an EU passport, naturally.

Glitchymn1 · 19/10/2025 05:15

Fridgemanageress · 18/10/2025 20:50

Sadly, I think all politicians are the same - full of it!!

^this
Conservatives no better.

PumpkinSparkleFairy · 19/10/2025 05:53

Great to see supporters of Farage’s vanity project aren’t bothered by basic competence in their politicians 😂

Of course YANBU OP. Scary stuff.

Marchitectmummy · 19/10/2025 05:54

ThatLemonBear · 18/10/2025 20:24

The best thing about all of this is that the more they mess up running councils, hopefully they’ll have less chance of being allowed to mess up the UK. I can but hope

Ha that principle would have stopped Labour winning any election.

Fleetheart · 19/10/2025 07:30

Nescafeneeded · 18/10/2025 23:45

Yes.

Radical reform is needed.

Tories have failed. Labour have failed. The leader of the Greens thinks he can hypnotise people’s tits. Your Party is the British political wing of the Middle East, all they do is campaign on Gaza.

Let’s see how the books look and judge them on that.

Or maybe they should be judged on how the people in Kent are served and how they meet their responsibilities. Whatever you say, this is not the way to behave in a meeting where you need the commitment and support of colleagues.

Fleetheart · 19/10/2025 07:32

Glitchymn1 · 19/10/2025 05:15

^this
Conservatives no better.

they really are not. Some of them are, but there are a lot of local councillors who work extremely hard for little reward.

Coolasfeck · 19/10/2025 07:32

Fridgemanageress · 18/10/2025 21:08

All the greens do sadly is gripe. They don’t have any get up and go to want to win. The are professional opposition party nothing more sadly.

Are you having an offline bet on how many times you can use the word ‘sadly’?

Nescafeneeded · 19/10/2025 08:21

TooBigForMyBoots · 19/10/2025 00:41

What laws are changing and how will that help the poor councils at the mercy of Reform UK?

Well the EHCP process for one. We can’t afford such expensive plans for so many children plus taxis. I think it is in hand though

Nescafeneeded · 19/10/2025 08:22

Fleetheart · 19/10/2025 07:30

Or maybe they should be judged on how the people in Kent are served and how they meet their responsibilities. Whatever you say, this is not the way to behave in a meeting where you need the commitment and support of colleagues.

Edited

But the majority of Kent won’t have a high level ‘legal responsibility’ owed to them by the council, they’re just sick of paying £££ council tax to see it being funnelled off toward a small number of people while their bins go uncollected

Crikeyalmighty · 19/10/2025 08:26

Dogaredabomb · 19/10/2025 00:36

I can't help but think Reform is some weird trojan horse strategy of the Tories (bear with me here and Don your tinfoil hats).

So Big Money invented Reform to get voted in and seriously fuck everything up. Dismantle the nhs and what's left of the welfare state.

When the country is defunct the Tories come back and rescue us. Yet never again do we have 'free' healthcare or disability benefits.... or anything.

I feel like we're in early 1930s Germany just watching how an extremist party gains traction.

May I suggest anyone who thinks this isa bit fanciful starts watching series3 of Babylon Berlin ( tremendous drama series by the way) - shows exactly how it all started- series3 starts in 1929 and wall st crash - basically it initially starts as getting some order back then things that the Nazis don’t like get stopped, people get ‘removed’ and go missing, people stop offering opinions, they make sure their own people are in charge at police , local gvt etc, - it all starts though very innocently by getting people to feel resentful and snitch on each other - it wasa total power grab by a load of inadequates basically with no talent or innovation - just weirdo bully boys who sensed an opportunity

Nescafeneeded · 19/10/2025 08:29

PumpkinSparkleFairy · 19/10/2025 05:53

Great to see supporters of Farage’s vanity project aren’t bothered by basic competence in their politicians 😂

Of course YANBU OP. Scary stuff.

No other party is going to be honest about the fact we have been overspending now for decades.

Fleetheart · 19/10/2025 08:34

Nescafeneeded · 19/10/2025 08:29

No other party is going to be honest about the fact we have been overspending now for decades.

have we? maybe we need to increase taxes to pay for the essentials then, like social care and SEND education - not cut everything even further

Fleetheart · 19/10/2025 08:36

Nescafeneeded · 19/10/2025 08:22

But the majority of Kent won’t have a high level ‘legal responsibility’ owed to them by the council, they’re just sick of paying £££ council tax to see it being funnelled off toward a small number of people while their bins go uncollected

can you explain what you mean by a small number of people? and are the bins not being collected in Kent? serious questions as I would like to understand better

Nescafeneeded · 19/10/2025 08:42

Fleetheart · 19/10/2025 08:34

have we? maybe we need to increase taxes to pay for the essentials then, like social care and SEND education - not cut everything even further

Taxes are already incredibly high. We can’t just keep taxing people indefinitely to pay for SEN and social care as the taxpayer is already increasingly begrudging and there are other areas of need. SEN spending has risen year on year now and is at its highest level ever and it would be reasonable to spend yet even more on it. SEN has had its fair share and then some.

Nescafeneeded · 19/10/2025 08:44

Fleetheart · 19/10/2025 08:36

can you explain what you mean by a small number of people? and are the bins not being collected in Kent? serious questions as I would like to understand better

Yes, in some areas 60p in every £1 of council tax is spent on social care/SEN. This is incredibly high and is because they legally overpromised what individuals are entitled to, which they are now having to row back on. Other council funded areas such as road maintenance, bin collection, public libraries and so on are all suffering as all the money is ploughed into meeting legal requirements for social care. There’s no legal requirement to keep a library open

BitOutOfPractice · 19/10/2025 08:44

They are like Trump, so ridiculous that you can’t believe anyone takes them seriously.

I wonder who leaked that!

I am going to use “chortle my face off” going forward though.

Cl3arDay · 19/10/2025 09:08

Nescafeneeded · 19/10/2025 08:42

Taxes are already incredibly high. We can’t just keep taxing people indefinitely to pay for SEN and social care as the taxpayer is already increasingly begrudging and there are other areas of need. SEN spending has risen year on year now and is at its highest level ever and it would be reasonable to spend yet even more on it. SEN has had its fair share and then some.

No it has not . It has been and is massively underfunded. The harder it is to access SEND support the worse problems get. Historic underfunding in education and SEND has increased need and we do not want even more children dropping out of school without an education. It’s really bad for society and costs more in the long run. The education and SEND system given to us by the Tories is shite and broken. Richer families are accessing provision far more than poorer families and there is a huge post code lottery..

Greenwitchart · 19/10/2025 09:13

I like in Kent and I am appalled at these incompetent fools.

It just shows as well that Reform and Farage don't have the experience, ethics or skills needed to run a country...

Fleetheart · 19/10/2025 09:29

Cl3arDay · 19/10/2025 09:08

No it has not . It has been and is massively underfunded. The harder it is to access SEND support the worse problems get. Historic underfunding in education and SEND has increased need and we do not want even more children dropping out of school without an education. It’s really bad for society and costs more in the long run. The education and SEND system given to us by the Tories is shite and broken. Richer families are accessing provision far more than poorer families and there is a huge post code lottery..

This is absolutely correct. The people who don’t get the right support in school end up being much bigger drains on society- and quite dangerous in some cases. So it’s obviously the right thing to support them early on. But it’s not being done right at the moment and hence one reason why it’s so expensive. For example one of the things that happens is there are few specialist centres and so children need to be taxied there - enormously expensive and a very visible cost.

ELO10538 · 19/10/2025 09:31

As a Kentishman living in exile, I have to say my home county deserves all it gets. Sorry guys, that's how it is.

Fleetheart · 19/10/2025 09:34

Nescafeneeded · 19/10/2025 08:44

Yes, in some areas 60p in every £1 of council tax is spent on social care/SEN. This is incredibly high and is because they legally overpromised what individuals are entitled to, which they are now having to row back on. Other council funded areas such as road maintenance, bin collection, public libraries and so on are all suffering as all the money is ploughed into meeting legal requirements for social care. There’s no legal requirement to keep a library open

I think the whole SEN issue has been incredibly badly managed; as has the social care area. And this is by the conservative govt of the last 14 years. Hence we are paying more for less. The bringing in lower taxes argument is always going to fail in this country- we actually need higher taxes (and we pay some of the lowest rates in Europe).

1457bloom · 19/10/2025 09:53

We now have the higher taxes we have ever had. We cannot afford the welfare system as it stands. We cannot afford to support the 6.5 million adults on out of work benefits. Something has to change, the welfare state needs big cuts.

Cl3arDay · 19/10/2025 10:00

1457bloom · 19/10/2025 09:53

We now have the higher taxes we have ever had. We cannot afford the welfare system as it stands. We cannot afford to support the 6.5 million adults on out of work benefits. Something has to change, the welfare state needs big cuts.

Which is not what this thread is about. This thread is about how inadequate and incapable Reform are as a party let alone running the country.

We shot outselves in the foot enough with Brexit, letting Reform run anything is simply complete utter madness .