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Working class men are the most attractive

283 replies

User3365237 · 17/10/2025 12:21

And there's no convincing me otherwise.

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OP posts:
mondaytosunday · 17/10/2025 17:21

@surreygirlyyou do know rugby (union at least) is actually an upper class sport? They play it at private schools. Football is for the masses.

PerriFuckingSickOfIt · 17/10/2025 17:24

MyCrushWithEyeliner · 17/10/2025 14:21

Love Louis but can’t stop laughing at this 😂

🤣🤣🤣

PerriFuckingSickOfIt · 17/10/2025 17:26

User3365237 · 17/10/2025 12:59

@Comeonbabylightmyfire My point is just because someone is working class doesn't mean they're thick, as a few posters seem to be implying.

Exactly 👍

HowardTJMoon · 17/10/2025 17:35

mondaytosunday · 17/10/2025 17:21

@surreygirlyyou do know rugby (union at least) is actually an upper class sport? They play it at private schools. Football is for the masses.

Rugby as a sport started at a private school but it's commonly played at state schools too. I played it at a comprehensive back in the 80s as did my DS in the 2010s.

Thingyfanding1 · 17/10/2025 17:40

Daygloboo · 17/10/2025 14:11

Louis Theroux? He's about as sexy as a slap in the face with a demented haddock.

That’s how I feel about Danny Dyer or some sweaty builder on a building site!

Thingyfanding1 · 17/10/2025 17:41

Daygloboo · 17/10/2025 14:11

Louis Theroux? He's about as sexy as a slap in the face with a demented haddock.

That’s how I feel about Danny Dyer or some sweaty builder on a building site! 🤣

Thingyfanding1 · 17/10/2025 17:44

Yearningallovertheplace · 17/10/2025 15:59

Roofers!

Reminds me of when I called the police to my neighbours house thinking they were being burgled because I’d spotted a couple of very shady looking blokes casing her property, only to be told that they were roofers and coming over to get an estimate 🤣
Stephen Bear was a roofer wasn’t he before he was locked up.

teacupzs · 17/10/2025 17:53

do know rugby (union at least) is actually an upper class sport? They play it at private schools. Football is for the masses.

This an outdated view. Most privates have football now & rugby is very common in state.

teacupzs · 17/10/2025 17:54

@DramaAlpaca he is 😋

teacupzs · 17/10/2025 17:56

Tbh i like manual workers and thats because then they can fix things in the house

This is not emphasised enough, I would trade my finance bro for someone who could knock me up an extension!

cinquanta · 17/10/2025 18:01

Tbh i like manual workers and thats because then they can fix things in the house

DH is about as far from a manual worker as you can get and it was rugby only when he was at school.

He’s just finished reroofing part of our house.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 17/10/2025 18:56

teacupzs · 17/10/2025 17:56

Tbh i like manual workers and thats because then they can fix things in the house

This is not emphasised enough, I would trade my finance bro for someone who could knock me up an extension!

My DH is pretty much a finance bro and he can knock you up an extension and repairs and spray paint your car!!

teacupzs · 17/10/2025 19:14

jealous, mine can put up a shelf & that's about it. Thank god he's good looking 😆

VoodooQualities · 17/10/2025 19:18

What does working class mean anyway?

I think my husband is working class - his Dad left his Mum young, and she was a dinner lady for years before re-marrying a postman which she then also became. That's working class isn't it? My dad was a banker and I went to private school. My mum never worked a day in her life though she'll go on and on about how hard it was bringing us kids up 🤣

Last weekend DH laid a new floor in our front room, and the weekend before he fitted a new fuel pump into my van and changed the oil filter.

He's also a yorkshireman and has the most gorgeous accent, whereas I couldn't be more posh!

I agree with OP wholeheartedly!

InTheAcornHouse · 17/10/2025 19:54

Thingyfanding1 · 17/10/2025 12:43

If you like small heads, eyes to close together and thin lips then I guess so.

This must be a joke.
It describes a lot of the dads I see on the school run in our mostly affluent area. Some of them I’ve spoken to and know they’re quite well-to-do rather than speculating they’re in the majority.
But why is it? Why do so many middle and upper class men look like this? My first thought is it could be from cousins marrying generations ago to keep wealth in family? But I don’t know if it was common enough to cause this. Of course they don’t all, but those features are far more common in the middle/ upper classes instead of working class

SeaAndStars · 17/10/2025 20:24

Depends on the man.

WilfredsPies · 17/10/2025 21:12

Rumpledandcrumpled · 17/10/2025 15:59

And the fact the op said wc men are the most attractive then used a middle class man as an example shows she means a perception she has of the tattooed fit a little bit rough male that Tom often plays. But that’s as far from real life as it gets.

Exactly this.

OP, you don’t like WC men. You like the fantasy of being swept off your feet by a good looking, masculine man who can plaster your ceiling, fix a leaking tap and give your car a service before making you see stars. I think you probably watched Sean Bean in Lady Chatterley’s Lover at an impressionable age.

LilyCanna · 17/10/2025 22:38

Hmm, the first person that came to mind when I thought of working class sex symbols was the young Jarvis Cocker singing Common People. Whether he was any good at DIY never really came into it…

User3365237 · 17/10/2025 22:39

WilfredsPies · 17/10/2025 21:12

Exactly this.

OP, you don’t like WC men. You like the fantasy of being swept off your feet by a good looking, masculine man who can plaster your ceiling, fix a leaking tap and give your car a service before making you see stars. I think you probably watched Sean Bean in Lady Chatterley’s Lover at an impressionable age.

A pretty fair summary to be honest.

OP posts:
VeterinaryCareAssistant · 17/10/2025 22:44

nameobsessed · 17/10/2025 14:14

It’s so interesting to me how attraction works. I like gentle and intelligent men so enjoying a fight, or being good at fighting, isn’t a positive for me at all.

That has nothing to do with class though, my DH is an intelligent, educated, soft spoken, loving, quiet and gentle man- who happened to grow up on council estates.

How does violence make a good partner? I’m just curious not shaming you or anything.

My other half doesn't fight but I'm reassured that, say we ran into some trouble one evening he could handle himself, and not just stammer and hand over his wallet

Illegally18 · 17/10/2025 22:52

WilfredsPies · 17/10/2025 21:12

Exactly this.

OP, you don’t like WC men. You like the fantasy of being swept off your feet by a good looking, masculine man who can plaster your ceiling, fix a leaking tap and give your car a service before making you see stars. I think you probably watched Sean Bean in Lady Chatterley’s Lover at an impressionable age.

ah, Sean Bean! mmmmmnnnn

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 17/10/2025 22:53

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 17/10/2025 13:05

No thanks. Give me a crisp white shirt with the sleeves rolled up over that any day.

With pale lily white arms sticking out with soft hands 🤣

hillyholman · 17/10/2025 22:58

PerriFuckingSickOfIt · 17/10/2025 13:07

Hmmm I totally get where you’re coming from op. But it’s a massive generalisation!

Weedy posh thin lipped public school boys - no!
Even a posh accent is quite unattractive IMO.

But DH is big, beefy, went to private school, ex rugby player, doesn’t sound posh, is very intelligent, sweary, funny, kind and cooks. So, I guess I got the best of both here ?!

You absolutely did

JLou08 · 18/10/2025 00:05

Even the ones that come home from work and sit in the front garden with their top off, can of larger in one hand, roll up in the other? Looking 50 when they're 30.

Recycledblonde · 18/10/2025 05:17

I wonder if you’d all be so happy if it was men talking about their ideal woman who could keep a tidy home and make delicious food whilst looking good with shiny swishy hair and smooth lightly tanned skin. Not interested in the fact that they could wipe the floor with the opposition in a debate or run a business. Preferably one who’d wait for a big strong man to run to their rescue.
Possibly they would say that intelligent women were unattractive with hairy legs and unfeminine hobbies. How does that feel?
I’ve been with DH for 40 years, he’s not massively good looking, crap at DIY but he makes me laugh, earns enough to pay someone else to do the DIY, is clever, witty and a brilliant dad. He’s also one of the kindest men I know and has loads of mates from all walks of life.
Lets stop stereotyping unless we can accept it being done back to us.