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To find salary offered an insult?

508 replies

Willowtree5 · 16/10/2025 14:20

As part of a restructure, I have been asked if I would take on three direct reports (I currently don’t manage anyone, but have in the past - big pull of current role was no line management responsibility).

I said I’d consider it - whilst I know I can manage people, it does add to my workload and the ‘mental load’ of dealing with all the crap around sickness/absence, 1:1’s etc.

My manager said she’d establish what additional uplift to my salary would be possible and let me know.

They’ve come back with an offer of £125,000 (current salary pre bonuses £105,000) which I find frankly insulting given the workload this would add.

AIBU to tell them to stuff it?

OP posts:
ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 21/10/2025 20:54

I think the OP (or should it be DOP) is on the wind up here - all her responses/updates seem to be out for a keyboard fight.

ThePoetsWife · 21/10/2025 21:10

Salary sacrifice the additional amount to save on tax

YoungTurk · 21/10/2025 21:13

Northernlights19 · 16/10/2025 14:54

Of course they haven't. No one has ever lived in London on minimum wage have they. Especially single parents. Never happens

This. Okay…I’ll bite.

Come on, OP. You’re clearly not thick, commanding that salary, so don’t pretend for a second everyone living in London earns above six figures. Speak to my bus driver, nurse, shop assistant friends…. The pretence makes you sound stupid.

This is clearly a question that is relevant to high earners/a particular industry - do you think you’d be better off finding a forum that caters specifically to that, to ask this specific question? Otherwise you’re asking people whether their entire salary as an uplift is an insult to you….

YoungTurk · 21/10/2025 21:14

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 21/10/2025 20:54

I think the OP (or should it be DOP) is on the wind up here - all her responses/updates seem to be out for a keyboard fight.

Oh yeah…that makes sense, now i feel dumb!

Erorgreys · 23/10/2025 11:10

Any update @Willowtree5 ?

Erorgreys · 23/10/2025 11:11

Willowtree5 · 17/10/2025 10:27

Thanks, I’ve had a reply to say it won’t be until next week they can review as the senior manager is on holiday.

It’s a bit blooming stressful! The DCoroner would do well to look at this thread if the saga finishes me off 😂

This has caused you real stress?

Not a great sign for a job line managing

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 24/10/2025 07:43

Any news OP?

Somelast · 27/10/2025 14:56

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 24/10/2025 07:43

Any news OP?

No update from an OP on a thread like this…. I presume that the response was like it or lump it

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