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To be utterly disgusted by the woman cutting down yellow ribbons commemorating the October 7th victims in Muswell Hill yesterday morning

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AngeloMysterioso · 07/10/2025 09:43

When Jewish people are being attacked and murdered on their way to synagogue on Yom Kippur

When you literally can’t move or look in any direction without Palestine Palestine Palestine in our faces

On the eve of the anniversary of the worst atrocity committed against Jewish people since the Holocaust, a small, unobtrusive memorial for the victims of that unthinkable, barbaric attack was destroyed yesterday by a despicable woman who turned up with scissors and cut the ribbons down, one by one.

Ribbons for women and girls who were raped and murdered.
Ribbons for babies ripped from their parents’ arms and slaughtered.
Ribbons for men beaten to death.
Ribbons for the hostages still suffering every moment.

And this disgusting individual took it upon herself to come along with a pair of scissors and cut each one away. Her excuse? They “condone genocide”.

Let’s not pretend for a moment that that was her true motivation. It was a revolting demonstration of the antisemitism that has become so shamefully rife in this country that it sickens me.

This woman needs to be named and shamed for the loathsome person she is.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/10/07/woman-filmed-cutting-ribbons-commemorating-israeli-hostages/

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/met-police-woman-ribbons-israel-hostages-london-manchester-synagogue-b1251594.html

https://www.lbc.co.uk/article/woman-filmed-cutting-down-ribbons-commemorating-israeli-hostages-in-north-london-5HjdF2y2/

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15167737/amp/woman-cuts-yellow-ribbons-israeli-hostages-london.html

https://inews.co.uk/news/anger-woman-filmed-cutting-down-ribbons-london-memorial-israeli-hostages-3961369

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GeneralPeter · 07/10/2025 19:15

nomas · 07/10/2025 10:52

She should not have removed the ribbons but it's not a hate crime, there is no need for the hyperbole.

Do you think this woman should have been prosecuted too?

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/wBbj-5aMB7c

I think our hate crime laws are drawn too broadly, but given our laws I think this clearly fits the bill.

It’s clearly a crime (criminal damage). It’s also fairly clearly “motivated (wholly or partly) by hostility towards members of a racial or religious group”. The idea that it was wholly motivated by objection to genocide isn’t convincing in relation to memorials for those killed/taken hostage before Israel’s current offensive.

sabababa · 07/10/2025 19:17

Thegreyhound · 07/10/2025 19:04

But conflating the actions of Israel with the Jewish people is exactly what some posters here do when they say that critics of Israel are being antisemitic. No one can win it seems.

Yes but the fact is that anti semities are drawn to israel the way that flies are drawn to shit. You can't ignore that Israel is the only Jewish state and most Israelis are Jewish.

JHound · 07/10/2025 19:20

hihelenhi · 07/10/2025 17:51

She's married to another Hamas supporter, and yes. Her actions are anti-semitic. Yours is a "some of my best friends are black so I can't be racist" argument.

What this stupid, posh idiot did was despicable, and yes, actively choosing to cut down ribbons that are there to remember specific people who were murdered, raped, brutalised and kidnapped is an active expression of hatred and disdain towards them, their families and those who are mourning them. Do you think those people 'deserved' what happened to them? Try and answer without saying "no, but..." Because that means yes and we all know it does.

How would you respond if Jewish activists in the UK performatively went around cutting down ribbons that were placed by Palestinian and Muslim families to commemorate particular loved ones who had died? Would you call that "freedom fighting" and "resistance" too? Would you go and desecrate the memorials to those who died in 9/11, regardless of your views of the rights and wrongs of the war that followed and feel both good about it and that you were making some stand against oppression?

The reason people are saying the actions of this stupid woman are anti-semitic is because she would almost certainly not be doing it with a smug smile on her face and people would not be whatabouting on this if the victims were anyone other than Jews.

I am not sure the example of Jewish activists cutting ribbons placed by muslim families work as they are reporting this woman to be Jewish.

I do think it can still be an anti-semitic (or rather anti-Israeli act) but it appears this woman is also Jewish too.

sabababa · 07/10/2025 19:22

Lifecanbebeautiful12 · 07/10/2025 18:31

You know how the majority of the British public voted for Brexit? Does that mean that the consequences of that are the fault of every British person, even the ones who voted remain? This is how stupid your argument is. The Israeli government has slaughtered and oppressed Palestinians since the day it was created. Voting Hamas in 19 years ago is not the cause. Let us not forget that the members of Hamas are Palestinian people who have been driven from their homes and murdered by a hostile neighbouring occupying army for 76 years. Yahya Sinwar was literally born in a refugee camp created by Israel. I personally find that concept hard to even imagine - to literally have had my home stolen from me and my family and to be forced into a refugee camp in my own country. Before the usual pro Israeli manipulation/propaganda machines come out saying I am supporting Hamas actions on October 7, I am absolutely not. But it is such a simple argument to a hugely complex situation. To call Hamas terrorists and IDF an army is just unacceptable considering the heinous, daily terrorist attacks committed by the IDF. To claim Palestinians deserve to be slaughtered because a government was voted in 19 years ago is baseless. From all the posts I have read in the past few days on this issue, my post is the only one I have seen of anyone pointing this out. Pro Israeli posters on the other hand are absolutely happy to post disgusting, offensive things about Palestinians deserving slaughter, Israel is only defending itself, they voted in Hamas so it’s their fault. Etc. But if anybody dares to disagree we are hounded on for being anti semitic and bullied into silence.

Much of my family were refugees and displaced. Grandparens on my side, my father in law on my husband's, although he was a baby so really his grandparents. 1920s through 1940s. Guess what? They didn't become terrorists and kill innocent civilians.

How much displacement was there in the 1940s? How many hundreds of millions of refugees?

Why is it only the Palestinians are refugees in perpetuity? Whose refugee status never ends (literally, they have a different legal definition to any other refugee covered by the 1951 convention which does not apply to palestinian refugees)? Who have their very own refugee agency (UNRWA) while all the other refugees of the world only have UNHCR?

Lifecanbebeautiful12 · 07/10/2025 19:22

Linzloopy · 07/10/2025 19:09

Yeah, yeah.

The start of your rant is ludicrous because I have never said, and never would say, that the consequences of Hamas's actions are the fault of every Palestinian.

The rest is totally one-sided. Approx 700,000 Jews were forced out of Arab countries in the twentieth century, places their families had lived in for hundreds of years. So they made new lives for themselves elsewhere. They didn’t regard themselves and their descendants as perpetual refugees.

You literally said it’s Palestinians fault for voting in Hamas…? And ‘regarding themselves as perpetual refugees’ is incredible. It shows you have a very limited understanding and education of this issue.

sabababa · 07/10/2025 19:23

BunfightBetty · 07/10/2025 19:11

Hmmm, some might say that without a real foundation. But it very much depends on what is said and how it is said.

There's always the cry of 'you can't criticise Israel without being accused of antisemitism' the minute anyone points out racism, yet while it is perfectly legitimate to criticise the Israeli government's actions (and boy is there much to criticise), some of the criticism DOES stray into antisemitic territory and it's important that it's called out when it happens.

wouldn't say some of the criticism strays into antisemitism, some of it is fuelled by it and is front and centre classic anti semitism described as "anti zionism"

sabababa · 07/10/2025 19:25

Lifecanbebeautiful12 · 07/10/2025 19:22

You literally said it’s Palestinians fault for voting in Hamas…? And ‘regarding themselves as perpetual refugees’ is incredible. It shows you have a very limited understanding and education of this issue.

wouldn't say some of the criticism strays into antisemitism, some of it is fuelled by it and is front and centre classic anti semitism described as "anti zionism"

HRTQueen · 07/10/2025 19:26

SuratNuJaman · 07/10/2025 19:05

Reasoning could be anger, sort of Israel killing 60,000+ people in the last few months, due to anger?

No that is not reasoning shameful that you are making a justification

Thegreyhound · 07/10/2025 19:26

BunfightBetty · 07/10/2025 19:11

Hmmm, some might say that without a real foundation. But it very much depends on what is said and how it is said.

There's always the cry of 'you can't criticise Israel without being accused of antisemitism' the minute anyone points out racism, yet while it is perfectly legitimate to criticise the Israeli government's actions (and boy is there much to criticise), some of the criticism DOES stray into antisemitic territory and it's important that it's called out when it happens.

I agree that this is the case. But on this thread and elsewhere people are repeatedly being called antisemites simply and only because they oppose the actions of the Israeli govt and army.

AzurePanda · 07/10/2025 19:27

@Lifecanbebeautiful12 Jews have been persecuted and thrown out of their homelands for millennia. Hence why there are fewer than 16 million left worldwide.

Whatado · 07/10/2025 19:27

PurpleChrayn · 07/10/2025 11:23

So you’re cool with Hamas?

It’s the festival of Sukkot today. I haven’t taken the children to synagogue because I’m frankly tired of having to explain and comfort them about the police vans outside, plus the heightened security at their school.

We are being very quiet and unobtrusive with our celebrations in the Sukkah this year (the booth we build in the garden, to have meals in) because our neighbours are pro-Hamas.

We have started the ball rolling on a move to Israel.

Thanks to attitudes like yours, a family who has contributed to this country for generations (doctors, teachers, researchers, lawyers) since my great-grandparents arrived in 1901 escaping European pogroms, is now leaving.

And yet Hamas is such a raging threat to the destruction of Israel you are willing taking your children to a country in their supposed direct line of sight for wiping out,if the OP position is to be accepted.

To willing move them to a country that is currently being called out at every point possible for war crimes, breaches of international law and over seeing a genocide.

Maybe if the Israeli government to face the consequences of their actions from those they govern over they may actually take time to reflect on their vile behaviour.

I think it is more the arrogance of the Israeli government and their belief in the right to under take ethnic cleansing with no consequences that actually creates the attitude that is a safer haven.

BunfightBetty · 07/10/2025 19:27

nomas · 07/10/2025 18:05

She's a Jewish Palestinian, married to a Palestinian, that doesn't make him or her Hamas.

I don't agree with cutting ribbons but I can't see where she looks smug.

I'm really surprised you don't think she looked smug.

How did you read her emotions, as shown through her facial expressions? What do you think they suggest she was feeling?

To me, smug was definitely there in the mix. Also defiance and hostility. Overall, a great sense of being puffed up with a sense of self-righteousness and a cast-iron conviction of being 'right' that only the relatively young and inexperienced can manage to maintain.

I feel a visceral sense of disgust when I look at the expressions on her face. The emotions betrayed thereon are ugly. They match her actions.

May life teach her more compassion, humility and wisdom going forward.

Kendodd · 07/10/2025 19:28

FunnyOrca · 07/10/2025 18:53

I cannot believe what I just watched on the BBC and to hear no arrest has been made and the Met are trying to decide whether a crime has been committed! Flagrant anti-semitism! We are not safe in Britain as long as people, like this woman, continue to conflate Judaism and the actions of Israel.

I sincerely hope the hostages are all returned in the coming days, as the news seems to be implying they might.

Thing is, a crime might not have been committed. I remember some Islamists Poppy burning a while ago, if I remember rightly, no crime was committed. As distasteful an action might be, doesn't mean its illegal. I think this women deserves for everyone to know her name and face though. In the same was the dentist who shot that lion became 'famous'.
One problem though, I think this women will be a hero by sections of society and probably those around her.

sabababa · 07/10/2025 19:29

Lifecanbebeautiful12 · 07/10/2025 19:22

You literally said it’s Palestinians fault for voting in Hamas…? And ‘regarding themselves as perpetual refugees’ is incredible. It shows you have a very limited understanding and education of this issue.

Riddle me this then. How does an UNRWA Palestine refugee lose their refugee status?

For UNHCR refugees it's in one of 3 ways:

  1. Voluntary repatriation
  2. Local integration (usually through permanent residency/citizenship)
  3. Resettlement

Which one of these applies to Palestine refugees?

(I know you don't know so I'lll give you the answer. None. They can become citizens of another country e.g. Jordan and still be refugees, they can live in Palestine and still be Palestine refugees which is totally absud - in fact they can live in ISRAEL as in Shuafat refugee camp which is just really a suburb of Jerusalem and become Israeli citizens and still be Palestine refugees)

Why are Palestine refugees different to all other refugees?

hihelenhi · 07/10/2025 19:30

raffegiraffe · 07/10/2025 18:46

The sadness of the death is the same. For me there is something fundamentally different between a terrorist group doing a massacre and a government doing a genocide.

Have you not watched the whole video? She absolutely is smug. She is cutting down the ribbons that are there to commemorate specific individuals who were killed or kidnapped by Hamas and telling those filming that they were "genocide supporters". As such, she is acting as a Hamas schill. And it's not the first time stupid, wealthy UK individuals who imagine they're being "edgy liberals" have been filmed doing the same (and yes, often with inane grins on their faces when they're challenged, like creepy Manson girls). No doubt this prat imagines she's some kind of "freedom fighter" (a bit like those on London's streets who celebrated and cheered the massacre of easily-targeted liberal Jews as being an "act of resistance"the day after the it happened.)

Fine, people can remain in total denial about what's going on here. You can 100% condemn Netanyahu's excessive acts of retribution in Gaza (the man's a racist psycho, imo) without making pathetic excuses for a posh, virulent antisemite and her performative, spiteful and vindictive behaviour in the UK targeted at the HOSTAGES, at the targets of Oct 7 itself, at the Jewish people who were killed so horrifically and those who care about them. As a reminder, these included young people at a PEACE festival, where many of the girls were filmed being brutally raped before being murdered, elderly people (including peace activists), those families living in kibbutzes (hardly the "far-right") who were brutally killed two years ago by those this total dickhead supports, and many of whom who are still in captivity. People are allowed to grieve their relatives and commemorate them without some performative idiot who imagines she's progressive cutting down their tributes. It's disgusting, as is anyone who supports doing that. You don't like the ribbons and don't want to think about what they represent? Then ignore them. You don't fucking cut down those tributes. That is an act of pure hatred. And yes, that act makes her an anti-semite, as is anyone who chooses to cheer that on.

User37482 · 07/10/2025 19:31

It’s simple, people were murdered, some were taken hostage, commerating that in no way diminishes the loss of life in Gaza. The only reason to take them down is because you dehumanise Jews imo. If someone put up something to commemorate Gazan lives lost and it was torn down I would think the same.

I would also say 14 brits died in that attack, Brits were taken hostage. There will be British Jews who will be affected because family members in Israel have been harmed. Similarly there will be british people with family in Gaza who have lost loved ones. People should be allowed to grieve peacefully. Ribbons are not offensive in any way.

As to fuck Hamas well yes, fuck them, they murdered children in an attack on a clan just the other day, they’ve been shooting people in the legs, they terrorise Palestinians and have brought nothing but failure and misery to their own people. Fuck them.

sabababa · 07/10/2025 19:32

Whatado · 07/10/2025 19:27

And yet Hamas is such a raging threat to the destruction of Israel you are willing taking your children to a country in their supposed direct line of sight for wiping out,if the OP position is to be accepted.

To willing move them to a country that is currently being called out at every point possible for war crimes, breaches of international law and over seeing a genocide.

Maybe if the Israeli government to face the consequences of their actions from those they govern over they may actually take time to reflect on their vile behaviour.

I think it is more the arrogance of the Israeli government and their belief in the right to under take ethnic cleansing with no consequences that actually creates the attitude that is a safer haven.

Edited

You might find that the Holocaust was a bit traumatic for Jews too. If you'd had 6 million of your people hunted down and wiped out, you also might want be a little concerned that you're gonna be next.

hihelenhi · 07/10/2025 19:34

JHound · 07/10/2025 19:20

I am not sure the example of Jewish activists cutting ribbons placed by muslim families work as they are reporting this woman to be Jewish.

I do think it can still be an anti-semitic (or rather anti-Israeli act) but it appears this woman is also Jewish too.

She may be part -Jewish (she is described as Palestinian-Jewish) but she condones the violence,and is married to an anti-semite. So, again, this is a "lots of my friends are black" argument. It doesn't mean that what she's doing isn't anti-semitic. Or absolve those who are making excuses for her.

SammyScrounge · 07/10/2025 19:35

JustJani · 07/10/2025 09:52

No, I don't support Hamas. It's the explicit politicisation of a very mixed area with lots of different communities living close together that I object to.

So you don't think there may be people who fear that the hostages might be forgotten about without a.gentle reminder of their plight? That it might cause offence,/disruption to different communities living close together' to be reminded there are surviving hostages suffering horribly?

Those yellow ribbons are for the young man, for example, taken prisoner by Hamas on a bright October day and kept underground in the dark for two years.They feed him irregularly and seem.to be starving him to death. You can see his.rib cage , his collar bone, his arms his cheekbones - all stripped of flesh. In his.suffocating cell he is made to dig his own grave. And then he looks at it

If the members of your multicultural communities object to a yellow ribbon for him, and for the rest of the hostages who are suffering whatever torture Hamas dreams up, then surely they are not worth listening to? Because ribbons in these circumstances
are.personal not political , but personal.

Skodacool · 07/10/2025 19:36

@sabababa I think you’ll find that this supports my claim about Netanyahu and hamas
https://www.timesofisrael.com/for-years-netanyahu-propped-up-hamas-now-its-blown-up-in-our-faces/
All of your claims are very much open for debate.

CleverButScatty · 07/10/2025 19:38

AngeloMysterioso · 07/10/2025 10:22

I’m not in a position to dictate anything, it’s simply my opinion. I don’t see how anyone can look at this awful situation and not think “Fuck Hamas”. Unless of course, they were just looking for an excuse to hate Jewish people.

The ones cutting down ribbons are doing the dictating, taking it upon themselves to decide that the victims of the attack are not allowed to be remembered.

I think he problem is that the people protesting the genocide in Palestine are sick of their viewpoint in this being conflated with anti-Semitism.

I think you are probably feeling the same thing... That the yellow ribbons you see as a heartfelt tribute to those suffering are being misconstrued as a symbol of hatred towards Palestinians or Muslims.

It is absolutely fine that you want to be able to make this gesture without being accused of hatred of anyone. But this is also what the Pro Palestine protestors want. (I know there is always a bad egg, but this is certainly also the case amongst those supporting Israel).

That level of understanding goes both ways, being Jewish and using gesture to grieve the death of Jewish people in this conflict should not be conflated with supporting the actions of BN or being antiIslamic.

Similarly, if you want this you need to apply the same logic and understand that those who are horrified by the actions of the Israeli government against the people of Palestine and protest for the world's governments to intervene, should not be conflated with anti-Semitism.

SpaceRaccoon · 07/10/2025 19:40

Are you insinuating that Hamas have more means and influence to exert such successful propaganda over the entire world than Israel?

I do think that Hamas and their backers have been all over the propaganda game on this one, yes. They've beaten Israel hands down on that front.
Mind you they've had the huge advantage of many people being keen to believe the very worst possible of Israelis, for some strange reason.

nomas · 07/10/2025 19:40

BunfightBetty · 07/10/2025 19:27

I'm really surprised you don't think she looked smug.

How did you read her emotions, as shown through her facial expressions? What do you think they suggest she was feeling?

To me, smug was definitely there in the mix. Also defiance and hostility. Overall, a great sense of being puffed up with a sense of self-righteousness and a cast-iron conviction of being 'right' that only the relatively young and inexperienced can manage to maintain.

I feel a visceral sense of disgust when I look at the expressions on her face. The emotions betrayed thereon are ugly. They match her actions.

May life teach her more compassion, humility and wisdom going forward.

I don’t know what she was feeling, I’m not a mind reader. But she didn’t respond to repeatedly being called disgusting, so I don’t think she was smug.

Skodacool · 07/10/2025 19:41

sabababa · 07/10/2025 19:32

You might find that the Holocaust was a bit traumatic for Jews too. If you'd had 6 million of your people hunted down and wiped out, you also might want be a little concerned that you're gonna be next.

That’s why what the Jews have inflicted on Palestinians is so incomprehensible.

Arrrrrrragghhh · 07/10/2025 19:42

AngeloMysterioso · 07/10/2025 09:54

It’s ribbons tied to a fence. If you find a memorial for the victims of that awful attack so troublesome you really need to take a good hard look at yourself.

Does the 9/11 memorial bother you too? How about the 7/7 Memorial in Hyde Park? Do you look at those and forget about the victims of those attacks and instead anguish over the plight of the civilians of Iraq and Afghanistan who died as a result of the resulting war and retaliatory attacks? Or do you save that self righteous morality policing for Israel?

Why?

Both of those memorials are in the the countries the events took place in.
Yellow ribbons in Israel are fair enough.

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