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Jews leaving the UK

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Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 10:42

I dont blame them. I would if I were Jewish.

They have been failed by their country, which is the UK. I wish them well and hope the UK can sort its anti semitism problems so it becomes safe for Jewish people again.

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Lifecanbebeautiful12 · 06/10/2025 13:10

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plyplaypro · 06/10/2025 13:11

SkipAd · 06/10/2025 13:05

Yep

But this sort of comment is fucking outrageous and ignorant and antisemitic. You are conflating Judaism and Israeli politics. Jewish people in this country can't vote for Netanyahu, they don't get a say in what happens there - you do realise that, don't you? You don't think many of us watch in horror at what's unfolding there?

Davros · 06/10/2025 13:13

None of DH’s Family are leaving the UK and they can’t “go back” to Israel as they do not come from there, certainly in modern times. His family have been in the UK for many generations, not since the War. I don't know if that makes any difference

childofthe607080s · 06/10/2025 13:13

The isreali state is the only one that has such strong ties to a single faith - that means that peope
see Jewish and Israeli as interchangeable and we certainly incarcerated all Italians and poles in the Second World War

that’s how things work - don’t act dumb

Implodingyourmirage · 06/10/2025 13:15

Meadowfinch · 06/10/2025 13:01

There has been one attack. A sense of proportion is needed here.

If everyone left the UK on that basis, our population would be without women (more violent men than it is possible to mention), schoolchildren (Thomas Hamilton), gay people (David Copeland) and people who live in Berkshire (Michael Ryan).

Any attack is horrible & shocking and scary, but it is not a reason to leave.

When somewhere is your home, you stand and face down the bigots and aggressors. Or at least in my world you do.

...and people of colour and muslims and disabled people....need I go on?

Quackcow · 06/10/2025 13:16

Whatado · 06/10/2025 12:40

I would seriously question how anyone could thinks moving to Israel is a safer option at the moment than living in the UK

I mean personally I wouldnt be moving my family to a country currently on the world stage for multiple war crimes, breaches of international law and genocide but at least they have the luxury of free will to make that decision. Which is one many in the world dont have.

Its an interesting situation, fleeing a country under claims of persecution on the basis of your ethnicity and religion, to country currently undertaking persecution of a whole group of people based on their ethnicity and based on your perceived safety.

There are different types of danger. There is a the type experienced by many Jews in the UK where it feels necessary to hide your background, faith and perspectives because you fear discrimination, even if not physical. That is harder than going to a country where you can be you even if the danger of war and sanctions is higher at a group level.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 06/10/2025 13:16

Meadowfinch · 06/10/2025 13:01

There has been one attack. A sense of proportion is needed here.

If everyone left the UK on that basis, our population would be without women (more violent men than it is possible to mention), schoolchildren (Thomas Hamilton), gay people (David Copeland) and people who live in Berkshire (Michael Ryan).

Any attack is horrible & shocking and scary, but it is not a reason to leave.

When somewhere is your home, you stand and face down the bigots and aggressors. Or at least in my world you do.

Given Jewish history I think there’s an obvious reason why standing and facing down aggressors does not look to everyone like a sensible strategy.

JodieTatum · 06/10/2025 13:16

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Meadowfinch · 06/10/2025 13:17

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 06/10/2025 13:16

Given Jewish history I think there’s an obvious reason why standing and facing down aggressors does not look to everyone like a sensible strategy.

But not after the actions of one bigoted extremist (dead) idiot.

Quackcow · 06/10/2025 13:17

ruth87 · 06/10/2025 12:47

Exactly! As a Jew, I consider it a moral obligation to protest genocide. I (as well as many of my Jewish relatives and friends) attend every march that I'm able to. Not once in all my years of attending have I EVER felt unsafe or experienced antisemitism. Protests against genocide absolutely NEED to take place. There are many who will whip up hysteria about Jews being unsafe when marches are taking place but that simply isn't my experience. I've been warmly welcoming every single time I've attended a march and yes, I'm rather obviously Jewish and proudly so.

Right now you are useful to them in clocking their jew hatred.

Honeycottage · 06/10/2025 13:18

Ohmygodnotnow · 06/10/2025 12:27

It is illegal but it is absolutely 100 acceptable to be antisemitism in my part of London. It's cloaked as 'antizionism' but then purely antisemitic statements flourish in our local facebook groups.

As a Jew born in Btitain I do not feel safe. The antisemitism is endemic.
The marches are hateful, the BBC is biased & won't even call Hamas terrorists & will broadcast death chants to Jews, & I'm scared to use the NHS because of antisemitism.

Don't even ask me to about the antisemitism that I have experienced in our schools & universities. How do we pick a university for our children when the campuses are not safe for Jewish students? That is why we are talking about leaving our homes & country of birth, for our children's safety & future. So very sad 😔

Whatado · 06/10/2025 13:18

plyplaypro · 06/10/2025 13:11

But this sort of comment is fucking outrageous and ignorant and antisemitic. You are conflating Judaism and Israeli politics. Jewish people in this country can't vote for Netanyahu, they don't get a say in what happens there - you do realise that, don't you? You don't think many of us watch in horror at what's unfolding there?

Which is why it's extremely difficult to sympathise with people who are publicly stating they are moving to a country were they actually will be faced with voting for him.

And contributing to the society he and his government are creating while starving the shit out of innocent children.

I personally find that pretty abhorrent. I also find it completely illogical to proclaim they will be safer. When that perceived safety comes from the fact they are moving to a country run by someone as vile as him.

It comes across as slightly hypocritical to be honest.

Honeycottage · 06/10/2025 13:20

As a Jew born in Britain I do not feel safe. The antisemitism is endemic.
The marches are hateful, the BBC is biased & won't even call Hamas terrorists & will broadcast death chants to Jews, & I'm scared to use the NHS because of antisemitism.

Don't even ask me to about the antisemitism that I have experienced in our schools & universities. How do we pick a university for our children when the campuses are not safe for Jewish students? That is why we are talking about leaving our homes & country of birth, for our children's safety & future. So very sad 😔

Santasjingleballs · 06/10/2025 13:21

The marches have nothing to do with Jews it’s aimed at the zionists

Meadowfinch · 06/10/2025 13:21

Implodingyourmirage · 06/10/2025 13:15

...and people of colour and muslims and disabled people....need I go on?

Exactly. We have to stay and unite and reject the extremists.

It's the only policy that works.

Jujujudo · 06/10/2025 13:21

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts · 06/10/2025 10:43

where are they going?

Why does it matter?

Honeycottage · 06/10/2025 13:22

Santasjingleballs · 06/10/2025 13:21

The marches have nothing to do with Jews it’s aimed at the zionists

Do you even know what zionism is?

Lavender14 · 06/10/2025 13:22

Bobiverse · 06/10/2025 12:12

More needs to be done? You can’t even be anti-Israeli government or anti-Netanyahu without being accused of being an anti-Semite.

More needs to be done to point out the difference.

Tbh I agree, I think there is a distinct difference between disagreeing with Netanyahu and current Israeli government approaches and having issues with any other Jewish person. I think the conflict in Palestine is highly publicised, very visible on social media in ways that other conflicts simply aren't. So I think people are reacting to that because that's why they are connecting more with it. Other conflicts are quite simply easier to ignore because we're not seeing horrific images every time we're opening our social media. So I think that's why people are less informed on other conflicts and therefore aren't connecting to them as much.

I don't think that's necessarily antisemitism although I've also no doubt there are some who will also be anti semitic and will use the protests etc as an outlet for that. But I don't think that's the case for everyone and I do think these are separate issues. I'm really appalled by what happened on Oct 7th, the actions of Hamas and the treatment of hostages has been inexcusable, I'm also disgusted by the Israelis government subsequent response and the sheer scale of the impact this has had on Palestinian civilians. I don't equate that with any other Jewish person, they aren't making these decisions and if they agree with it then they're entitled to have a different political opinion than me, I feel a lot of sympathy for Jewish people who have been impacted by this and any violence or hatred towards them must be rooted out.

I'm not sure harsher punishment is going to do that because as far as I'm aware statistically that makes little to no impact, but educative work is absolutely needed and schools etc could be doing much more to address this.

Lavender14 · 06/10/2025 13:22

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Barnbrack · 06/10/2025 13:24

If what's happening in Gaza is because Jewish people feel unsafe in light of Hamas and they are therefore simply defending themselves...

Surly Israel would be scarier than london

plyplaypro · 06/10/2025 13:25

Whatado · 06/10/2025 13:18

Which is why it's extremely difficult to sympathise with people who are publicly stating they are moving to a country were they actually will be faced with voting for him.

And contributing to the society he and his government are creating while starving the shit out of innocent children.

I personally find that pretty abhorrent. I also find it completely illogical to proclaim they will be safer. When that perceived safety comes from the fact they are moving to a country run by someone as vile as him.

It comes across as slightly hypocritical to be honest.

I understand how it seems people going back to Israel. Whilst we have no idea how they'll vote, they've obviously decided they feel safer there than here. Not a decision for everyone, not one I understand or agree with.

That withstanding, this line is casually antisemitic and unacceptably ignorant.
"I don't think everyone has suddenly become jew-haters, its more the genocide and purposeful starvation of children that gets on peoples tits.'

LarkspurLane · 06/10/2025 13:26

Jujujudo · 06/10/2025 13:21

Why does it matter?

I suppose maybe people are wondering where is better.

Awful to feel unsafe in the UK though, I am sorry that people feel this way.

PurpleThistle7 · 06/10/2025 13:27

This thread is depressing.

  1. Israel isn’t unique - many countries have a religious basis. Including the UK which is Christian. But also including the many Muslim countries.
  1. People telling Jews they shouldn’t feel anxious after one attack is ridiculous. It starts with one - we can show that time and time again in history. Then everyone says we deserved it for whatever reason (murdering Christian babies in the inquisition, running all the banks in 1930s Germany, Israel’s war in 2025). Then everyone feels encouraged to try again and again until we are kicked out of another country or murdered en masse. Any Jewish family has a story from each generation.
  1. I am amazed I finally found that mythical Jewish person who goes on these horrific marches. Keep hearing about them! I know none in my actual life.

I do not feel safe. But I don’t feel safe anywhere else either. I really, really don’t want to miss the moment where I should take my kids and run for it - as so many did in ww2. There’s always a moment that figure generations know about but you can easily miss when you’re living it. And I worry a lot that I won’t recognise it if it comes.

nomas · 06/10/2025 13:27

It's understandable if people feel scared and want to leave. They can always come back if it doesn't work out.

As a BAME person, I felt under siege by the recent hatred by Stephen Yucky Lemon and crew and fantasised about leaving.

For Jews it must be even worse as one of the smallest minorities in the UK.

ruth87 · 06/10/2025 13:27

Quackcow · 06/10/2025 13:17

Right now you are useful to them in clocking their jew hatred.

So all us Jews who take part in pro-Palestine marches are "self-haters", right? Give me a break. I simply refuse to buy into the narrative that marches protesting for Palestinian rights and an end of Israeli genocide are in ANY way anti-Jew. I personally know dozens of Jews who attend and none of them have EVER experienced "hatred" at the marches. Are they all liars? mmm....