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Jews leaving the UK

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Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 10:42

I dont blame them. I would if I were Jewish.

They have been failed by their country, which is the UK. I wish them well and hope the UK can sort its anti semitism problems so it becomes safe for Jewish people again.

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PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 19:07

inamarina · 06/10/2025 19:05

How often are those marches happening?

Theres protests almost daily outside some hotels, and they have been happening in towns across the uk for weeks and weeks.

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 19:08

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 19:00

Can I also ask if anyone thinks the protests and Marches for Unite the Flag (Tommy Robinson one - not sure of the name) should be banned because british people from the Black, Asian and Arab communities are also feeling intimidated or are those okay?

What are some of the slogans they are shouting?
Do you personally know any Asian, Black or Arab people who find them intimidating?

InsectsMatter · 06/10/2025 19:08

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 19:00

Can I also ask if anyone thinks the protests and Marches for Unite the Flag (Tommy Robinson one - not sure of the name) should be banned because british people from the Black, Asian and Arab communities are also feeling intimidated or are those okay?

Nobody from a Unite the Kingdom rally has stabbed anybody or harassed any Jewish people or harassed anybody at all. There were people from all ethnicities. Far more criminals were arrested at the Nottinghill carnival but despite the stabbings this was described as ‘mostly peaceful’.

The Palestinian marches on the other hand are rabid with the vilest racism this country has seen for many years.

But of course anti Semitism isn’t ‘real racism’ to you, is it.

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 19:13

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 19:08

What are some of the slogans they are shouting?
Do you personally know any Asian, Black or Arab people who find them intimidating?

send the “boat people back” ive seen on a live stream men shouting at the migrants calling them pedos, P*kis etc I have also seen some saying F israel F palestine horrible and other racial slurs. Burn the Quarn I could go on. There’s plenty of people who go to them and live stream them on tik tok

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 19:16

InsectsMatter · 06/10/2025 19:08

Nobody from a Unite the Kingdom rally has stabbed anybody or harassed any Jewish people or harassed anybody at all. There were people from all ethnicities. Far more criminals were arrested at the Nottinghill carnival but despite the stabbings this was described as ‘mostly peaceful’.

The Palestinian marches on the other hand are rabid with the vilest racism this country has seen for many years.

But of course anti Semitism isn’t ‘real racism’ to you, is it.

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I’m not saying anti-semitism isn’t real and I agree it’s awful, but if you want the Palestine Marches banned because they make British Jews feel intimidated then so should the others as Black, Arabs and Asians also feel intimidated in both cases its wrong.
Notting Hill isn’t a protest its a carnival so I suppose that should be looked at differently

nomas · 06/10/2025 19:16

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 19:08

What are some of the slogans they are shouting?
Do you personally know any Asian, Black or Arab people who find them intimidating?

I'm BAME and I find them intimidating. I avoided London on the day of the march.

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 19:17

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 19:13

send the “boat people back” ive seen on a live stream men shouting at the migrants calling them pedos, P*kis etc I have also seen some saying F israel F palestine horrible and other racial slurs. Burn the Quarn I could go on. There’s plenty of people who go to them and live stream them on tik tok

Oh fucking hell. What a world we live in.

I guess racism isnt illegal 😬. Antisemitism isn't illegal.

My personal opinion is that the marches should be allowed but anyone who goes on either stands a higher than average chance of being an ignorant racist.

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 19:18

nomas · 06/10/2025 19:16

I'm BAME and I find them intimidating. I avoided London on the day of the march.

Don't blame you.

Some people are prices. I'm sorry.

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 19:19

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 19:17

Oh fucking hell. What a world we live in.

I guess racism isnt illegal 😬. Antisemitism isn't illegal.

My personal opinion is that the marches should be allowed but anyone who goes on either stands a higher than average chance of being an ignorant racist.

Don’t get me wrong I am in no means defending the anti-semitism on the Marches, I do stand by my earlier point that I believe not everyone there is anti semitic but it’s our freedom to protest in this country so if we ban one surely we should ban another. I don’t want any race, religion, gender, sexuality etc to feel intimidated

nomas · 06/10/2025 19:23

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 19:18

Don't blame you.

Some people are prices. I'm sorry.

Thanks. It's why I sympathize with Jewish people for feeling under siege. And social media just exacerbates it.

dairydebris · 06/10/2025 19:24

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 19:19

Don’t get me wrong I am in no means defending the anti-semitism on the Marches, I do stand by my earlier point that I believe not everyone there is anti semitic but it’s our freedom to protest in this country so if we ban one surely we should ban another. I don’t want any race, religion, gender, sexuality etc to feel intimidated

Sure. Not everyone on the Palestine is antisemitic. But some are.
Not everyone on the flag shagger marches is a racist. But some are.

I wouldn't want to spend any time at all with either group, personally.

inamarina · 06/10/2025 19:26

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 19:07

Theres protests almost daily outside some hotels, and they have been happening in towns across the uk for weeks and weeks.

Protesters trying to intimidate people in hotels and chanting hostile slogans at them - no, I don’t agree with that either.

PrincessC0nsuelaBananaHammock · 06/10/2025 19:27

BoredZelda · 06/10/2025 11:06

What more? It is illegal, it is prosecuted, it is socially unacceptable. What else do you want?

Er, be nice if it bloody well stopped!

Onmytod24 · 06/10/2025 19:37

InsectsMatter · 06/10/2025 19:08

Nobody from a Unite the Kingdom rally has stabbed anybody or harassed any Jewish people or harassed anybody at all. There were people from all ethnicities. Far more criminals were arrested at the Nottinghill carnival but despite the stabbings this was described as ‘mostly peaceful’.

The Palestinian marches on the other hand are rabid with the vilest racism this country has seen for many years.

But of course anti Semitism isn’t ‘real racism’ to you, is it.

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When is mum‘sent going to take this thread down? It is full of lies and hatred and baiting and total lack of understanding about how everything works. It’s a pathetic and it’s an insult to what mum‘s net was about

Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 19:45

Barnbrack · 06/10/2025 18:25

My point is why is the creation of Israel the UKs business but how Israel conducts itself towards the gazan citizens isn't the UKs business?

Obviously my original question was rhetorical. I'm sorry you lack the insight to see what I was getting at, I hope this clarifies the point

After the collapse of the Ottoman empire the British took on the area for a while. After the end of WW2 the state of Israel was created on a tiny bit. Numerous times Palestinians could have agreed to a 2 state solution but they wanted the lot. They weren't even known as Palestinians back then, that term was coined later.
After Israel was made a state numerous Arab nations launched a war against Israel. Israel won. The Gaza Strip was Jordanian land. Hamas wanted it all and set out to kill Israelis and nothing much changed about that situation and Israel defends itself from constant missile attacks, until the massive terrorist attack started this latest conflict.
The British aren't responsible for Palestine people. Obviously thats a quick summary and much land was actually sold to Israel and not stolen. Palestinian people were told to leave by Arabs who thought they'd win the war and take the lot they could come back again... they didn’t win that war. Many wars are fought over the years and losing sides rarely get to dictate terms.

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Barnbrack · 06/10/2025 19:48

Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 19:45

After the collapse of the Ottoman empire the British took on the area for a while. After the end of WW2 the state of Israel was created on a tiny bit. Numerous times Palestinians could have agreed to a 2 state solution but they wanted the lot. They weren't even known as Palestinians back then, that term was coined later.
After Israel was made a state numerous Arab nations launched a war against Israel. Israel won. The Gaza Strip was Jordanian land. Hamas wanted it all and set out to kill Israelis and nothing much changed about that situation and Israel defends itself from constant missile attacks, until the massive terrorist attack started this latest conflict.
The British aren't responsible for Palestine people. Obviously thats a quick summary and much land was actually sold to Israel and not stolen. Palestinian people were told to leave by Arabs who thought they'd win the war and take the lot they could come back again... they didn’t win that war. Many wars are fought over the years and losing sides rarely get to dictate terms.

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This doesn't answer the question about why creating Israel was the UKs business but current situation isn't

Onmytod24 · 06/10/2025 19:49

Of course it doesn’t. she’s cherry picked history to suit her twisted understanding. God knows where she learned her history.

Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 19:52

Barnbrack · 06/10/2025 19:48

This doesn't answer the question about why creating Israel was the UKs business but current situation isn't

Israel is a democratic nation. How could we tell them what to do anymore than any other country. Palestinians elected Hamas to govern them years ago and haven't had more elections since then, they wouldn't be too pleased the UK started dictating to them either.

Two state solution, which has been proposed many times in the past and Palestinians have turned it down over and over.

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Poetnojo · 06/10/2025 19:57

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 18:50

They do, it’s called Palestine, just like the Jews do, it’s called Israel. Different cultures, religions and races have lived in that area for thousands of years. There will never be imo a definitive answer of who it belongs to (Ideally everyone on Earth would live where ever they wan’t in peace)

If somebody said the Jews never had a “homeland” they would be ripped to shreds on here. You can say Jews were there before Palestinians, but who was there before the Jews, it goes on and on. The 2 countries both have a right to exist but PEACEFULLY

There has NEVER in all of history been an independent country called Palestine, EVER

Barnbrack · 06/10/2025 19:58

Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 19:52

Israel is a democratic nation. How could we tell them what to do anymore than any other country. Palestinians elected Hamas to govern them years ago and haven't had more elections since then, they wouldn't be too pleased the UK started dictating to them either.

Two state solution, which has been proposed many times in the past and Palestinians have turned it down over and over.

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Trade sanctions have been placed on countries for apartheid have they not? Financial aid sent to countries has been stopped before? There are lots of ways to show disagreement with a regime who are committing war crimes. Why is not the UKs business to do this now but being tied up in the creation of the Israel state post WW2 was our business?

Liverpool2025 · 06/10/2025 19:58

Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 19:52

Israel is a democratic nation. How could we tell them what to do anymore than any other country. Palestinians elected Hamas to govern them years ago and haven't had more elections since then, they wouldn't be too pleased the UK started dictating to them either.

Two state solution, which has been proposed many times in the past and Palestinians have turned it down over and over.

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OP have you spent time in the area?

CrystalShoe · 06/10/2025 20:02

Swiftie1878 · 06/10/2025 18:57

Sorry, but if people can’t distinguish between the state (and its government) and Jewish people, that’s a ‘them’ problem.
Lots and lots of Jews do not agree with (and condemn) what Netanyahu and the IDF are doing in Gaza.

I'm not saying they can't distinguish between them, I'm asking Jewish people if, for them, the two things are too intertwined for them to be separated in any meaningful way. (And for all I know, that's correct. 🤷‍♀️) If this is indeed the case, it might help explain why some PP here are finding this thread to be full of hatred for Jews, as at least two PP have said. So I'm trying to find out if this apparent hate is due to a difference in perspective, with the state and the citizens easily separated for non-Jewish people but not for Jewish people.

If this is the case, it's also worth remembering that Britain has a long history of being irreverent towards our state. We're not usually patriotic, we don't fly the flag everywhere like you see in the US (current climate notwithstanding) and we find the way the Americans lay their hands on their hearts during their nation anthem to be 😂. And we laugh constantly at the royals. So we are more used to poking fun at the establishment than in many countries, and I'd wager we mostly see ourselves as very separate from the British government. But I wonder if, for Jewish people, the Jewish Israeli citizenry and the Israeli government are too closely bound for that. Maybe because it's the people who willed/campaigned the government/country into existence. I'm just asking, because I don't know.

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Letsbe · 06/10/2025 20:03

Ihatetomatoes · 06/10/2025 18:18

And when we keep telling you and telling you and begging you to consider the impact of your actions on regular people here, in this country, living our ordinary lives (like, again, my daughter who has been attacked in school twice so far... and most of our Jewish friends have similar stories from their children). When I tell you that my synagogue never needed security but when I phoned Police Scotland about my daughter's Bat Mitzvah this year they asked if we have hired ARMED security to protect a group of teenagers... and you keep telling us it's either our fault somehow or we are imagining it or it can't be happening because you didn't mean for this to be happening... it makes me feel sick to my stomach.

Sadly, the marchers aren't listening and don't care what Jewish people are saying. More and more of us hear you, they dont and maybe they never will. Awful but more people are starting to realise that the hatred growing needs sorting out.

Sorry you said in your first post you were not Jewish but then refer to your synagogue sorry if I have misunderstood.

PevenseygirlQQ · 06/10/2025 20:05

Poetnojo · 06/10/2025 19:57

There has NEVER in all of history been an independent country called Palestine, EVER

if that’s all you took from my post then that’s sad.

Palestine has just as much right to exist as Israel. Northern Cyprus isn’t recognised, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.

The State of Palestine is recognised as a sovereign state by 157 of the 193 member states of the United Nations btw.

Your clear distain for Palestinians is very obvious, have a good evening.

PurpleThistle7 · 06/10/2025 20:05

Letsbe · 06/10/2025 20:03

Sorry you said in your first post you were not Jewish but then refer to your synagogue sorry if I have misunderstood.

She’s quoting me. I’m Jewish. Very much so.

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