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To think the Manchester terrorist attack today shows the growing Anti-Semitism

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Longingdreamer · 02/10/2025 21:17

... and how Jews are not protected in this country.

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Bloozie · 03/10/2025 10:10

caringcarer · 03/10/2025 10:08

I agree with this and KS should never have sided with Hamas by recognising Palestine as a state whilst they were in charge. I think these murders are partly on him. He was warned something like this could happen but chose to go ahead anyway. His wife is Jewish and I don't know how she can bare to be married to him, especially after this.

??? KS hasn't sided with Hamas. Recognition of Palestine is contingent on the release of hostages and Hamas playing no part in the future of Palestine.

We have to stop this binary thinking. There are no good guys in the conflict between the Israeli government and Hamas. There's just wanted war criminals and terrorists. You don't have to pick a side, other than the side of the innocent Gazans getting massacred, the hostages being taken by both sides, the worshippers in Manchester yesterday.

A two state solution is not controversial or radical or pro-Hamas. It was the position of the previous Conservative government, and the position of the current Labour government. For there to be a two state solution, Palestine needs to be a state. For Palestine to be recognised as such, Hamas have been told to stand down and clear out. Whether they will or not, God knows. But if they don't, there is no recognition of Palestine by the UK government.

Rhetoric like this is unhelpful. Yesterday's act was no one's fault other than the terrorists'.

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 10:10

I actually think there are a lot of people who will never forgive the Jews for the Holocaust.

BlueOpaqueTights · 03/10/2025 10:11

It's certainly been growing on this board since Oct 7th

YANBU

miserableandworried · 03/10/2025 10:11

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 10:10

I actually think there are a lot of people who will never forgive the Jews for the Holocaust.

You’re going to need to expand on that. Forgive the Jews for what exactly?

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 10:12

clipboardz · 03/10/2025 09:53

I am well aware of the history.

It doesn't come across

Don’t assume everyone on the internet is uneducated. That’s foolish.

I can only judge by the posts people write 🤷🏻‍♀️

Not my fault you infer the wrong things from them.

🤷🏼‍♀️

AlphonsaAlpaca · 03/10/2025 10:13

MidnightMusing5 · 03/10/2025 09:55

Genuine question:- how do the Jewish community try to integrate to all areas of society? Any out reach etc to break down stereotypes? I don’t mean just going and making a speech, but actually having friends and making friendships with those from all other communities? (I don’t live in a city where there is a large Jewish community, so I wouldn’t know) I would love to know anyone responding, how many friends you have of Muslim faith? What have you ever done to try and make friends?

I think it’s important to mix and make friendship’s from all communities to help break down these negative stereotypes. Do you post a card through your neighbours doors to wish them a happy Eid etc? (I post Diwali card and Christmas cards . I’m lucky to live in a mixed community. I don’t know anyone openly Jewish. If I did, I would do exactly the same. ) Do your faith leaders work with other faith leaders? I think it’s important ALL people of faith and none should make an effort to have friendships from all communities. It’s a small but significant step all of us could take.

As a Muslim myself, I was deeply saddened by what happened. It was unislamic and pointless. You don’t improve relationships by killing each other! He did no favours for our community either and I will now receive hate because of it (!)

I dont view all Jewish people as bad. Why? Because of an experience I had as a child. (I didn’t at the time realise how significant it was at the time, but as an adult I do and it has stuck with me)
when I was younger, there was a girl in our class from Israel named Dana. (I was 10 and my parents had never said anything horrible about Israel and Jews so , to me she was just another girl - with a lovely tan)
anyway, she had a sister called Noah (younger than her) her dad I think was over studying at the local uni. She played with us in the playgrounds, taught us how to play “five stone”. Showed us pictures of her family mango farm in Israel.
one day my mum forgot to pick me up (something happened at home)
I was alone in the playground (this was from a time when there were no school gates. And Dana parents waited with me until someone came to collect me. (I wore ethnic clothing I was the only girl in my class that was brown) No one else. Just Dana parents. That act has stuck with me for life and I refuse to hate all Jewish people for what is happening in the Middle East. This is what I mean by those small acts that we all can do in communities to break down stereotypes and build relationships.
Changing things at grass roots level.

Genuine question: do you think Jews are a different species??
I am actually incredulous that there are people who actually think this way about a group of people. Is this what you have been taught about Jewish people? Is it what you actually believe?
I am a Jewish person and have friends of every faith and colour, children who are half Asian, and integrate quite fine into all aspects of British life.
You sound unhinged at best.

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 10:13

miserableandworried · 03/10/2025 10:11

You’re going to need to expand on that. Forgive the Jews for what exactly?

For having been genocided and victimised so terribly. That's why so many of them try to weaponise the Holocaust against the Jewish state and Jewish people, and invoke it when trying to claim themselves as victims. They wish they could claim that victim status.

Absolutely sick, but true.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 10:14

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 10:09

The fact that she didn't know they are only one part of the British Jewish community again suggests that she is not in a position to lecture about integration.

I'm not aware of any social or societal problems the Haredi cause anyway.

The Haredi do have worrying issues, like other religious communities who are very closed-off (Amish, some types of evangelicals etc) with sexual abuse, women's roles, lack of ability to speak English in some cases making integration harder if they want to leave, among others

Just bc they don't affect us doesn't mean we should ignore. Obvs also the Haredi are a tiny group.

Note To Anti-Semites : Do NOT equate problems in the Haredi community with terrorism & grooming gangs. They are NOT comparable

Lazytiger · 03/10/2025 10:14

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 03/10/2025 10:01

Apparently the perpetrator was granted uk citizenship at 16 according to the BBC. Presumably, under Reforms plans, if he had lived he could have had his citizenship revoked and been deported?

We do need to take this conversation further though than just looking at new immigrants. Many second and third generation are the ones being radicalised on our own shores. We need a much broader conversation about how this is happening, how people can be better integrated by removing some of the barriers of integration. We need a conversation about multiculturalism and whether this is the best model in which people of different origins can co-exist. Whether the emphasis on multiculturalism rather than integration has resulted in a larger breakdown of society, the need for a common culture, dominant rites and traditions would actually be a much better model

In today's papers those hiding in the synagogue are described 'British Jews' or simply 'Jews'. The murderer isn't described as a 'British Muslim' or a 'Syrian' but as 'British with Syrian descent'.

Which one sounds more British?
The Syrian who was born and bred in Syria and then later granted British citizenship? Or those people in the synagogue who were born and bred in the UK but happen to be Jewish?

Words matter. The UK is antisemitic.

HarrietPierce · 03/10/2025 10:14

CleopatraSelene
"Plus the Gaza war is a war. It is NOT a genocide"

Well it is a genocide according to the International Association of Genocide Scholars. It is live streamed to us daily before our eyes.

MidnightMusing5 · 03/10/2025 10:15

Wow the negative comments towards my post, says ALOT about the types of people responding.

Hate is ugly

AlphonsaAlpaca · 03/10/2025 10:15

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 10:10

I actually think there are a lot of people who will never forgive the Jews for the Holocaust.

Pardon me, what?

Phobiaphobic · 03/10/2025 10:16

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How many Jewish people have murdered people in the UK?

AlphonsaAlpaca · 03/10/2025 10:16

MidnightMusing5 · 03/10/2025 10:15

Wow the negative comments towards my post, says ALOT about the types of people responding.

Hate is ugly

Imagine reading a similar post about Muslims!

Lazytiger · 03/10/2025 10:16

AlphonsaAlpaca · 03/10/2025 10:15

Pardon me, what?

I second that. Can you explain @ThatCyanCat

MaturingCheeseball · 03/10/2025 10:17

I wonder where this Islamophobia proposed bill is now.

Something’s gone very wrong in this country with the fox being welcomed into the hen house. Someone said on another thread to watch out, Jews are the canary in the coal mine. I foresee this country being Balkanised as now we have a significant proportion of the population who do not just reject Western values, but seek to obliterate them and destroy practitioners of other religions into the bargain.

Willyoujustbequiet · 03/10/2025 10:17

Theseventhmagpie · 03/10/2025 09:55

Totally agree. The number of naive fools on these pro Palestine protests sickens me.
This attack was always going to happen in today’s anti semetic culture. People need to really research the issues, not take the propaganda on social media at face value.

Agreed.

I'm disgusted that the planned protest for Saturday is going ahead, even after an appeal from the police to cancel it.

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 10:17

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 09:56

We need to be a bit wary of the UN.Anti Semitic countries like Saudi Arabia are pushing particular agendas there.

Riiiight…

upthread you say that hamas are stealing the aid that Israel is supplying.

Where did you get that from? Because if we’re wary of the UN, I’m assuming you have an undoubtable source for this.

And your assertion that this isn’t a genocide…what is your source for that?

Hint: can’t be FP…

You are big on pushing the spectre of ‘Arab money’ infiltrating things. Are you as aware of Israeli influences? Russian? American?

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 10:19

AlphonsaAlpaca · 03/10/2025 10:13

Genuine question: do you think Jews are a different species??
I am actually incredulous that there are people who actually think this way about a group of people. Is this what you have been taught about Jewish people? Is it what you actually believe?
I am a Jewish person and have friends of every faith and colour, children who are half Asian, and integrate quite fine into all aspects of British life.
You sound unhinged at best.

I think it was badly phrased but it sounds like she's referring to Jewish-Muslim relations specifically.

I suppose pp thinks Jews should reach out but the way things are I think Muslims should, if anyone,,given the fear many Jews understandably feel.

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 10:19

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 10:04

I personally believe we should ban faith schools. I know in some areas faith schools are the best options academically so that's hard...that needs to change.

Buy otoh if we just banned Muslim schools that would be unfair.

The problem is that in places like Bradford teens are growing up with mainly Muslim schools, Muslim friends...how cam they integrate if all they know are other Muslims?

I suppose a compromise would be that Muslim schools by law have to take a quota of non Muslims. But how many would want their kids to go to a Muslim school?

I believe schools etc that enable parallel non integrated communities are a big part of the problem.

Just need to say that Bradford does not have "mainly Muslim schools". Overwhelmingly majority of Muslim children are in state schools.
I really wish people would Google things to fact check before they declare it "a problem".

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 10:20

MidnightMusing5 · 03/10/2025 10:15

Wow the negative comments towards my post, says ALOT about the types of people responding.

Hate is ugly

It sure is.

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 10:20

AlphonsaAlpaca · 03/10/2025 10:15

Pardon me, what?

Explained at 10.13.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 10:21

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 10:19

Just need to say that Bradford does not have "mainly Muslim schools". Overwhelmingly majority of Muslim children are in state schools.
I really wish people would Google things to fact check before they declare it "a problem".

Not Bradford then, I am sorry. But I think this is happening in other areas.

Presumably you mean secular state schools, since Muslim state schools also exist?

AguNwaanyi · 03/10/2025 10:22

LunaDeBallona · 03/10/2025 07:54

No it’s not brain rot - it’s the horrific nightmares I have had ever since I finally reported the sexual abuse I suffered as a child by Muslim men (I’ve only said this because of your insulting comment)
It’s seeing the terrorist attacks committed against law abiding British people simply because they hate us.
Dont say ‘Gaza’ - that wasn’t happening when children were blown apart at an Ariana Grande concert, or when 7/7 happened..
Yes, I’m scared. I’ve seen how Islam has captured many African countries who are now sending men here via the channel, claiming ‘asylum’. They are not coming here because they want to intergrate. They want to assimilate.

If there’s ‘Islamaphobia’ (which there isn’t) why isn’t there Jewaphobia? Or Christaphobia? Why is it just the group who have committed 75% of terrorist attacks in the last 20 years in the UK who feel persecuted?? Surely even you can see that’s arse first.

As a white woman I will always be extremely wary of Muslim men - and considering all of the terrorist attacks, the vast vast number of raping gangs with an approximate 250,000 victims I would be mad not to be worried for myself, my family and white girls wouldn’t I.
And frankly I don’t give a shit if you think I’m a bigot. It’s just another insult (like terf) hurled by people waving flags who think they are oh so superior.

Today I am going to remember Adrian Daulby and Melvin Cravitz without whose brave actions I fear we would be seeing many more names of murdered Jews.

What you have been through is horrific, and I cannot speak to your trauma, but some of these statements are a-historical and bigot isn’t just a word wielded in superiority. People literally die as a result of bigotry festering in society and gov policy so it is not something to be dismissed.

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 10:23

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 10:09

The fact that she didn't know they are only one part of the British Jewish community again suggests that she is not in a position to lecture about integration.

I'm not aware of any social or societal problems the Haredi cause anyway.

and piling on this poster for not knowing something is definitely the right way to foster a spirit of integration, isn’t it?

Her post was clearly meant to show her own personal experience and attacking her for clumsy wording isn’t the right way.

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