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Alice Evans is losing the plot again

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CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 30/09/2025 18:49

This time at the neighbours in her new flat block. Seems like she parks badly blocking other people in, they leave notes asking her to park better and she goes crackers banging on doors and screaming like a banshee at 2am

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15148429/Let-you-f-ing-b-Watch-Alice-Evans-Ring-doorbell-meltdown-old-woman-neighbours-tell-KATIE-HIND-control-star-terrorising-reveal-disgraceful-behaviour-new-LA-block.html

https://archive.ph/j39ds

obviously all the craziness over her divorce, custody arrangements is well documented and iirc she once lost her shit with someone in a car park , proper road rage/parking rage type incident. She really needs therapy/help.

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donaldtrumponlyhasonedancemove · 01/10/2025 15:18

This story shows Alice Evans being abusive towards a elderly neighbour. Can someone enlighten me what Ioan has to do with that?

justasking111 · 01/10/2025 15:27

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 14:35

Just to note, they had a rock solid pre-nup that said he only had to pay child support, no alimony but he still paid her hundreds of thousands of dollars more than she was legally entitled to.

The court said to stop and only pay the $3,000 a month child support so with this being her only income (she’s not working), Alice promptly moved into a $6,500 a month property. My understanding is she also got several hundred thousand from sale of the family home which may be how she was funding this.

She then cried poverty all over her social media and claimed she and the girls were going to be homeless.

There will never be enough money to satisfy Alice. The court made a sensible decision to limit her income to 3k a month. She did keep the family home in the split.

The children are hostile towards him. That may change one day.

jbm16 · 01/10/2025 15:29

21ZIGGY · 30/09/2025 18:53

Lets not believe everything that paper says

"Looking worse for wear" 🤢 misogyny

You don't have to believe the media, you just have to watch the video...

MissFancyDay · 01/10/2025 15:37

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:03

Completely agree.

It makes me sick to see women fawning over and defending a man who chose a new relationship over his children.

”He did everything he could”

No he didn’t.

Nope, wrong again. He left an abusive marriage, and had the luck to meet a sane woman.

He stopped trying to see the kids when it was obvious that their mental health and wellbeing was being affected by the obstacles Alice was putting in his way. He cares more for them than she does.

LemonTT · 01/10/2025 15:38

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 14:08

I couldn’t care about him leaving the marriage. Whether it was abusive or not, he has every right to end his marriage for whatever reason.

She can’t prevent him from having shared custody. I’m pretty sure shared custody is the norm in California.

It took him an entire year after he moved Bianca into his home for him to even go to court for custody of the kids. He was quick enough to go to court for a restraining order, though.

He knew better than anyone what kind of mother Alice was, yet he left the kids behind so he could focus on his new relationship. He is disgusting.

He applied for a restraining order a year after he left her. He had already applied to see his children. Indeed he had been seeing his children without a court order until Alice stopped them visiting him. We know she stopped them visiting him because she posted a video deciding to stop visits because she didn’t have to. Her action in preventing contact was entirely malicious.

Why did he have to go to court to get access in the first place? Her responsibility as a parent should have been to enable contact not to block it. She did everything she could to block it and she did it intentionally because she stated this in person and online.

She was already messing with the children’s lives and mental state before he left. Telling them (she was actually threatening them) they would get a new daddy to replace him. Keeping them out of school when she argued with the teachers, and getting them to put their name to statements to defend her when her public ranting got exposed.

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:38

donaldtrumponlyhasonedancemove · 01/10/2025 15:18

This story shows Alice Evans being abusive towards a elderly neighbour. Can someone enlighten me what Ioan has to do with that?

Yes.

This is the woman Ioan chose to leave his children in the care of whilst he started a new family.

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:38

MissFancyDay · 01/10/2025 15:37

Nope, wrong again. He left an abusive marriage, and had the luck to meet a sane woman.

He stopped trying to see the kids when it was obvious that their mental health and wellbeing was being affected by the obstacles Alice was putting in his way. He cares more for them than she does.

Just because you don't agree, doesn’t make me wrong.

Honish · 01/10/2025 15:39

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 14:08

I couldn’t care about him leaving the marriage. Whether it was abusive or not, he has every right to end his marriage for whatever reason.

She can’t prevent him from having shared custody. I’m pretty sure shared custody is the norm in California.

It took him an entire year after he moved Bianca into his home for him to even go to court for custody of the kids. He was quick enough to go to court for a restraining order, though.

He knew better than anyone what kind of mother Alice was, yet he left the kids behind so he could focus on his new relationship. He is disgusting.

I agree with this.

ilod · 01/10/2025 15:41

I was surprised at how many people contributed to the go fund me page, to donate money or offer her somewhere to live.

Cindyyyy · 01/10/2025 15:41

I’m surprised she’s not pushing the kids into acting, modelling or generally being all over the internet. That’d generate income and make her look more successful.

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:43

LemonTT · 01/10/2025 15:38

He applied for a restraining order a year after he left her. He had already applied to see his children. Indeed he had been seeing his children without a court order until Alice stopped them visiting him. We know she stopped them visiting him because she posted a video deciding to stop visits because she didn’t have to. Her action in preventing contact was entirely malicious.

Why did he have to go to court to get access in the first place? Her responsibility as a parent should have been to enable contact not to block it. She did everything she could to block it and she did it intentionally because she stated this in person and online.

She was already messing with the children’s lives and mental state before he left. Telling them (she was actually threatening them) they would get a new daddy to replace him. Keeping them out of school when she argued with the teachers, and getting them to put their name to statements to defend her when her public ranting got exposed.

No, actually. That’s not true at all.

You see, Ioan didn’t ask for any of his court documents to be sealed, so it can be seen that he applied for a restraining order for him and his girlfriend, before he ever sought contact with his children.

In fact, as soon as he was awarded contact, he cancelled the first couple of sessions so that he could go on holiday with Bianca. He hadn’t seen the children in over a year at that point.

Let’s stop blaming Alice for Ioan’s lack of action, or care, regarding his children.

MissFancyDay · 01/10/2025 15:45

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:38

Just because you don't agree, doesn’t make me wrong.

It does when you get facts wrong. She was making it impossible for him to have a relationship with HIS children even before she claims to have found out about him and Bianca. His new relationship did not change anything except maybe make her more determined to prevent him having a relationship with them.

He could have stayed celibate forever and worn sack cloth and ashes, it wouldn't have been enough.

CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 01/10/2025 15:48

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:38

Yes.

This is the woman Ioan chose to leave his children in the care of whilst he started a new family.

Do you really think he could have prevented the children staying with their mother? He has no legal right to remove them! He's shone a light on her behaviour and the courts/social services have done nothing. She has got worse (that we know of) since he left, maybe when he left he didn't think she was quite this bad?

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LemonTT · 01/10/2025 15:52

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:43

No, actually. That’s not true at all.

You see, Ioan didn’t ask for any of his court documents to be sealed, so it can be seen that he applied for a restraining order for him and his girlfriend, before he ever sought contact with his children.

In fact, as soon as he was awarded contact, he cancelled the first couple of sessions so that he could go on holiday with Bianca. He hadn’t seen the children in over a year at that point.

Let’s stop blaming Alice for Ioan’s lack of action, or care, regarding his children.

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It is true. He sought contact from the minute he left the family home. He was seeing the children regularly. Alice stopped that. She made a video stating she was doing it because she could and no one could stop her. She sent him threats that he would be arrested if he tried to see them without her agreement.

I don’t know if you know this but most parenting issues and divorce issues are negotiated and agreed outside court. There is zero need for one parent to have to take legal action to see their children. When they do it is because one is being obstructive.

She was insisting he only saw them with her present in her house. She was also doing strange things like flashing him when he turned up to see the children.

I don’t know what is worse her having him arrested or flashing him.

ThisCyanPoet · 01/10/2025 15:52

TheatricalLife · 01/10/2025 13:22

She's absolutely shit faced in that video. Wobbling, slurring, making little sense.
She has done some really shit and stupid things, but I can't help but have some sympathy with anyone who has got themselves into the state she has. It can't be a pleasant way to live. The kids have been through the absolute wringer over the past five years with these two for parents. It's a real shame.

I have no sympathy for her. This is the transcript of just one piece of evidence that Ioan filed. It was a video that Elsie filmed of Alice and Ella on Ella’s 12th birthday.

Transcription of 6 September 2021 Video received from Elsie
Ella: Screaming and crying
Elsie: “You ok Beans?”
Alice: “You don’t know what you got here and you’re fucking tedious.”
Ella: “You’re supposed to be a Mother!”
Alice: “And your Father is supposed to be a Father!”
Ella: “Mummy! Mummy! You have to stop bringing up Daddy in every single situation when
we said nothing about Daddy!”
Alice: “I am a fucking Mother you bitch! Do you know what it takes to be a fucking Mother?”
Ella: “Right now you’re not acting like one.”
Alice: “Why not?”
Ella:” You’re yelling at your children, you’re telling them that they’re telling lies, you’re not
giving us any voice, you’re, you threatened to leave us!”
Alice: “No, no, no, no, no, I just said that I don’t want anything to do with you anymore. You,
you guys can go and live with your Daddy.”
Ella: “That’s one of the most terrible things you can say to your child, you’re acting like your
Dad right now! You take upon your Dad!”
Alice: “No, I don’t think anyone else has ever been left as alone as I have.”
Ella: “See now, oh my god! Poor me! Poor me! Be a Mother!”
Alice: “You didn’t even listen to what I say! You don’t even listen to what I say.”
Ella: “Oh I listen to everything you say. Be a Mother! Be a Mother!”
Alice: “Gloria’s having you for the rest of the week.

tinytemper66 · 01/10/2025 15:54

I can’t read it. Is she an actress!

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:54

MissFancyDay · 01/10/2025 15:45

It does when you get facts wrong. She was making it impossible for him to have a relationship with HIS children even before she claims to have found out about him and Bianca. His new relationship did not change anything except maybe make her more determined to prevent him having a relationship with them.

He could have stayed celibate forever and worn sack cloth and ashes, it wouldn't have been enough.

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You don’t think that he contributed in any way towards the breakdown of his relationship with his children?

Moving in with a new partner who the children had never even met?

Being very quick to apply for a restraining order against their mum, despite it taking him a year to even start to fight for them in court?

Refusing his daughter’s suggestion of contact at a theme park, because Bianca has a chronic illness and he didn’t want to risk catching COVID, even though he and Bianca were happy enough to go on multiple holidays during that time, involving air travel (which carries the GREATEST risk of catching COVID).

Telling his daughter he could no longer afford to pay for her school fees, whilst simultaneously posting about a film he was funding for Bianca?

Cancelling his first two court ordered contact sessions to go on holiday with Bianca, despite not having seen his children in over a year.

Arranging constant pap shoots showing how happy he and Bianca were.

Forcing Bianca on his children, despite them being clear that they only wanted to see him.

Exposing all the details of their lives with their abusive mother online for people to salivate over, when he could have chosen to have the court papers sealed.

The list is endless.

He very much carries responsibility for the breakdown in relationship with his daughters.

FlyingUnicornWings · 01/10/2025 15:55

ThisCyanPoet · 01/10/2025 15:52

I have no sympathy for her. This is the transcript of just one piece of evidence that Ioan filed. It was a video that Elsie filmed of Alice and Ella on Ella’s 12th birthday.

Transcription of 6 September 2021 Video received from Elsie
Ella: Screaming and crying
Elsie: “You ok Beans?”
Alice: “You don’t know what you got here and you’re fucking tedious.”
Ella: “You’re supposed to be a Mother!”
Alice: “And your Father is supposed to be a Father!”
Ella: “Mummy! Mummy! You have to stop bringing up Daddy in every single situation when
we said nothing about Daddy!”
Alice: “I am a fucking Mother you bitch! Do you know what it takes to be a fucking Mother?”
Ella: “Right now you’re not acting like one.”
Alice: “Why not?”
Ella:” You’re yelling at your children, you’re telling them that they’re telling lies, you’re not
giving us any voice, you’re, you threatened to leave us!”
Alice: “No, no, no, no, no, I just said that I don’t want anything to do with you anymore. You,
you guys can go and live with your Daddy.”
Ella: “That’s one of the most terrible things you can say to your child, you’re acting like your
Dad right now! You take upon your Dad!”
Alice: “No, I don’t think anyone else has ever been left as alone as I have.”
Ella: “See now, oh my god! Poor me! Poor me! Be a Mother!”
Alice: “You didn’t even listen to what I say! You don’t even listen to what I say.”
Ella: “Oh I listen to everything you say. Be a Mother! Be a Mother!”
Alice: “Gloria’s having you for the rest of the week.

WOW. JFC, those poor poor girls. What a monster.

donaldtrumponlyhasonedancemove · 01/10/2025 15:55

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:38

Yes.

This is the woman Ioan chose to leave his children in the care of whilst he started a new family.

Jesus. Some people really will tie themselves up in knots trying to make it out she's not the architect of her own demise. It's embarrassing. She's a grown woman not a child.

yesvalery · 01/10/2025 15:56

incognitomouse · 01/10/2025 13:24

Watch out she'll be RAGING against Mumsnet soon. She can't cope with the criticism, at all. Yet she repeatedly seems to enjoy making herself look like a tit.

I personally admired the way she didn't take being left by her husband with any kind of restraint or dignity.

I don't understand why you would admire that? He didn't cheat on her, he ended the marriage. And she's made herself look like a lunatic.

Looks like she’s already sent her insta pals here already tbh

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 15:59

DisforDarkChocolate · 30/09/2025 19:37

She's been an absolute monster all her life, feel sorry for her victims.

Have you known her for all of her like? Just curious

bridgetreilly · 01/10/2025 16:02

It is really sad to me that some people are so conditioned to always believe the woman that they are unwilling or unable to see that sometimes the woman is not the victim.

Domestic abuse victim leaves abusive relationship, part of which has involved children being brainwashed to hate them by the abusive partner, attempts reconciliation with children which is constantly sabotaged by the abuser, enters new relationship with non-abusive partner. Yet apparently it’s okay to blame the abuse victim because he’s male? Wow.

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 16:04

Baninarama · 01/10/2025 12:43

She needs a visit from whatever the US version of social services is - she's slurring in that video and wobbling up the hall. I really feel for the girls, who have probably spent time and time again trying to hide their mother's erratic behaviour from friends, yet here it is, all is out in the open. Such a shame she wouldn't let them have their dad in their life and sabotaged their reunification.

Ioan clearly had the patience of a saint and a lot of love for his daughters to put up with her for so long, then pay thousands to try and stay in their lives. Alice has previous form for going postal when something is her fault (parking altercation) and her Instagram is likely carefully curated. This is the real her caught in the wild, unfortunately.

@Vivi0 yes, why would it be safe for Ioan's heavily pregnant wife to be around children that have been conditioned to hate her? Last time they were in a room with her the eldest kicked her dog, trashed her flat by throwing food around, and then shoved her, before claiming she was the victim of an assault and trying to drag Bianca through the courts. Luckily the judge saw through the ruse immediately. How's that not dangerous?

Well these are his kids so maybe he shouldn’t have got his new wife knocked up without making sure his relationship with his daughters was in a good place first. Wouldn’t that be common sense?

DipsyDee · 01/10/2025 16:05

incognitomouse · 01/10/2025 13:24

Watch out she'll be RAGING against Mumsnet soon. She can't cope with the criticism, at all. Yet she repeatedly seems to enjoy making herself look like a tit.

I personally admired the way she didn't take being left by her husband with any kind of restraint or dignity.

I don't understand why you would admire that? He didn't cheat on her, he ended the marriage. And she's made herself look like a lunatic.

Of course he cheated on her

LemonTT · 01/10/2025 16:06

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 15:54

You don’t think that he contributed in any way towards the breakdown of his relationship with his children?

Moving in with a new partner who the children had never even met?

Being very quick to apply for a restraining order against their mum, despite it taking him a year to even start to fight for them in court?

Refusing his daughter’s suggestion of contact at a theme park, because Bianca has a chronic illness and he didn’t want to risk catching COVID, even though he and Bianca were happy enough to go on multiple holidays during that time, involving air travel (which carries the GREATEST risk of catching COVID).

Telling his daughter he could no longer afford to pay for her school fees, whilst simultaneously posting about a film he was funding for Bianca?

Cancelling his first two court ordered contact sessions to go on holiday with Bianca, despite not having seen his children in over a year.

Arranging constant pap shoots showing how happy he and Bianca were.

Forcing Bianca on his children, despite them being clear that they only wanted to see him.

Exposing all the details of their lives with their abusive mother online for people to salivate over, when he could have chosen to have the court papers sealed.

The list is endless.

He very much carries responsibility for the breakdown in relationship with his daughters.

Because you are very fussy about timelines it might be helpful to state that she, Alice, posted her video about blocking contact before any of this happened. She also sent him emails saying he couldn’t see them before any of this happened and threatening him with the police. All well before any of these events happened.

In addition to threatening him with the police and her flashing endeavours she was also making other threats. He has documented these and presented them in court. Some of her then fans have confirmed she was plotting to tell lies and to smear him all long before he mentioned a new girlfriend.

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