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Alice Evans is losing the plot again

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CameForAVacationStayedForTheRevolution · 30/09/2025 18:49

This time at the neighbours in her new flat block. Seems like she parks badly blocking other people in, they leave notes asking her to park better and she goes crackers banging on doors and screaming like a banshee at 2am

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15148429/Let-you-f-ing-b-Watch-Alice-Evans-Ring-doorbell-meltdown-old-woman-neighbours-tell-KATIE-HIND-control-star-terrorising-reveal-disgraceful-behaviour-new-LA-block.html

https://archive.ph/j39ds

obviously all the craziness over her divorce, custody arrangements is well documented and iirc she once lost her shit with someone in a car park , proper road rage/parking rage type incident. She really needs therapy/help.

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WellYouWereMythTaken · 01/10/2025 11:34

Terfandsurf · 30/09/2025 19:34

You feel sorry for a person that behaves in such an appalling manner? Would you feel sorry for a man who did the same, with the excuse that he was upset that his marriage ended?

This in spades. She has no right to behave in such a threatening manner. No one does, man or woman, even if they get were dumped by their spouse several years ago. I can’t begin to imagine what it must be like for her poor girls to live with her and her antics, constantly worrying about what she’s going to do next.

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 01/10/2025 11:34

HerewardtheSleepy · 01/10/2025 08:56

"Looking the worse for wear" is journalese for "looking drunk".

Or Private Eye's "tired and emotional"

Idontjetwashthefucker · 01/10/2025 11:44

WaitingforPoodles · 01/10/2025 11:10

are you?

No. Are you?

ByEdgyHare · 01/10/2025 11:57

itsraining2024 · 01/10/2025 11:28

I’ve never seen her have any positive stories on the daily mail sadly so they’re definitely team Ioan. However if you go on Instagram and see her profile she’s a lovely woman. She has been through a lot and maybe she doesn’t always react well because of it. But she’s not some sort of monster. She adores her children.

Read the court documents. Her behaviour is abusive, both to her ex husband and, sadly, her children. She's unhinged.

HairyToity · 01/10/2025 11:58

Her ex should have been given custody, poor daughters.

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 12:33

itsraining2024 · 01/10/2025 11:28

I’ve never seen her have any positive stories on the daily mail sadly so they’re definitely team Ioan. However if you go on Instagram and see her profile she’s a lovely woman. She has been through a lot and maybe she doesn’t always react well because of it. But she’s not some sort of monster. She adores her children.

Her instagram is a carefully curated set of lies aimed at grifting money from gullible fans who think she’s a “lovely woman who has been through a lot”.

The reality is in the public court papers.

As for ‘adoring her children’, she’s deliberately and maliciously alienated them from their father over years including getting one to tell lies about being assaulted (verified by an independent monitor to be untrue). The only reason she still has custody despite being verifiably abusive to them is because she has damaged their relationship with their father to the point it would be more damaging to place them with him. That’s not ‘adoring her children’, that’s seeing them as her property to treat as she chooses.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 01/10/2025 12:33

Terfandsurf · 30/09/2025 19:43

She is regularly paid by the press to document her ‘struggles’. She is happy to lie to people about her finances, pretending she’s broke when her annual income is over £100k. The woman is a monster who has destroyed the mental health of her own children. All that because she could no longer control and abuse her ex-husband.

Over £100k? But she had a go fund me recently didn’t she?

yesvalery · 01/10/2025 12:33

itsraining2024 · 01/10/2025 11:28

I’ve never seen her have any positive stories on the daily mail sadly so they’re definitely team Ioan. However if you go on Instagram and see her profile she’s a lovely woman. She has been through a lot and maybe she doesn’t always react well because of it. But she’s not some sort of monster. She adores her children.

What are you on about? She’s constantly being paid for article written about her in the DM vilifying her ex husband, and his new wife. The court documents are eye opening if you actually want to hear the truth. I suspect not though.

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 12:34

HairyToity · 01/10/2025 11:58

Her ex should have been given custody, poor daughters.

She’s brainwashed them to the point that even contact is difficult. It’s shocking what she’s done to those poor girls.

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 12:36

DisforDarkChocolate · 30/09/2025 19:36

It's probably not safe for him to have his children after what Alice has done to them. Those children have been failed by the LA court system very badly.

It’s not safe for him to have his children?

Are you serious?

He should have made sure his existing children were okay before having any children with anyone else. His children have been failed by HIM very badly.

Baninarama · 01/10/2025 12:43

She needs a visit from whatever the US version of social services is - she's slurring in that video and wobbling up the hall. I really feel for the girls, who have probably spent time and time again trying to hide their mother's erratic behaviour from friends, yet here it is, all is out in the open. Such a shame she wouldn't let them have their dad in their life and sabotaged their reunification.

Ioan clearly had the patience of a saint and a lot of love for his daughters to put up with her for so long, then pay thousands to try and stay in their lives. Alice has previous form for going postal when something is her fault (parking altercation) and her Instagram is likely carefully curated. This is the real her caught in the wild, unfortunately.

@Vivi0 yes, why would it be safe for Ioan's heavily pregnant wife to be around children that have been conditioned to hate her? Last time they were in a room with her the eldest kicked her dog, trashed her flat by throwing food around, and then shoved her, before claiming she was the victim of an assault and trying to drag Bianca through the courts. Luckily the judge saw through the ruse immediately. How's that not dangerous?

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 12:45

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 01/10/2025 12:33

Over £100k? But she had a go fund me recently didn’t she?

Yep.

She’s also claimed Ioan wasn’t financially supporting her and the children when he was paying substantially more than legally required.

According to the court papers, he had millions in the bank when they married and he’s now broke and being supported by his new wife.

That’s not all on her - living in LA is expensive but it shows her whole ‘he’s not paying’ / ‘he’s not paying enough’ is because he doesn’t have the money.

She wants to be supported / paid off like the wife of an A list movie star and he isn’t (and that’s before the damage to his career she’s caused by her unhinged rants).

The switch from ‘he’s obviously secretly gay’ to ‘he’s a cheating scumbag who is trying to make his babies homeless for that* *[slur]’ when she found out that he’d started seeing Bianca (after their separation no matter what she now claims) was quite funny. Not for Ioan, I suspect since both are provably untrue.

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 12:50

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 12:36

It’s not safe for him to have his children?

Are you serious?

He should have made sure his existing children were okay before having any children with anyone else. His children have been failed by HIM very badly.

They are physically violent, cause damage, make false allegations and one has previously run out of the building after doing the previous list.

Alice has brainwashed them to the point having them live with them is dangerous for both Ioan and Bianca and also dangerous for the girls as they have demonstrated they will put themselves in dangerous situations during altercations with their father and stepmother.

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 12:52

Baninarama · 01/10/2025 12:43

She needs a visit from whatever the US version of social services is - she's slurring in that video and wobbling up the hall. I really feel for the girls, who have probably spent time and time again trying to hide their mother's erratic behaviour from friends, yet here it is, all is out in the open. Such a shame she wouldn't let them have their dad in their life and sabotaged their reunification.

Ioan clearly had the patience of a saint and a lot of love for his daughters to put up with her for so long, then pay thousands to try and stay in their lives. Alice has previous form for going postal when something is her fault (parking altercation) and her Instagram is likely carefully curated. This is the real her caught in the wild, unfortunately.

@Vivi0 yes, why would it be safe for Ioan's heavily pregnant wife to be around children that have been conditioned to hate her? Last time they were in a room with her the eldest kicked her dog, trashed her flat by throwing food around, and then shoved her, before claiming she was the victim of an assault and trying to drag Bianca through the courts. Luckily the judge saw through the ruse immediately. How's that not dangerous?

@Vivi0 yes, why would it be safe for Ioan's heavily pregnant wife to be around children that have been conditioned to hate her? Last time they were in a room with her the eldest kicked her dog, trashed her flat by throwing food around, and then shoved her, before claiming she was the victim of an assault and trying to drag Bianca through the courts. Luckily the judge saw through the ruse immediately. How's that not dangerous?

And no one thought about any of this before deciding that having a child together would be a great idea?

Ioan and his wife have put themselves in this situation, no one else.

Ioan’s children need him. They were here long before Bianca. Their wellbeing should be important to him, as their father. He should have prioritised them when he split from their mum, not prioritised his new relationship.

He has absolutely let them down.

As I said, he should have made sure his existing children were okay before having any children with anyone else.

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 12:53

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 12:50

They are physically violent, cause damage, make false allegations and one has previously run out of the building after doing the previous list.

Alice has brainwashed them to the point having them live with them is dangerous for both Ioan and Bianca and also dangerous for the girls as they have demonstrated they will put themselves in dangerous situations during altercations with their father and stepmother.

If I remember correctly, that was all because they explicitly told him that they didn’t want to meet his new girlfriend, Bianca, but he forced her on them regardless.

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 12:56

WaitingforPoodles · 01/10/2025 11:31

I personally admired the way she didn't take being left by her husband with any kind of restraint or dignity. I think that was quite bold, but she has clearly crossed some lines. I don't know though, it must be so humiliating and difficult, I'd probably be tempted to do the same.

Or to put it another way, when her DV victim finally managed to escape her, she followed through on her threat of doing her best to ruin his life.

I tend not to admire domestic abusers even if they happen to be female.

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 13:03

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 12:53

If I remember correctly, that was all because they explicitly told him that they didn’t want to meet his new girlfriend, Bianca, but he forced her on them regardless.

And you think violence, lies and self endangerment, all gleefully egged on by their mother is reasonable? OK, then.

You don’t have to take my word for it - there are thousands of pages of verified court document that show Alice is the aggressor and Ioan is the victim of serious and sustained abuse from Alice.

She told him she’d ruin him and destroy his relationship with his daughters if he left her and she’s done just that with no care at all for the effect on the children.

namechangetheworld · 01/10/2025 13:03

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 12:36

It’s not safe for him to have his children?

Are you serious?

He should have made sure his existing children were okay before having any children with anyone else. His children have been failed by HIM very badly.

This in spades. Alice is clearly nuts but he has hardly crowned himself in glory. Knocking up his much younger girlfriend and flaunting it all over social media while barely seeing his current current children is vile.

MissFancyDay · 01/10/2025 13:06

It's been FIVE YEARS!! For heaven's sake get over him Alice he's moved on.

I think he tried very hard at the beginning of the separation to be fair and moderate with Alice but severely underestimated how far she would go to alienate the daughters. I fear it's to late for them now.

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 13:07

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 13:03

And you think violence, lies and self endangerment, all gleefully egged on by their mother is reasonable? OK, then.

You don’t have to take my word for it - there are thousands of pages of verified court document that show Alice is the aggressor and Ioan is the victim of serious and sustained abuse from Alice.

She told him she’d ruin him and destroy his relationship with his daughters if he left her and she’s done just that with no care at all for the effect on the children.

And you think violence, lies and self endangerment, all gleefully egged on by their mother is reasonable? OK, then.

They are children. Hurt children. Acting out.

They needed their dad and he chose Bianca.

Terrible.

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 13:10

namechangetheworld · 01/10/2025 13:03

This in spades. Alice is clearly nuts but he has hardly crowned himself in glory. Knocking up his much younger girlfriend and flaunting it all over social media while barely seeing his current current children is vile.

They won’t see him because of their mother’s brainwashing and he and Bianca post a tiny percentage of the amount Alice does.

He has tried to see the children more they won’t have it and attempts to get them into therapy have been blocked by Alice in multiple ways, including her faking a heart attack in one of the family reunification sessions.

MissFancyDay · 01/10/2025 13:12

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 13:07

And you think violence, lies and self endangerment, all gleefully egged on by their mother is reasonable? OK, then.

They are children. Hurt children. Acting out.

They needed their dad and he chose Bianca.

Terrible.

No one should have to stay in an abusive marriage. He wanted shared custody, she wouldn't allow it. Unfortunately in California it seems easy to get away with parental alienation.

Bumcake · 01/10/2025 13:13

Cindyyyy · 30/09/2025 19:22

What does the article say?

What a strange question.

CandidHedgehog · 01/10/2025 13:16

Vivi0 · 01/10/2025 13:07

And you think violence, lies and self endangerment, all gleefully egged on by their mother is reasonable? OK, then.

They are children. Hurt children. Acting out.

They needed their dad and he chose Bianca.

Terrible.

No, they need parents. Instead they have Alice manipulating them into hating their father because she cares more about hurting the victim who has dared to escape her than she does about the welfare of her children. Which means they don’t have any stable parental figures in their life.

That’s not ‘choosing Bianca’. Alice was alienating the girls from Ioan before there was any mention of her. Decent mothers facilitate their children’s relationship with their father because that’s best for the child. Alice is incapable of putting her children first. She only thinks of me, me, me.

TheatricalLife · 01/10/2025 13:22

She's absolutely shit faced in that video. Wobbling, slurring, making little sense.
She has done some really shit and stupid things, but I can't help but have some sympathy with anyone who has got themselves into the state she has. It can't be a pleasant way to live. The kids have been through the absolute wringer over the past five years with these two for parents. It's a real shame.

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