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Labour are lifting the 2 child benefit cap

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PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:43

AIBU that this is a terrible decision?

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clipboardz · 30/09/2025 20:51

If you want real cash, tax actual wealth—not the £200 that keeps an 80-year-old alive in January

Wealth is assets which includes housing so some of our old are very wealthy...

The country needs funding, but taking pensions isn’t the right solution.

The triple lock should be paused.

A better approach would be for everyone to contribute by paying significantly higher taxes on everything, including food.

Increase VAT?

HorsesDuvets · 30/09/2025 20:52

I fucking despair at the bollocks spouted about children living in poverty having poor outcomes and therefore giving their parents money will mean good outcomes.

Generally, shit parents = shit outcomes for children.

The fact that shit parents often also = poverty is incidental.

If Labour are going ahead with this, the money needs to come from slashing public sector costs.

Start by massively cutting public sector pensions and reducing public sector paid holidays and sickness pay to the same level as the average rate in the private sector.

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 20:52

80smonster · 30/09/2025 20:46

Maybe they will axe UC instead? Something has to give.

I can’t see this happening. Idk how they’re paying for this, maybe borrowing.

TiredofLDN · 30/09/2025 20:53

Ramdogs · 30/09/2025 20:50

The £ you quoted is child benefit, this is NOT subject to a 2 child cap. They are proposing to scrap the 2 child cap on Universal Credit. Roughly an extra £290 per month for each child. Generally for the unemployed or those on low earnings. I wish the news would get this across properly so you could understand why this is unfair.

Apologies.
But I still don’t think it’s unfair.
I will never think children being lifted out of poverty “isn’t fair”.

TopPocketFind · 30/09/2025 20:53

Children shouldn't be living in poverty but we don't want to pay for them not to live in poverty

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 20:54

@MrsSkylerWhite the birth rate isn't 1.6 so plenty aren't having 2 dc or any.

RedRiverShore5 · 30/09/2025 20:54

I don't think the government and media help by calling it the two child benefit cap, it just adds to the confusion.

Nestingbirds · 30/09/2025 20:54

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/09/2025 20:50

(Have you been to Dubai and Singapore? The heat excludes them for me. Bloody awful)

I have actually lived in both, and other countries and they have an extraordinary quality of life. NZ and Australia are also options for most.

BurntBroccoli · 30/09/2025 20:55

Just in case Reform voters aren’t aware and are complaining - this is one of the things that Farage will do too!

Labour are lifting the 2 child benefit cap
Upstartled · 30/09/2025 20:55

The tfr in England and Wales is 1.44

Nestingbirds · 30/09/2025 20:55

TopPocketFind · 30/09/2025 20:53

Children shouldn't be living in poverty but we don't want to pay for them not to live in poverty

This is going to INCREASE the number of children in poverty!!!

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 20:56

@Gingernessy this policy isn't why you are taxed to the hilt

SwirlingAroundSleep · 30/09/2025 20:56

I agree in theory but in reality it means many households on UC will have far more expendable income than me and my DP who work in well paid jobs (certainly not six figures) and that to me seems utterly crap. Why bother going to work as a teacher all week when we cut both just cut our hours to 16 and claim universal credit for us and our 5 kids and be far better off.

Ramdogs · 30/09/2025 20:57

TiredofLDN · 30/09/2025 20:53

Apologies.
But I still don’t think it’s unfair.
I will never think children being lifted out of poverty “isn’t fair”.

It’s very unfair that working parents are making hard choices about whether or not they can afford more children. Whilst if they lift the cap, the unemployed can have more children safe in the knowledge they will automatically get a net £290 monthly income increase. What working person can say that happened when they went on maternity leave?

ByQuaintTraybake · 30/09/2025 20:57

Kids already born suffer from the policy. I support this decision.

DIYagainstMould · 30/09/2025 20:57

Figgygal · 30/09/2025 18:51

is an extra £17 a week towards the 3/4/5 child really going to lift these families out of poverty sufficiently to break the cycle they may find themselves in?

3 to 4 kids and that is a decent amount to some ....

Dawnb19 · 30/09/2025 20:57

Hopefully they will just keep it as is it. I work and decided to just have the two children as I couldn't afford a 3rd plus the house isn't big enough. I was on universal credit and I know you can only receive a certain amount before you are benefit capped. I'm not sure it would mean a lot more money for people as they will get capped. Councils will also have to build bigger house.

PraisebetoGod · 30/09/2025 20:57

BurntBroccoli · 30/09/2025 20:55

Just in case Reform voters aren’t aware and are complaining - this is one of the things that Farage will do too!

Yes he wants to increase the amount of British children. Benefits won't be extended to immigrants.

BettysRoasties · 30/09/2025 20:57

HorsesDuvets · 30/09/2025 20:52

I fucking despair at the bollocks spouted about children living in poverty having poor outcomes and therefore giving their parents money will mean good outcomes.

Generally, shit parents = shit outcomes for children.

The fact that shit parents often also = poverty is incidental.

If Labour are going ahead with this, the money needs to come from slashing public sector costs.

Start by massively cutting public sector pensions and reducing public sector paid holidays and sickness pay to the same level as the average rate in the private sector.

Exactly. A lot of those children in poverty are because the continued actions or lack of actions by the parents. The same attitude they put on their children’s lives and education.

Oldest child becomes the baby sitter and cleaner and cook. Responsible for getting the others up and to school. Sharing tiny amounts of food. But you know what mum/dad always has a bottle and a spliff. Children often had the latest nike trainers from the back of a lorry and someone’s stolen bike.

Because they are raised that way.

There are more deliberate poverty family’s due to parents failure than those in poverty desperately trying to dig themselves up. Those trying to dig up tend to be those who ended up there via redundancy sudden unexpected death of partner or sudden divorce.

Holluschickie · 30/09/2025 20:58

PraisebetoGod · 30/09/2025 20:57

Yes he wants to increase the amount of British children. Benefits won't be extended to immigrants.

In fact, he wants to throw out legal immigrants. So not them.

Mrspatmoresapprentice · 30/09/2025 20:58

TomatoSandwiches · 30/09/2025 19:29

Do you not realise there are more people WORKING that claim UC than people who aren't.

This is simply not true. 34% of people who claim UC are in any kind of work.

Lockdownsceptic · 30/09/2025 20:58

It is not fair that people in work have to limit their family size when people who do not work get more money for an additional child.
When we are as rich a country as people think we are we can afford to be generous. Till then we have to limit the benefits bill.

Blondeshavemorefun · 30/09/2025 20:58

So this means uc will now pay out for 3 /4/5/6/ etc kids instead of 2

is that right ?

Gingernessy · 30/09/2025 20:59

SwirlingAroundSleep · 30/09/2025 20:56

I agree in theory but in reality it means many households on UC will have far more expendable income than me and my DP who work in well paid jobs (certainly not six figures) and that to me seems utterly crap. Why bother going to work as a teacher all week when we cut both just cut our hours to 16 and claim universal credit for us and our 5 kids and be far better off.

Agreed
And it will encourage some to do exactly that.

BettysRoasties · 30/09/2025 20:59

Blondeshavemorefun · 30/09/2025 20:58

So this means uc will now pay out for 3 /4/5/6/ etc kids instead of 2

is that right ?

Yup.

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