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Labour are lifting the 2 child benefit cap

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PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:43

AIBU that this is a terrible decision?

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nutbrownhare15 · 30/09/2025 18:55

My understanding is it is keeping millions of children in poverty so very happy for my taxes to go towards reducing this

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 18:55

You sure? People who receive child benefit vote, and there’s a lot of them.

The vast majority of the population will have received child benefit, it wasn't even means tested when I was a dc. However this is nothing to do with child benefit

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 18:56

Having dc in poverty is not a good a thing & long term doesn't save money

FLOWER19833 · 30/09/2025 18:56

So people on benefits can have more kids whilst working people will be paying for it. Wonderful

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 18:56

FLOWER19833 · 30/09/2025 18:56

So people on benefits can have more kids whilst working people will be paying for it. Wonderful

Working people get CB too

Vaxtable · 30/09/2025 18:57

Yeppppp · 30/09/2025 18:51

How is the economy “crashing”?

Admittedly, it’s not pulling up trees, but where’s your evidence that it’s “crashing”?

Ok crashing maybe a bit emotive, but all I know is I can’t afford what I used to, food prices are going up again, inflation is growing, there is no growth and Rachel doesn’t have a clue. Absolutely no clue

However having been on the receiving end at the last Labour Government, when I also couldn’t do a lot, and they broke the country, why am I surprised that are not doing well now

PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:57

FLOWER19833 · 30/09/2025 18:56

So people on benefits can have more kids whilst working people will be paying for it. Wonderful

Precisely. Is this all Labour have to defeat Reform?? It’s a terrible look.

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Coconutter24 · 30/09/2025 18:57

Yeppppp · 30/09/2025 18:49

You sure? People who receive child benefit vote, and there’s a lot of them.

I receive child benefit and I wouldn’t vote for labour just because they say the will remove the cap

Superhansrantowindsor · 30/09/2025 18:59

It is completely wrong for children to suffer. They didn’t ask to be born. But we must do more as a society to make people more responsible for their life choices. At present the state is expected to do everything.

The welfare state is supposed to be a safety net. It shouldn’t be used to top up wages because businesses won’t pay enough. It shouldn’t be used to top up rents for greedy landlords. It shouldn’t be a life style choice. What really pisses me off is those in genuine need- the sick and disabled for example- don’t get enough in benefits because too many people just take all the time and make no effort to reduce reliance on the state.

Upstartled · 30/09/2025 18:59

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 18:55

You sure? People who receive child benefit vote, and there’s a lot of them.

The vast majority of the population will have received child benefit, it wasn't even means tested when I was a dc. However this is nothing to do with child benefit

Tagged the wrong post, sorry.

Katemax82 · 30/09/2025 18:59

FLOWER19833 · 30/09/2025 18:56

So people on benefits can have more kids whilst working people will be paying for it. Wonderful

It's about £292 a month UC for an extra child...not exactly enough to warrant a child in itself

Athreedoorwardrobe · 30/09/2025 19:00

MidnightPatrol · 30/09/2025 18:49

I’m conflicted.

Children shouldn’t live in poverty. It’s not their fault they are in that situation. Studies show when not in poverty, their outcomes are better.

But… most households now are making difficult decisions around family size because of affordability.

So - i am not sure it’s right to give unlimited benefits to the family with seven kids who could never afford it, while the dual-working household with a mortgage have had to stick to one because they don’t feel they can sensibly afford another.

There's a difference between choosing to not have another one because you've talked it thru and don't think your finances can stretch to giving all your kids the lifestyle you think they should have if you have more... extra curriculars, days out, uni costs...
And being forced to abort a child you really don't want to because you literally wouldn't be able to basically feed and clothe it.
Surely you can see that?
I don't qualify fir any benefits. I have 3 kids and if I were wealthy I'd have another. But I'm not wealthy so I've taken permanent measures to avoid pregnancy now. This is not the same at all as some women living in poverty go through.
My argument stands that having or not having children should be as much a personal choice as possible rather than something forced on people.
I made the choice not to have more because I wouldn't be able to give them the type of childhood I'd want to financially.. I was never forced to abort a child purely for financial reasons because I absolutely would not be able to meet their basic needs.
I mean even if by some miracle I fell pregnant now despite my husband having had a vasectomy and me having the implant and being nearly 40... I'd still have the option to keep the baby if I made that choice because I absolutely would have the money to at least feed and clothe them as we both have decent jobs and own a home.
It's just not the same scenario that women on benefits are in at all.

TigerRag · 30/09/2025 19:00

I thought the government couldn't afford this and blamed the reason on pip and the planned cuts to pip not going through?

Pumpkinallspice · 30/09/2025 19:00

SusanSHelit · 30/09/2025 18:49

Finally they have done something right! The two child cap only served to keep children in poverty, which is abhorrent in a country as developed as ours. Also the pps point of no one being pushed towards feeling like they need to abort because of finances is a salient point. My child was also conceived on the pill. I would have been devastated if I'd felt I'd had to abort because I couldn't afford to feed him

No, people re producing whilst not in decent jobs, making good financial and contraceptive decisions and not having children in stable relationships is bringing children in poverty.

Throwing a bit more money at feckless families will entrench poverty more not less.

Newsenmum · 30/09/2025 19:01

People will have however many children they have anwyayw. This just reduces poverty.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 30/09/2025 19:01

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 18:56

Working people get CB too

Not necessarily.

Working people don't get CB of one of them is over the threshold, and they are often not entitled to to UC, it's the child element of UC that will be lifted.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 30/09/2025 19:02

PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:57

Precisely. Is this all Labour have to defeat Reform?? It’s a terrible look.

I'm afraid it's only going to help Reform.

Deerfolk · 30/09/2025 19:03

People need to chill out, there is still a benefit cap. So how much do you think people will be getting extra? Not as much as you think.

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 30/09/2025 19:04

PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:49

It’s encouraging entitlement, recklessness and shitty parenting.

Are you saying anyone with more than two children are shitty parents?

Athreedoorwardrobe · 30/09/2025 19:04

Pumpkinallspice · 30/09/2025 19:00

No, people re producing whilst not in decent jobs, making good financial and contraceptive decisions and not having children in stable relationships is bringing children in poverty.

Throwing a bit more money at feckless families will entrench poverty more not less.

There's no statistical evidence or sociological studies that support that claim I'm afraid. Making poor families poorer doesn't somehow motivate them to escape that no.

HoskinsChoice · 30/09/2025 19:05

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 18:50

Kids should not be in poverty. This lifting is a good thing.

That's far too simplistic. Obviously kids should not be in poverty but there are more targeted ways of preventing this. Child benefit is pretty much a universal benefit apart from the mega-rich. It is ridiculous that we will be providing child benefit to families with well above average household incomes. We need to find a way to help just those families in need. Wouldn't it be better to give more to those that actually need it than less but to every family that has 3 kids? Its an appalling waste of money.

Every time I think maybe I voted for the right party, they do something stupid like this, waste yet more money and open the door a little bit more for the racist scum that will vote for Farage.

Upstartled · 30/09/2025 19:05

Deerfolk · 30/09/2025 19:03

People need to chill out, there is still a benefit cap. So how much do you think people will be getting extra? Not as much as you think.

It's costed by the government at £3.5 billion.

Cindyyyy · 30/09/2025 19:05

Whitesapphire · 30/09/2025 18:48

If she does that and raises taxes again it will be the end for Labour.

Not soon enough. How can an election be forced?

HesDeadBenYouCanStopNow · 30/09/2025 19:06

Trickle up economics works better than trickle down, money given to the most poor gets spent because it’s needed and that contributes to the economy. As long as it doesn’t all get swallowed up by payments to big organisations like electric and gas companies

Horsehow · 30/09/2025 19:07

I think there are better ways to spend the money to lift children out of poverty than scrapping the 2 child benefit cap. Investment in sure start etc is meant to be much more cost effective.

It’s a bold move. 65% of the UK public approve of the cap. The cost is thought to be about the same as what the proposed gambling tax will raise - a bit over £2bn.

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