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Labour are lifting the 2 child benefit cap

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PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:43

AIBU that this is a terrible decision?

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clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:50

tax

taxguru · 30/09/2025 19:50

HelenHywater · 30/09/2025 19:37

You do know that the majority of parents who claim universal credit are working?

38/39% is NOT a majority!

arcticpandas · 30/09/2025 19:50

GloryFades · 30/09/2025 19:48

Turns out I was wrong - so duly removing my post!

Edited

Rtft- UC won't be limited to two kids which means around 300 £ more per month for third child.

Sowthegarden · 30/09/2025 19:50

Yeppppp · 30/09/2025 18:49

You sure? People who receive child benefit vote, and there’s a lot of them.

The benefit cap has nothing to do with child benefit!. You can claim child benefit for as many children that you have!

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:50

Most people need benefits because our housing costs and childcare costs are ridiculous. That's the issue

HelenHywater · 30/09/2025 19:51

GloryFades · 30/09/2025 19:48

Turns out I was wrong - so duly removing my post!

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350,000 children will be immediately lifted out of poverty.

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 19:51

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 19:47

Benefit recipients are pro it and they now make up a sizable voting pool.

We are nearly there. More state support, more voters to increase it.

Antimimisti · 30/09/2025 19:51

YANBU.

taxguru · 30/09/2025 19:51

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 19:46

Hopefully in the budget she will increase the minimum working time to qualify from 18 hours to 35. That would help get rid of the culture of not increasing hours so it doesn't affect "my money".

Nail on the head. There should be a short period of low hours, but after, say a year, "full time" or (or nearly) should be a requirement to claim UC. Far too many are working part time and "tweaking" their hours to get full UC by doing the minimum amount of work. It needs stopping.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/09/2025 19:52

TiredofLDN · 30/09/2025 19:42

If you had ever met a child who has survived the care system, you’d know that is bollocks. And just as an economic point, every child in care costs something like 280,000 per year.

Holy crap! That is astonishing.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:52

The UK birth rate is below replacement rate already (1.6, I believe) so in the interests of long-term economic stability I would have thought it's a good thing if some women have three or more children. They're still going to remain very much the minority, though, because children are going out of fashion and big families especially so and the additional money is unlikely to be sufficient incentive to change this.

This post is too logical for this thread!

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 19:52

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:49

All people I know with 3 or more children are struggling to meet their needs.

More insane comments, 3 dc families were incredibly common when I was a dc, needs were met.

Same. I am one of 3. My mum didn't work when we were small. She worked part time when we started school. Got the bog standard £20 or so child benefit that everyone got.

littleorangefox · 30/09/2025 19:52

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 30/09/2025 19:39

Mostly part time though, the magic 18 hours.

There is no "magic 18 hours" Why don't you try researching how UC actually works?

TheCurious0range · 30/09/2025 19:52

Vaxtable · 30/09/2025 18:50

The only safe contraception is abstention. No contraceptive is 100% foolproof and that’s a chance everyone takes when they have sex

Why should the tax payer pick up the tab?

The two child cap should stay , how on earth is it going to be funded when the economy only is crashing

DH has had a vasectomy (he got a text from the nhs saying congratulations you are sterile 😂)and I have some pretty chronic fertility issues so I think we're pretty safe.

We also stopped at one, I'm a higher rate tax payer and DH has exceeded the threshold this year. We both grew up in very poor environments with parents who had no qualifications etc but who always worked hard often in multiple low paid jobs and never claimed a thing. I absolutely think the cap should stay. People need to make responsible choices.

CrispieCake · 30/09/2025 19:52

Personally, I take the view that it is not the role of the state to fund people's choices. And it's unfair on me, as a single person with no children, that I'm expected to fund other people's children, when those same people would not care if something bad happened to me, or if I died.

This is short-sighted. We need future taxpayers to fund the public services and pensions we all rely on.

AliceMaforethought · 30/09/2025 19:52

This is a nonsense. They will suffer for this, I hope they don't go through with it. The cap was one of the few decisions I thought that the Tories got right.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 30/09/2025 19:53

It used to be the magic 16 hours.

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BluntPlumHam · 30/09/2025 19:53

Sasha07 · 30/09/2025 19:43

Sorry this long.
Everyone speaks from their own experience, so from mine, I'm disappointed. I can name 5 local families instantly who bred for benefits and barely played or have any connection to their children. There's one with 5 kids to almost each a different dad. The money went on their cars/drugs/drink/dogs. Now those kids are grown up, everyone is on PIP for 'bad backs' while still working on the side, tip runs, cutting grass etc, having personalised number plates, big cars, etc.

Two of the families are brothers, they share what to say/do with their friends, to get the most benefit money and laugh about 'why should I work?' Sickening. Half the kids were feral growing up, as they knew no better. Now they're having kids, toddlers left in the garden bored while they smoke weed inside/on the doorstep.
That's where my mind goes to when I hear about the cap. First child gets all new stuff, the following babies reuse that stuff. The extra money benefits the parents (bad) habits and the kids living on Happy Shopper nuggets and crisps.

Maybe depends where you live, but when I was a single parent on benefits, my kids were wearing new Next clothes, eating meat from the butchers, new toys... I had plenty of money. The ones who drank/smoked/drugs/expensive dogs, had their children in second hand clothes, crying poverty. It's parenting that really needs worked on imo. Only in an ideal world does the money benefit the kids. Unfortunately, it's the parents lifestyle that keeps kids in poverty from my personal experience.

I think this is a good insight. For the first case you mentioned is why I’m against this but then I’m also for it because of the example you gave where your children were looked after as a result.

People fall on hard times without reason or rhyme so I’m for it but I have personally witnessed the bred for benefits and it is absolutely horrible.

Nestingbirds · 30/09/2025 19:53

Whitesapphire · 30/09/2025 18:48

If she does that and raises taxes again it will be the end for Labour.

This a 100% ⬆️

OnePlumQuail · 30/09/2025 19:53

HelenHywater · 30/09/2025 19:51

350,000 children will be immediately lifted out of poverty.

Only on paper.

TheCurious0range · 30/09/2025 19:53

HelenHywater · 30/09/2025 19:51

350,000 children will be immediately lifted out of poverty.

If you believe all of those parents will spend that extra money on the children you are very naive.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/09/2025 19:53

arcticpandas · 30/09/2025 19:48

Well high earners don't have time to raise several children. Or should 3+ children be reserved to the likes of Angelina Jolie who got nannies to take care of them? I personally don't think anyone should have more than 2 children because financials aside children need time with their parents. All people I know with 3 or more children are struggling to meet their needs.

Did she have 3 children or adopt some?

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 19:54

CrispieCake · 30/09/2025 19:52

Personally, I take the view that it is not the role of the state to fund people's choices. And it's unfair on me, as a single person with no children, that I'm expected to fund other people's children, when those same people would not care if something bad happened to me, or if I died.

This is short-sighted. We need future taxpayers to fund the public services and pensions we all rely on.

Are you sure there will be the jobs when the dc born today get to 18 and over?

smilingfanatic · 30/09/2025 19:54

Gingernessy · 30/09/2025 19:40

But how much?

Over £23,250 we we expect people to pay for their own care. Seems reasonable for people with more than that (or property assets) to cover their own pension too.

I've had another idea for those sitting on a valuable property but no real liquid funds. They can do an equity release with the gov, and then when they die their property goes into the council pool of housing, or the state can sell it.

I'm going to need to iron all this out, but all you wealthy pensioners deriding child benefit claimants while creaming off the state better hope I don't get voted in!

Holluschickie · 30/09/2025 19:54

They have handed the reins to Farage.

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