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Labour are lifting the 2 child benefit cap

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PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:43

AIBU that this is a terrible decision?

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clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:45

Everyone receives child benefit irrespective of their income so they probably are in receipt of benefits

Nope, you have to have dc for a start and it's means tested

EchoedSilence · 30/09/2025 19:45

Gingernessy · 30/09/2025 19:42

Yes and claimed by those who work the bare minimum they have to.
Why else would we need UC conditionality?

Because some workplaces pay shit wages.

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 19:46

MalinandGo · 30/09/2025 19:40

Of course they’d be against it. That’s me point.

Who is for it? Mn? That’s standard. There’s no limit to how much people want to spend.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/09/2025 19:46

Allthatshines1992 · 30/09/2025 19:43

Everyone receives child benefit irrespective of their income so they probably are in receipt of benefits.

No they don’t. You have to tick the box as to whether you want to pay it back through the tax system or not receive it in the first place, once you’re over a certain household income.
It was the same when our kids were kids (both adults now).
So, they do not receive any benefits.
(Not that there’s anything wrong with receiving them.)

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 19:46

Gingernessy · 30/09/2025 19:44

Yes doing the bare minimum or we wouldn't need UC conditionality.

Hopefully in the budget she will increase the minimum working time to qualify from 18 hours to 35. That would help get rid of the culture of not increasing hours so it doesn't affect "my money".

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:46

I stronglyly resent paying as much tax as I do when public services are so incredibly shit.

They aren't shit because of people having multiple dc on benefits though

H95 · 30/09/2025 19:46

PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:49

It’s encouraging entitlement, recklessness and shitty parenting.

What utter nonsense. How on earth does child benefit encourage 'shitty parenting'

shuggles · 30/09/2025 19:47

PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:43

AIBU that this is a terrible decision?

I agree with you OP. It's a terrible decision and I am disappointed at this news.

To me, this just seems like a sad attempt to pull support away from Refrom. Reform was going to scrap the two child cap to try to encourage British mothers to have British babies (encouraging more babies is the classic hallmark of rightwing regimes throughout history).

Personally, I take the view that it is not the role of the state to fund people's choices. And it's unfair on me, as a single person with no children, that I'm expected to fund other people's children, when those same people would not care if something bad happened to me, or if I died.

Wiltingasparagusfern · 30/09/2025 19:47

Gingernessy · 30/09/2025 19:31

Better hope the poor babies have a better work ethic than their parents.

Ah, you’re one of those mugs. I can’t help you I’m afraid. But I know who I’d rather have reproducing for the future good of the nation, and it’s not all the people so incapable of critical thinking that they believe what they read in the rightwing press 😆

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 19:47

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 19:46

Who is for it? Mn? That’s standard. There’s no limit to how much people want to spend.

Benefit recipients are pro it and they now make up a sizable voting pool.

indigovapour · 30/09/2025 19:47

This sort of thing can only make sense if they’re sure they won’t need to put up taxes. They’re simply toast if they increase spending and increase taxes.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/09/2025 19:47

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:44

Maybe depends where you live, but when I was a single parent on benefits, my kids were wearing new Next clothes

I have never received any benefits but buy second hand stuff for my dc.

So did we, there’s so much waste.

PraisebetoGod · 30/09/2025 19:48

CorneliaCupp · 30/09/2025 19:41

I HAVE grown up around these people and I don't agree with you at all

So have I and it's interesting that you have a different experience. That's life I guess!

arcticpandas · 30/09/2025 19:48

PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 19:32

Getting some extra money might mean you get more food and probably go a bit more overboard at Christmas, but it's unlikely to mean the children suddenly become well educated, aspirational and later on, contributing members of society.

👏THIS is what I was trying to say. But you worded it much better. Encouraging low earners to have more kids is not good for society.

Well high earners don't have time to raise several children. Or should 3+ children be reserved to the likes of Angelina Jolie who got nannies to take care of them? I personally don't think anyone should have more than 2 children because financials aside children need time with their parents. All people I know with 3 or more children are struggling to meet their needs.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:48

It was the same when our kids were kids (both adults now).

child benefit wasn't means tested until 2013

FoxRedPuppy · 30/09/2025 19:48

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 19:45

Reeves is always happy to announce how she is spending money - much more cagey on who she is going to tax. I'm thinking there should be a trade union tax of £500 per year.

How would a trade union tax work? Who are you taxing?

How about taxing the very rich, 1%, the corporations like Amazon. Even if we just stuck to taxing the billionaires that would be a start.

GloryFades · 30/09/2025 19:48

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 18:50

Kids should not be in poverty. This lifting is a good thing.

Turns out I was wrong - so duly removing my post!

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 19:48

Wiltingasparagusfern · 30/09/2025 19:47

Ah, you’re one of those mugs. I can’t help you I’m afraid. But I know who I’d rather have reproducing for the future good of the nation, and it’s not all the people so incapable of critical thinking that they believe what they read in the rightwing press 😆

BINGO!!!! The left wing "critical thinking" shutdown.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:49

All people I know with 3 or more children are struggling to meet their needs.

More insane comments, 3 dc families were incredibly common when I was a dc, needs were met.

HelenHywater · 30/09/2025 19:49

Gingernessy · 30/09/2025 19:44

Yes doing the bare minimum or we wouldn't need UC conditionality.

Where are your statistics for that?

We need UC top ups because salaries are too low to support people, childcare is too expensive, rent is too much and food and utilities are unaffordable for many people.

You lot need to do your research instead of spouting such utter rubbish.

(cue 16 people coming on and talking about their mothers, next door neighbour's auntie who hasn't worked a day in her life and keeps popping out a child in order to live a life of luxury on benefit)

CrispieCake · 30/09/2025 19:49

This is a non-issue. Many women can't be convinced to have one or two children let alone three. There aren't that many women who want three kids and a very small number who want 4+.

The UK birth rate is below replacement rate already (1.6, I believe) so in the interests of long-term economic stability I would have thought it's a good thing if some women have three or more children. They're still going to remain very much the minority, though, because children are going out of fashion and big families especially so and the additional money is unlikely to be sufficient incentive to change this.

Brainstorm23 · 30/09/2025 19:49

Exactly..a couple earning £50k each with household income of £100k get it while a household with a single earner at £60k get nothing. The rationale is to encourage mums to work but in my opinion it's fundamentally unfair.

Bumblebee72 · 30/09/2025 19:49

FoxRedPuppy · 30/09/2025 19:48

How would a trade union tax work? Who are you taxing?

How about taxing the very rich, 1%, the corporations like Amazon. Even if we just stuck to taxing the billionaires that would be a start.

Each member of the trade union. They are all about the "greater good" so can help dig their political masters out of the hole they have made.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:49

@FoxRedPuppy how do you take global billionaires without global initiatives?

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 19:49

EchoedSilence · 30/09/2025 19:45

Because some workplaces pay shit wages.

Shit wages used to be enough to live on though. The cost of living now means that people in the very important but low paid jobs get tops ups. Then blamed for their own poor misfortune.

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