Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Labour are lifting the 2 child benefit cap

1000 replies

PuppyKeep · 30/09/2025 18:43

AIBU that this is a terrible decision?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
16
clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:55

They have handed the reins to Farage.

Farage supports this!!!!

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 19:55

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:52

The UK birth rate is below replacement rate already (1.6, I believe) so in the interests of long-term economic stability I would have thought it's a good thing if some women have three or more children. They're still going to remain very much the minority, though, because children are going out of fashion and big families especially so and the additional money is unlikely to be sufficient incentive to change this.

This post is too logical for this thread!

It’s really not. Logical would be to consider the workplace in 18 years.

PropertyD · 30/09/2025 19:56

People are naive if they think the extra tax payers money will be spent solely on these people who have more than 2 children.

Something that should be considered as well is that some communities and cultures don’t see an issue in having three plus children. For the women it’s their role in the family. Is Labour trying to appeal to those communities And gain votes?

nowinetimeforme · 30/09/2025 19:56

Yeppppp · 30/09/2025 18:49

You sure? People who receive child benefit vote, and there’s a lot of them.

the 2-child benefit cap is not about child benefit. It’s only means tested benefits, ie universal credit. You get child benefit for all the children you have at the moment.

Screamingabdabz · 30/09/2025 19:56

This will just lead to even more ‘children in poverty’. If people cannot afford more than two kids, they should not be having more than two kids.

Holluschickie · 30/09/2025 19:56

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:55

They have handed the reins to Farage.

Farage supports this!!!!

Gosh does he? I admit I try to avoid anything he says.
Nevertheless, it will still hurt Labour.

HelenHywater · 30/09/2025 19:57

OnePlumQuail · 30/09/2025 19:53

Only on paper.

What does that mean?

Gingernessy · 30/09/2025 19:57

TiredofLDN · 30/09/2025 19:39

I grew up in poverty. Really desperate poverty. Homeless at times as a child. My DM had terrible MH and was a single parent not keeping it together. Didn’t work (until many years later when she got better, went to college and got a job).

Benefits were the safety net that kept me out of care, enabled me to go to sixth form (EMA), and then on to university (I was the first in my family. Graduated from a RG uni with a starred first).

Im now a graduate and higher rate taxpayer. I’m also a single parent to one child, and have at times when he was very small had to claim UC top ups for childcare because my salary at that time couldn’t keep up with basic outgoings.

So yeah, I have a better work ethic than my mother, and a better life. I contribute more to the economy and society. And more importantly, my son has a better life than I did. He is securely housed. Goes to school every day. Has never seen domestic violence. Plays extra curricular sports. Has private tuition for his SEND needs. He will (pray god) go on to achieve yet more, and contribute yet more, than I do.

Benefits broke a cycle of poverty for my family. That’s why they make sense. Because for every kid that stays stuck- as some sadly will-, more will get out, just like I did. And then we all benefit.

When my family needed help there wasn't any. My husband got made redundant and after rent I had to pay all bills for 4 of us on the £40 left of my full time weekly wage + £20 child benefit. They wouldn't even give us a free school dinner.
Hubby walked the streets knocking on factory doors looking for a job whilst I worked. I collapsed from lack of food walking to work one morning and thank god even now for the lovely young man that found me and couldn't understand why I was still going to work despite being so ill.
You've used the benefit system exactly as it should be used - when you needed it. Not as a lifestyle choice which many do or we wouldn't need UC conditionality.
I find it hard that a government can hand out so much to people nowadays when my family were deemed so worthless.

Nestingbirds · 30/09/2025 19:58

Another absolute disaster in the making. Just when you think they must have made enough mistakes now to start getting things right, they do something like this! How on earth is it helpful to promote the benefits culture??

Labour seem hellbent on ruining this country irreparably. Next we will be funding welcome parties for the small/big boats.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:58

@EasternStandard you have no idea what the workplace will look like in 18 years plus why on earth do you think this policy will lead to a baby boom?

taxguru · 30/09/2025 19:58

CrispieCake · 30/09/2025 19:52

Personally, I take the view that it is not the role of the state to fund people's choices. And it's unfair on me, as a single person with no children, that I'm expected to fund other people's children, when those same people would not care if something bad happened to me, or if I died.

This is short-sighted. We need future taxpayers to fund the public services and pensions we all rely on.

We need the "right" kind of children who are more likely to become workers and earn enough to pay taxes, not be a "net taker", etc. We certainly don't need more who are more likely to be benefit claimants and non contributors. Quality not quantity!

Meadowfinch · 30/09/2025 19:59

Yeppppp · 30/09/2025 18:49

You sure? People who receive child benefit vote, and there’s a lot of them.

Yes, and a lot of us have stuck at one child because we are responsible and realistic.

Now not keen on paying for others to have children they (and I) can't afford.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 20:00

@Holluschickie

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5yx062pvlvo.amp

Farage wants a baby boom

SisterTeatime · 30/09/2025 20:00

I have mixed feelings about this. But what I genuinely don’t understand is how the govt can keep the triple lock, the WFA, not make any of the changes to benefits they were flip flopping on, and potentially do this as well. It all feels so random and also, profligate.

If it made economic sense to do so, I’d rather this money was spent on Sure Start or something similar, or used to support social workers in some way, or to improve school meals or something - to benefit children in a broader way.

HelenHywater · 30/09/2025 20:00

taxguru · 30/09/2025 19:58

We need the "right" kind of children who are more likely to become workers and earn enough to pay taxes, not be a "net taker", etc. We certainly don't need more who are more likely to be benefit claimants and non contributors. Quality not quantity!

But it's poverty which has the biggest (negative ) impact on children's outcomes and will eventually cost the state more. The easiest, most cost effective way to lift children out of poverty and give them the opportunities to succeed, is to abolish the 2 child limit and provide an adequate level of financial support to those who need it most.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 20:00

@taxguru not every dc who has a parent on UC will grow up to be a bum

Nestingbirds · 30/09/2025 20:01

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:58

@EasternStandard you have no idea what the workplace will look like in 18 years plus why on earth do you think this policy will lead to a baby boom?

I agree with Eastern. It won’t even take 18’ years before AI becomes instrumental in mass unemployment. She is completely correct.

ToodleP1P · 30/09/2025 20:01

taxguru · 30/09/2025 19:58

We need the "right" kind of children who are more likely to become workers and earn enough to pay taxes, not be a "net taker", etc. We certainly don't need more who are more likely to be benefit claimants and non contributors. Quality not quantity!

You do realise that anyone on less than £41k is a "net taker"?
That covers people like nurses and teachers.... and junior doctors.

CrispieCake · 30/09/2025 20:01

taxguru · 30/09/2025 19:58

We need the "right" kind of children who are more likely to become workers and earn enough to pay taxes, not be a "net taker", etc. We certainly don't need more who are more likely to be benefit claimants and non contributors. Quality not quantity!

I disagree to an extent. Imo what society really needs is a broad spectrum of people to do all sorts of roles, both skilled and unskilled. There isn't an unlimited pool of skilled, well-paid jobs. Low-paid and casual workers are just as important to the functioning of society.

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 20:02

But it's poverty which has the biggest (negative ) impact on children's outcomes and will eventually cost the state more.

Exactly, investing in dc is literally investing in the future of the country. Something we haven't done for years.

I say this as someone who has never received benefits and would have loved more than 2 dc but can't afford it.

EasternStandard · 30/09/2025 20:02

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 19:58

@EasternStandard you have no idea what the workplace will look like in 18 years plus why on earth do you think this policy will lead to a baby boom?

It’s fairly easy to see re AI. Baby boom? That sounds like prosperity, no I don’t think it’ll lead to that even if some benefits keep increasing.

Anyone saying we need more dc though, I don’t think
so.

FLOWER19833 · 30/09/2025 20:02

MyLimeGuide · 30/09/2025 19:11

And working people dont have kids because they cant afford it. And the cycle of shit parenting grows and grows....

And the shit and unresponsible parents will have more money to spent on nails,fake lips and botox, doubt they will even spend it on their kids needs anyway

Gingernessy · 30/09/2025 20:02

Wiltingasparagusfern · 30/09/2025 19:47

Ah, you’re one of those mugs. I can’t help you I’m afraid. But I know who I’d rather have reproducing for the future good of the nation, and it’s not all the people so incapable of critical thinking that they believe what they read in the rightwing press 😆

And you're one of those who can't have a normal conversation without insults

clipboardz · 30/09/2025 20:03

@Nestingbirds but the post I called logical said that this policy wouldn't cause a baby boom. It won't, so how is agreeing with that logic wrong?

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.