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Sick of the lie 'It's just illegal immigrants people don't like.'

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 26/09/2025 22:08

This is just not true.

Reform, the flag flyers and protesters are racists. All of this 'It's just the illegals we want gone.' is a lie to excuse their racism.

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Tallawah · 27/09/2025 03:30

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Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:31

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:25

I don't know the actual statistics myself, but in my area I believe it's due to the visibility rather than statistics. I live in a tourist area and ALL of the local hotels are now IPAS (asylum-seeker) centres, full of young men.

Do you not think you should find out?
Before supporting people that are using made up statistics?

And the unfortunate problem I find I have is that I am very honest, so I will tell you the limitations of those statistics.

Racists, idiots and people trying to make money will not.

So the truth is automatically at a disadvantage.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:34

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:21

Ok but moderate, civilised people can't control those people, just like they can't control the government or the amount of immigrants coming in.

You can call them out. You can inform them.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:37

All it takes for evil to flourish is for good people to stand by and do nothing.

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 03:38

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I’m not shocked that people are as racist as they are, I’ve heard it my whole life in mumbles and veiled comments and so on, what has shocked me a little is how comfortable so many people are to just say these things out loud. Someone called a woman at the park a ‘p*ki’ yesterday. I don’t think I’ve heard that word out loud like that since the 90s. That did shock me.
Im so sorry that you have to prewarn your kids about this stuff, it’s really wrong.

JaneEyre40 · 27/09/2025 03:41

Slightyamusedandsilly · 26/09/2025 22:08

This is just not true.

Reform, the flag flyers and protesters are racists. All of this 'It's just the illegals we want gone.' is a lie to excuse their racism.

100%

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:42

I've had shit left on my doorstep 3 days last week.

This stopped after the person who took down the flag left outside my house told everyone in my street it was them and not me.

I dont feel reassured by this.

But I do now feel I have a friend.

parmaviolas · 27/09/2025 03:43

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:34

You can call them out. You can inform them.

So are the ones who aren't racist or making money just stupid, or are they misinformed? Presumably misinformed if you think informing them will help. (Perhaps you would say they're too 'stupid' to recognise misinformation?)

Either way telling them they are just evil and racist won't change their minds in the slightest.

Out of your three categories, aren't the only votes we have any chance of actually changing those of the 'stupid' or 'misinformed' people, not the racists or the ones making money? In which case I think we're back to having to engage and not just call people racist and write them off - if we actually want those votes to change, and not be solidified and entrenched for reform.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:45

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:31

Do you not think you should find out?
Before supporting people that are using made up statistics?

And the unfortunate problem I find I have is that I am very honest, so I will tell you the limitations of those statistics.

Racists, idiots and people trying to make money will not.

So the truth is automatically at a disadvantage.

Why are you assuming I'm supporting people using made up statistics?

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:46

parmaviolas · 27/09/2025 03:43

So are the ones who aren't racist or making money just stupid, or are they misinformed? Presumably misinformed if you think informing them will help. (Perhaps you would say they're too 'stupid' to recognise misinformation?)

Either way telling them they are just evil and racist won't change their minds in the slightest.

Out of your three categories, aren't the only votes we have any chance of actually changing those of the 'stupid' or 'misinformed' people, not the racists or the ones making money? In which case I think we're back to having to engage and not just call people racist and write them off - if we actually want those votes to change, and not be solidified and entrenched for reform.

They are racist stupid or making money.

It's not up to me to change that. I can try.

And I hope other people do too.

But we shouldn't lie. They are racist, stupid or making money.

That is real. I don't eat swans. Yet that is in the news on the BBC.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:48

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:45

Why are you assuming I'm supporting people using made up statistics?

I am not assuming. You are explaining away racism.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:51

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:34

You can call them out. You can inform them.

I have done my bit but I don't know any personally, the issue is though that if you call out extremists, but then hold firm to your own concerns about immigration control you still get called racist.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:53

parmaviolas · 27/09/2025 03:43

So are the ones who aren't racist or making money just stupid, or are they misinformed? Presumably misinformed if you think informing them will help. (Perhaps you would say they're too 'stupid' to recognise misinformation?)

Either way telling them they are just evil and racist won't change their minds in the slightest.

Out of your three categories, aren't the only votes we have any chance of actually changing those of the 'stupid' or 'misinformed' people, not the racists or the ones making money? In which case I think we're back to having to engage and not just call people racist and write them off - if we actually want those votes to change, and not be solidified and entrenched for reform.

See, once again, I am being told to be better than the British born people.

I must be kind to them. But they can do or say whatever they like to me. And there is no comeback. If I complain I will just be attacked. Their complaints are valid. Mine are not.

Do you not see that?

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:59

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:51

I have done my bit but I don't know any personally, the issue is though that if you call out extremists, but then hold firm to your own concerns about immigration control you still get called racist.

Well this is the issue fundamentally isn't it?

Corbyn was vilified for talking to terrorists to find peace. But I'm expected to lay down and let racists do their worst. I'm not allowed to even talk. I have to understand.

Why is noone understanding me? Why am I wrong?

Why do you stand for misinformed British born people over me? Why do you think their voice ismore important?

Why do you think my 32 years of working here with the promise that I am treated as a British citizen for my contribution is unimportant?

parmaviolas · 27/09/2025 04:00

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:53

See, once again, I am being told to be better than the British born people.

I must be kind to them. But they can do or say whatever they like to me. And there is no comeback. If I complain I will just be attacked. Their complaints are valid. Mine are not.

Do you not see that?

No. I have not told you to be kind to anyone and neither have I said that their complaints are valid.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 04:01

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:53

See, once again, I am being told to be better than the British born people.

I must be kind to them. But they can do or say whatever they like to me. And there is no comeback. If I complain I will just be attacked. Their complaints are valid. Mine are not.

Do you not see that?

Absolutely nothing is going to change until people start to acknowledge that peoples fears are valid, and that for many people they are not coming from a place of racism.

You don't have to do anything. Keep saying whatever you like. But it's going to have the exact opposite effect of what you want.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 04:02

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:59

Well this is the issue fundamentally isn't it?

Corbyn was vilified for talking to terrorists to find peace. But I'm expected to lay down and let racists do their worst. I'm not allowed to even talk. I have to understand.

Why is noone understanding me? Why am I wrong?

Why do you stand for misinformed British born people over me? Why do you think their voice ismore important?

Why do you think my 32 years of working here with the promise that I am treated as a British citizen for my contribution is unimportant?

And you see, if you explain that away, I'm afraid that is racist.

You are fundamentally saying I am lesser. My voice is lesser. My contribution is lesser.

Because, simply, of where I was born.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 04:04

kkloo · 27/09/2025 04:01

Absolutely nothing is going to change until people start to acknowledge that peoples fears are valid, and that for many people they are not coming from a place of racism.

You don't have to do anything. Keep saying whatever you like. But it's going to have the exact opposite effect of what you want.

And you are saying my fears are not valid.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 04:05

Racist
Stupid
Making money somewhere.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 04:09

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 04:04

And you are saying my fears are not valid.

Your fears of racism and racist attacks are valid and I am sorry you are experiencing that.

That does not mean that I will agree that people who have concerns about uncontrolled immigration are racist or that I'll accept people being mislabelled.

Many people in Ireland who have a problem with this are immigrants as well.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 04:10

kkloo · 27/09/2025 04:01

Absolutely nothing is going to change until people start to acknowledge that peoples fears are valid, and that for many people they are not coming from a place of racism.

You don't have to do anything. Keep saying whatever you like. But it's going to have the exact opposite effect of what you want.

But the fears are not real. What do they fear that is real?

parmaviolas · 27/09/2025 04:11

I think you're missing the point that people do understand you, and understand that your voice is not lesser and your contribution is as good as anyone else's, and that is why they don't want reform to get in, and that is why they think changing the minds of the people who are in danger of voting reform is so important.

And then we get back to how you change minds, what might work and what won't.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 04:14

parmaviolas · 27/09/2025 04:00

No. I have not told you to be kind to anyone and neither have I said that their complaints are valid.

Good, thankyou

Sorry, there are two people quoting me and it's late i got confused!

hattie43 · 27/09/2025 04:14

JollyGreenCompliant · 26/09/2025 22:18

Completely agree.

The thing I don’t get about racists is their unwillingness to own it - they all deny being racist. They don’t even have the balls to admit it.

What would it actually achieve if people did say they were racist .

Ablushingcrow · 27/09/2025 04:14

Uggbootsforever · 26/09/2025 22:15

I’m concerned about immigration. I’m not racist, I’m part of a happy multicultural family.

Our country is far too small to keep allowing net 900,000 immigration every year. I value green spaces, food security, a lower flood risk, wildlife, clean air. I don’t want the country ultimately becoming a large city state with the odd park where gardens are for the rich, and I don’t think we are obliged to do so in order to accommodate people from other countries who feel it is their right to live here. We need farmland, importing more and more produce is hideous for the environment and leaves us vulnerable. Our roads and infrastructure are barely coping as it is, and we’ve killed off hundreds of species of native wildlife due to pollution and a lack of habitat.

It’s about so much more than politics and skin colour. In fact those things barely register with me.

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