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Sick of the lie 'It's just illegal immigrants people don't like.'

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 26/09/2025 22:08

This is just not true.

Reform, the flag flyers and protesters are racists. All of this 'It's just the illegals we want gone.' is a lie to excuse their racism.

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Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 02:38

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 27/09/2025 02:10

I hate the way my local area is changing so quickly. It is unrecognisable and the more the locals move out the worse it becomes. Rubbish and litter everywhere, all local businesses replaced with take aways and vape shops! Permission for a mosque was refused so now its an “ islamic education centre” that happens to be packed full at prayer times 🤷‍♀️. Causes traffic and parking chaos! If that makes you think im racist i really couldn’t give a shit!

It is racist.

Why aren't you trying to help litter clean? How do you know who is dropping the litter?

The only real complaint you have that is verifiable is that people are praying.

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 02:40

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:16

But - nothing happens.

You’ve accomplished nothing. Your calling them names won’t change their feelings on the subject, will it?

Calling them what they are isn’t ‘calling them names’. It isn’t about making them change their minds, it’s about confronting them with what they are.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 02:41

Iwishthiswasnottrue · 27/09/2025 02:10

Why are they being let in?

Why do you really not like them?

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 02:43

Uggbootsforever · 26/09/2025 22:15

I’m concerned about immigration. I’m not racist, I’m part of a happy multicultural family.

Our country is far too small to keep allowing net 900,000 immigration every year. I value green spaces, food security, a lower flood risk, wildlife, clean air. I don’t want the country ultimately becoming a large city state with the odd park where gardens are for the rich, and I don’t think we are obliged to do so in order to accommodate people from other countries who feel it is their right to live here. We need farmland, importing more and more produce is hideous for the environment and leaves us vulnerable. Our roads and infrastructure are barely coping as it is, and we’ve killed off hundreds of species of native wildlife due to pollution and a lack of habitat.

It’s about so much more than politics and skin colour. In fact those things barely register with me.

We don’t have a net immigration of 900k a year, it was 430k last year.

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 02:49

Plastictreees · 26/09/2025 22:20

Yes they take great offence to it, lots of huffing, puffing and protestations.

If you don’t want to be called a racist, don’t be one.

Indeed: in discussions about this issue I’ve been called leftie, commie, woke, bleeding heart, Muslim lover, all kinds of things…and I’m totally fine with it, because I am all those things openly and proudly. They on the other hand deny being far right or Islamophobic and they spent hours obfuscating and dancing around a point because they don’t want to say what they mean- that they don’t like brown people.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 02:51

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 02:35

As it's completely disingenuous to say migrants are eating swans. Yet here we are.

Support racist idiots, and get treated like one.

Well I'm Irish, not in the UK and so I don't think anyone has suggested anything about migrants eating swans, but either way I only listen to valid, common sense arguments.

As for saying if you support racist idiots you get treated like one...do you realise that by treating people as racist or whatever it is you're actually more likely to encourage them to eventually have more extremist views even though their views were moderate before?

You're actually actively creating racism when it wasn't there before when you treat people that way.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 02:52

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 02:40

Calling them what they are isn’t ‘calling them names’. It isn’t about making them change their minds, it’s about confronting them with what they are.

Nope, you're actually causing people who have moderate views to become more extreme.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 02:55

kkloo · 27/09/2025 02:51

Well I'm Irish, not in the UK and so I don't think anyone has suggested anything about migrants eating swans, but either way I only listen to valid, common sense arguments.

As for saying if you support racist idiots you get treated like one...do you realise that by treating people as racist or whatever it is you're actually more likely to encourage them to eventually have more extremist views even though their views were moderate before?

You're actually actively creating racism when it wasn't there before when you treat people that way.

As you are encouraging me to have more and more extreme views. You do realise that too presumably?

But because I wasn't born here I'm the issue?
I have been actively harassed in the last few weeks. At my house.

But I'm lesser and should suck it up?

Racist, stupid, or you're making money somewhere.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 02:59

kkloo · 27/09/2025 02:52

Nope, you're actually causing people who have moderate views to become more extreme.

No, by explaining away the situation you are allowing people to think these toxic views are ok.

You are validating their hatred to migrants.

You are contributing to the hatred of innocent people.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:02

I have said nothing for years.

Enough.

I am not the problem.

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 03:03

Octavia64 · 26/09/2025 22:33

There was a lot of concern about immigration when free movement was brought in from the Eastern European countries.

those countries are primarily white.

it is possible to be concerned about immigration and not racist.

there were impacts on government services - I worked in a school at the time and you really did get kids just turning up with virtually no English. It was quite challenging.

Racist, xenophobe, islamaphobe…just different sides of the same coin.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:05

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 03:03

Racist, xenophobe, islamaphobe…just different sides of the same coin.

Exactly!

Which is why the rhetoric is moving from illegal to foreign born.

Racist, stupid, or making money somewhere.

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 03:05

kkloo · 27/09/2025 02:52

Nope, you're actually causing people who have moderate views to become more extreme.

Bullshit. You can’t make someone else be more extreme in their view… they do that, all by themselves.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:07

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 02:55

As you are encouraging me to have more and more extreme views. You do realise that too presumably?

But because I wasn't born here I'm the issue?
I have been actively harassed in the last few weeks. At my house.

But I'm lesser and should suck it up?

Racist, stupid, or you're making money somewhere.

I was specifically referring to people who are simply concerned about rates of immigration and saying how that is not racist.

That shouldn't really cause you to have more extremist views because I'm not throwing out harsh labels in order to try to shut you up, I'm simply explaining basic social psychology because many people don't understand how that actually causes the thing they are so passionately against.

And no, I knew nothing about you before I responded or where you were born.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:08

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 03:05

Bullshit. You can’t make someone else be more extreme in their view… they do that, all by themselves.

It's basic social psychology, literally mountains of research to back it up.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:12

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:08

It's basic social psychology, literally mountains of research to back it up.

And how do you think migrants are feeling right now?

Or does that not matter?

We are expected to be civilised but UK born people are not? How does that make you feel if youre British?

Flomingho · 27/09/2025 03:12

They can dress it up all they want, with their " oh it's only people who are here illegally we want to have deported" but it's blatant racism. I have been shocked and saddened over the past few months and weeks when looking on social media posts at how many people I know IRL seem to think this way.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:16

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:12

And how do you think migrants are feeling right now?

Or does that not matter?

We are expected to be civilised but UK born people are not? How does that make you feel if youre British?

Of course it matters.
Migrants view on it seems to be split in Ireland, I know many migrants who are also worried about immigration control.

I'm not saying you should be civilised and UK born people don't have to be, what I'm saying is that many of the UK born people are (if it's the same as in this country, which I think it is) being civilised about it and are genuinely simply worried about the levels of immigration, and have never behaved in any way that is not civilised, yet people still try to shut them up by shouting 'racist'. And that that is problematic.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:16

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:07

I was specifically referring to people who are simply concerned about rates of immigration and saying how that is not racist.

That shouldn't really cause you to have more extremist views because I'm not throwing out harsh labels in order to try to shut you up, I'm simply explaining basic social psychology because many people don't understand how that actually causes the thing they are so passionately against.

And no, I knew nothing about you before I responded or where you were born.

But other people are throwing out harsh lies.

Not just labels. Lies.

And you are standing for them rather than the truth.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:18

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:16

Of course it matters.
Migrants view on it seems to be split in Ireland, I know many migrants who are also worried about immigration control.

I'm not saying you should be civilised and UK born people don't have to be, what I'm saying is that many of the UK born people are (if it's the same as in this country, which I think it is) being civilised about it and are genuinely simply worried about the levels of immigration, and have never behaved in any way that is not civilised, yet people still try to shut them up by shouting 'racist'. And that that is problematic.

Where are they getting the immigration statistics from? Most of them are not even real. Of course they are worried if they are being fed lies.

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:19

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:18

Where are they getting the immigration statistics from? Most of them are not even real. Of course they are worried if they are being fed lies.

Racist
Stupid
Making money somewhere.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:21

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:16

But other people are throwing out harsh lies.

Not just labels. Lies.

And you are standing for them rather than the truth.

Ok but moderate, civilised people can't control those people, just like they can't control the government or the amount of immigrants coming in.

kkloo · 27/09/2025 03:25

Toastandbutterand · 27/09/2025 03:18

Where are they getting the immigration statistics from? Most of them are not even real. Of course they are worried if they are being fed lies.

I don't know the actual statistics myself, but in my area I believe it's due to the visibility rather than statistics. I live in a tourist area and ALL of the local hotels are now IPAS (asylum-seeker) centres, full of young men.

Tallawah · 27/09/2025 03:26

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Whistledown2 · 27/09/2025 03:27

My grandparents were immigrants (before WW1) I am white. First long term relationship was with a black man (parents immigrants from the West Indies) My second long term relationship was with a Turkish man (parents immigrants from
the Cyprus war) All of these people integrated into the British way of life. They came, they worked hard and made lives for themselves.

They still kept their culture/religion but didn’t impose it on anyone, they integrated into the country they chose to live in.

I think that integration is a lot to do with the way people feel. Me included. Am I racist? I just want to live in the country/culture I was born in.

Yes sadly there are racists, from
all colours/cultures/religions. Mostly Ignorance.

Majority of Reform voters most likely protest voters disillusioned by the current government.

Flying the British flag does not make someone a racist. Flags are waved at the proms. Patriotic not racist.

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