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Sick of the lie 'It's just illegal immigrants people don't like.'

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 26/09/2025 22:08

This is just not true.

Reform, the flag flyers and protesters are racists. All of this 'It's just the illegals we want gone.' is a lie to excuse their racism.

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 30/10/2025 11:18

kkloo · 30/10/2025 10:52

Absolutely horrific.
And the poor girl is autistic and was in state care when it happened.
She went missing on a day out with her care workers.

Poor Child, will never recover. The garda still have not identified him nor the media.
"Fact or rumours" Apparently he was employed as a security assistant in the premises when he should have helped her.
Mind you if you're Irish and commit a crime your photo will be in a the paper, guaranteed.
Media control.

Londonisthebestcityintheworld · 30/10/2025 11:39

Many people state this... but fail to acknowledge that time and time again, evidence shows serious biases in our arrest/prison/sentencing system... Western nations arrest and convict people of colour at far higher rates than other demographics. The burden of proof has been shown to be lower time and time again.

Stop the boats. Deport criminals. Change our British values so tolerance of other religions and beliefs is no longer one of them.

If 98.4% of all sexual assaults lead to no consequence in the UK... Some would argue that rapists are completely culturally compatible.

It really just makes me sick!

Londonisthebestcityintheworld · 30/10/2025 11:47

BundleBoogie · 30/10/2025 10:01

Nowhere did I say we shouldn’t be addressing the ‘systematic reasons’ that lead to this.

Right at the moment though, while the CPS are more bothered about hounding women who advocate for their rights and we still have rather a large mountain to climb in addressing these ‘systematic reasons’, I’m looking at prevention at source.

Men who are not here are not hurting women here.

Many attempts to address ‘systematic reasons’ such as education etc are very long term and will be hampered by a constant influx of new men who are starting from scratch and laterally don’t even know that rape is illegal (or so they claim).

Now I think further along that line, there is a serious issue of ‘systemic reasons’ with a growing and extremely influential group who in parts (I shouldn’t have to keep saying it as it’s obvious but ‘not all Muslims’) have a major problem with women having rights. There are imams in this country right now who are calling for women to be stoned as punishment for transgressions. They ban women from ‘family’ fun runs and are still practising first cousin marriage, child and forced marriage and FGM, not to mention raping white girls. Men with these views are part of the Muslim community and are clearly influencing the government. Jess Phillips (45% Muslim constituency) trying to broaden the rape gangs inquiry into oblivion and Starmer refusing to support a bill banning first cousin marriage. Who else is beholden to them?

All bad for women, all need to be addressed. Allowing in more people from countries where these beliefs are prevalent unless we are clear that they are fleeing those beliefs is not going to help us.

I take your point. It's disgusting and needs to be addressed.

Really, we need to update our British values. The experiment of tolerance for other religions and beliefs has failed.

EasternStandard · 30/10/2025 11:48

Londonisthebestcityintheworld · 30/10/2025 11:47

I take your point. It's disgusting and needs to be addressed.

Really, we need to update our British values. The experiment of tolerance for other religions and beliefs has failed.

Edited

Agree

RingoJuice · 30/10/2025 12:51

Western nations arrest and convict people of colour at far higher rates than other demographics

This itself is not proof of bias. Why, you could also say, Western nations arrest and convict men at far higher rates …

And we all know why that is.

BundleBoogie · 30/10/2025 13:24

Londonisthebestcityintheworld · 30/10/2025 11:47

I take your point. It's disgusting and needs to be addressed.

Really, we need to update our British values. The experiment of tolerance for other religions and beliefs has failed.

Edited

Agreed. Part of the issue seems to be that even mentioning ‘British values’ or ‘proud to be British’ is greeting by derision and accusations of racism by some on the left. Just look at the performance on these threads by posters like Swift.

This may have initially been in response to some specific messaging from people either more right wing views but it has expanded to include many people with moderate views, along with spurious accusations of racism.

I am just a very normal mum with fairly moderate centre views, I back some Labour policies and some Conservative policies but both parties are spectacularly failing the country and harming us all.

In recent years I have been called all sorts of names in an attempt to silence me but they’ve overshot - it’s just water off a ducks back now.

Londonisthebestcityintheworld · 30/10/2025 13:52

BundleBoogie · 30/10/2025 13:24

Agreed. Part of the issue seems to be that even mentioning ‘British values’ or ‘proud to be British’ is greeting by derision and accusations of racism by some on the left. Just look at the performance on these threads by posters like Swift.

This may have initially been in response to some specific messaging from people either more right wing views but it has expanded to include many people with moderate views, along with spurious accusations of racism.

I am just a very normal mum with fairly moderate centre views, I back some Labour policies and some Conservative policies but both parties are spectacularly failing the country and harming us all.

In recent years I have been called all sorts of names in an attempt to silence me but they’ve overshot - it’s just water off a ducks back now.

To be clear.. it is racist to other ALL asylum seekers as innately violent and criminal. The idea that one race is inherently superior and another is inferior (because of the religion they practise and the views that people believe come along with it) is exactly what racism is. Not all Christian men are the same. Not all Muslim men are the same.

When Reform beats the drum, that ALL male asylum seekers are innately morally corrupt, violent and criminal, they are savages... the idea is that they are innately inferior to white British people (they can not learn, change, adapt - they are savages unable to grow) and that's why they will introduce problems.

It is perfectly natural to have concerns about immigration but how it's being discussed by Reform is racist.

From this thread, what I gather is that most people want is a shift in our core British values. Less tolerance of other religions and beliefs. A melting pot versus multiculturalism.

RingoJuice · 30/10/2025 14:19

The idea that one race is inherently superior and another is inferior (because of the religion they practise and the views that people believe come along with it) is exactly what racism is

Nobody has to believe that all cultures are equal. Most people on this globe don’t. I respect certain cultures and totally reject others.

When Reform beats the drum, that ALL male asylum seekers are innately morally corrupt, violent and criminal

I don’t think all men are innately morally corrupt, violent and criminal. But I do think that men are a risk to me and I live accordingly. Taking on foreign men from a completely different culture and with far different behavioral standards is a RISK that you are asking local women to take. It is fair to reject that.

Lifestooshort71 · 30/10/2025 14:43

Petitchat · 29/10/2025 16:12

Those of us who care about pets, ensure there are other distractions indoors to minimise stress.

Seeing as you are in England, don't you want to enjoy and take part in English ways and our customs.

My parents live in Spain and have adapted to everything Spanish. They love and respect the Spanish ways.

We used to spend some time in Spain when children were little but avoided fiesta times after local teens thought it amusing to poke lit firecrackers through the metal bars covering their bedroom windows. Spanish custom??

Kimdsd · 30/10/2025 14:52

Lifestooshort71 · 30/10/2025 14:43

We used to spend some time in Spain when children were little but avoided fiesta times after local teens thought it amusing to poke lit firecrackers through the metal bars covering their bedroom windows. Spanish custom??

I've never done this with fireworks. Never used to harm another or another's property. Just let them up in our garden for fun.

Kimdsd · 30/10/2025 15:03

RingoJuice · 30/10/2025 14:19

The idea that one race is inherently superior and another is inferior (because of the religion they practise and the views that people believe come along with it) is exactly what racism is

Nobody has to believe that all cultures are equal. Most people on this globe don’t. I respect certain cultures and totally reject others.

When Reform beats the drum, that ALL male asylum seekers are innately morally corrupt, violent and criminal

I don’t think all men are innately morally corrupt, violent and criminal. But I do think that men are a risk to me and I live accordingly. Taking on foreign men from a completely different culture and with far different behavioral standards is a RISK that you are asking local women to take. It is fair to reject that.

Yes all cultures are not equal. I much prefer Western culture to culture in the middle east and in India.

Londonisthebestcityintheworld · 30/10/2025 15:20

RingoJuice · 30/10/2025 14:19

The idea that one race is inherently superior and another is inferior (because of the religion they practise and the views that people believe come along with it) is exactly what racism is

Nobody has to believe that all cultures are equal. Most people on this globe don’t. I respect certain cultures and totally reject others.

When Reform beats the drum, that ALL male asylum seekers are innately morally corrupt, violent and criminal

I don’t think all men are innately morally corrupt, violent and criminal. But I do think that men are a risk to me and I live accordingly. Taking on foreign men from a completely different culture and with far different behavioral standards is a RISK that you are asking local women to take. It is fair to reject that.

I've said repeatedly that I have the same concerns as other women. I absolutely do not want anyone to take on further risk. I do not want us to let in violent criminals.

But I do believe in asylum and I don't think we should discriminate based on their religion or where they come from.

Others disagree - they think integration fails. Fair enough.

But our British culture isn't superior - we are at series risk from the men in our own "supposedly" superior culture... Someone else made my point.... 98.4% of our own sexual offenders to have zero consequences.

EasternStandard · 30/10/2025 15:24

Londonisthebestcityintheworld · 30/10/2025 15:20

I've said repeatedly that I have the same concerns as other women. I absolutely do not want anyone to take on further risk. I do not want us to let in violent criminals.

But I do believe in asylum and I don't think we should discriminate based on their religion or where they come from.

Others disagree - they think integration fails. Fair enough.

But our British culture isn't superior - we are at series risk from the men in our own "supposedly" superior culture... Someone else made my point.... 98.4% of our own sexual offenders to have zero consequences.

Edited

How can you check someone is a violent criminal based on the asylum system we have?

Lifestooshort71 · 30/10/2025 15:34

Kimdsd · 30/10/2025 14:52

I've never done this with fireworks. Never used to harm another or another's property. Just let them up in our garden for fun.

I know, I wasn't quoting you x

Dogsandhens · 30/10/2025 15:47

Londonisthebestcityintheworld · 30/10/2025 15:20

I've said repeatedly that I have the same concerns as other women. I absolutely do not want anyone to take on further risk. I do not want us to let in violent criminals.

But I do believe in asylum and I don't think we should discriminate based on their religion or where they come from.

Others disagree - they think integration fails. Fair enough.

But our British culture isn't superior - we are at series risk from the men in our own "supposedly" superior culture... Someone else made my point.... 98.4% of our own sexual offenders to have zero consequences.

Edited

The British culture is superior to a significant number of other cultures in the world. A gay can get married and usually not be thrown off a building. You can go to Church without being put in prison for blasphemy. Women have equal rights and can walk the streets without supervision of a man and without covering up. We have the rule of law and a free press. We have a pretty amazing culture actually! For the moment. Although it is being weakened by those that have come here and that do not share our values, particularly of religious tolerance. We tried a type of theocracy a few hundred years ago and it didn't go so well.

RingoJuice · 30/10/2025 15:57

But our British culture isn't superior - we are at series risk from the men in our own "supposedly" superior culture... Someone else made my point.... 98.4% of our own sexual offenders to have zero consequences

Which culture is superior, in your view? Surely you have one or another in mind? Only a nihilist would say they are equally shit.

(If you asked me, I wouldn’t say British people are the most civilized, but they are pretty damn close to the top)

Petitchat · 30/10/2025 16:03

Lifestooshort71 · 30/10/2025 14:43

We used to spend some time in Spain when children were little but avoided fiesta times after local teens thought it amusing to poke lit firecrackers through the metal bars covering their bedroom windows. Spanish custom??

Teens? Children?
???

Petitchat · 30/10/2025 16:05

Kimdsd · 30/10/2025 14:52

I've never done this with fireworks. Never used to harm another or another's property. Just let them up in our garden for fun.

That post was about teen jinks. Can no one see the difference?

Petitchat · 30/10/2025 16:08

Kimdsd · 30/10/2025 14:52

I've never done this with fireworks. Never used to harm another or another's property. Just let them up in our garden for fun.

For fun?
Knowingly traumatizing cats and dogs?
Some fun.....

CrocusVase · 30/10/2025 16:11

Petitchat · 30/10/2025 16:08

For fun?
Knowingly traumatizing cats and dogs?
Some fun.....

But you know when you get pets that there are times of the year there will be fireworks. This has been the case in the UK probably within living memory.

Diwali is one extra day. I think we can tolerate that.

Petitchat · 30/10/2025 16:16

CrocusVase · 30/10/2025 16:11

But you know when you get pets that there are times of the year there will be fireworks. This has been the case in the UK probably within living memory.

Diwali is one extra day. I think we can tolerate that.

Can we have Bonfire Night in India?
Fireworks, bonfire, Guy Fawkes on November 5th?

BundleBoogie · 30/10/2025 16:18

Londonisthebestcityintheworld · 30/10/2025 13:52

To be clear.. it is racist to other ALL asylum seekers as innately violent and criminal. The idea that one race is inherently superior and another is inferior (because of the religion they practise and the views that people believe come along with it) is exactly what racism is. Not all Christian men are the same. Not all Muslim men are the same.

When Reform beats the drum, that ALL male asylum seekers are innately morally corrupt, violent and criminal, they are savages... the idea is that they are innately inferior to white British people (they can not learn, change, adapt - they are savages unable to grow) and that's why they will introduce problems.

It is perfectly natural to have concerns about immigration but how it's being discussed by Reform is racist.

From this thread, what I gather is that most people want is a shift in our core British values. Less tolerance of other religions and beliefs. A melting pot versus multiculturalism.

Edited

To be clear.. it is racist to other ALL asylum seekers as innately violent and criminal.

I’m not sure how many times we have to say this - this is not what is being said.

Can you give some examples of official Reform statements or policies that are reached? I mean, even the PM makes false claims of racism against them so it would be good to hear the evidence.

Lifestooshort71 · 30/10/2025 16:20

Petitchat · 30/10/2025 16:03

Teens? Children?
???

'Children' were ours. 'Teens' were locals

Kimdsd · 30/10/2025 16:25

RingoJuice · 30/10/2025 15:57

But our British culture isn't superior - we are at series risk from the men in our own "supposedly" superior culture... Someone else made my point.... 98.4% of our own sexual offenders to have zero consequences

Which culture is superior, in your view? Surely you have one or another in mind? Only a nihilist would say they are equally shit.

(If you asked me, I wouldn’t say British people are the most civilized, but they are pretty damn close to the top)

In Norway I remember they had to teach anti rape classes.....

Petitchat · 30/10/2025 16:26

Lifestooshort71 · 30/10/2025 16:20

'Children' were ours. 'Teens' were locals

I think you're missing the point (maybe deliberately)
Teens are children.

Children's jinks, although possibly dangerous, are children's jinks.
Adult men raping and assaulting are adult men raping and assaulting.

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