@AngelicKaty Let me explain it better, because you are trying to be reassuring here and approach this with the classic British common sense which I value and I think many of us non-Brits have either acquired it ourselves by now or have thought similar in any event.
The issue is NOT if Reform is capable of renegotiating the Withdrawal Agreement. They are not.
The issue is whether they are likely to breach it AND go unpunished OR create real chaos in our lives before they go punished. That's the real risk, as legal challenges would be lengthy and costly, and I am positive that NF who idolises Trump would make changes to various international conventions and agreements setting out UK's participation if it suits his agenda. If he can't renegotiate, he will crash out.
Let me explain why this is not a pessimistic but realistic view.
I arrived here over 20 years ago with guaranteed equal rights as British people apart from voting in GE.
Those rights, guaranteed by EU law which was part of your legal order and international legal order, have been questioned and already limited - they will be lost if I leave for 5 years. This was never part of the deal. Your country has unilaterally decided to change my rights and EU had to compromise. I had no right to vote in Brexit vote - and neither did anyone in my position, yet, you decided on my rights and my life. This, in principle is unethical and questionable if lawful, as there has been no precedent here.
Now your own country is pushing this further - through Nigel Farage. So will it change? It MIGHT.
You made us total scapegoats which has nothing to do with reality. Since at least 2014 many of you, influenced by Farage, have made us feel unwelcome here and the content online posted about us is measured in millions of disgusting posts. Xenophobia in this country has been rife. None of this is British. This is what I and many of us still believe.
Where the problem is, it's in minimising the risks and only looking at one side of the narrative that makes you believe that everything will be fine. It hasn't been, it isn't, and there is zero guarantee from our perspective.
NF's rhethoric is already affecting even those EU individuals who hold UK citizenship. It's a paper. It doesn't change your name, accent or looks. People ARE made to feel unwelcome and have for over a decade because of these things. There is more than one way of making people leave, you know. Hostile environment is one of them.
British people need to stand against this with us. If you don't, is this what true British values are? Is this what you stand for? Or do you stand for nothing and have I been deeply mistaken for over 20 years now? I hope not.