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Charlie Kirk Eulogy

140 replies

MrsSkylerWhite · 21/09/2025 23:06

Thoughts? It made me feel queasy. AIBU?

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tinytemper66 · 22/09/2025 06:36

I think she was persuaded to make that speak a couple of days after his death. The words don’t fit with how she must have been feeling. I think it was written for her. For some people makeup is an armour. I am against what she and her husband stood for but I wouldn’t knock her after seeing the footage of his death. Regardless of his views, his death was horrific.
I disagree with him being made a martyr though. I only saw snippets of footage of the memorial though. But don’t kick her when she is in the floor; otherwise we are no better than Trump’s words.

MissPoor · 22/09/2025 06:39

stonebrambleboy · 21/09/2025 23:58

I do that when Kamala Harris opens her gob.

I’m sure you do.

MissPoor · 22/09/2025 06:40

Somerford · 22/09/2025 01:25

It isn’t difficult, if you can't grasp it I don't think there is any value in spending time explaining it to you.

Maybe you could try?

Yope · 22/09/2025 06:44

Vivi0 · 22/09/2025 01:46

You know what’s really interesting?

You actually think you are better than Charlie Kirk.

In spite of this disgusting thread you’ve started.

You actually think you are a better person than he was.

Don’t stop at racist, homophobe and misogynist. Go on - demonstrate to everyone how much of a better person than him you are. What about fascist? Nazi. Transphobe. Islamaphobe.

He really was just the Worst. Person. Ever, eh?

Not you though. You’re great.

Well done you!

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I don't even know @MrsSkylerWhite
And yet I know that yes, she is a better person than Charlie Kirk was.
Simply by the fact that she objects to his views, this tells me she is a better person than he was.

LactoseTolerant · 22/09/2025 06:44

Just because he got killed it doesn't suddenly make him a good person. Vile people get killed too.

stonebrambleboy · 22/09/2025 06:53

MissPoor · 22/09/2025 06:39

I’m sure you do.

Quite definitely my dear.

TheChoiceWithinDestiny · 22/09/2025 07:02

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 22/09/2025 02:16

Couldn't stand it.

He was a truly dreadful man, and she got engaged to him around the time his organization were ramping up their efforts to assist Trump in trying to overthrow the results of a free and fair election - so I can only assume she's an awful person, too.

Unfortunately, his murder does afford an excellent PR opportunity to the scumbags in Charlie Kirk's orbit - so not only was it wrong in the basis sense that murder is wrong, but it will likely prove terribly counterproductive.

So you’ll assume she’s an awful person based on what concrete evidence? Rather than facts that she’s clearly not awful - she has forgiven her husbands murderer and expressed she doesn’t want the death penalty for him, she also was pleased there hadn’t been riots or protests in her husband’s name. That’s not an awful person .

Lutonsgirl · 22/09/2025 07:02

This thread says a lot about the OP. But it's not good.

ThatDreamyLemonBiscuit · 22/09/2025 07:15

TheChoiceWithinDestiny · 22/09/2025 07:02

So you’ll assume she’s an awful person based on what concrete evidence? Rather than facts that she’s clearly not awful - she has forgiven her husbands murderer and expressed she doesn’t want the death penalty for him, she also was pleased there hadn’t been riots or protests in her husband’s name. That’s not an awful person .

She married someone who was perhaps (outside of the administration itself) the leading voice in the election denialism movement.

That's concrete enough for me.

aold · 22/09/2025 07:16

Lutonsgirl · 22/09/2025 07:02

This thread says a lot about the OP. But it's not good.

it’s a disgusting thread, but it also adds fuel to the movement too. The heads of Turning Point are thinking Let them Speak!

Teachingagain · 22/09/2025 07:17

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I don’t think we should be judging how someone else is grieving. I abhor their poltics but this this swipe is a new low.

IWasScaredToBeHeld · 22/09/2025 07:18

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Very odd indeed.

Obviously everyone grieves differently but the videos she’s been producing are just grotesque. I’m pretty sure I saw a video of one of their daughters singing a song to his body last night. I mean wtf?

Compare her to some of the other public widows with young children, and it’s clear she just sees this as an opportunity to make money.

IWasScaredToBeHeld · 22/09/2025 07:19

Teachingagain · 22/09/2025 07:17

I don’t think we should be judging how someone else is grieving. I abhor their poltics but this this swipe is a new low.

Yet absolutely nothing is off limits for him and his ilk? Freedom of speech only works one way apparently

aold · 22/09/2025 07:22

IWasScaredToBeHeld · 22/09/2025 07:19

Yet absolutely nothing is off limits for him and his ilk? Freedom of speech only works one way apparently

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he was debating political views, not judging someone on the way they grieve a lost loved one.

IWasScaredToBeHeld · 22/09/2025 07:24

aold · 22/09/2025 07:22

he was debating political views, not judging someone on the way they grieve a lost loved one.

I mean, his response to the Uvalde shooting and George Floyd’s murder showed how much respect he had (or lacked) for grieving family members.

Somerford · 22/09/2025 07:24

MissPoor · 22/09/2025 06:40

Maybe you could try?

No

1dayatatime · 22/09/2025 07:27

@MrsSkylerWhite

An interesting post.

So - the basis of hard left wing politics is the view that for someone to get rich someone else has to get poor, or if there is a winner then there must be a loser. Or as Marx put it the Proletariat and Bourgeoisie. That for every oppressed there is an oppressor or ultimately for every good side there is a bad or evil side.

The hard left then use such terms as fascist, Nazi, homophobic, misogynistic, racist, genocidal or whatever trending buzzword against any opposing views to reinforce the narrative of good vs bad.

The thing is @MrsSkylerWhite, I genuinely ask you to reflect for a short moment that regardless of politics that you have reached a point where because you disagree with the "other side" so much that you feel it is morally justified to dismiss or mock the heartbreak and agony of a young widow and two young children who witnessed their husband and father being brutally murdered.

And ask you to reflect that maybe just maybe you have become the "bad guys".

BeCyanSloth · 22/09/2025 07:31

I don’t agree with a lot of things that he said but no one deserves what happened to him and to come on here and criticize his wife is vile she has just lost her husband and two small children have just lost there father unless you have been there you don’t know how you will react
They are probably all still in shock and just trying to keep going but hey yeah let’s kick a woman while she is down getting fed up of this site all people do is slag people off

IWasScaredToBeHeld · 22/09/2025 07:33

1dayatatime · 22/09/2025 07:27

@MrsSkylerWhite

An interesting post.

So - the basis of hard left wing politics is the view that for someone to get rich someone else has to get poor, or if there is a winner then there must be a loser. Or as Marx put it the Proletariat and Bourgeoisie. That for every oppressed there is an oppressor or ultimately for every good side there is a bad or evil side.

The hard left then use such terms as fascist, Nazi, homophobic, misogynistic, racist, genocidal or whatever trending buzzword against any opposing views to reinforce the narrative of good vs bad.

The thing is @MrsSkylerWhite, I genuinely ask you to reflect for a short moment that regardless of politics that you have reached a point where because you disagree with the "other side" so much that you feel it is morally justified to dismiss or mock the heartbreak and agony of a young widow and two young children who witnessed their husband and father being brutally murdered.

And ask you to reflect that maybe just maybe you have become the "bad guys".

Because those on the right never do that, do they?

They don’t speculate on the killers of elected officials, suggesting that they were hired by the former president to carry out a hit (oh wait, they did that this summer), they don’t suggest that a man deserved to die because of his skin colour (oh wait, they did that in response to George Floyd’s death), they don’t suggest that the victims of school shootings are a necessity in order to maintain the right to bear arms (oh wait, Kirk did that in response to the Uvalde shooting), they don’t mock widows who say things in grief (oh wait, Trump did https://www.msnbc.com/msnbc/amp/shows/top-stories/blog/rcna164738), they don’t make horrible comments about soldiers dying (oh wait, Trump did that too! https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-41663609?app-referrer=deep-link), they’d never, ever target a grieving widow (OH WAIT, TRUMP DID! https://www.politico.com/news/2019/12/19/dingell-trump-attack-family-grieving-087812)

Trump makes callous joke while honoring Corey Comperatore, the man killed at his Butler rally

Near the start of his speech at a rally on Wednesday, Donald Trump spoke about Corey Comperatore, who was killed in a shooting at the former president’s campaign rally last month.

https://www.msnbc.com/msnbc/amp/shows/top-stories/blog/rcna164738

Bernadinetta · 22/09/2025 07:35

Absolutely bemused by the fireworks going off when Erika, Vance and Trump entered the stage.

aold · 22/09/2025 07:36

1dayatatime · 22/09/2025 07:27

@MrsSkylerWhite

An interesting post.

So - the basis of hard left wing politics is the view that for someone to get rich someone else has to get poor, or if there is a winner then there must be a loser. Or as Marx put it the Proletariat and Bourgeoisie. That for every oppressed there is an oppressor or ultimately for every good side there is a bad or evil side.

The hard left then use such terms as fascist, Nazi, homophobic, misogynistic, racist, genocidal or whatever trending buzzword against any opposing views to reinforce the narrative of good vs bad.

The thing is @MrsSkylerWhite, I genuinely ask you to reflect for a short moment that regardless of politics that you have reached a point where because you disagree with the "other side" so much that you feel it is morally justified to dismiss or mock the heartbreak and agony of a young widow and two young children who witnessed their husband and father being brutally murdered.

And ask you to reflect that maybe just maybe you have become the "bad guys".

the left, especially the hard left, are so entrenched in believing they’re the keepers of all worldly wisdom, their minds are closed to discussion outside of their echo chamber.

IWasScaredToBeHeld · 22/09/2025 07:37

Bernadinetta · 22/09/2025 07:35

Absolutely bemused by the fireworks going off when Erika, Vance and Trump entered the stage.

They’re turning it into some sort of political campaign. Something is off about the entire thing

mellongoose · 22/09/2025 07:41

I agree with so many on this thread that people have become so entrenched in their politics that they are becoming rotten with hate from the inside.

We should actively encourage disagreement and diversity of thought and opinions. Explorations of how to improve our society by taking the best of ideas without being held back by dogma.

OP leave her to grieve in her own way. There was no need to start a thread so full of hate. You have encouraged others to articulate similar. It’s not great. Don’t be that person.

aold · 22/09/2025 07:52

mellongoose · 22/09/2025 07:41

I agree with so many on this thread that people have become so entrenched in their politics that they are becoming rotten with hate from the inside.

We should actively encourage disagreement and diversity of thought and opinions. Explorations of how to improve our society by taking the best of ideas without being held back by dogma.

OP leave her to grieve in her own way. There was no need to start a thread so full of hate. You have encouraged others to articulate similar. It’s not great. Don’t be that person.

best post on this thread.

MrsSkylerWhite · 22/09/2025 08:08

1dayatatime · 22/09/2025 07:27

@MrsSkylerWhite

An interesting post.

So - the basis of hard left wing politics is the view that for someone to get rich someone else has to get poor, or if there is a winner then there must be a loser. Or as Marx put it the Proletariat and Bourgeoisie. That for every oppressed there is an oppressor or ultimately for every good side there is a bad or evil side.

The hard left then use such terms as fascist, Nazi, homophobic, misogynistic, racist, genocidal or whatever trending buzzword against any opposing views to reinforce the narrative of good vs bad.

The thing is @MrsSkylerWhite, I genuinely ask you to reflect for a short moment that regardless of politics that you have reached a point where because you disagree with the "other side" so much that you feel it is morally justified to dismiss or mock the heartbreak and agony of a young widow and two young children who witnessed their husband and father being brutally murdered.

And ask you to reflect that maybe just maybe you have become the "bad guys".

I haven’t mocked his wife. I stated, truthfully, that the man was a racist, misogynistic, homophobe.

That his death - and his widow - is being used so shamefully as political capital by Trump and Vance and that he is being spoken of in almost saintly terms is sickening. His hateful views are being completely rewritten.

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