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Do you feel that the Mumsnet demographic is more…..

156 replies

CurlewKate · 21/09/2025 14:14

……left leaning or right leaning? I think it is more right leaning-AIBU?

OP posts:
Goldenbear · 21/09/2025 18:24

twistyizzy · 21/09/2025 17:33

Because anyone who disagrees with them is automatically far right

"No one gets into trouble without his own help." ^^

ThatCyanCat · 21/09/2025 18:25

CurlewKate · 21/09/2025 17:55

I’m sitting on my hands to stop myself joining in the discussion-but I do have to add some clarification about the thread about gay men and surrogacy. I am PRETTY sure the OP did not mean it to be homophobic- she was, I think, clumsily, saying that the fact that some gay men are being very public and joyful about their children by surrogate makes it very hard to be unhappy about the process without sounding as if you are targeting gay men specifically. At least, I think that’s what she meant.

Why are you referring to yourself in the third person? Why would you stay out of a discussion you started?

twistyizzy · 21/09/2025 18:26

CreamBeforeJamOnScones · 21/09/2025 18:24

It's hateful views which I, and other decent people, have a problem with.

No, there are certain posters who automatically accuses anyone who disagrees with them of being a bot/far right. I'm not talking about hateful speech, I'm talking about anyone who opposes their world view.

GreatWhiteWail · 21/09/2025 18:26

LlttledrummergirI · 21/09/2025 18:20

Women's spaces including sports are for women only, this does not mean people can assault someone they perceive as being in the wrong place.
I don't give a shit what your sexual preferences are, be safe, consensual and keep them in the bedroom.
Refugees are not illegals who need to be stopped because they are all rapists.
The thugs that attend events organised by far right movements with involvement from well known fascists such as guest speaker Elon nazi salute Musk are right wing.
Farage has nothing good planned for the country, he will ape his idol- best friend of Putin and Epstein- Trump.
Open borders are not yet a thing, the tories fucked them up in their quest to make themselves, their families and friends rich on taxpayers money.
Reform is made up of people from said Tory party that want another go.
Fundamentalism from any religion is extreme and has no place in politics. Religion is a method of control over the population.
By all means fly a flag on your own property (I do), but joining in the movement to put them on lampposts and roundabouts to intimidate part of society is a dick move and I will judge you poorly for it.

Where do you stand?

Edited

That is just a word vomit of weird. Happy to answer individual points. Will start with your answer and your first one.

Women's spaces including sports are for women only, this does not mean people can assault someone they perceive as being in the wrong place.

Feminist women are NOT assaulting men. We're telling men to keep out at all times, and we want that clear rule enforced by authorities and establishments to protect women. You agree that is reasonable?

I don't give a shit what your sexual preferences are, be safe, consensual and keep them in the bedroom.

Agree.

ThatCyanCat · 21/09/2025 18:26

Mantari · 21/09/2025 18:21

So, in your opinion, are there no bots of any kind on MN?

I don't know about bots but we definitely have posters who get ChatGPT to write their posts. A few of them are in this thread.

childofthe607080s · 21/09/2025 18:27

If a poor marginalised group goes out of their way to use that to get away with things that would normally be called abuse then yes they will get the facts thrown in their faces. Transwomen are significantly more likely than men in general to be jailed for sexual offences yet we are expected to overlook that ? No. No amount of marginalisation allows you to take advantage of women

the really sad thing is that I do think transowmen are likely to see a lot of trouble, and they have alienated many women who would have supported them. If they were “ as men we would like to wear a dress and be called a pretty name” the average feminist would be supportive because it would be breaking down gender norms

SwedishEdith · 21/09/2025 18:27

It's definitely shifted rightwards in the time I've been here (20+ years). Whenever a story made the Daily Mail and there was a corresponding influx of users, they brought their views along. Also, as its got bigger, I suppose it's representing national views more which, I think are pretty conservative (small c) in the UK. I don't really look at politics threads anymore as I think they're clearly targetted by political activists.

LlttledrummergirI · 21/09/2025 18:28

I'll answer your question once you answer mine. Or are you a one issue poster?

dreamiesformolly · 21/09/2025 18:29

Reallybadidea · 21/09/2025 14:19

Until recently (have been on MN 20 years) I'd have said left-leaning, but now I'd say right. I think the gender critical discussions have attracted more people who are right of centre.

Agree.

GreatWhiteWail · 21/09/2025 18:30

suggestionsplease1 · 21/09/2025 18:20

Why, are you going to go through every single trans talking point?

There are plenty of issues that are fair to discuss, and may not be in and of themselves either right wing/left wing. But what you see on FWR is, during the discussion of issues, a tendency to demonize trans people and depict them as criminals / fetishists at worst and mentally ill at best. There is creeping normalisation of discriminatory attitude towards a marginalised and vulnerable group, and yes, that typifies a right wing approach.

No, that's not true. What you see on FWR is women insisting boundaries, and pointing out in clear terms that men who refuse to respect women's boundaries are a danger to women.

Women and girls don't need to be inclusive and accommodating of men who will not take no for an answer.

That is a left-wing position, not a right-wing one.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 21/09/2025 18:31

suggestionsplease1 · 21/09/2025 17:34

Actually I think you'll find that attacking vulnerable minorities out of a stated position of 'protecting women and children' is a fairly well-known right wing trope.

Men aren’t a ‘vulnerable minority’. It’s not right wing for wanting women to retain their own sex based spaces and sports.

Mantari · 21/09/2025 18:31

ThatCyanCat · 21/09/2025 18:26

I don't know about bots but we definitely have posters who get ChatGPT to write their posts. A few of them are in this thread.

Well I can assure you that I haven't!

twistyizzy · 21/09/2025 18:31

Goldenbear · 21/09/2025 18:24

"No one gets into trouble without his own help." ^^

"There are two kinds of pride, both good and bad. 'Good pride' represents our dignity and self-respect. 'Bad pride' is the deadly sin of superiority that reeks of conceit and arrogance"

CurlewKate · 21/09/2025 18:33

ThatCyanCat · 21/09/2025 18:25

Why are you referring to yourself in the third person? Why would you stay out of a discussion you started?

I’m not referring to myself in the third person! And I’m trying to stay out of the discussion because on THIS thread I’m interested in how people perceive Mumsnet in general, rather than the particular issues that are discussed on here. I don’t think people are always defined by particular attitudes- I, for example, am very left leaning, but also tending towards gender critical.

OP posts:
Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 21/09/2025 18:36

suggestionsplease1 · 21/09/2025 18:20

Why, are you going to go through every single trans talking point?

There are plenty of issues that are fair to discuss, and may not be in and of themselves either right wing/left wing. But what you see on FWR is, during the discussion of issues, a tendency to demonize trans people and depict them as criminals / fetishists at worst and mentally ill at best. There is creeping normalisation of discriminatory attitude towards a marginalised and vulnerable group, and yes, that typifies a right wing approach.

Suggestions! So you don't only spend your time scolding women on FWR

as a reminder you think 2 fully intact men shagging are having lesbian sex if they both identify was women so oddly I don't think much of what you think of is 'right' and 'left'

GreatWhiteWail · 21/09/2025 18:37

LlttledrummergirI · 21/09/2025 18:28

I'll answer your question once you answer mine. Or are you a one issue poster?

Well post one then.

I answered one. You answer one. I'm not answering a weird screed about Putin/Nazis/Musk/Farage/Trump, as I have no idea why you'd think I'd have views aligned with them just because I think women should be protected from men who don't respect women's boundaries.

PencilsInSpace · 21/09/2025 18:38

It's not as left wing as it used to be. I think it's quite a good mix, I like reading opinions from across the political spectrum.

bombastix · 21/09/2025 18:41

Haven’t had the benefit of being here for a decade, but I’d say it wasn’t left, more small c. This excludes the recent influx of weird very right wing posts which seem mostly guest appearances

DrCoconut · 21/09/2025 18:45

It's been pretty right wing for a while from my perspective. There are many people who can't see their own privilege too and those types are often quite right wing as they don't get why the less fortunate/marginalised don't just pull themselves together and get on with it.

ThatCyanCat · 21/09/2025 18:49

CurlewKate · 21/09/2025 18:33

I’m not referring to myself in the third person! And I’m trying to stay out of the discussion because on THIS thread I’m interested in how people perceive Mumsnet in general, rather than the particular issues that are discussed on here. I don’t think people are always defined by particular attitudes- I, for example, am very left leaning, but also tending towards gender critical.

But you are! "I'm pretty sure OP did not mean...she was saying..." etc... but you are OP! And how can you be trying to resist a discussion you started?

Are you aware that not only can you no longer name change during a thread, but an OP's posts now highlighted even more clearly than they used to be?

We know you are the OP!

Goldenbear · 21/09/2025 18:52

twistyizzy · 21/09/2025 18:31

"There are two kinds of pride, both good and bad. 'Good pride' represents our dignity and self-respect. 'Bad pride' is the deadly sin of superiority that reeks of conceit and arrogance"

Yes, I agree, you see that all the time on here.

LlttledrummergirI · 21/09/2025 18:54

GreatWhiteWail · 21/09/2025 18:37

Well post one then.

I answered one. You answer one. I'm not answering a weird screed about Putin/Nazis/Musk/Farage/Trump, as I have no idea why you'd think I'd have views aligned with them just because I think women should be protected from men who don't respect women's boundaries.

What makes you think I think you have those views?

This thread is asking if mnet is more right or left wing, I answered the question while responding to your challenge.

Fwr is not the only issue being discussed. An opinion on one subject doesn't mean you agree with the same people on others.

You wanted to know where people stood, I told you. I would like you to reciprocate in the spirit of openness and debate. You have chosen to try to turn this into a single issue rather than engaging with the thread objective.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 21/09/2025 18:55

ThatCyanCat · 21/09/2025 18:49

But you are! "I'm pretty sure OP did not mean...she was saying..." etc... but you are OP! And how can you be trying to resist a discussion you started?

Are you aware that not only can you no longer name change during a thread, but an OP's posts now highlighted even more clearly than they used to be?

We know you are the OP!

She is talking about the OP on the thread on FWR

she isnt talking about this thread

ThatCyanCat · 21/09/2025 18:57

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 21/09/2025 18:55

She is talking about the OP on the thread on FWR

she isnt talking about this thread

Oh, I see. Thank you, and I apologise, @CurlewKate .

BreakingBroken · 21/09/2025 19:02

unhelpful, but i think different threads bring out different left or right responses.