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Backlash against Trans women

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ITVeveningnewsclip · 18/09/2025 19:24

(Story on ITV news about drag performer who died after taking drug ketamine, not suicide, just a regular user it seems who took more than usual.) Thus post isn't about him.

Anyway, bloke during story moaned that 'we are currently seeing a backlash against trans at the moment, particularly trans women' (men), and 'that's not a world I want to live in'.

I mean seriously, the TRA has been abusive to women for years for even mentioning any concerns, yet now trans women are victims (again). Perpetual victims it seems. These men are frankly ridiculous. I get fed up of the men in dresses and their victimhood.

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LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:44

If you are so desperate to try and prove something that you are championing a murderer, there is something seriously wrong with you. Don't sink that low.

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 17:45

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:40

She believes it was. More likely her history of violence and dependency. But let's pretend the woman who butchered a man to death was only kept in prison because she wouldn't call a man a woman

I don’t understand - are you saying that female prisoners should have to put up with male prisoners being incarcerated with them?

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:45

First it was making out the sex offender woman was man, and now it is arguing that a crazed killer should have been let out sooner. What the very fuck mumsnet.

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:46

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 17:45

I don’t understand - are you saying that female prisoners should have to put up with male prisoners being incarcerated with them?

No im saying that the murderer was kept in prison because shes a violent murderer and no other reason that she believes or claims.

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:47

But if course men shouldn't be in womens jails. This just had nothing to do with why the butcher grandma was kept locked up

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 17:57

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:43

She believes it was. There is nothing to say that except the word of woman who butchered someone to death. A murderer

She wasn’t found guilty of murder. She was the victim of domestic abuse, and the man she killed with one stabbing had stabbed her first. She claimed self defence and that was accepted by the courts.
Don’t let the truth get in the way of your hyperbole though.

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 17:58

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:46

No im saying that the murderer was kept in prison because shes a violent murderer and no other reason that she believes or claims.

You’re incorrect then.

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 18:01

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:47

But if course men shouldn't be in womens jails. This just had nothing to do with why the butcher grandma was kept locked up

Where is your proof? Because I can’t find any.

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 18:01

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 17:58

You’re incorrect then.

Nonit doesnt seem like I am frankly. She seems like a murderer who wants attention and can't follow rules, even when incarcerated.

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 18:02

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 18:01

Where is your proof? Because I can’t find any.

The article makes it quite clear that she believes and claims these things. I think shes a murderer who just wasnt seen as fit for parole.

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 18:03

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 17:57

She wasn’t found guilty of murder. She was the victim of domestic abuse, and the man she killed with one stabbing had stabbed her first. She claimed self defence and that was accepted by the courts.
Don’t let the truth get in the way of your hyperbole though.

If her claim of self defence was accepted, she wouldn't have been jailed. The most recent case of self defense is know of that went to trial was the killing of the rapper, Hypo.

Helleofabore · 21/09/2025 18:12

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:43

She believes it was. There is nothing to say that except the word of woman who butchered someone to death. A murderer

Yes. A woman who had served enough time to apply for parole. She was not allowed to because of these complaints.

The judge ruled that there was no case against her in the end. Yet she couldn’t apply for parole with the complaints against her.

It really is not that hard to see the issue.

Any comment about her having to be in prison with a male prisoner? Any comment at all?

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 18:12

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 18:02

The article makes it quite clear that she believes and claims these things. I think shes a murderer who just wasnt seen as fit for parole.

You keep calling her a murderer. She wasn’t charged with murder and wasn’t found guilty of murder. Whereas the man who accused her of using the correct words to describe him WAS a murderer serving a 19 year sentence. His ‘girlfriend’ in prison is serving 24 years for neglect and abuse of a child leading to that child’s death.

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 18:14

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 18:03

If her claim of self defence was accepted, she wouldn't have been jailed. The most recent case of self defense is know of that went to trial was the killing of the rapper, Hypo.

Her claim was accepted and is the reason why she wasn’t charged with murder. Even if someone acts in self defence they can still be charged with a crime.

ITVeveningnewsclip · 21/09/2025 18:15

Alicealig · 21/09/2025 15:46

Can you give any examples of that actually happening except for saying that it is and hypothetical. No one is ever forced to change in front of anyone.

The sooner people stop whining and complaining on behalf of others the better. This was NEVER an issue 15 years ago, nor does it need to be one now. No laws have been changed so what's all the needless upset and hysteria about?

If you look.upthread there are links to the girls being forced to change in front of a male who thought he was female. The girls didn't want to and were told they had to. Disgraceful.

Some of the families are suing. Too right, since they failed to protect girls.

https://www.foxnews.com/video/6370045988112

Illinois mom says her daughter being forced to change in locker room with trans female sets a ‘dangerous precedent’ | Fox News Video

Illinois mom Nicole Georgas joins ‘America Reports’ to discuss trans females changing in girl’s locker rooms at school.

https://www.foxnews.com/video/6370045988112

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Helleofabore · 21/09/2025 18:15

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:44

If you are so desperate to try and prove something that you are championing a murderer, there is something seriously wrong with you. Don't sink that low.

I am championing a woman to be treated justly and given access to the provisions she is entitled to as part of the justice system of the UK.

There is something seriously wrong with anyone who seeks to deny that a woman should have access to justice in jail nor access to single sex provisions while in jail.

But sure, I am the problem.

ITVeveningnewsclip · 21/09/2025 18:20

Alicealig · 21/09/2025 15:46

Can you give any examples of that actually happening except for saying that it is and hypothetical. No one is ever forced to change in front of anyone.

The sooner people stop whining and complaining on behalf of others the better. This was NEVER an issue 15 years ago, nor does it need to be one now. No laws have been changed so what's all the needless upset and hysteria about?

Hysteria. Oh my, to be so blishfully ignorant to girls and women's struggles.

https://reduxx.info/civil-rights-complaint-filed-after-illinois-school-reportedly-forced-girls-to-change-in-front-of-trans-identified-male-student/

Civil Rights Complaint Filed After Illinois School Reportedly Forced Girls To Change In Front Of Trans-Identified Male Student - Reduxx

A middle school in Illinois reportedly forced a class of 13-year-old girls to change in front of a trans-identified male student in the school locker rooms after a Physical Education class, according to the mother of one of the girls involved. Speaking...

https://reduxx.info/civil-rights-complaint-filed-after-illinois-school-reportedly-forced-girls-to-change-in-front-of-trans-identified-male-student/

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Helleofabore · 21/09/2025 18:20

LoftyRobin · 21/09/2025 17:45

First it was making out the sex offender woman was man, and now it is arguing that a crazed killer should have been let out sooner. What the very fuck mumsnet.

What the actual fuck? Are you talking about a different case now?

And what part of allowing a female prisoner to apply for parole which is part of the justice process is wrong? Even murderers deserve parole hearings if they are eligible. If you don’t agree with the system, campaign to change it.

ITVeveningnewsclip · 21/09/2025 18:21

Alicealig · 21/09/2025 15:46

Can you give any examples of that actually happening except for saying that it is and hypothetical. No one is ever forced to change in front of anyone.

The sooner people stop whining and complaining on behalf of others the better. This was NEVER an issue 15 years ago, nor does it need to be one now. No laws have been changed so what's all the needless upset and hysteria about?

As you asked. Darlington nurses. 5 nurses currently suing.

https://sex-matters.org/case-briefings/bethany-hutchison-and-others-v-county-durham-and-darlington-nhs-trust/

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ITVeveningnewsclip · 21/09/2025 18:24

Alicealig · 21/09/2025 15:46

Can you give any examples of that actually happening except for saying that it is and hypothetical. No one is ever forced to change in front of anyone.

The sooner people stop whining and complaining on behalf of others the better. This was NEVER an issue 15 years ago, nor does it need to be one now. No laws have been changed so what's all the needless upset and hysteria about?

Rape victims bring forced to call rapist 'she/her' its a bloke not a she/her, there isn't any such thing as a female penis which rapes. Why does a rape victim have to join in with a lie about her biological male rapist....

https://thecritic.co.uk/she-her-or-else/

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ITVeveningnewsclip · 21/09/2025 18:27

Alicealig · 21/09/2025 16:35

Non of those examples were a case of any woman being forced to undress in front of men of being forced to call their rapists she.

Not sure where any entitlement would come in. I'm not a believer that men should be in women's sport. However there's no need to make up scenarios that just aren't or have never been considered Issues worthy of considsring to the degree that they are.

The scenarios are not made up. There are court cases ongoing. Do you live with your fingers in your ears, why are biological males deserving of more respect of what they want than what biological females need for safety and dignity.

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Helleofabore · 21/09/2025 18:28

Soontobe60 · 21/09/2025 17:57

She wasn’t found guilty of murder. She was the victim of domestic abuse, and the man she killed with one stabbing had stabbed her first. She claimed self defence and that was accepted by the courts.
Don’t let the truth get in the way of your hyperbole though.

I remember this about Janey Southerlay. She was indeed stabbed by him first. She was not charged with murder.

But apparently, no woman who would be charged with murder or culpable homicide should be allowed to apply for parole when she is eligible to apply.

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ITVeveningnewsclip · 21/09/2025 18:38

@Alicealig

Are you aware than over 70% of transgender prisoners are in for sex offences or violent crimes? These TIM'S are just men being violent or committing sexual offences and getting fools to treat them as women. We non fools say no.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/02/24/government-figures-70-per-cent-of-transgender-prisoners-are/

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https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/02/24/government-figures-70-per-cent-of-transgender-prisoners-are

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