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Charlie Kirk- and the reality

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Tandora · 13/09/2025 20:14

So here we are- they have a suspect.
The very little we know about his politics suggests he was likely to be right wing, and came from a family/ culture that supported Trump. He also is said to be an introvert, in to video games , and possibly quite mentally unwell.

So there we have it- fancy that - when you live in a context where people have access to guns and some minority of people are not well, people get shot.

Nothing to do with the evils of the “left”. Nothing to do with trans people or “trans ideology”. Just senseless violence, because people who are not well have access to guns.

So what are we going to take/ learn from this?

AIBU?

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Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:08

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 18:40

It’s complete nonsense that many of the posters on this thread would cheer if a similar left wing figure was shot dead. Just another tedious little attempt to smear feminists.

I’m sorry to inform you, but anyone who endorses misogynistic views is NOT a feminist.

I see you agree with the rest of my post, so we have progress 😄

Rosscameasdoody · 14/09/2025 19:16

Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:08

I’m sorry to inform you, but anyone who endorses misogynistic views is NOT a feminist.

I see you agree with the rest of my post, so we have progress 😄

So if the poster doesn’t agree with the rest of your post. What then ?

Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:18

Rosscameasdoody · 14/09/2025 19:16

So if the poster doesn’t agree with the rest of your post. What then ?

The world keeps spinning..

Rosscameasdoody · 14/09/2025 19:18

Tandora · 14/09/2025 18:28

No I said Charlie Kirk promoted the right to bear arms. This is the policy that created the conditions that facilitated his murder. This is simply true. It’s completely illogical, hypocritical and dishonest to claim otherwise.

CK acknowledged that gun deaths were an inevitable consequence of the second amendment and argued that this was a worthwhile price to pay for the right to bear arms.

He supported it yes. But he had no political sway to facilitate it. Your real gripe is with the powerful gun lobbies like the NRA who argue that the very fact that there are school shootings and the like are the reason that everyone should carry guns.

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 19:20

Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:08

I’m sorry to inform you, but anyone who endorses misogynistic views is NOT a feminist.

I see you agree with the rest of my post, so we have progress 😄

As long as you’re not forcing women to be at home, I don’t see what’s wrong with it.

I don’t see how it’s much different in principal to something like Swedens parental leave, which allows parents, but particularly mothers time to take care of their children, before returning to work.

You also need to remember the back drop if this is America, who don’t have maternity rights, where many mothers are forced to return to work weeks after their babies are born.

The main difference I guess is that in this country we believe it’s the governments job to enable this, whereas CK believes it’s the husbands.

At least that’s how I interpret it.

Tandora · 14/09/2025 19:22

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 14/09/2025 18:37

In YOUR opinion. Ad nauseum ‘in your opinion’. Some people have different beliefs to myself. That’s okay. I don’t agree and the world didn’t stop spinning.

I don’t agree with the anti abortion bill that’s been pushed through in some American states. I also don’t agree that people who have gone through male puberty have the right to compete in competitive sports against people who have gone through a female puberty. So what. Big deal what I think. I have all sorts of thought abd opinions on all sorts of things but accept that other people don’t share my viewpoint.

If I want to agitate for political change I know just the way I might do that. a starting point could be my MP in the first place. Maybe a petition. At no point do I think, ‘I know what, I’m going to find a weapon and try and inflict violence on this person who thinks differently to me’. Wouldn’t enter my thoughts. It’s also wouldnt enter my thoughts to support or condone someone who did. In actual fact if someone who had similar belief systems to myself did do such an act I’d question my belief systems. I’d ponder if my ideologies were propagating violence and whether they were in fact rather sinister.

What is all this faux ,
lazy relativism all of a sudden?

you must have some values?

Is it ok to support slavery because “some people have different beliefs to myself and the world didn’t stop spinning”.

What about being a Nazi? Is that ok because “some people have different beliefs to myself”.

If you are going to justify harmful patriarchal ideologies like child rape victims should be forced to gestate babies and give birth, and women should be compelled to submit to their husbands and be confined to domesticity- at least present an actual argument as to why you think this ok fgs.

Or is it just removal of the rights and healthcare of women, girls and lgb people that you are so apathetic about? (I removed the t because you’ve already declared
your opinion on that).

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Rosscameasdoody · 14/09/2025 19:22

KimberleyClark · 14/09/2025 09:48

So he thinks black pilots are more likely to be incompetent than white pilots.

Nope.

Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:23

@GoldThumb That’s fine. You’re just not a feminist.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 19:23

Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:08

I’m sorry to inform you, but anyone who endorses misogynistic views is NOT a feminist.

I see you agree with the rest of my post, so we have progress 😄

That’s fine then, as I don’t endorse misogynistic views.

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 19:23

Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:23

@GoldThumb That’s fine. You’re just not a feminist.

How so?

Tandora · 14/09/2025 19:24

Rosscameasdoody · 14/09/2025 19:22

Nope.

Um that’s exactly what he said . If he encountered a black pilot he’d be concerned about their competence.

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Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:25

@GoldThumb Read my post(s) again. You cannot be a feminist whilst supporting and endorsing misogynistic views.

Tandora · 14/09/2025 19:26

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 19:23

That’s fine then, as I don’t endorse misogynistic views.

So you agree that CK was a dangerous man? Unless you think misogyny isn’t dangerous?

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 19:26

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 19:23

That’s fine then, as I don’t endorse misogynistic views.

Also, I don’t take “you’re not a feminist” lectures seriously from gender identity ideology supporters anyway. Hope that helps.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 14/09/2025 19:26

YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:16

I feel vindicated.
This morning I quoted The Sunday Times re: the suspect being in a relationship with his trans housemate and some posters practically accused me of making it up, being an idiot for believing what I read in The Times, it's all hear say etc etc

You'd think I'd imagined the whole scenario up and not read it in a newspaper.

It doesn't matter to me one way or the other but I hope the posters who criticised me so much this morning can now accept it is actually true.

You provided reputable sources and the counter argument was based on feelings and the desperate need to blame the mythical right-wing bogeyman. It's funny (not really) how posters seemed determined to undermine this proof without offering a shred of evidence themselves.

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 19:26

Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:25

@GoldThumb Read my post(s) again. You cannot be a feminist whilst supporting and endorsing misogynistic views.

Which part of what I stated is misogynistic?

Tandora · 14/09/2025 19:28

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 19:26

Which part of what I stated is misogynistic?

The part where you minimised the acute misogyny promoted by CK and his widow and tried to deflect/
derail anyone from talking about it by trying to pretend that in drawing attention to it they must be saying CK deserved to be assassinated.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 19:28

Tandora · 14/09/2025 19:26

So you agree that CK was a dangerous man? Unless you think misogyny isn’t dangerous?

I think he was a right wing Catholic American with views I don’t share. Plenty of people do though and they have the same human rights I do, even if they don’t appreciate them.

Plastictreees · 14/09/2025 19:28

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 19:26

Also, I don’t take “you’re not a feminist” lectures seriously from gender identity ideology supporters anyway. Hope that helps.

Where’s the lecture and where’s the gender ideology supporters? More conjecture from you again.

Hope that helps 🥰

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 19:28

Tandora · 14/09/2025 19:28

The part where you minimised the acute misogyny promoted by CK and his widow and tried to deflect/
derail anyone from talking about it by trying to pretend that in drawing attention to it they must be saying CK deserved to be assassinated.

Edited

Which was? Specifically?

What, specifically, of the four sentences I typed, was misogynistic?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 19:28

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 19:26

Also, I don’t take “you’re not a feminist” lectures seriously from gender identity ideology supporters anyway. Hope that helps.

Taps sign for @Tandora

24karatPalamino · 14/09/2025 19:29

Tandora · 14/09/2025 19:22

What is all this faux ,
lazy relativism all of a sudden?

you must have some values?

Is it ok to support slavery because “some people have different beliefs to myself and the world didn’t stop spinning”.

What about being a Nazi? Is that ok because “some people have different beliefs to myself”.

If you are going to justify harmful patriarchal ideologies like child rape victims should be forced to gestate babies and give birth, and women should be compelled to submit to their husbands and be confined to domesticity- at least present an actual argument as to why you think this ok fgs.

Or is it just removal of the rights and healthcare of women, girls and lgb people that you are so apathetic about? (I removed the t because you’ve already declared
your opinion on that).

I suggest you try watching some of Charlie’s debates. Whole ones. Not just TikTok snippets.

Tandora · 14/09/2025 19:31

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 19:28

I think he was a right wing Catholic American with views I don’t share. Plenty of people do though and they have the same human rights I do, even if they don’t appreciate them.

Yes but they are removing the rights of women and girls in America. And promoting an ideology that has wider influence around the world. You are minimising this. I do think that’s misogynistic .

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meeleymanatee · 14/09/2025 19:32

Tandora · 14/09/2025 19:24

Um that’s exactly what he said . If he encountered a black pilot he’d be concerned about their competence.

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… because united allegedly reduced the acceptance criteria to reach a goal of 50% female or poc pilots.

whilst I don’t agree with his statement it helps to have context that the statement was in relation to this United initiative.

(I have flown a lot on united and I have had the same feelings in relation to their pilots based on their age… some seem to be ready to get their bus pass and some seem to be just out of high school! Probably makes me agist 😂)

24karatPalamino · 14/09/2025 19:32

Alltheprettyseahorses · 14/09/2025 19:26

You provided reputable sources and the counter argument was based on feelings and the desperate need to blame the mythical right-wing bogeyman. It's funny (not really) how posters seemed determined to undermine this proof without offering a shred of evidence themselves.

It’s because they consider their own opinions and beliefs to be somewhat Divine.

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