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Charlie Kirk- and the reality

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Tandora · 13/09/2025 20:14

So here we are- they have a suspect.
The very little we know about his politics suggests he was likely to be right wing, and came from a family/ culture that supported Trump. He also is said to be an introvert, in to video games , and possibly quite mentally unwell.

So there we have it- fancy that - when you live in a context where people have access to guns and some minority of people are not well, people get shot.

Nothing to do with the evils of the “left”. Nothing to do with trans people or “trans ideology”. Just senseless violence, because people who are not well have access to guns.

So what are we going to take/ learn from this?

AIBU?

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IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 14/09/2025 17:46

CaroleLandis · 14/09/2025 10:42

Part two -

Fascist is used as an insult to shut others down.Usually by fascists themselves.

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:46

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 17:36

I have just read your posts on this thread.

I can’t see a single one which states why mentioning innocence is relevant to his murder, and what makes someone innocent or not innocent.

What’s the moral code for this decision, and who decides it?

if You read my posts (which I don’t believe you have) you will see that I mentioned “innocence” in relation to my personal feelings of empathy or sympathy for CK. i explained that I do not have strong feelings of sympathy for CK and I explained why I don’t and why it is the utmost hypocrisy to demand that I must. However, I feel empathy for his children because they are entirely innocent in all of this.

CK was a misogynist and a racist. I’m not sure whether on mumsnet we are allowed to use the “f” word- but in my mind he was this. He was instrumental in the election of Trump and Vance who are doing substantial harm in the world, destroying American democracy , and the rights of women, minority , immigrant and lgbt people, and making us all less safe. He promoted the right to own weapons, which ironically is exactly what facilitated his murder. That doesn’t mean I support his punishment by death. I don’t support punishment by death for anyone , no matter how guilty or wrong they may be.

If it turns out they have the right suspect in this murder, I will not consider him to be “innocent”- nor will I support, condone or celebrate his execution which seems to be the plan. I think that is horrific.

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YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:47

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:46

Are you trying to fill up the thread with increasingly odd posts place? You’ve got a way to go yet.

😂😂

Oblomov25 · 14/09/2025 17:48

I don't think he was fascist or racist. At all.

Insanityisnotastrategy · 14/09/2025 17:49

YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:20

Fgs @Tandora have some decency.

The poor woman has recently witnessed her husband being murdered in front of her and their children.
Irrespective of what you think of him or her she's probably in shock and very traumatised.

This.

placemats · 14/09/2025 17:49

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:46

Are you trying to fill up the thread with increasingly odd posts place? You’ve got a way to go yet.

Fill your boots. I'm off out. Said what I need to. Forced you to be open about your views on gender identity and all this from a person, myself, who doesn't believe that anyone can change sex - not possible.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:51

placemats · 14/09/2025 17:49

Fill your boots. I'm off out. Said what I need to. Forced you to be open about your views on gender identity and all this from a person, myself, who doesn't believe that anyone can change sex - not possible.

What great revelation do you think I’ve made exactly? 🤣 I’ve never hidden my views. I don’t support gender identity ideology for reasons of women’s rights and I don’t call sons daughters. Big wow.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:53

And most of what you said is nonsense, and you know it @placemats and the cherry on the cake is that you were wrong. Have a lovely evening.

WolfingtonBear · 14/09/2025 17:53

Oblomov25 · 14/09/2025 17:48

I don't think he was fascist or racist. At all.

He wasn’t. He was a moderate American conservative who was trying to have conversations - which the left constantly claim to want! - with young people. For that he was publicly executed in cold blood and millions of people were jubilant and celebratory and felt comfortable posting to the world that they felt this way.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 14/09/2025 17:53

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:46

if You read my posts (which I don’t believe you have) you will see that I mentioned “innocence” in relation to my personal feelings of empathy or sympathy for CK. i explained that I do not have strong feelings of sympathy for CK and I explained why I don’t and why it is the utmost hypocrisy to demand that I must. However, I feel empathy for his children because they are entirely innocent in all of this.

CK was a misogynist and a racist. I’m not sure whether on mumsnet we are allowed to use the “f” word- but in my mind he was this. He was instrumental in the election of Trump and Vance who are doing substantial harm in the world, destroying American democracy , and the rights of women, minority , immigrant and lgbt people, and making us all less safe. He promoted the right to own weapons, which ironically is exactly what facilitated his murder. That doesn’t mean I support his punishment by death. I don’t support punishment by death for anyone , no matter how guilty or wrong they may be.

If it turns out they have the right suspect in this murder, I will not consider him to be “innocent”- nor will I support, condone or celebrate his execution which seems to be the plan. I think that is horrific.

Edited

But he was a baddie yes? A wrongun? A Nazi perhaps? Killed by his petard, yes? You’re kind of, sort of sad for his kids but probably in the grand scheme of things it wasn’t that dreadful a thing. Am I picking up the correct vibe?

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 14/09/2025 17:54

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 14/09/2025 10:56

Repellent opinions according to you and the people that agree with you.

That’s literally the whole cornerstone of the argument around free speech. The right supports free speech and the right to have an opinion and voice it. The left thinks words are literal violence and wants to silence those with opposing views.

Just because he was eloquently (and that’s the very dangerous part) counter-arguing ideologies and beliefs that young people held without any real understanding or education behind them, he had to be silenced. In this case shot and killed so forever to remain silent.

The problem with so much of these young people’s beliefs is they were not based in fact or truth and were caught up in feelings. No problem with that personally but when you can’t tell anyone what a woman is it’s really hard to claim to be one, and it was those debates that became particularly toxic.

That’s is exactly why he was killed.
His words were seen as violence by the left who wanted him silenced.

Insanityisnotastrategy · 14/09/2025 17:54

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 14/09/2025 17:53

But he was a baddie yes? A wrongun? A Nazi perhaps? Killed by his petard, yes? You’re kind of, sort of sad for his kids but probably in the grand scheme of things it wasn’t that dreadful a thing. Am I picking up the correct vibe?

You are indeed picking up the correct vibe from Ms Flabbergasted here.

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 17:54

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:46

Are you trying to fill up the thread with increasingly odd posts place? You’ve got a way to go yet.

Yep. Pivot

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:55

Insanityisnotastrategy · 14/09/2025 17:49

This.

If you think that decency requires a person to excuse the use of inflammatory and violent language, to glorify dangerous men like Vance and Trump, to promote extreme right wing ideology that promotes enforced pregnancy and birth , even for child rape victims, the submission of women to men, and the idea that the murder if children in schools is “worth it” to protect a man’s god given right to own a deadly weapon- if excusing this is your idea of “decency” then I am horrified. And , no, I won’t comply with your idea of “decency “ if this is it.

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godmum56 · 14/09/2025 17:57

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 14/09/2025 09:51

Well a Christian would believe people should live according to the Bible. Do you think other religions living according to their religious books similarly harmful?

I think in any religion, if a man (men) have the beliefs and one of them is that women should comply with them that's harmful.

24karatPalamino · 14/09/2025 17:57

Tandora · 14/09/2025 16:14

Yes I understand the point he was making (but thank you for mansplaining it to me ).

I disagree with it entirely. I do not think that one single murder of children in schools is “worth it” to protect his right to have a gun- let alone murder on the scale that happens in the USA.

CK did. So according to his own values/ opinion his own death was “worth it” for the second amendment , and we should not be “emotionally hijacked” by narratives about his grieving children. This is not how I see things but we should be very clear it’s how CK himself did.

Ouch. Looks like you’ve been owned.

It’s funny how people who hate Charlie Kirk end up becoming experts on everything he said — quoting sound bites completely out of context, but with utmost confidence that they are correct.

Either you’ve been binge-watching an awful lot of Charlie Kirk over the past few days, or you’ve always been a secret fan. I’m actually guessing neither and you’re just reusing Twitter ‘gotchas’ with zero context.

placemats · 14/09/2025 17:59

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:53

And most of what you said is nonsense, and you know it @placemats and the cherry on the cake is that you were wrong. Have a lovely evening.

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Before I go is stating that a person can never change sex nonsense?

Tandora · 14/09/2025 18:00

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 14/09/2025 17:53

But he was a baddie yes? A wrongun? A Nazi perhaps? Killed by his petard, yes? You’re kind of, sort of sad for his kids but probably in the grand scheme of things it wasn’t that dreadful a thing. Am I picking up the correct vibe?

I think CK was a bad , very wrong, very stupid and dangerous person,- yes. That is my opinion of him.

He advocated for the conditions that facilitated his own murder- yes- this is fact.

Do I think he deserved to be murdered? No.

My heart goes out to his children. But I do not personally feel much sympathy/ empathy for CK; I think requiring this of people is hypocritical and dishonest,

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FrippEnos · 14/09/2025 18:03

CurlewKate · 14/09/2025 10:36

What I find particularly irritating is that any attempt to talk about Kirk’s views and the dangers they present seems to be immediatly challenged as being “gleeful” or disrespectful. As if the fact that he has been appallingly murdered has given his views a free pass. And those of us on the left seem to be expected to take the outrageous MAGA rhetoric about his death and who his murderer was without challenge.

What I find particularly irritating is that so many posters are twisting what his views are.

If you are going to post about his views, people should at least post about his views and not the twisted versions that some are happy to put forward.

Lets be honest here, its not difficult to find proof of what he actually believed on marriage, guns, politics, trans and gay matters.

So it should be very easy to post actual quotes and videos without spinning what he meant.

YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 18:04

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:55

If you think that decency requires a person to excuse the use of inflammatory and violent language, to glorify dangerous men like Vance and Trump, to promote extreme right wing ideology that promotes enforced pregnancy and birth , even for child rape victims, the submission of women to men, and the idea that the murder if children in schools is “worth it” to protect a man’s god given right to own a deadly weapon- if excusing this is your idea of “decency” then I am horrified. And , no, I won’t comply with your idea of “decency “ if this is it.

Jesus tandora, you're bad enough when wanging on about trans rights on the 50k sandie peggie threads but you've changed your flabbergasted focus on this thread so many times I've lost count.

It started out this morning with the 'suspect is obviously right wing', then when that is increasingly not likely it was 'he definitely isn't in a relationship with his trans pal' then 'it's all rumours unless I hear it from the horses mouth' and once all the housemate stuff was proved correct you've now moved onto slating his grieving widow.

Your flabber must be well and truly wasted by now.

Insanityisnotastrategy · 14/09/2025 18:04

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:55

If you think that decency requires a person to excuse the use of inflammatory and violent language, to glorify dangerous men like Vance and Trump, to promote extreme right wing ideology that promotes enforced pregnancy and birth , even for child rape victims, the submission of women to men, and the idea that the murder if children in schools is “worth it” to protect a man’s god given right to own a deadly weapon- if excusing this is your idea of “decency” then I am horrified. And , no, I won’t comply with your idea of “decency “ if this is it.

Yawn.

Yes, the moral highground is all yours.

Tandora · 14/09/2025 18:05

24karatPalamino · 14/09/2025 17:57

Ouch. Looks like you’ve been owned.

It’s funny how people who hate Charlie Kirk end up becoming experts on everything he said — quoting sound bites completely out of context, but with utmost confidence that they are correct.

Either you’ve been binge-watching an awful lot of Charlie Kirk over the past few days, or you’ve always been a secret fan. I’m actually guessing neither and you’re just reusing Twitter ‘gotchas’ with zero context.

It’s funny how people who hate Charlie Kirk end up becoming experts on everything he said

why? I despise Trump but take interest in the things he says because they have influence. Do you only take intetest in things you “like” regardless of their importance in the world? odd.

“quoting sound bites completely out of context,”

I quoted what he said , entirely in its context.

Stop minimising the harmful ideologies that are creating the conditions for gun (and other) violence in the USA, these are the conditions that led to CK’s death.

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RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 14/09/2025 18:06

YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:16

I feel vindicated.
This morning I quoted The Sunday Times re: the suspect being in a relationship with his trans housemate and some posters practically accused me of making it up, being an idiot for believing what I read in The Times, it's all hear say etc etc

You'd think I'd imagined the whole scenario up and not read it in a newspaper.

It doesn't matter to me one way or the other but I hope the posters who criticised me so much this morning can now accept it is actually true.

i didn’t know whether it was true or not, all the articles i read which you mentioned didn’t know either

which is why in a one of my earlier posts i said ‘yet’

didn't accuse you, didn't say you’d made it up…just that there was no evidence

you are absolutely right though, the evidence is through and you should feel vindicated 💐

Tandora · 14/09/2025 18:06

Insanityisnotastrategy · 14/09/2025 18:04

Yawn.

Yes, the moral highground is all yours.

I do believe it absolutely is.

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IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 14/09/2025 18:08

Tandora · 14/09/2025 18:06

I do believe it absolutely is.

Yes that’s the problem.
You think you are right.

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