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Charlie Kirk- and the reality

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Tandora · 13/09/2025 20:14

So here we are- they have a suspect.
The very little we know about his politics suggests he was likely to be right wing, and came from a family/ culture that supported Trump. He also is said to be an introvert, in to video games , and possibly quite mentally unwell.

So there we have it- fancy that - when you live in a context where people have access to guns and some minority of people are not well, people get shot.

Nothing to do with the evils of the “left”. Nothing to do with trans people or “trans ideology”. Just senseless violence, because people who are not well have access to guns.

So what are we going to take/ learn from this?

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:09

More from NBC

The roommate has been “very cooperative,” Cox said.

This tracks with what a federal official close to the investigation told NBC News on Sunday.

Investigators have been interviewing Robinson's roommate, with the official saying "there appears to be a romantic relationship" and that the roommate is transitioning from male to female. The roommate has been cooperating, but there still is "not a solid understanding" of how that personal relationship are factors, the official said.

Asked on CNN how the roommate transitioning was relevant to the suspect’s motive, Cox said, “That’s what we’re trying to figure out right now.”

“It’s easy to draw conclusions from that, and so we’ve got the shell casings, other forensic evidence that is coming in and trying to piece all of those things together,” Cox said.

Cox also said Robinson has not been cooperating with authorities. The federal official told NBC News that Robinson has invoked his Fifth Amendment rights.

Authorities have not provided details about the suspect’s motive. The governor said that the suspect, 22-year-old Tyler Robinson, had a “leftist ideology” despite coming from a conservative family. Robinson was not registered to any political party. Authorities said he scrawled messages about fascism, video games and internet memes on ammunition.

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:16

Martharian · 14/09/2025 16:50

I haven’t sent anyone being sacked for making honest remarks about what he said, but I’m not arrogant enough to assume that means it is happening. And if is happening, then I’d disagree with it.

I also think it’s fair enough to discuss his political views but I’ve seen lots of misrepresenting of what he said (most of which I don’t agree with) and lots of using it as a reason to justify/celebrate his murder.

His widow did say she’d go into battle for what he stood for, and also said this “Our campus tour this fall will continue. There will be even more tours in the years to come. America Fest here in Phoenix this December will go on. It will be greater than ever. The radio and podcast show that he was so proud of will go on. And in a world filled with chaos, doubt, and uncertainty, my husband’s voice will remain. And it will ring out louder and more clearly than ever. And his wisdom will endure.”

Yes, ‘battle’ is evocative but what she’s advocating for is more debate and discussion, not violence. This was the full quote:

”The evildoers responsible for my husband’s assassination have no idea what they have done. They killed Charlie because he preached a message of patriotism, faith, and of God’s merciful love. They should all know this. If you thought that my husband’s mission was powerful before, you have no idea. You have no idea what you just have unleashed across this entire country and this world. You have no idea. You have no idea the fire that you have ignited within this wife. The cries of this widow will echo around the world like a battle cry.”

I don’t know who “they” is that she refers to and I don’t think we know for why he was killed, but it is evident that people have condoned his murder because of his views and debates.

I found her speech extremely disturbing and extremely inflammatory and her language was evocative of violence.
Also her whole manner was so performative and dystopian- it was like watching something out of the hunger games:

Those ideas they are promoting in school campuses aren’t innocent or harmless either!! Why is everyone pretending they are?! I’m flabbergasted.

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YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:16

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:09

More from NBC

The roommate has been “very cooperative,” Cox said.

This tracks with what a federal official close to the investigation told NBC News on Sunday.

Investigators have been interviewing Robinson's roommate, with the official saying "there appears to be a romantic relationship" and that the roommate is transitioning from male to female. The roommate has been cooperating, but there still is "not a solid understanding" of how that personal relationship are factors, the official said.

Asked on CNN how the roommate transitioning was relevant to the suspect’s motive, Cox said, “That’s what we’re trying to figure out right now.”

“It’s easy to draw conclusions from that, and so we’ve got the shell casings, other forensic evidence that is coming in and trying to piece all of those things together,” Cox said.

Cox also said Robinson has not been cooperating with authorities. The federal official told NBC News that Robinson has invoked his Fifth Amendment rights.

Authorities have not provided details about the suspect’s motive. The governor said that the suspect, 22-year-old Tyler Robinson, had a “leftist ideology” despite coming from a conservative family. Robinson was not registered to any political party. Authorities said he scrawled messages about fascism, video games and internet memes on ammunition.

I feel vindicated.
This morning I quoted The Sunday Times re: the suspect being in a relationship with his trans housemate and some posters practically accused me of making it up, being an idiot for believing what I read in The Times, it's all hear say etc etc

You'd think I'd imagined the whole scenario up and not read it in a newspaper.

It doesn't matter to me one way or the other but I hope the posters who criticised me so much this morning can now accept it is actually true.

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:18

Insanityisnotastrategy · 14/09/2025 17:03

In what way was he not innocent? Oh yes, because you don't think he had a right to think differently to you. So I guess he had it coming (but you're careful not to say that).

He was not “innocent” because he was promoting harmful and dangerous ideas that create the conditions for violence.

for example- he advocated for the right for people to possessed guns. Guns are dangerous. His own death is very proof of this.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:19

YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:16

I feel vindicated.
This morning I quoted The Sunday Times re: the suspect being in a relationship with his trans housemate and some posters practically accused me of making it up, being an idiot for believing what I read in The Times, it's all hear say etc etc

You'd think I'd imagined the whole scenario up and not read it in a newspaper.

It doesn't matter to me one way or the other but I hope the posters who criticised me so much this morning can now accept it is actually true.

I wouldn’t hold your breath. But solidarity, I’ve been accused of the same.

meeleymanatee · 14/09/2025 17:19

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:16

I found her speech extremely disturbing and extremely inflammatory and her language was evocative of violence.
Also her whole manner was so performative and dystopian- it was like watching something out of the hunger games:

Those ideas they are promoting in school campuses aren’t innocent or harmless either!! Why is everyone pretending they are?! I’m flabbergasted.

She just lost the love of her life. The father of her children. It’s very clear they were deeply in love. So maybe give her a break. I’m sorry she didn’t grieve the way you wanted her to.

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:19

YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:16

I feel vindicated.
This morning I quoted The Sunday Times re: the suspect being in a relationship with his trans housemate and some posters practically accused me of making it up, being an idiot for believing what I read in The Times, it's all hear say etc etc

You'd think I'd imagined the whole scenario up and not read it in a newspaper.

It doesn't matter to me one way or the other but I hope the posters who criticised me so much this morning can now accept it is actually true.

No . Again- you claimed the times reported it as fact. This was false. They did not, they merely referenced the existence of the rumours without even stating the original source.

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YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:20

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:16

I found her speech extremely disturbing and extremely inflammatory and her language was evocative of violence.
Also her whole manner was so performative and dystopian- it was like watching something out of the hunger games:

Those ideas they are promoting in school campuses aren’t innocent or harmless either!! Why is everyone pretending they are?! I’m flabbergasted.

Fgs @Tandora have some decency.

The poor woman has recently witnessed her husband being murdered in front of her and their children.
Irrespective of what you think of him or her she's probably in shock and very traumatised.

YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:22

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:19

No . Again- you claimed the times reported it as fact. This was false. They did not, they merely referenced the existence of the rumours without even stating the original source.

It was reported as news and not an opinion piece which is what I said and I took it at face value as news. That is quite a normal thing to do when reading the news.
A few hours later it appears the Sunday Times was correct.

BreatheAndFocus · 14/09/2025 17:22

They won’t @YourLemonTiger I’ve seen similar all over the online media: really weird, gaslighting comments. One example was early after the murder when a news story mentioned a few things from reports/sources and every single one of the things suggested that Robinson was left wing. Yet, there were a number of comments saying things like, “Good! I hope you’ll all shut up now it’s been shown a right winger killed him”.

Whether the information was confirmed or not, for someone to read left wing things A, B and C, and think they proved the killer was right wing can only be gaslighting. Nobody can be that stupid.

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:23

meeleymanatee · 14/09/2025 17:19

She just lost the love of her life. The father of her children. It’s very clear they were deeply in love. So maybe give her a break. I’m sorry she didn’t grieve the way you wanted her to.

Im flabbergasted that what you took from my post is that “she didn’t grieve in the way I wanted her to”.

Give her a break by excusing her use of totally unwarranted inflammatory and violent language and doubling down on the dangerous ideology that her and her late husband are/ were promoting? Including her glorification of men like Vance and Trump?

Absolutely I will not.

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RowanRed90 · 14/09/2025 17:23

StandFirm · 14/09/2025 07:41

...but you can't kill a man from 100 yards with a knife. This only happened because the killer had a GUN.

They can build a bomb. People do that too

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 17:23

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:18

He was not “innocent” because he was promoting harmful and dangerous ideas that create the conditions for violence.

for example- he advocated for the right for people to possessed guns. Guns are dangerous. His own death is very proof of this.

So his ‘crimes’ should be punishable by death?

And if not, what’s the point of using words like ‘innocent’?

People are really crazy.

You could argue Zarah Sultana’s recent tweet meets your definition?
Ascribing crimes of fascism, and the desired result being the ‘guilty’ taken off the streets forever.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:23

I agree @BreatheAndFocus i find it really unsettling the way people will phrase the fake news. It’s gaslighting.

meeleymanatee · 14/09/2025 17:25

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:23

Im flabbergasted that what you took from my post is that “she didn’t grieve in the way I wanted her to”.

Give her a break by excusing her use of totally unwarranted inflammatory and violent language and doubling down on the dangerous ideology that her and her late husband are/ were promoting? Including her glorification of men like Vance and Trump?

Absolutely I will not.

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You seem to be flabbergasted a lot. This whole thread you’re just ‘I’m flabbergasted…’

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:25

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 17:23

So his ‘crimes’ should be punishable by death?

And if not, what’s the point of using words like ‘innocent’?

People are really crazy.

You could argue Zarah Sultana’s recent tweet meets your definition?
Ascribing crimes of fascism, and the desired result being the ‘guilty’ taken off the streets forever.

So his ‘crimes’ should be punishable by death?

Absolutely not. please read my posts. I do not believe in punishment by death under any circumstances.

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Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:26

meeleymanatee · 14/09/2025 17:25

You seem to be flabbergasted a lot. This whole thread you’re just ‘I’m flabbergasted…’

I am. Flabbergasted and Horrified. This country is going the way of Trump’s US.

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OneAmberFinch · 14/09/2025 17:26

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:19

No . Again- you claimed the times reported it as fact. This was false. They did not, they merely referenced the existence of the rumours without even stating the original source.

I'd slow down on accusing others of peddling misinformation given you literally started a thread about the "reality" that this had "nothing to do with leftists or trans rights".

There we have it - fancy that!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/09/2025 17:27

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:19

No . Again- you claimed the times reported it as fact. This was false. They did not, they merely referenced the existence of the rumours without even stating the original source.

You were still wrong though 🤷‍♀️

placemats · 14/09/2025 17:28

YourLemonTiger · 14/09/2025 17:20

Fgs @Tandora have some decency.

The poor woman has recently witnessed her husband being murdered in front of her and their children.
Irrespective of what you think of him or her she's probably in shock and very traumatised.

Except neither her or their children were in the audience.

If I'd lost the love of my life to a horrific assassination, I would be inconsolable and unable to speak. But I do understand that other people react differently.

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 17:29

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:25

So his ‘crimes’ should be punishable by death?

Absolutely not. please read my posts. I do not believe in punishment by death under any circumstances.

So what do you mean by his wasn’t ’innocent’ then?

Who sets the parameters on being ‘innocent’ in the moral way you mean?
Who decides what ‘crimes’ are worthy of becoming a guilty person, rather than an innocent one?

He was innocent of any crimes.

No-one is innocent in terms of morality, every single one of us is flawed. Every single one.

meeleymanatee · 14/09/2025 17:30

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:26

I am. Flabbergasted and Horrified. This country is going the way of Trump’s US.

And if we do it won’t be Charlie Kirk’s fault it will be because we have a shower of shite left wing government

Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:30

@YourLemonTiger

Excusing the use of totally unwarranted inflammatory and violent language and doubling down on a dangerous ideology - Including glorification of men like Vance and Trump is not my idea of decency.

No I will not do this. I will not excuse this.

CK was not murdered in front of her or their children. This was a false rumour that the BBC retracted.

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Tandora · 14/09/2025 17:31

GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 17:29

So what do you mean by his wasn’t ’innocent’ then?

Who sets the parameters on being ‘innocent’ in the moral way you mean?
Who decides what ‘crimes’ are worthy of becoming a guilty person, rather than an innocent one?

He was innocent of any crimes.

No-one is innocent in terms of morality, every single one of us is flawed. Every single one.

Read my posts I already answered that.

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GoldThumb · 14/09/2025 17:31

placemats · 14/09/2025 17:28

Except neither her or their children were in the audience.

If I'd lost the love of my life to a horrific assassination, I would be inconsolable and unable to speak. But I do understand that other people react differently.

They might not have been there, but the video will be there forever.

I think the reason this has affected so many people is in a way, he was killed ‘in front of’ the whole world.

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