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Septemberisaweirdmonth · 13/09/2025 16:12

Years ago I would have described myself as liberal and on the left. Over recent years the things I seem to agree with seem to be considered to be on the right and even far right

Examples:

I see nothing wrong with wanting to retain British culture or the innate culture of any country and see nothing wrong with a country being proud of its flag..as many are-Spain, Usa, Portugal etc etc

Whilst I have no issue with anyone being transgender, I do not believe transgender males should play in female sports, be in female toilets, prisons etc and I don’t believe children should be given drugs to alter their gender.

I think immigration in Europe needs to be controlled.,and quickly

I would be put off a man and likely wouldn’t see him again if he asked to split the bill on a first date. I can pay the bill four times over, but that’s not the point.

I am educated to post degree status and worked full time in my career for many years until I had my dc, I then wanted to and was thankfully able to stay at home. I see nothing wrong with the man going out to work, the mum staying home, taking care of the kids and the house-if that suits everyone and they’re happy doing that. My ideal scenario now would be a nice community, homeschooling and raising kids.

I am not anti abortion completely but my stance leans more towards this angle (I don’t tell anyone this though)

I regularly watched Charlie kirk, whilst I didn’t agree with everything and i’m not hugely religious, I agreed with a lot of his points and found he made his points respectfully. I also regularly watch Piers morgan uncensored

I didn’t agree with the almost forcing of people to have the covid injection

I quite like Trump

I feel embarrassed writing all this down as I feel I can’t really say this in real life

Have I become far right?

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TheJoyOfWriting · 13/09/2025 23:40

Septemberisaweirdmonth · 13/09/2025 16:12

Years ago I would have described myself as liberal and on the left. Over recent years the things I seem to agree with seem to be considered to be on the right and even far right

Examples:

I see nothing wrong with wanting to retain British culture or the innate culture of any country and see nothing wrong with a country being proud of its flag..as many are-Spain, Usa, Portugal etc etc

Whilst I have no issue with anyone being transgender, I do not believe transgender males should play in female sports, be in female toilets, prisons etc and I don’t believe children should be given drugs to alter their gender.

I think immigration in Europe needs to be controlled.,and quickly

I would be put off a man and likely wouldn’t see him again if he asked to split the bill on a first date. I can pay the bill four times over, but that’s not the point.

I am educated to post degree status and worked full time in my career for many years until I had my dc, I then wanted to and was thankfully able to stay at home. I see nothing wrong with the man going out to work, the mum staying home, taking care of the kids and the house-if that suits everyone and they’re happy doing that. My ideal scenario now would be a nice community, homeschooling and raising kids.

I am not anti abortion completely but my stance leans more towards this angle (I don’t tell anyone this though)

I regularly watched Charlie kirk, whilst I didn’t agree with everything and i’m not hugely religious, I agreed with a lot of his points and found he made his points respectfully. I also regularly watch Piers morgan uncensored

I didn’t agree with the almost forcing of people to have the covid injection

I quite like Trump

I feel embarrassed writing all this down as I feel I can’t really say this in real life

Have I become far right?

Op, what do you think of Charlie Kirk's comments on the UK? When he came, he called it a 'third world hellhole' and said he saw a cafe full of 'Mohammedans and fully burka-wearing women, no native Brits.'

Don't know what area he was in, since according to stats only 1% of UK Muslim women wear the niqab (full-face veil, maybe he meant that?) and less than 1% wear burka.

Also interesting that he thought by default Muslims couldn't be native Brits!

I personally think we should ban the burqa & niqab but imo it's a moral panic to some extent since so few Muslim women wear them. To hear Farage & Kirk talk, you'd think most wore them! I live in an area w a large Asian community & have only once seen a lady in a niqab & never seen a burka.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&source=web&rct=j&url=www.bbc.com/news/uk-45112792%23:~:text%3DIf%2520the%2520number%2520of%2520Muslim%2520women%2520wearing,the%2520figure%2520also%2520appears%2520to%2520be%2520low.&ved=2ahUKEwjF5OK64daPAxXCYEEAHW9ALTEQ1fkOegQIBRAF&opi=89978449&cd&psig=AOvVaw0XgaGAze1uWRXWbTa40tlV&ust=1757888056922000

It's fascinating to me how UK people who idolised Kirk claim to be very patriotic but follow someone who calls our country a 'third world hellhole'. I love Britain, I'm proud to be British (I'm left-centrist fyi). I agree we have serious issues w immigration, also crime, poverty, NHS etc but I don't think men like Kirk are the answer. It's ridiculous to say our country is third world or dominated by niqab-wearing women.

Same principle in Texas, where young men feel the US is ungodly & say their evangelical churches are too feminine, so they go to Orthodox churches which push pro-Russia & Putin sentiment. Very ironic they are attending churches which kowtow to the greatness of Russian culture compared to the godless US, yet claim they are expressing patriotism!

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m002bsx9&ved=2ahUKEwjx-NOS5taPAxWaRUEAHVLMAMYQFnoECBsQAQ&usg=AOvVaw27VMxhl_<a class="break-all" href="https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bbc.co.uk%2Fprogrammes%2Fm002bsx9&usg=AOvVaw27VMxhl<u>ShO82UM</u>CljoIf&ved=2ahUKEwjx-NOS5taPAxWaRUEAHVLMAMYQFnoECBsQAQ" rel="nofollow" target="blank">ShO82UMCljoIf

GoldMerchant · 13/09/2025 23:40

Strawberriesandlemon · 13/09/2025 23:26

2 schools in my local area stopped celebrating Christmas and Easter and all religious holidays. Which is extremely sad. I can only imagine it is again our so we don’t offend anyone let’s just not do it approach. Did cause enough uproar to be in local paper.
But we traditionally were a Christian country. And my point was I think the amount of people going to church and being Christian is declining. Easter and Christmas are Christian religious holidays, not just abit of fun. It comes from our British religious routes.
I think people think I’m blaming this on immigration which I’m not at all. Yes the illegal immigration needs controlling asap as we can’t cope with the amount coming over and it is getting out of control trol but I think the biggest decline in our culture has come from the internet and social media.

Right so no one actually banned any school from celebrating Christian festivals? The school decided not to do it for reasons that you "imagine".

OneBadKitty · 13/09/2025 23:44

OP, I wouldn't consider you to be a far right supporter. You actually sound like most people I know. Most people I know are generally Labour or Conservative supporters and pretty close to the middle in terms of views. You are leaning to the right in that you think trump is Ok, but most people don't disagree with everything Trump stands for, they just acknowledge that he is a mysogynistic, white supremacist with some questionable views, a clearly egocentric personality and xenophobic. But he has a point on some issues. Same with Farage- we all know he is a fascist at heart, but not many want the Uk swamped with illegal migrants and I don't think the Labour or Conservative party do either, but they have to be seen to be more diplomatic than the far right.

Lyraloo · 13/09/2025 23:45

I’m so sorry, I meant to put Amish not Quaker, sorry !

Phatgurslyms · 13/09/2025 23:45

24karatPalamino · 13/09/2025 22:50

You sound perfectly normal to me.

I agree with a lot of what you wrote. I’ll also be voting reform, am heartbroken by the death of Charlie Kirk and am so glad Trump won the American presidency.

After last week I am going to be loud and proud about my beliefs. I am not ashamed. I know I’m a good person and I don’t need anyone else to agree.

You are probably not as good a person as you would like to think. Or rather you are nice to the right people.

RoseAndGeranium · 13/09/2025 23:46

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 13/09/2025 23:35

In public health terms the worry about non use of service is the individual has an increased risk early morbidity.
The pressures
are lack of step down provision, unable to transfer from acute setting causing delayed transfer of care
Not enough care agency staff to undertake care at home
lack of mental health beds leading to over reliance on Extra Contractual Referral (ECR) bed. Costly and often poor quality
Immigrants are not creating significant demands on NHS

Edited

The Telegraph is reporting that the NHS spends £130k per day on translators. Now, that in itself is quite a considerable burden. Assuming an employment cost of £40k per annum for a nurse that money could otherwise fund over 1000 nurses. But the larger point is that if £130k per day’s worth of translation services is needed there must be a pretty substantial use of NHS services by non-English speakers, a group that will overwhelmingly be made up of immigrants. So, I don’t think the argument can convincing be made that immigration is not creating a significant additional burden for the NHS.

Athreedoorwardrobe · 13/09/2025 23:46

I think you are kinda of slipping into being so yes... you must be careful not to put yourself in a bubble. It's easy to do now days.
I would try and balance any right wing media you consume with some type of counterpoint.
Follow some left wing news sites as well for example.
Just pick ones that don't annoy you too much.
I'm very left wing but I still read what's being said in the spectator or the telegraph. It's hard sometimes as I want to shout at it but I think it's important to really know why you have opinions you do rather than sleepwalking into them.
Another thing I do is I don't just rely on quotes being used or opinion pieces.
If someone has an opinion about something that I find interesting and support, or alternately they've made a comment about something making it look horrific.. then I will seek out the actual sources mentioned to check they are being represented fairly.
So I have sat through entire Charlie kirk speeches and Jordan peterson podcasts for example.
I really think people should do this because often both 'sides' (I'm aware there are more than two schools of political thought but you get my gist) will cherry pick things and misrepresent them to cause division because it sells copy basically.
For example there's plenty i have in common with the views of Jordan peterson which I never would have thought if I just read the anti Jordan peterson articles instead of actually listening to him. All in all I do not agree with many of his views, he's not someone I enjoy listening too, but I'm well aware he's not the lunatic he's often made put to be.

So basically op I think you should devote some time to some more left wing narrative because it seems like you've slept walked into a bubble.

theDudesmummy · 13/09/2025 23:47

@Brunettesmorefun Trump puts Trump first. Nothing else.

Strawberriesandlemon · 13/09/2025 23:47

GoldMerchant · 13/09/2025 23:40

Right so no one actually banned any school from celebrating Christian festivals? The school decided not to do it for reasons that you "imagine".

Yes. For whatever reason they ‘chose to’ it shows a decline in our traditional British values. Ie Christianity. Which is what you originally were ‘curious’ about. So it is declining.

OwlBeThere · 13/09/2025 23:48

Septemberisaweirdmonth · 13/09/2025 16:12

Years ago I would have described myself as liberal and on the left. Over recent years the things I seem to agree with seem to be considered to be on the right and even far right

Examples:

I see nothing wrong with wanting to retain British culture or the innate culture of any country and see nothing wrong with a country being proud of its flag..as many are-Spain, Usa, Portugal etc etc

Whilst I have no issue with anyone being transgender, I do not believe transgender males should play in female sports, be in female toilets, prisons etc and I don’t believe children should be given drugs to alter their gender.

I think immigration in Europe needs to be controlled.,and quickly

I would be put off a man and likely wouldn’t see him again if he asked to split the bill on a first date. I can pay the bill four times over, but that’s not the point.

I am educated to post degree status and worked full time in my career for many years until I had my dc, I then wanted to and was thankfully able to stay at home. I see nothing wrong with the man going out to work, the mum staying home, taking care of the kids and the house-if that suits everyone and they’re happy doing that. My ideal scenario now would be a nice community, homeschooling and raising kids.

I am not anti abortion completely but my stance leans more towards this angle (I don’t tell anyone this though)

I regularly watched Charlie kirk, whilst I didn’t agree with everything and i’m not hugely religious, I agreed with a lot of his points and found he made his points respectfully. I also regularly watch Piers morgan uncensored

I didn’t agree with the almost forcing of people to have the covid injection

I quite like Trump

I feel embarrassed writing all this down as I feel I can’t really say this in real life

Have I become far right?

You are definitely holding right wing opinions.

Allisnotlost1 · 13/09/2025 23:49

Strawberriesandlemon · 13/09/2025 23:26

2 schools in my local area stopped celebrating Christmas and Easter and all religious holidays. Which is extremely sad. I can only imagine it is again our so we don’t offend anyone let’s just not do it approach. Did cause enough uproar to be in local paper.
But we traditionally were a Christian country. And my point was I think the amount of people going to church and being Christian is declining. Easter and Christmas are Christian religious holidays, not just abit of fun. It comes from our British religious routes.
I think people think I’m blaming this on immigration which I’m not at all. Yes the illegal immigration needs controlling asap as we can’t cope with the amount coming over and it is getting out of control trol but I think the biggest decline in our culture has come from the internet and social media.

If that’s what’s happened I agree with you that’s bonkers. But it’s a decision taken by the schools, not forced by ‘immigration’.

Pepple practising Christianity is declining yes. We’re much more secular now, and for me that’s a good thing rather than bad.

Beeinalily · 13/09/2025 23:50

You've grown up, OP

randomchap · 13/09/2025 23:51

RoseAndGeranium · 13/09/2025 23:46

The Telegraph is reporting that the NHS spends £130k per day on translators. Now, that in itself is quite a considerable burden. Assuming an employment cost of £40k per annum for a nurse that money could otherwise fund over 1000 nurses. But the larger point is that if £130k per day’s worth of translation services is needed there must be a pretty substantial use of NHS services by non-English speakers, a group that will overwhelmingly be made up of immigrants. So, I don’t think the argument can convincing be made that immigration is not creating a significant additional burden for the NHS.

Immigration also makes up a huge number of the NHS workforce. In the team I'm in, one third are immigrants. Overall for doctors it's about over one third

CovenOfCheeses · 13/09/2025 23:52

Brunettesmorefun · 13/09/2025 23:19

Can I join please? Although the only thing that I like about Trump is he puts his country first. Now there’s a novelty!

He puts himself first and convinces idiots that he is a patriot who loves his country. Their racism and lack of education helps them believe this idea.

Allisnotlost1 · 13/09/2025 23:55

RoseAndGeranium · 13/09/2025 23:46

The Telegraph is reporting that the NHS spends £130k per day on translators. Now, that in itself is quite a considerable burden. Assuming an employment cost of £40k per annum for a nurse that money could otherwise fund over 1000 nurses. But the larger point is that if £130k per day’s worth of translation services is needed there must be a pretty substantial use of NHS services by non-English speakers, a group that will overwhelmingly be made up of immigrants. So, I don’t think the argument can convincing be made that immigration is not creating a significant additional burden for the NHS.

if the figure is accurate - which it might be - then yes it points to a lot of people who speak other languages using it. But those people will be legal immigrants. And in most cases, they will be working.

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 13/09/2025 23:58

randomchap · 13/09/2025 23:51

Immigration also makes up a huge number of the NHS workforce. In the team I'm in, one third are immigrants. Overall for doctors it's about over one third

You’re conflating unrelated events. Use of translation indicates English isn’t first language. Use of translators doesn’t tell you immigration status. Not all those bookings are for illegal immigrants

theDudesmummy · 13/09/2025 23:58

So, some people accessing the NHS need interpreters. And some need wheelchairs, plaster casts or pacemakers.

Cattenberg · 14/09/2025 00:00

SusieLawson · 13/09/2025 23:08

I noticed that people use the term left and right for reasons that don't make sense in real life, and that leads many people to think types like Nigel Farage who want to distant us from the rest of Europe, care about British people and society, when his main interest is to keep the British economy closely linked with USA banks encouraging people to live in greed and debt, so he can sell his get rich quick schemes based on stock market gambling. The reason he took over UKIP was because the UKIP founder James Goldsmith whose banking family changed their German Jewish name to sound British, wanted the same as Farage, and to destroy the NHS as Farage also wants to do. Instead of doing his best for British people, he would sell us off to the USA, and all the cultural aspects of the USA would be an even bigger influence, such as a melting pot society and trans chi ldren. Then people act confused why what they dislike gets worse after supporting types like Farage.
That's why we could never be a successful republic like Germany and Ireland, as all politicians especially Tories, have turned us into such USA lapdogs, with so much of our economy and media being linked with the USA, that we would be more like the USA if we became a republic. Look at how already, because an African American man was killed in the USA by an American policeman, for some reason it caused British advertising to look like more of a USA type melting pot society than Britain really is. That's nothing to do with lefties.

People are brainwashed into blaming others for what our government have caused with the USA to put us in danger. Afghanistan wasn't extremist until the USA were arming and training the extremists there in the 1980s against Russia, and then when Russia left Afghanistan, the USA didn't care what the extremists were doing through the 90s, until 9/11. Same as how the secret service whistle blower David Shayler told how Britain and the USA were funding Al Q aeda in Libya against Gaddafi, and now Libya is an extremist training ground and we're often being harmed by those who train in Libya such as the Manchester arena, our media never remind people why that happens. Look at how the media doesn't care about those in Afghanistan now after the USA gave up there, while only reporting on the Russia/ U kraine situation, because of how pre Trump USA politicians wanted to use it as an excuse to start WWIII as population control.
I think people are wrong for saying leftie as an insult, when what they're insulting is only really in this country from USA capitalist influence. Only a USA magazine made Bruce J enner woman of the year and have a TV series for Jazz Jennings. Only the USA promote melting pot societies. It's mainly Americans who are angry at JK Rowling. Things that are blamed on lefties.
Actual lefty countries such as most in north Europe and Scandinavia, only mainly promote things like free health care and not getting into debt with credit cards.

I do wonder why some Brits seem obsessed with the US and why powerful Americans such as Elon Musk (and to a lesser extent, Trump) are trying to undermine our democratically-elected government.

I would much rather that we spent more time learning from our European neighbours. Every country in Western Europe and most of those in Eastern Europe have a lower per capita murder rate than the US (in many cases, vastly lower). Life expectancy is also higher in most European countries than in the US. The same is true of adult literacy rates. The average European also has a much lower carbon footprint than the average American (and the average Australian, as it happens).

Why are we trying to copy the US? Is it because they speak the same language as us and have the loudest voice in the world's media?

GoldMerchant · 14/09/2025 00:01

Strawberriesandlemon · 13/09/2025 23:47

Yes. For whatever reason they ‘chose to’ it shows a decline in our traditional British values. Ie Christianity. Which is what you originally were ‘curious’ about. So it is declining.

No I wanted to know who said schools weren't allowed to celebrate Easter and Christmas. And the answer is no one.

Language is important here. Because saying that a school isn't allowed to do something plays into a narrative that particular groups are actively dismantling aspects of British culture. Or that white, Christian British people are being persecuted in some way. Saying that a school has chosen to change its celebrations is actually closer to traditional British liberalism, centred on a lack of state intervention and freedom of choice.

sweetgingercat · 14/09/2025 00:01

I see nothing wrong with wanting to retain British culture or the innate culture of any country and see nothing wrong with a country being proud of its flag..as many are-Spain, Usa, Portugal etc etc

You make it sound like it's so easy. Yes, nothing wrong with being proud of the flag, except when it's being used to promote hate, and other people who are British but have a different skin colour.

Whilst I have no issue with anyone being transgender, I do not believe transgender males should play in female sports, be in female toilets, prisons etc and I don’t believe children should be given drugs to alter their gender.

Most people would agree with you on this.

I think immigration in Europe needs to be controlled.,and quickly

How should it be controlled? That's the important thing. Most people would agree that uncontrolled immigration is a problem. But people coming here illegally is only 9% of total immigration, so what should we do about that? Your answer will indicate how far you have swerved to the right.

I would be put off a man and likely wouldn’t see him again if he asked to split the bill on a first date. I can pay the bill four times over, but that’s not the point.

What is your point then?

I am educated to post degree status and worked full time in my career for many years until I had my dc, I then wanted to and was thankfully able to stay at home. I see nothing wrong with the man going out to work, the mum staying home, taking care of the kids and the house-if that suits everyone and they’re happy doing that. My ideal scenario now would be a nice community, homeschooling and raising kids.

It's having the choice to either stay at home or go out to work that matters.

I am not anti abortion completely but my stance leans more towards this angle (I don’t tell anyone this though)

Of course, it's proper not to discuss this with anyone. We each have our own bodies, beliefs and choices. What I may choose to do when I'm pregnant is nothing to do with you.

I regularly watched Charlie kirk, whilst I didn’t agree with everything and i’m not hugely religious, I agreed with a lot of his points and found he made his points respectfully. I also regularly watch Piers morgan uncensored

In any argument, making points respectfully doesn't diminish the abhorrence of the points that are made.

I didn’t agree with the almost forcing of people to have the covid injection

No one was forced to have the covid injection.

I quite like Trump

And do you like the things he has done too?

I feel embarrassed writing all this down as I feel I can’t really say this in real life
Have I become far right?

Pretty much this was a fishing exercise in my view.

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 14/09/2025 00:02

RoseAndGeranium · 13/09/2025 23:46

The Telegraph is reporting that the NHS spends £130k per day on translators. Now, that in itself is quite a considerable burden. Assuming an employment cost of £40k per annum for a nurse that money could otherwise fund over 1000 nurses. But the larger point is that if £130k per day’s worth of translation services is needed there must be a pretty substantial use of NHS services by non-English speakers, a group that will overwhelmingly be made up of immigrants. So, I don’t think the argument can convincing be made that immigration is not creating a significant additional burden for the NHS.

Define significant explain your rationale

Schoolchoicesucks · 14/09/2025 00:03

What is it about Trump that you quite like?

I have a different opinion to you on a number of the things you have mentioned (especially abortion). The issue with "being proud of British values and the British flag" is that is used as a dog whistle for racist anti-immigrant views. The "flag wankers" in London today were not a bunch I'd like to be associated with and the ones I saw were not the best of British.

randomchap · 14/09/2025 00:03

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 13/09/2025 23:58

You’re conflating unrelated events. Use of translation indicates English isn’t first language. Use of translators doesn’t tell you immigration status. Not all those bookings are for illegal immigrants

I'm just pointing out how much the nhs relies on immigration. People coming over here and caring for our sick and injured.

It's a counterpoint to those complaining about immigration

samthepigeon · 14/09/2025 00:04

RingoJuice · 13/09/2025 16:48

You are just a normal person. Don’t let them label you far right.

Is it an insult to be called far right?

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 14/09/2025 00:05

randomchap · 14/09/2025 00:03

I'm just pointing out how much the nhs relies on immigration. People coming over here and caring for our sick and injured.

It's a counterpoint to those complaining about immigration

Agree with you I’m replying to @RoseAndGeranium

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