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Am I considered far right now?

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Septemberisaweirdmonth · 13/09/2025 16:12

Years ago I would have described myself as liberal and on the left. Over recent years the things I seem to agree with seem to be considered to be on the right and even far right

Examples:

I see nothing wrong with wanting to retain British culture or the innate culture of any country and see nothing wrong with a country being proud of its flag..as many are-Spain, Usa, Portugal etc etc

Whilst I have no issue with anyone being transgender, I do not believe transgender males should play in female sports, be in female toilets, prisons etc and I don’t believe children should be given drugs to alter their gender.

I think immigration in Europe needs to be controlled.,and quickly

I would be put off a man and likely wouldn’t see him again if he asked to split the bill on a first date. I can pay the bill four times over, but that’s not the point.

I am educated to post degree status and worked full time in my career for many years until I had my dc, I then wanted to and was thankfully able to stay at home. I see nothing wrong with the man going out to work, the mum staying home, taking care of the kids and the house-if that suits everyone and they’re happy doing that. My ideal scenario now would be a nice community, homeschooling and raising kids.

I am not anti abortion completely but my stance leans more towards this angle (I don’t tell anyone this though)

I regularly watched Charlie kirk, whilst I didn’t agree with everything and i’m not hugely religious, I agreed with a lot of his points and found he made his points respectfully. I also regularly watch Piers morgan uncensored

I didn’t agree with the almost forcing of people to have the covid injection

I quite like Trump

I feel embarrassed writing all this down as I feel I can’t really say this in real life

Have I become far right?

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Allisnotlost1 · 13/09/2025 23:14

Pinepeak2434 · 13/09/2025 23:10

It’s insulting to imply I’m using Chat GPT just to shut me down. I’m simply replying to multiple people throughout the thread and if I’ve replied to the wrong post then that’s just human error -but I’m trying to be clear not hiding behind AI. Attacking me instead of engaging with my points says more about you than it does about me!

Oh no I think you’ve responded to the right person. It’s just that you keep saying the same generic stuff over and over again. I’m not attacking you at all, I’m engaging very specifically with your points. You said earlier that you see only single young men arriving on small boats (which is broadly true) yet now you keep referring to schools and ante-natal care.

SeriaMau · 13/09/2025 23:15

Septemberisaweirdmonth · 13/09/2025 16:26

No I don’t like them

But Trump loves them!

GoldMerchant · 13/09/2025 23:15

Lyraloo · 13/09/2025 23:12

If you are so convinced that there’s nothing wrong with being a SAHM, why are you ashamed to admit you are one, and you hide other factors of your beliefs! I find this really odd. I was a SAHM for a number of years when my dc was younger, it never occurred to me yo be embarrassed, it was my choice!

I think the current rhetoric around abortion, especially in the USA, is straying into dangerous territory. Whilst I deplore woman who use abortion as a form of contraception, we must never take away a woman’s right to choose. I do believe all abortions, with the exception of unavoidable circumstances, should be carried out before 12weeks. However, we are now heading backwards to a time when the baby would always survive ahead of the mother! Men were asked who they wanted saving! Do you want to see that again?
With some of your comments, it appears you want to hark back to a previous time, when woman stayed at home, men worked and were in charge and children were home school. Maybe being a Quaker would suit you down to the ground.

I know this isn't the point of the thread but... The Quakers have historically been some of the most ardent and consistent protesters for social justice (eg anti-slavery). I'm pretty sure they've allowed women to preach since the 1600s. They really aren't socially conservative or holding regressive gender attitudes.

ThatCyanCat · 13/09/2025 23:19

GoldMerchant · 13/09/2025 23:15

I know this isn't the point of the thread but... The Quakers have historically been some of the most ardent and consistent protesters for social justice (eg anti-slavery). I'm pretty sure they've allowed women to preach since the 1600s. They really aren't socially conservative or holding regressive gender attitudes.

Elizabeth Fry was a Quaker.

Brunettesmorefun · 13/09/2025 23:19

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 13/09/2025 16:30

Shall we set up a party? 🤣

Can I join please? Although the only thing that I like about Trump is he puts his country first. Now there’s a novelty!

RoseAndGeranium · 13/09/2025 23:19

SusieLawson · 13/09/2025 23:08

I noticed that people use the term left and right for reasons that don't make sense in real life, and that leads many people to think types like Nigel Farage who want to distant us from the rest of Europe, care about British people and society, when his main interest is to keep the British economy closely linked with USA banks encouraging people to live in greed and debt, so he can sell his get rich quick schemes based on stock market gambling. The reason he took over UKIP was because the UKIP founder James Goldsmith whose banking family changed their German Jewish name to sound British, wanted the same as Farage, and to destroy the NHS as Farage also wants to do. Instead of doing his best for British people, he would sell us off to the USA, and all the cultural aspects of the USA would be an even bigger influence, such as a melting pot society and trans chi ldren. Then people act confused why what they dislike gets worse after supporting types like Farage.
That's why we could never be a successful republic like Germany and Ireland, as all politicians especially Tories, have turned us into such USA lapdogs, with so much of our economy and media being linked with the USA, that we would be more like the USA if we became a republic. Look at how already, because an African American man was killed in the USA by an American policeman, for some reason it caused British advertising to look like more of a USA type melting pot society than Britain really is. That's nothing to do with lefties.

People are brainwashed into blaming others for what our government have caused with the USA to put us in danger. Afghanistan wasn't extremist until the USA were arming and training the extremists there in the 1980s against Russia, and then when Russia left Afghanistan, the USA didn't care what the extremists were doing through the 90s, until 9/11. Same as how the secret service whistle blower David Shayler told how Britain and the USA were funding Al Q aeda in Libya against Gaddafi, and now Libya is an extremist training ground and we're often being harmed by those who train in Libya such as the Manchester arena, our media never remind people why that happens. Look at how the media doesn't care about those in Afghanistan now after the USA gave up there, while only reporting on the Russia/ U kraine situation, because of how pre Trump USA politicians wanted to use it as an excuse to start WWIII as population control.
I think people are wrong for saying leftie as an insult, when what they're insulting is only really in this country from USA capitalist influence. Only a USA magazine made Bruce J enner woman of the year and have a TV series for Jazz Jennings. Only the USA promote melting pot societies. It's mainly Americans who are angry at JK Rowling. Things that are blamed on lefties.
Actual lefty countries such as most in north Europe and Scandinavia, only mainly promote things like free health care and not getting into debt with credit cards.

What relevance does James Goldsmith’s ethnicity or change of name have to your point?
Are you seriously suggesting that there has been no significant trans rights activism in the U.K.? Has the Sandie Peggie case gone wholly unnoticed by you? Did you not see the Scottish politicians grinning in front of a ‘decapitate TERFs’ banner? Did you entirely miss the entire current government spending the run up to last year’s election insisting one way or another that trams women were women and men could grow cervices with hormone therapy (until Tony Blair told them to cut it out)?

GoldMerchant · 13/09/2025 23:20

Strawberriesandlemon · 13/09/2025 23:14

I’m not rewriting history. Im saying we invited them over. We asked for help. Yes there were and will always be horrible people wherever you go, and yes that was wrong. But we invited them is what I was saying.

sadly LOTS of schools, I know of 2 in my town alone. So I can only imagine it will get worse.

You said "we welcomed them with open arms". And it wasn't "some horrible people," it was systematic and institutional racism. Britain wanted non white, colonial subjects labour without giving them equal rights of citizenship, which those migrants then had to fight for.

Yes but who is banning schools from doing this? If a school decides that it doesn't want to have a Nativity play because it doesn't serve it's student body, that's one thing. But no one is saying schools can't celebrate Easter. FWIW I live in a multicultural city and I think every local primary school marks and studies the majority Christian festivals.

Pinepeak2434 · 13/09/2025 23:22

Allisnotlost1 · 13/09/2025 23:14

Oh no I think you’ve responded to the right person. It’s just that you keep saying the same generic stuff over and over again. I’m not attacking you at all, I’m engaging very specifically with your points. You said earlier that you see only single young men arriving on small boats (which is broadly true) yet now you keep referring to schools and ante-natal care.

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I keep getting asked to elaborate by several people, so yes, I’m covering both who is arriving and the impact on schools and healthcare. If that seems repetitive or “generic”, maybe it’s because you haven’t been following the thread properly.

Blogswife · 13/09/2025 23:22

Yes - I’d be embarrassed too although what has a man asking to split the bill on a first date got to do with it ?

NurtureGrow · 13/09/2025 23:23

How can you possibly like Trump

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 13/09/2025 23:25

Pinepeak2434 · 13/09/2025 23:11

I’ve never used Grok in my life! 🤣

Lordy, Grok was your free pass, you wrote that stream of consciousness? Ok…

randomchap · 13/09/2025 23:25

Brunettesmorefun · 13/09/2025 23:19

Can I join please? Although the only thing that I like about Trump is he puts his country first. Now there’s a novelty!

But he's fundamentally damaged his country. He's not put it first, he's just said he will.

Tariffs have brought in significant costs to US manufacturing due to the increased costs of importing materials they need

Frequent changes to his policies has made investors reticent to invest

Multiple countries have files WTO complaints

Countries are doing trade deals ignoring the states, for example the new EU/Asia deals

Look at how his actions actually affect the US, not at what he says

Allisnotlost1 · 13/09/2025 23:25

Pinepeak2434 · 13/09/2025 23:22

I keep getting asked to elaborate by several people, so yes, I’m covering both who is arriving and the impact on schools and healthcare. If that seems repetitive or “generic”, maybe it’s because you haven’t been following the thread properly.

There’s no impact on schools, that’s the problem with your posts.

Goldwren1923 · 13/09/2025 23:26

i wouldn’t call you liberal nor far right - I would call you maybe centrist/right leaning based on most of your points. UNTIL I read about you regularly watching and agreeing with lots of points by Charlie Kirk AND quite liking Trump. These 2 alone make you on the right. Not far right but definitely right.

Pinepeak2434 · 13/09/2025 23:26

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 13/09/2025 23:25

Lordy, Grok was your free pass, you wrote that stream of consciousness? Ok…

Yes, and it seems to have really triggered you.

KhakiTiger · 13/09/2025 23:26

TheCheekyCyanHelper · 13/09/2025 22:07

Supporting racists makes you Far right. Supporting people who regularly use racial slurs makes you Far Right. Supporting those who don't want the Epstein list released, because they or their friends are on it, is Far Right. Being anti- LGBTQIA+, IS FAR RIGHT.

You can make all the accusations you like. Being a leftie repellent is probably a good thing if it keeps you alive.

Strawberriesandlemon · 13/09/2025 23:26

Allisnotlost1 · 13/09/2025 23:12

Thanks for answering.

Schools aren’t allowed to celebrate Easter? Are you sure ot is this something you’ve heard secondhand? I’m quite surprised to hear that. Near me the schools all have a nativity, Easter, they also celebrate Diwali and Eid. So they don’t only have Easter, but they’re definitely not prevented from celebrating it either. This is the some for my siblings’ and cousins’ kids in different parts of the country too.

I agree with you that high streets and the nightlife we used to enjoy are not the same now, but I don’t see what that has to do with immigration. Internet probably part of it, cost of living, young people liking different things. I think people blame immigration because it’s easy to see people who are ‘different’ to themselves and point the finger. Then there are agitators who encourage that finger pointing, usually so they can profit in some way.

And I agree with you that people are afraid of causing offence - but again I think a lot of that is caused by bad actors. The people that say things like ‘kids aren’t allowed to sing baa baa black sheep any more’ and other such nonsense. People are utter afraid of what they don’t know, and we’re so divided as a nation (again I blame the bad actors rather than individual citizens) that lots of people are afraid to bridge the divide. But where I live people do talk to their neighbours, people help each other in a crisis (hopefully doesn’t happen too often) and mostly people want to get along. People drive like lunatics and don’t pick up their dog shit though, that gets my goat.

2 schools in my local area stopped celebrating Christmas and Easter and all religious holidays. Which is extremely sad. I can only imagine it is again our so we don’t offend anyone let’s just not do it approach. Did cause enough uproar to be in local paper.
But we traditionally were a Christian country. And my point was I think the amount of people going to church and being Christian is declining. Easter and Christmas are Christian religious holidays, not just abit of fun. It comes from our British religious routes.
I think people think I’m blaming this on immigration which I’m not at all. Yes the illegal immigration needs controlling asap as we can’t cope with the amount coming over and it is getting out of control trol but I think the biggest decline in our culture has come from the internet and social media.

Loulo6098 · 13/09/2025 23:29

Charlie's legacy will be awareness that men like this exist(ed). We can never ignore how cold humanity can be. Sorry, but any person who supports this man's values is not moderate/centre. I still cannot grasp how people call him respectful... So I can call someone a cow and it would be fine if I said it over tea and biscuits without raising my voice?

Our respectful Charlie*:
(*My own remarks in parenthesis)

"The answer is yes, the baby would be delivered."
– Responding to a question about whether he would support his 10-year-old daughter aborting a pregnancy conceived because of rape on the debate show Surrounded, published on 8 September 2024
(He made a life-changing decision for his daughter without even blinking, but at least he was respectful)

"If I’m dealing with somebody in customer service who’s a moronic Black woman, I wonder is she there because of her excellence, or is she there because of affirmative action?"
– The Charlie Kirk Show, 3 January 2024
(As a black British 3rd generation immigrant with low level moronic tendencies; this is a very real attitude I face at work from people who cannot comprehend how I earned my senior position. I don't even complain, I withdraw... And then that becomes an issue.).

"Reject feminism. Submit to your husband, Taylor. You’re not in charge."
– Discussing news of Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement on The Charlie Kirk Show, 26 August 2025
(Such a respectful message for our daughters. If I'm to try and convince myself that a moderate conservative agrees with this, I would not succeed without feeling I was being unfair to them.)

AnxietySloth · 13/09/2025 23:29

No, obviously you're not far right. Politics is so polarised now. You can't just have conservative views, you must be a far right wing evil immoral bastard. You can't have left wing views, you must be a bleeding heart lefty liberal snowflake.

FWIW I consider myself quite centrist and I agree with a lot of what you've said. Apart from Trump - he's just an idiot and I can't get on board with anything about him.

Dinnerplease · 13/09/2025 23:32

Quakers were instrumental in ending Slavery, something Charlie Kirk seemed quite keen to bring back, so no, I don't think most quakers would be thrilled with the OP.

Pallisers · 13/09/2025 23:33

Brunettesmorefun · 13/09/2025 23:19

Can I join please? Although the only thing that I like about Trump is he puts his country first. Now there’s a novelty!

ha ha ha

Trump hates his country. He is ruining it deliberately - and making money out of it.

Pinepeak2434 · 13/09/2025 23:34

Allisnotlost1 · 13/09/2025 23:25

There’s no impact on schools, that’s the problem with your posts.

Even children of illegal immigrants have a right to attend school, sudden increases can stretch resources, class sizes, and teacher capacity. That’s a practical impact, whether or not you choose to acknowledge it.

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 13/09/2025 23:35

In public health terms the worry about non use of service is the individual has an increased risk early morbidity.
The pressures
are lack of step down provision, unable to transfer from acute setting causing delayed transfer of care
Not enough care agency staff to undertake care at home
lack of mental health beds leading to over reliance on Extra Contractual Referral (ECR) bed. Costly and often poor quality
Immigrants are not creating significant demands on NHS

Goldwren1923 · 13/09/2025 23:36

Someone above talking about illegal immigration and what it is doing to the country.

come on, you have a problem with LEGAL migration. Overwhelming majority of migration is legal - before Brexit and now after Brexit. Just have courage and brains to admit that you have issues with IMMIGRATION period. Otherwise it’s just disingenuous- there is not enough illegal migration to change your precious British way of life nor to overwhelm public services. It’s isn’t the US with permeable border.

i hate when people are being either hypocritical or gullible/not fact checking. If you hate immigrants from India and Poland because they are too different just freaking say it, instead of hiding behind “illegal immigration”.

signed - highly skilled immigrant

PlanetJanette · 13/09/2025 23:36

Well yes - of course someone who likes a nationalist autocrat who tried a coup against a democratically elected President and has been systematically removing civic and democratic rights and using the apparatus of state as his own personal militia - yes of course anyone who likes Trump knowing everything we know about him is far right.

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