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WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 22:58

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/us/comment/2025/09/10/charlie-kirks-shooting-terrible-moment-american-democracy/

Political violence on the rise.

People are getting angry when people have Political views they don't agree with. Freedom of speech must be allowed not shutdown.

Tragic news of a young family man shot by someone today. Please remember he was a human with a family. Violence is never ok.

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justasking111 · 12/09/2025 14:58

MissConductUS · 12/09/2025 14:51

Agreed. This was not that difficult a shot with a scoped rifle, firing from a prone position.

It's been reported that they have a 22 year old suspect in custody.

nypost.com/2025/09/12/us-news/we-have-him-trump-says-suspect-in-custody-for-charlie-kirk-assassination

Edited

That's good news.

CantCallItLove · 12/09/2025 15:01

WhereIsMyJumper · 12/09/2025 14:42

I would imagine that’s the point, though. If DEI policies weren’t even in existence and he saw someone black or female in a good job, I would hope he would assume they got there on merit and not by virtue of their sex or colour. Almost like the existence of DEI quotas in the first place would bring in to question whether the individual was a box ticking hire or a sensible one.

You need to start from a recognition that structural discrimination exists. You need to look at all the research and evidence that exposes conscious and unconscious bias in the workplace. Then you can understand the ways in which people of diverse backgrounds are underrepresented and where they face barriers to employment, promotion, equal pay etc. We are not beginning from a meritocracy! Were workplaces in the 70s, 80s, 90s a utopia of equality where anyone could succeed regardless of race, sex and class, purely based on their merits? No, this was not the case.

So, you find that these barriers exist and the solution is to implement policies - DEI policies - to address the structural issues that mean access to opportunities are not equal.

Then some people complain because they don't like that people of colour, with disabilities, women or gay people are now getting the jobs and pay for which they are qualified. Not everything goes to white men anymore (though white men are still wildly overrepresented in board rooms). So these people start to say it's because of diversity policies that these people have jobs.

The answer is not to scrap DEI policies and allow discriminatory practises to continue. It's to implement them fairly and counter disinformation about how DEI (or EDI) works.

But the problem is with the people who assume no one black or female got their job on merit - not with the policies implemented to make access to the workplace less discriminatory than it used to be.

nomas · 12/09/2025 15:07

Pigeonpoodle · 12/09/2025 14:04

If you’re referring to the UK, you’re correct… we tend to call it EDI and positive discrimination and quotas aren’t permitted.

However, that’s not the case in the US which is obviously what CK was referring to.

Any source? The DEI initiatives in the US were creating academies to target black people for air industry roles, it wasn't about employing unqualified people.

InterIgnis · 12/09/2025 15:11

Morningsleepin · 12/09/2025 11:46

Do you work with the FBI and have insider knowledge? All I know about the murderer is that he or she must be a professional sniper. For all I know they could have been hired by someone with a personal grudge

Not necessarily. It could be someone that is current or ex military, but equally it could be a skilled hunter proficient at making kill shots. The gun used was an imported Mauser 30-06. It likely is an ex service weapon (they have been and are still used by militaries), but in the U.S they’re commonly used for hunting bigger game like deer and elk.

It could be someone with a cause, or someone that wants infamy/ to be treated as a folk hero in certain circles (like Luigi Mangione). Could even just be a psychopath that was bored and wanted the thrill of the challenge, and/or to amuse himself with the resulting chaos.

EasternStandard · 12/09/2025 15:14

Morningsleepin · 12/09/2025 11:46

Do you work with the FBI and have insider knowledge? All I know about the murderer is that he or she must be a professional sniper. For all I know they could have been hired by someone with a personal grudge

I don’t think you can know that with certainty

mintydoggyv · 12/09/2025 15:18

cringeywed · 10/09/2025 23:00

if people are on their social media accounts please remember to disable auto play videos and to turn on the option to sensor distressing images/videos.

his poor wife and young children.

So agree , to much hate , l may not agree with his politics but feel so sad for a wife and 2 lovely children,

Mustbethat · 12/09/2025 15:20

justasking111 · 12/09/2025 14:47

I know a lot of farmers kids who grew up with guns. They go lamping at night to take out foxes. Believe me they're lethally accurate.

I though Lamping was illegal?

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 15:22

ILoveWhales · 11/09/2025 08:51

Never found anything he said that controversial.

Many people are against abortion. It has always been a controversial topic.

He spent a lot of time debating that men can't be women; which they can't.

His debates that college is a scam - most of the time it is. What's the point of spending four years to go to a nondescript college to study poli-sci and not be able to get a job afterwards.

I'd say that extends here so many go to university to do random degrees with no prospect of getting a job afterwards. My next door neighbour's daughter went to do a degree in communication studies at a third-rate university. I didn't say anything, but what the fuck is she going do with it. All that money and all those years for that.

The gun support was hardly controversial either. Everybody knows the Americans love guns. It's too embedded in their culture to change.

Most Americans believe some abortion should be legal.He wouldn't even support it for a 10yo rape victim.

Mustbethat · 12/09/2025 15:23

mintydoggyv · 12/09/2025 15:18

So agree , to much hate , l may not agree with his politics but feel so sad for a wife and 2 lovely children,

But he himself said some gun deaths were acceptable to keep the 2nd amendment rights.

while I do feel sorry for the kids, he and his wife had not one jot of sympathy for all the bereaved parents of school shootings. As long as they got to keep their guns they did not care.

they are suffering the consequence of their own opinion. Did he deserve to die? No. But those 3 kids in Colorado didn’t deserve it either. I’ll keep my sadness for them

justasking111 · 12/09/2025 15:24

Mustbethat · 12/09/2025 15:20

I though Lamping was illegal?

No it's not.

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 15:28

KhakiTiger · 11/09/2025 07:49

The left are utterly dangerous. That said, it’s never been any different. They are very skilled at mass murder, especially when it comes to killing their own people in when it comes to free speech descent. Like Stalin.

The new left like to protest themselves and cure and cuddly but they are utterly dangerous and a threat. Keep going, you are really showing your true faces.

What an imbalanced perspective. Some left are dangerous. So are some right. Stop dehumanising whole groups of people, you should be ashamed of yourself.

Here is list of right AND left violence in the US in recent years.

On The Right
1.The murder of Melissa Hortman and her husband
2.The attempted murder of John Hoffman and his wife
3.The attempted kidnapping and murder of Gretchen Whitmer
4.The attempted kidnapping and murder of Nancy Pelosi and the brutal assault on her husband Paul with a hammer
5.The attempted murder of Esther Salas and the murder of her son Daniel
6.The attempted arson of Josh Shapiro and his family while they slept during Passover
(I've seen people say this was a Left wing murder attempt bc it was an anti Semitic attempt to blame him for the Palestine situation. However, the would-be murderer voted Trump in the last election and previously had been an independent. There are also Palestine fanatics (not just reasonable campaigners) and anti Semites on the right, though it is more common on the left, so I don't think it should be labelled Left just bc it's those things)
7.Pipe bomb sent to Biden

On The Left

1.Two assassination attempts on Trump

(One of which killed a bystander)

3.Attempted murder of Brett Kavanagh

  1. Murder of Charlie Kirk
  1. Murder of Israeli Embassy couple
  1. Anti Semitic attack in Boulder, Colorado
  1. Minneapolis shooting of Catholic school children.
  1. Nashville shooting of Christian schoolchildren
  1. Bomb at RNC

United Healthcare CEO Brian Thompson's murder is more difficult to classify as murderer held a mixture of left and right views, and was unaffiliated to a party.

BLM protests led to 25 deaths, by a mixture of left and right wing perpetrators. Will break this down later.

Tesla attacks on vehicles seem aimed more at the vehicle but also appear to intend to endanger human life- which they have.

ICE boxing and violence against ICE agents.

Bombing of 'crisis pregnancy' anti-abortion centres.

Bombing of IVF clinic by anti-natalist. This ideology is technically neither left or right but is more popular on extreme left than extreme right.

Others On The Right

The abortion clinic bombing planned in 2024 by a Neo-Nazi ex-Marine. He was also planning to target Jewish & LGBT people.

Mike Pence attempted lynching during Jan 6.

Heather Heying murder by neo-Nazi at Charlottesville.

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 15:29

Mustbethat · 12/09/2025 15:23

But he himself said some gun deaths were acceptable to keep the 2nd amendment rights.

while I do feel sorry for the kids, he and his wife had not one jot of sympathy for all the bereaved parents of school shootings. As long as they got to keep their guns they did not care.

they are suffering the consequence of their own opinion. Did he deserve to die? No. But those 3 kids in Colorado didn’t deserve it either. I’ll keep my sadness for them

His wife seems lovely. Don't assume a wife is identical to her husband.

Idinnaenah · 12/09/2025 15:33

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 15:29

His wife seems lovely. Don't assume a wife is identical to her husband.

His wife married a facist, presumably because they have the same ‘values’. Don’t assume she’s lovely.

Mustbethat · 12/09/2025 15:39

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 15:29

His wife seems lovely. Don't assume a wife is identical to her husband.

If my dh ever said the deaths of children was an acceptable price to pay for being able to own guns he would not be my husband from that moment.

if my husband said my 10 year old rape victim daughter would be forced to continue the pregnancy, regardless of the effect on her body and mind, he’d no longer be my husband.

so unless he had her coerced into staying with him despite his views, it can only be concluded that she agrees.

eta my husband has shot in the past and is quite nerdy about guns, history etc. he probably would like to do more hobby shooting. But no way, ever on this planet would he agree that guns are more important than kids.

i mean, the us says it needs the right to bear arms to keep their freedoms. If trump gets any worse or makes a bad decision, is the public really going to take up those arms against the government and start a civil war?

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 15:54

Idinnaenah · 12/09/2025 15:33

His wife married a facist, presumably because they have the same ‘values’. Don’t assume she’s lovely.

He wasn't a fascist. I loathed plenty of his views- why do you exaggerate ?

Pigeonpoodle · 12/09/2025 16:16

nomas · 12/09/2025 15:07

Any source? The DEI initiatives in the US were creating academies to target black people for air industry roles, it wasn't about employing unqualified people.

DEI in the USA goes, or at least went, far far beyond the air industry!

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diversity,_equity,_and_inclusion

If DEI was simply about equality of opportunity rather than equity of outcome, and was more like EDI is in the UK, it probably wouldn’t have been nearly so much of an issue.

Diversity, equity, and inclusion - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diversity,_equity,_and_inclusion

pointythings · 12/09/2025 16:25

I don't see anything in that article to suggest less competent people are being hired.

Idinnaenah · 12/09/2025 16:41

TheJoyOfWriting · 12/09/2025 15:54

He wasn't a fascist. I loathed plenty of his views- why do you exaggerate ?

I disagree. That’s not exaggerating. Fascism is a far-right, authoritarian, ultranationalist ideology.
Sound familiar so far? Demonising political opponents - tick. Using demonising language to target minorities - tick. Framing political opponents as fundamentally evil enemies - tick.
invoking the idea of a spiritual battle in which American identity ( nationalism) must be defended against internal subversion. Tick.

I could go on, but you get the gist. Christian nationalism ( charlie’s bag) relates closely to fascist ideology with its toxic mix of religious exclusivism ( I Islam, thirst cutting etc) authoritarianism ( submit to your husbands, women. Men, submit to the will of god) & the pursuit of a perceived national purity.

… if it looks like a fascist and talks like a fascist … even in younger, more modern clothing.

TinyIsMyNewt · 12/09/2025 17:10

LlamaNoDrama · 12/09/2025 10:01

I like how you ignore the fact people on the right sometimes get violent too...

"Sometimes" under sells it.

Political violence and murders are usually associated with right wing extremism.

Between 2013 and 2022, in the US, 75% of political killings were by right wing actors, 20% Islamic extremism, 4% left wing.

For 2022 - 2024, 100% of political killings were by right wing extremists.

GetOffMyLan · 12/09/2025 17:12

hotelinfo · 11/09/2025 14:28

He will be remembered for being gunned down. But, he will also be remembered for saying he would insist his 10 year-old daughter would have to give birth if she had been raped. He said this would be 'something good, out of something bad.' U fortunately, the video is there

He will also be remembered for being mid way through another racist statement the moment he was shot.

GetOffMyLan · 12/09/2025 17:19

hamstersarse · 12/09/2025 12:26

That article demonstrates just how out of touch The Guardian is.

It is unbelievably manipulative, and anyone who knows anything about CK can see it straightaway. What a foul piece of work.

It's quoting him, from video/audio where HE spoke, is everything you don't agree with just fake news to you people, does proof mean nothing? Your saviour CK was a piece of shit, too bad so sad.

CantCallItLove · 12/09/2025 17:20

Since the OP started this thread with a focus on free speech, I'd be so interested to know what they make of the statement today from US government officials that foreigners 'praising, rationalizing, or making light of' Kirk's death online won't be allowed into the country.

This isn't the case for other murders by the way. You won't be interrogated by US Customs or turned away from the country for talking about Melissa Hortman's assassination the wrong way, but you have to be extremely careful how you talk about Kirk if you want to get in.

Their country, their choice - it isn't for me to say how they should dictate their border policy. But I'm really interested to see if everyone so eager to say that they welcome debate and are delighted to disagree with people but defend their right to say offensive things are happy with this policy to severely restrict speech that the US government dislike?

Please note, this isn't about violence in general - you can disparage the assassination of Hortman, a member of Trump's administration did so publicly recently. This isn't a stance to keep violent people out of the country. This includes punishment of anyone 'rationalising' Kirk's death eg. pointing out that he's a casualty of the very gun policy he supported.

Those of you saying how passionately devoted Kirk was to the principle of free speech, do you think this serves his memory well?

GetOffMyLan · 12/09/2025 17:24

Pigeonpoodle · 12/09/2025 13:40

He didn’t say many black people “couldn’t” be appointed on their own merit, he said they - in many cases at least - “weren’t”.

That’s the fault of leftist DEI initiatives that prioritise identity and skin colour when appointing over actual ability and experience.

He wasn’t having a dig at those black people, but at the recruitment policies that turn racism on its head, which mean that black people have the stigma of knowing they were selected primarily to fill a quota, not because they deserved it.

It’s condescending and belittling to black people to have a system in which they are judged to be incapable of getting a job on their own merits. It’s actually incredibly racist.

Edited

Funny how this whole concept of belittling DEI initiatives and "meritocracy" comes out of an administration where EVERYONE is unqualified for the job that they hold and the only merit that is taken into account is how far they are willing to bend over for Trump. However doctors and scientists who actually went to school and EARNED their credentials are losing their jobs based on their skin colour. You have it backwards, they are replacing qualified minorities with unqualified Trump bootlickers so who is actually getting the leg up here? Shocking that people can't see this.

Mustbethat · 12/09/2025 17:58

CantCallItLove · 12/09/2025 17:20

Since the OP started this thread with a focus on free speech, I'd be so interested to know what they make of the statement today from US government officials that foreigners 'praising, rationalizing, or making light of' Kirk's death online won't be allowed into the country.

This isn't the case for other murders by the way. You won't be interrogated by US Customs or turned away from the country for talking about Melissa Hortman's assassination the wrong way, but you have to be extremely careful how you talk about Kirk if you want to get in.

Their country, their choice - it isn't for me to say how they should dictate their border policy. But I'm really interested to see if everyone so eager to say that they welcome debate and are delighted to disagree with people but defend their right to say offensive things are happy with this policy to severely restrict speech that the US government dislike?

Please note, this isn't about violence in general - you can disparage the assassination of Hortman, a member of Trump's administration did so publicly recently. This isn't a stance to keep violent people out of the country. This includes punishment of anyone 'rationalising' Kirk's death eg. pointing out that he's a casualty of the very gun policy he supported.

Those of you saying how passionately devoted Kirk was to the principle of free speech, do you think this serves his memory well?

I’ve seen on social media as well witch hunts for anyone saying negative things - reporting to employers and getting them fired, doxing people etc.

no more free speech.

I am actually starting to wonder if people will invoke the 2nd and start taking up arms to “ protect their rights”

MoFadaCromulent · 12/09/2025 18:39

This white Mormon who grew up with guns being in custody is forcing some real handbrake turns online.

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