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Freedom of speech isn't tolerated by some

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WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 22:58

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/us/comment/2025/09/10/charlie-kirks-shooting-terrible-moment-american-democracy/

Political violence on the rise.

People are getting angry when people have Political views they don't agree with. Freedom of speech must be allowed not shutdown.

Tragic news of a young family man shot by someone today. Please remember he was a human with a family. Violence is never ok.

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Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:17

GrandmasCat · 11/09/2025 07:15

Yes, remember that, but also remember that people calling you racist and a bigot are within their rights to express what they think of you.

Great. I will remember it when it gets round to talking about Islamophobia, specifically

ETA: whenever antisemitism is called out, its classed as silencing speech. I can carry on calling people hypocrites.

Thegreyhound · 11/09/2025 07:17

Zapx · 11/09/2025 07:10

That is absolutely not a comparable example.

Good grief this thread is awful. I’m about as anti gun as it’s possible to be, but I’m beyond horrified at the number of people on mumsnet who think it’s somehow deserved to be shot in front of your family because you support gun ownership.

I’m scared today. I’m scared because of the gloating left - so many of whom seem to think that this act is defendable.

There is a gulf of difference between thinking the act is defensible and thinking it is bitterly ironic.
There was a school shooting yesterday btw.

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:18

Thegreyhound · 11/09/2025 07:17

There is a gulf of difference between thinking the act is defensible and thinking it is bitterly ironic.
There was a school shooting yesterday btw.

She was wearing a short skirt.

TinyIsMyNewt · 11/09/2025 07:18

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 06:57

I was referring to you, as in your quoted "you" about CK. It's one of those things? Well that lovely one goes nicely, with all the other compassionate posts.

I fear the point is going over your head...

Fatal shootings are "one of those things" if you have permissive firearm laws like the US does - it's Kirk, not the PP, who argued those murders (including school shootings) were acceptable collateral damage for his right to own a gun.

If you advocate for something, dismissing people's deaths as being an acceptable side effect, why expect that you wont be among the victims?

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Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:23

MoFadaCromulent · 11/09/2025 07:19

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Do you want to start the let's see who can find the most disturbing SM posts?

FOJN · 11/09/2025 07:23

Shakeoffyourchains · 11/09/2025 05:06

Ah, I just knew one of you would reply like this.

Deliberately making yourself a divisive public figure and becoming a target because of it is not remotely comparable to a woman being raped because of what she wears. The fact you’d even try to make that comparison is disgusting, though sadly not unexpected.

And before you clutch your pearls over the language being used here, maybe take five minutes to look at how Trump, Fox News, and the right on SM reacted to the attack on Paul Pelosi or the assassination of Melissa Hortman. The hate and bile that poured out then didn’t seem to bother you lot in the slightest. Funny how it’s only when the shoe is on the other foot that you suddenly discover outrage.

You have no idea about my opinion on other acts of political violence. I'm appalled by all of it FYI.

Charlie Kirk expressed his opinions very publicly, they were only "divisive" with people who disagreed with him. You are arguing that expressing an opinion other people may not like is deliberately putting yourself in harms way in the same way that misogynists think what a woman was wearing made her the target of a rapist. Both are disgusting victim blaming so save your fake outrage about the comparison. You thought the man had it coming and you said so.

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:25

TinyIsMyNewt · 11/09/2025 07:18

I fear the point is going over your head...

Fatal shootings are "one of those things" if you have permissive firearm laws like the US does - it's Kirk, not the PP, who argued those murders (including school shootings) were acceptable collateral damage for his right to own a gun.

If you advocate for something, dismissing people's deaths as being an acceptable side effect, why expect that you wont be among the victims?

Nothing has gone over my head. I know what's being used as justification, by the same posters. Do you remember Sasha Johnson?

SewNotHappy · 11/09/2025 07:27

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 06:46

Are you seriously coming at me with that, when those same people have posted the most disgusting videos, celebrating the assassination of a young husband and father?

Are you seriously saying that you should not be held accountable for your hate speech because other people do bad, possibly worse things? Should Kirk's killer be excused as he only killed one person (possibly) when others have killed more people than them?

MoFadaCromulent · 11/09/2025 07:29

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:23

Do you want to start the let's see who can find the most disturbing SM posts?

Ah fuck where have those goal posts gone?

I thought you couldn't remember the right doing it.

Not that the right did it but the left did it worse.

Yeah if you want to find me a post from a serving senator mocking yesterday's murder I'll denounce it too, no problem.

TinyIsMyNewt · 11/09/2025 07:30

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:25

Nothing has gone over my head. I know what's being used as justification, by the same posters. Do you remember Sasha Johnson?

I'm not sure what point you're making re. Sasha Johnson.

To most (particularly on the left), no gun related murders are acceptable, Kirk's included. But the 11,000+ gun deaths that occurred in the US last year were, in the context of gun control, acceptable to Kirk.

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:30

MoFadaCromulent · 11/09/2025 07:29

Ah fuck where have those goal posts gone?

I thought you couldn't remember the right doing it.

Not that the right did it but the left did it worse.

Yeah if you want to find me a post from a serving senator mocking yesterday's murder I'll denounce it too, no problem.

Wonder if she had it coming? Spent her life tirelessly fighting racism to be shot in the head by black men.

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2022/feb/22/sasha-johnson-shooting-case-against-four-men-collapses

Sasha Johnson shooting: case against four men collapses

Judge records not-guilty verdicts for those charged with targeting Black Lives Matter activist

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2022/feb/22/sasha-johnson-shooting-case-against-four-men-collapses

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:32

TinyIsMyNewt · 11/09/2025 07:30

I'm not sure what point you're making re. Sasha Johnson.

To most (particularly on the left), no gun related murders are acceptable, Kirk's included. But the 11,000+ gun deaths that occurred in the US last year were, in the context of gun control, acceptable to Kirk.

The relevance to SJ is that she reminded white people of their 'privilege'. She wasn't shot by a white man. See how sick this fuck around and find out game is?

Mrsmunchofmunchington · 11/09/2025 07:32

I think there are some people who play a huge role in ruining the world and making it more dangerous for everyone, themselves included.

Hoist on his own petard. Much as was the case for trump although of course he survived.

The US has been heading along this path for years, and the maga movement has stoked the furnace to the point of explosion.

There will be much more violence to come.

Thegreyhound · 11/09/2025 07:33

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:17

Great. I will remember it when it gets round to talking about Islamophobia, specifically

ETA: whenever antisemitism is called out, its classed as silencing speech. I can carry on calling people hypocrites.

Edited

Charlie Kirk expressed antisemitic views and defended Musk when he did.
Amongst other odious views.
Again, none of that means he should have been shot.

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:34

Thegreyhound · 11/09/2025 07:33

Charlie Kirk expressed antisemitic views and defended Musk when he did.
Amongst other odious views.
Again, none of that means he should have been shot.

He blamed Hamas for a massacre, something which any right minded individual would do.

KTheGrey · 11/09/2025 07:36

cassandre · 10/09/2025 23:11

A better title for this thread would be, 'Those who live by the sword die by the sword.'

His supporters sent out a lot of thoughts and prayers tonight, which is their usual response to any type of gun violence.

Nope. Because the guy may have supported gun ownership but he did not shoot anybody afaik.

He used his words. He wasn’t talked to death but shot.

It seems a problem to me that people do not understand this simple difference between ideas and actions.

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:37

I'm sure the short skirt scenario has plenty of mileage left in it. Classic that some women spend their time trying to (rightfully) stamp out misogony that they forget their own moral compass. Bit like the Dems blaming Trump for US violence rather than looking inwardly.

MoFadaCromulent · 11/09/2025 07:38

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:30

Wonder if she had it coming? Spent her life tirelessly fighting racism to be shot in the head by black men.

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2022/feb/22/sasha-johnson-shooting-case-against-four-men-collapses

Nope.
Same way Kirk didn't have it coming.

Being a racist shit stirrer shouldn't equal the death penalty.

His murder should not be celebrated and isn't justified.
His actions during his life can still be criticized and people don't have to pretend to mourn him and can point out that he showed similar lack of sympathy in the aftermath of other families suffering tragedy.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 11/09/2025 07:38

I struggle to give a fuck about this guy’s death.

He’d understand of course:

I can't stand empathy. I think empathy is a made-up, New Age term that — it does a lot of damage, but it is very effective when it comes to politics

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:40

MoFadaCromulent · 11/09/2025 07:38

Nope.
Same way Kirk didn't have it coming.

Being a racist shit stirrer shouldn't equal the death penalty.

His murder should not be celebrated and isn't justified.
His actions during his life can still be criticized and people don't have to pretend to mourn him and can point out that he showed similar lack of sympathy in the aftermath of other families suffering tragedy.

Good job those goal posts are easily movable isn't it? So to use your reasoning, SJ can be criticised for race baiting. Got it.

Thegreyhound · 11/09/2025 07:41

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:34

He blamed Hamas for a massacre, something which any right minded individual would do.

Yes correct he did- sorry not clear what that has to do with the antisemitic views he shared and defended though?

NewHome2026 · 11/09/2025 07:41

Thiught this was another thread

RealityChequing · 11/09/2025 07:41

VoulezVouz · 11/09/2025 02:57

Nope, I was referring to you, actually. You know little of me, but given your activity, I know much of you.

Hear hear

Dangermoos · 11/09/2025 07:44

SewNotHappy · 11/09/2025 07:27

Are you seriously saying that you should not be held accountable for your hate speech because other people do bad, possibly worse things? Should Kirk's killer be excused as he only killed one person (possibly) when others have killed more people than them?

I doubt his killer will be excused. Hopefully they face the death penalty.

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