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Freedom of speech isn't tolerated by some

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WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 22:58

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/us/comment/2025/09/10/charlie-kirks-shooting-terrible-moment-american-democracy/

Political violence on the rise.

People are getting angry when people have Political views they don't agree with. Freedom of speech must be allowed not shutdown.

Tragic news of a young family man shot by someone today. Please remember he was a human with a family. Violence is never ok.

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WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:00

I've read the flags thread here on mn. Such nastiness towards people around flags. Nastiness around left and right Political views. Debate but not hatred, nastiness and violence. Tragic.

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cringeywed · 10/09/2025 23:00

if people are on their social media accounts please remember to disable auto play videos and to turn on the option to sensor distressing images/videos.

his poor wife and young children.

MojoMoon · 10/09/2025 23:01

Does your support of freedom of speech in the US include students protesting on campus against Israeli military action?

MidnightPatrol · 10/09/2025 23:01

I think it is important to emphasise however that the US isn’t the UK and they face different problems to us.

Terribly sad for this man and his family.

The UK doesn’t have the same gun violence issue as the US.

WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:02

cringeywed · 10/09/2025 23:00

if people are on their social media accounts please remember to disable auto play videos and to turn on the option to sensor distressing images/videos.

his poor wife and young children.

I understand most images have been removed. Should never be allowed to be shared. Children shouldn't be exposed to that type of content.

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Insidemyownhead · 10/09/2025 23:03

I don’t share most of Charlie’s views, I’m not religious, I’m not American… but it’s really affected me.

when did we lose the ability to disagree peacefully, to discuss openly, to debate fiercely…

… but violence of this magnitude? I’m so angry. And scared. Religion aside, ‘left wing vs right wing’ aside, where is common humanity?

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 10/09/2025 23:04

Ah yes. This is the man who stated in 2023 that lives need to be lost as part of America’s need to bear arms.

It’s terribly tragic especially for his young children having had to witness this, but let’s be honest here, when people talk about freedom of speech what they generally mean is that they should be allowed to hold and express any abhorrent views they choose without consequence.

WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:05

MojoMoon · 10/09/2025 23:01

Does your support of freedom of speech in the US include students protesting on campus against Israeli military action?

Have students been killed protesting about Gaza. Sorry to hear that. Again that would also be tragic. Violence has no place.

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WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:06

Insidemyownhead · 10/09/2025 23:03

I don’t share most of Charlie’s views, I’m not religious, I’m not American… but it’s really affected me.

when did we lose the ability to disagree peacefully, to discuss openly, to debate fiercely…

… but violence of this magnitude? I’m so angry. And scared. Religion aside, ‘left wing vs right wing’ aside, where is common humanity?

This is what I mean. Forget all else. This is a man, a husband and a father. Don't agree with him, then argue the points don't kill.

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cringeywed · 10/09/2025 23:07

MidnightPatrol · 10/09/2025 23:01

I think it is important to emphasise however that the US isn’t the UK and they face different problems to us.

Terribly sad for this man and his family.

The UK doesn’t have the same gun violence issue as the US.

Might not have the same issues as such or such easy access to firearms but I definitely feel it’s only a matter of time before something similar happens here. I feel like tensions continue to escalate daily.

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WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:08

cringeywed · 10/09/2025 23:07

Might not have the same issues as such or such easy access to firearms but I definitely feel it’s only a matter of time before something similar happens here. I feel like tensions continue to escalate daily.

Sadly MPs have been attacked and killed here.

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AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 10/09/2025 23:10

WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:06

This is what I mean. Forget all else. This is a man, a husband and a father. Don't agree with him, then argue the points don't kill.

But he was a supporter of gun violence.

He actively said that gun deaths are a small price to pay.

Do I think that his children should have seen that? Absolutely not.

But it’s hardly a surprise when someone who actively encourages violent killings ends up dying in the way he endorses.

murasaki · 10/09/2025 23:11

Some of his views on abortion, should he have gained legislative power, and he already had the ear of those that do, could well have resulted in women dying.

But two wrongs don't make a right. Shooting him isn't ok just because he was a horrible man.

cassandre · 10/09/2025 23:11

A better title for this thread would be, 'Those who live by the sword die by the sword.'

His supporters sent out a lot of thoughts and prayers tonight, which is their usual response to any type of gun violence.

WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:13

The issue he was discussing when he was killed was trans gender gun violence due the increase in trans gender gun violence.

We don't know who killed him but come on killing someone for a different view is never right.

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TinyIsMyNewt · 10/09/2025 23:14

While I don't celebrate his murder, and worry about escalating political violence - he wanted to bring back public executions (and make children watch) and thought gun crimes (including mass shootings of children) were a price worth paying for the right to bear arms.

If you're going to support or excuse these things, there's always a risk they'll happen to you.

TheSixthBestOption · 10/09/2025 23:14

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 10/09/2025 23:10

But he was a supporter of gun violence.

He actively said that gun deaths are a small price to pay.

Do I think that his children should have seen that? Absolutely not.

But it’s hardly a surprise when someone who actively encourages violent killings ends up dying in the way he endorses.

He did not actively encourage violent killings. That's a lie.

FirstCuppa · 10/09/2025 23:14

Yes, people forget "We're better together" as Jo Cox said before being stabbed by a Brexit supporting Nazi.

That being said I think this was related specifically to the transwomen led shootings they are having in US as that was the precise topic he was discussing at the time. I don't know if that is politics or ideology at this point. It's unlikely to be a leftie gun abolitionist, in reality.

WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:15

Thoughts with his loved ones. No one should be killed.

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Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 10/09/2025 23:15

WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:13

The issue he was discussing when he was killed was trans gender gun violence due the increase in trans gender gun violence.

We don't know who killed him but come on killing someone for a different view is never right.

I 100% agree with you that killing people for having opposing views is wrong, and most people would, but I think the point people are making here is that HE wouldn't agree with you. He's (or was) part of the problem.

cassandre · 10/09/2025 23:15

Excellent public facebook post by Rebecca Solnit offers more context:

Re Charlie Kirk's death by gunshot on an Utah public university campus. "Under the changes in HB 128, which went into effect on May 7, individuals who are 18 years old or older and have a current Utah concealed weapon permit (CWP) may carry a weapon on campus, including in an “open” fashion. The new law makes it clear that Utahns 18 years or older, who have a concealed weapon permit, may carry a firearm concealed or openly on campus. University of Utah Police will confirm that those carrying openly on campus have a concealed weapon permit."
This is not the campus on which Kirk was shot, but so far as I can tell, it applies to all public university campuses in the state; the state legislature just made open carry legal for those with permits. The site continues: "What if someone shows up in my classroom or workplace openly carrying a weapon? Anyone observing a person with a weapon on campus should report this information to University Police (585-COPS or 911 if an emergency). Police will respond and verify that the person in question is authorized to carry the weapon and otherwise complying with the law." But in the meantime they walked into your space with a visible weapon capable of killing you instantly and easily, and they just might be allowed to do so.
Murder is wrong, and so is the system that makes tools of homicide so widely available.

Vivi0 · 10/09/2025 23:17

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 10/09/2025 23:04

Ah yes. This is the man who stated in 2023 that lives need to be lost as part of America’s need to bear arms.

It’s terribly tragic especially for his young children having had to witness this, but let’s be honest here, when people talk about freedom of speech what they generally mean is that they should be allowed to hold and express any abhorrent views they choose without consequence.

Not quite what he said.

He conceded, in a debate, that lives would ultimately be lost as a result of the right to bear arms.

The right to bear arms isn’t exactly a radical viewpoint to an American.

It’s terribly tragic especially for his young children having had to witness this, but let’s be honest here, when people talk about freedom of speech what they generally mean is that they should be allowed to hold and express any abhorrent views they choose without consequence.

Surely though, we should be able to express our views (no matter how abhorrent people find them) without being murdered for them? I don’t think death should be a consequence of freedom of speech.

Do you?

He was as entitled to his opinions and views and to share those opinions and views as I am and as you are. And to not be murdered for them.

WhatNextBanana · 10/09/2025 23:17

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 10/09/2025 23:10

But he was a supporter of gun violence.

He actively said that gun deaths are a small price to pay.

Do I think that his children should have seen that? Absolutely not.

But it’s hardly a surprise when someone who actively encourages violent killings ends up dying in the way he endorses.

I don't believe he was a supporter of gun violence. He was talking about the rise in shootings by young trans people, ge wasn't supporting the incidents. Is it not possible for you to pause and realise he didn't deserve this.

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Dangermoos · 10/09/2025 23:18

You know which way this thread is going to go. The Charlie thread was one of the most disturbing blood feed frenzies I've seen. The bottom line is, you are a fascist if you are intolerant of other political opinions.