Do those mothers have spinal degeneration, severe arthritis and require painkillers and wheelchairs to move around?
Also, not 'lounging around' i'm resting/recuperating around the 4 college runs i've had to do today with two disabled kids, who i had to get dressed, make lunches for, and get out the door.. while also being productive, making phone-calls, writing/sending emails, while being in enough pain that most people would be in A&E begging for pain relief, and running on 3 hours of very broken sleep.
But don't let that stop you from sticking the boot in.
Any of those mothers are welcome to swap with me.. i'd quite like to be up/about, not in pain, not needing to haul my wheelchair in and out my car, wheel myself around, ignoring the pain in my hands, and my spine, and my hips and ankles, while not being drugged on some very powerful medications that affect my mental acuity, but stop my nerves in my legs from burning.