Be absolutely honest, would you consider only fans/sex work if it guaranteed you’d be rich?

[Love13]

If you were being 100% honest hypothetically. Would you consider sex work/only fans/webcam work if you could guarantee you’d become rich.

Obviously completely hypothetical because in reality most of us probably wouldn’t be able to make much money, we’ve probably got children to consider, you might already be well off.

But if it was the difference between working in a job you hate until retirement, or doing sex work for 10 years and then being able to retire a millionaire, if it was safe and you only had yourself to please. Could you forget your morals and do it? Do you think you could live with it?

Yabu - no
Yanbu - you’d consider it.

If you would consider it, do you think you’re a highly sexualised person anyway, maybe multiple sexual partners, able to separate sex from emotions.

Yes, but no, but.

Clearly for a sizable percentage of women (40%), sex work IS work.

Is this to do with Footwear perchance? I ended up down a weird rabbit hole involving 'trashed shoes' on ebay.
Ver mind boggling!

Would i go on onlyfans?. Probably best i don't, not much call for my body parts.

What on earth is that?!?

Yes, I would just post photos of some old footwear I was selling (couple of heels and a pair of sandals) and I thought it might be helpful to upload pics of me wearing them on holiday! My face concealed of course! Two blokes messaged asking for more pics! Yuk!

No, I wouldn't let men rape me for money. No amount of money.

If i was destitute, struggling to keep a roof over our heads and couldn’t feed or cloth my kids then yes i’d do whatever i had to do.

Just to be “rich” then no, i couldn’t do it “just” for money.

For riches, no, absolutely not. Being of course aware that OF doesn’t give riches - it’s a pyramid scheme with people going on social media to promote it as an option.

If the alternative was starvation or homelessness, absolutely yes. I can separate sex from love, but I think it would pretty much ruin my relationship with sex, which is the nearest I get to a spiritual practice these days.

Nobody, however horny, desperate or sex-starved is ever going to pay good money to see me naked. But if I looked good enough I certainly wouldn’t rule out OF. It’s safe and it’s easy money for those who can create personal brands & market themselves well. Getting your kit off is easy but I learned from watching TV documentaries about successful OF users that the marketing is the difficult bit.

Having sex for money, no. But that’s easy for me to say because I am sufficiently well qualified & financially secure that I will never need to. I certainly wouldn’t judge anyone who has fewer options than me for making different choices to mine. No moralising from me.

I'd probably only attract some v wierd fetishist! But naked pictures, with face blurry or loads of thick make up etc, absolutely I would!
Video of me shagging someone else - hmm, only uf I was desperate for money. I mean, if I, or DC or DH might have their life saved by medical care only available in US I probably would.

Can't see many looking for for foot pics or any other pics of a 60 yr old mannie..be very disturbed if there were any takers!!🤯

Yes definitely. I don’t see the issue with it.
I wouldn’t have sex with other people but would do solo stuff.
Unfortunately I am overweight, in my 40’s and not attractive so couldn’t.

No. The idea of people watching me has never made me feel attractive, more like prey. Especially true if you don't know who is watching you - creepy!

If I knew 100% who I was having sex with for money (which would be unlikely in this hypothetical) I would loose all attraction for them because they'd be doing it for money - i.e, their ego is all about buying me because they couldn't get me naturally. Not attractive in the slightest, huge turn off.

Not worth money to feel you've lost the power of choice with your body just for someone's sexual gain. I'd look back on that and feel like I'd failed myself over the decades after, even if I was in a big house. Not something you can explain to new partners or kids easily either.
Not even likely they'd care enough to get you off either!

I’m almost certain I would have been all over it when I was young and dumb if it had been a thing back then which I’m very glad it wasn’t because I didn’t have appropriate sensible and protective factors around me as a youngster.

Now I’m a mother of teenage boys in a responsible career and I don’t think there is enough money in the world to make me want to put myself out there like that. I’ve heard the way men at work and boys in my sons’ schools speak about these women and the comments online are also vile. “Only fans detected, opinion rejected” etc. They get zero respect.

I don't even have sex with my dh. Have zero libido and I'm not a good actress so I doubt anyone would pay to watch a middle aged lady with small hangy tits toucuing herself whilst visibly not taking any pleasure in it.

But let's say I was a horny hot 20 year old. Still no. I have always hated having my picture taken, have never had a sm account because unlike Meghan Markle I do value my privacy😅

I've got a reasonably paid job and don't have to worry about paying the bills so it isn't even a consideration, who cares about being "rich" at any cost.

Even if I was absolutely on the bones of my arse it would the last thing I'd do.

repulsive.🤮

Oh, there are surely men into that as well. There are some who like obese, elderly, anorexic, tattooed you name it women. But if you have children would you be comfortable if anyone sent them a screenshot with you in action? Or to your employer/ neighbours? I think you have to have very thick skin, be very money hungry and not have a reputation to save.

I am lazy so, no. But if I was up for editing videos / photos I would probably have an OF for my feet.

Just my feet.

When I was younger , possibly, no actual sex though. I do not have the patience or bandwidth to deal with that kind of shit now. I’d have to be really desperate, not just wanting to be “rich”.

Nobody would pay 50p to see me naked 😅

No. If I could guarantee I would get £100 million for photos only I might. But not for normal rich

This really made me laugh 😃 😀.."small hangy tits" 🤣🤣

No. Not unless I was absolutely destitute. Certainly not in order to be ‘rich’.

I think the kind of male behaviour you’d be exposed to would be indescribably disgusting and scary, even if just on the other side of a camera. And I think it would quite traumatic and difficult to get over.

No.

I have nothing but sympathy for women who are forced into porn and prostitution.

I won’t pretend it is anything other than that by using modern sanitising terminology.

There is no dignity in selling yourself for sex no matter what you call it.

However those who choose this just to avoid a proper job are utterly irresponsible and selfish. They are letting down women throughout the world by normalising sex and the female body as a commodity for men.

Also, on a personal level I think that if you can distance yourself from reality far enough to let a man you don’t like or love or fancy inside your body for money then I think you need psychological help.

No, genuinely. Ethically its wrong, but also can you imagine the kind of men who use those sites??????....my stomach isn't strong enough

It depends what it would involve but in principle, yes. Get enough to be made for life, and then move on.