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To ask if you'll be attending the anti fascism protest on 13 September

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Whatafustercluck · 26/08/2025 18:44

I'd like to go in solidarity with like minded people, but worry about it turning violent. I won't be taking my children and will likely be going alone. Lots of people I know detest Tommy Robinson but will stay away due to the likelihood of trouble, but I really want to help send a message that racism and hatred won't win. Is anyone here considering going, or decided to stay away?

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BIossomtoes · 07/09/2025 12:52

Eunhae · 07/09/2025 12:50

I came via the legal route, darling. And in case you haven't travelled recently, there is no raging war in France or the EU. Hasn't been for decades. I was in France last month, absolutely no reason to leave there or the EU in a boat

Where did you seek asylum from via a legal route?

Eunhae · 07/09/2025 12:54

Serpentstooth · 07/09/2025 11:41

You are so misinformed that it's not worth attempting any response other than this. Good luck. Try the history channel. That might help you know a little more when you choose to comment on a public forum.

Try travelling to France or the EU. You will then see there is something inherently wrong and extremely conccerning with men of fighting age - who do not speak English or have any wish to assimilate into British culture - getting on boats to leave there for here 'in search of refuge'.
There is nothing that requires escaping France. The food? The weather? The freedom of religion and expression?
Please explain

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 12:55

Eunhae · 07/09/2025 12:50

I came via the legal route, darling. And in case you haven't travelled recently, there is no raging war in France or the EU. Hasn't been for decades. I was in France last month, absolutely no reason to leave there or the EU in a boat

Ah, so because you popped over to France last month without dodging bullets, nobody else fleeing war should need asylum? That’s the level of logic we’re dealing with? France not being a warzone doesn’t magically make it a safe country for everyone — especially when people already have family, community, or obligations here. Refugees can’t “just apply” for a non-existent visa to flee Sudan or Syria.

Equating your weekend in Paris with someone running for their life is not only idiotic, it’s cruel. You’re comparing your privilege to their desperation and pretending it proves a point. All it proves is that you don’t understand asylum law, international agreements, or basic humanity, darling

Eunhae · 07/09/2025 12:57

BIossomtoes · 07/09/2025 12:52

Where did you seek asylum from via a legal route?

I am a little more industrious than that. I qualified as a doctor and got a job with the NHS which provided a visa. I did though need clearance and prive enough funds to afford to leave if the job didnt work out. I had, and still have, no recourse to public funds. The perfect Immigrant

Eunhae · 07/09/2025 13:01

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 12:55

Ah, so because you popped over to France last month without dodging bullets, nobody else fleeing war should need asylum? That’s the level of logic we’re dealing with? France not being a warzone doesn’t magically make it a safe country for everyone — especially when people already have family, community, or obligations here. Refugees can’t “just apply” for a non-existent visa to flee Sudan or Syria.

Equating your weekend in Paris with someone running for their life is not only idiotic, it’s cruel. You’re comparing your privilege to their desperation and pretending it proves a point. All it proves is that you don’t understand asylum law, international agreements, or basic humanity, darling

If your house is on fire and you make it to your neighbours, you are safe. If their food isn't to you liking or their daughter's not to your taste, it doesn't mean you can keep house jumping down the street pleading that you are escaping a fire until you find what is best for you.

Refuge is short term assistance until you can return. Not a new life on someone's money forever. That will lead to societal collapse. As it has in these people's homelands.

BIossomtoes · 07/09/2025 13:02

Eunhae · 07/09/2025 12:57

I am a little more industrious than that. I qualified as a doctor and got a job with the NHS which provided a visa. I did though need clearance and prive enough funds to afford to leave if the job didnt work out. I had, and still have, no recourse to public funds. The perfect Immigrant

Apart from your attitude.

Prebendstreet · 07/09/2025 13:05

BIossomtoes · 07/09/2025 13:02

Apart from your attitude.

What?

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 13:11

Eunhae · 07/09/2025 13:01

If your house is on fire and you make it to your neighbours, you are safe. If their food isn't to you liking or their daughter's not to your taste, it doesn't mean you can keep house jumping down the street pleading that you are escaping a fire until you find what is best for you.

Refuge is short term assistance until you can return. Not a new life on someone's money forever. That will lead to societal collapse. As it has in these people's homelands.

Yeah, obviously your analogy is a pile of shit. When your house burns down here, you’ve got insurance, bank accounts, family, friends, GoFundMe pages, even sympathy from strangers. People rally around you. When your country burns down, you’ve got nothing — no safety net, no legal visa route (unless you’re white and Ukrainian), and certainly no pity. Try fleeing Sudan, where there is no legal route into the UK, and tell me again how easy it is to just “apply.” Pretending asylum seekers are shopping around for a better kitchen is grotesque minimisation. Losing a house isn’t the same as losing your homeland, your family, and every shred of security. One is tragic; the other is catastrophic — and you erase that difference because it doesn’t fit your narrative

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 14:48

Eunhae · 07/09/2025 13:01

If your house is on fire and you make it to your neighbours, you are safe. If their food isn't to you liking or their daughter's not to your taste, it doesn't mean you can keep house jumping down the street pleading that you are escaping a fire until you find what is best for you.

Refuge is short term assistance until you can return. Not a new life on someone's money forever. That will lead to societal collapse. As it has in these people's homelands.

I agree...this analogy is an intelligent one.

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 14:50

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 13:11

Yeah, obviously your analogy is a pile of shit. When your house burns down here, you’ve got insurance, bank accounts, family, friends, GoFundMe pages, even sympathy from strangers. People rally around you. When your country burns down, you’ve got nothing — no safety net, no legal visa route (unless you’re white and Ukrainian), and certainly no pity. Try fleeing Sudan, where there is no legal route into the UK, and tell me again how easy it is to just “apply.” Pretending asylum seekers are shopping around for a better kitchen is grotesque minimisation. Losing a house isn’t the same as losing your homeland, your family, and every shred of security. One is tragic; the other is catastrophic — and you erase that difference because it doesn’t fit your narrative

You got daughters?

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 15:02

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 14:48

I agree...this analogy is an intelligent one.

It really isn't- it's shallow as hell

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 15:04

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 15:02

It really isn't- it's shallow as hell

That's your opinion

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 15:19

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 15:04

That's your opinion

And I gave plenty of examples as to why it's shallow. And could easily give more.

llizzie · 07/09/2025 15:44

scorpiogirly · 05/09/2025 22:16

I'd be going to support Tommy if I could.

Each to his own, I suppose.

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 15:47

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 15:19

And I gave plenty of examples as to why it's shallow. And could easily give more.

Good for you 😆

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 15:49

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 15:47

Good for you 😆

Thats what a discussion is, simple Simon.

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 15:55

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 15:49

Thats what a discussion is, simple Simon.

Well your responses to other people's opinions in so called 'discussions', such as 'shallow as hell' and 'a pile of shit', are your very intelligent and analytical conclusions I presume !?

llizzie · 07/09/2025 15:58

BIossomtoes · 06/09/2025 20:28

They don’t get benefits. If there are no women and children coming why is Farage promising to deport women to Afghanistan and prevaricating about children?

No women and children coming? Are you in denial as well, or are you not referring to the illegal boat migrants, among whom are some women and children. How do you know those women and children are not coerced into crossing the channel as insurance? Perhaps they are slaves, used by the slave traffickers?

I don't know if Afghan women are coming by boat, but if they are, they are coming by an illegal route. I applaud their efforts to escape the Taliban, but they can ask for asylum in many countries between UK and Afghanistan, as can anyone, and a genuine refugee from Afghanistan would do that, rather than make a perilous journey to the coast of France. It makes no sense, and neither do the other migrants. Those who can prove they are in danger can come by other routes.

All the claptrap about 'poor things they are persecuted and desperate' is so much who shot John, because if they were genuine asylum seekers they would apply in the first safe country that they reach.

We should all be asking why they are crossing the channel when there are alternatives, not arguing the toss about whether they are entitled.

THINK FOR A MOMENT: work out how many hours you have to work to supply aid to these unknown men who cross illegally. Perhaps if we looked at it that way, we might band together and make the government do more about stopping them. Mothers have their own children to work for, not fit and able men who want to slum off taxpayers because they think Britain is wealthy.

It is YOUR PURSE STRINGS they are loosening. How many hours do you have to work to pay school dinners? How many hours to get the kids ready for going back to school? How many hours to pay for school fares? How many hours you earn to pay for the weekly shopping?

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 16:01

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 15:55

Well your responses to other people's opinions in so called 'discussions', such as 'shallow as hell' and 'a pile of shit', are your very intelligent and analytical conclusions I presume !?

No, that’s not what conclusions are. Those were observations. A conclusion is what you reach at the end of a discussion, you know, after weighing points and evidence? But nice try.

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 16:10

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 16:01

No, that’s not what conclusions are. Those were observations. A conclusion is what you reach at the end of a discussion, you know, after weighing points and evidence? But nice try.

Very strong are your 'observations' ..reflecting a level of such rational and critical thinking in such discussions. Yes, I can see what you mean....😄

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 16:14

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 16:10

Very strong are your 'observations' ..reflecting a level of such rational and critical thinking in such discussions. Yes, I can see what you mean....😄

You’ve not read the full thread, haven’t been part of the discussion, and contributed nothing—just rocked up at the last minute to drop some feeble claptrap at me.

It’s giving “lone, lost flagshagger vaguely crayoning a red cross onto a long-faded mini-roundabout” energy. Too little, too late, and aeemingly quite bemused and angry at the people actually having the real conversation.

Enjoy your Tommy Robinson festival, try not to lamp anyone.

simplesimoneatspie · 07/09/2025 16:22

awkwardasfuck · 07/09/2025 16:14

You’ve not read the full thread, haven’t been part of the discussion, and contributed nothing—just rocked up at the last minute to drop some feeble claptrap at me.

It’s giving “lone, lost flagshagger vaguely crayoning a red cross onto a long-faded mini-roundabout” energy. Too little, too late, and aeemingly quite bemused and angry at the people actually having the real conversation.

Enjoy your Tommy Robinson festival, try not to lamp anyone.

Oh you have me completely sussed!

Piggywaspushed · 07/09/2025 16:36

Goodness, well that moved on from 'there are no women and children'...

LakieLady · 07/09/2025 17:01

MixedBananas · 06/09/2025 20:37

We have a multicultural party on the 13th and the EDF have arranged a protest in the same spot. Red and white flags have popped up all over town and I am very scared for myself and my children. I don't think I will be going out this week. I was born in the UK to immigrant parents and deapite them working hard all their life and raising 3 well adjusted citizens we experince racisim weekly. It has gotten worse recently. I am fed up. This isn't an anti immigration protest this is racisim and an excuse to harm anyone who doesn't look "English".
This is my home I don't know any other home. I was born and educated her and worked in the NHS for 15years.
No matter what we do we will never be accepted here. Speak the lanaguage. Integrated. Pay our taxes. Don't commit crimes. Doesn't matter if we look "foreign" then we are all the same.

It's appalling that these people are making decent, hard-working people like you feel unsafe in the UK @MixedBananas . I'm so sorry.

I fucking hate these racist shits with a vengeance.

llizzie · 07/09/2025 18:06

awkwardasfuck

You don't need to vent your spleen by being particularly nasty to me. Your post is insulting, and hurtful. I answered your post in good faith. Your post is demeaning to you, not to me.

You show yourself up as a spiteful person. How am I supposed to know you are congenitally nasty? Am I supposed to be a mind reader? Am I supposed to know you are sarcastic in your posts. I shall steer very clear of you from now on.

To tell me now that your post was sarcastic in such a vile way, then all I can say is that I am not surprised you are unhappy with your status.

Next time you are sarcastic, if you don't want people to take you literally, you have to say you are being sarky. Then you won't get innocent and well meaning folks like me giving you comfort when you are far from needing it.

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