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To be devasted the roundabout in my town has a crappy 'flag' painted on?

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Liesmorelies · 24/08/2025 21:19

I nearly threw up when I saw it this morning - what a horrible shock.

It's a very small town in the Midlands near a city. Yes it's ex-mining but does reasonable ok now, not deprived eg no contextual offers for my dc for uni, but not massively desirable or trendy. Has a Labour MP now but hasn't always in recent years. Voted for Brexit but only just. In 2019 more people voted against Tories AND Brexit than for them - split the vote so we still got a Tory, but still.

In other words, I did not expect this. It's horrible - looks ugly and badly done even before you get started on the thinking behind it. AIBU to ring the council on Tuesday and ask when they are going to deal with this vandalism?

I did a four hour round-trip on the motorway today too and the amount of flags on bridges was shocking - just make it stop.

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BMW6 · 24/08/2025 22:34

"Devastated" and "Nearly threw up".........
😂😂😂😂😂😂🙄

Christ Almighty

Insidemyownhead · 24/08/2025 22:34

Hold there, I should have a Virtue Signaller flag somewhere you could borrow, attach it to the car or something.

PruthePrune · 24/08/2025 22:34

Remember it is the women's rugby world cup, the flags could be supporting the Red Roses. Just thought I'd throw that out there. There's always plenty flag waving during any other major sporting tournament.

OchreCrab · 24/08/2025 22:34

Zov · 24/08/2025 22:33

😂 It's batshit isn't it? Are these people for real? I don't know a SOUL in real life who reacts like this. The parallel world of Mumsnet strikes again.

If this is real, I am so embarrassed for the OP! 😬

Just find the septum piercing crew, they act this way

Topofthepops9 · 24/08/2025 22:34

I’m with you, OP. I live in what I thought was a nice area, but they are gradually popping up in more places. It’s pathetic, but they will get bored eventually.

genesis92 · 24/08/2025 22:35

Are normally such a wet wipe?

Zov · 24/08/2025 22:35

Greenwitchart · 24/08/2025 22:33

The current flag shagging has nothing to do with genuine patriotism unfortunately.

It is about thick, hate-fulled far right agitators using it as a way to create a hostile atmosphere for immigrants/non whites.

Nothing to be proud of and we as council tax payers will end up funding the cleaning up of roundabouts and removal of flags from random places.

'Right wing = thick.' BINGO! Where's my prize?! Grin

What prize do I get when someone says 'gammon,' 'uneducated,' 'low-class,' and 'racist?' 😎

EchoedSilence · 24/08/2025 22:36

Zov · 24/08/2025 22:35

'Right wing = thick.' BINGO! Where's my prize?! Grin

What prize do I get when someone says 'gammon,' 'uneducated,' 'low-class,' and 'racist?' 😎

You get a nice big flag to wank over.

MsJinks · 24/08/2025 22:36

Just saying ‘hi’ - been on 3 other threads today to espouse my leftie views against a sadly rising tide of people deniers.
But I do totally get your viewpoint OP - it’s not OTT to feel sick about overt and abhorrent hatred in your own area. I was always proud to be from Yorkshire until the Rotherham hotel - then I was ashamed. I drove up a street yesterday full of half mast flags and found it very disturbing tbh and wouldn’t wish to be walking up it - strangely just one spot full of them and none in the next village. My council didn’t have local elections this year, but my previous county is Reform run now and I am so glad I don’t live there, though family does. If my council turns Reform I will want to leave, and have looked at different areas. Some may feel that’s OTT too.
It’s not about refusing to accept immigration is an issue for people. It’s about the hatred against immigrants and ignorance demonstrated about immigration. It’s about refusing to see there could ever , ever be a reason to be hateful and violent to a specific set of humans.
The English and U.K. flags are now used deliberately by those wanting to attack and displace others - we all know what it means painted on a roundabout - but used so they can say they’re just being patriotic. St George will be turning in his Palestinian (now Israeli) grave I expect.

Audiwannabe · 24/08/2025 22:36

3439TP · 24/08/2025 22:28

Let's hope she never goes to the Sistine chapel ...

This is why we need the laugh emoji back!

I mean I find the vandalism distasteful and think it's likely to be based in something not as innocent as patriotism, but being so dramatic about it is just feeding the beast really.

Ethelflaedofmercia · 24/08/2025 22:36

🙄

Hoardasurass · 24/08/2025 22:37

UsernameMcUsername · 24/08/2025 22:20

I eyeroll at flag waving generally - all flags - but I also eye roll at people who have fifteen different Fashionable Cause / Made Up Sexual Identity Of The Week / Country Their Granny Came From flags in their social media bios but think anyone with a Union Jack is a 'flag shagger'. Basically some White Brits have - totally unsurprisingly- decided that identity politics is a game they can play too. Maybe the solution would be to have a bit less identity politics generally?

You cant walk down any high street in Scotland without seeing the st Andrews cross all the public buildings have them and nobody bats an eyelid at it. I just don't understand what they problem is with the English flying their flag

IfYoureLeavingTakeMeToo · 24/08/2025 22:37

MiddleAgeRageMonster · 24/08/2025 21:25

Are you usually so dramatic?

You took the words right out of my mouth..

To be devasted the roundabout in my town has a crappy 'flag' painted on?

I nearly threw up when I saw it this morning - what a horrible shock

Seriously?

How do you feel about the Sistine Chapel?

SumUp · 24/08/2025 22:37

Zov · 24/08/2025 22:35

'Right wing = thick.' BINGO! Where's my prize?! Grin

What prize do I get when someone says 'gammon,' 'uneducated,' 'low-class,' and 'racist?' 😎

This post is sponsored by Britain First ⬆️

HellEvenDorisDay · 24/08/2025 22:37

A tad dramatic, no? Were you this upset when lots of pedestrian crossings were changed from black and white to multicoloured? A move which poses disadvantage and possible danger to visually impaired people and those who use guide dogs? Take a deep breath, OP, and live your best life

Zov · 24/08/2025 22:38

EchoedSilence · 24/08/2025 22:36

You get a nice big flag to wank over.

England GIF

I've got one ta. Grin And I fly it proudly........

OchreCrab · 24/08/2025 22:38

HellEvenDorisDay · 24/08/2025 22:37

A tad dramatic, no? Were you this upset when lots of pedestrian crossings were changed from black and white to multicoloured? A move which poses disadvantage and possible danger to visually impaired people and those who use guide dogs? Take a deep breath, OP, and live your best life

Because BLM and LGBT are all ok and not vandalism. Everything else isn’t ok

Booboobagins · 24/08/2025 22:38

I am so sick of this type of thinking. There is nothing wrong with putting a st George's flag anywhere, it is England's flag.

Go worry about a real issue like tax evasion lazy people and illegal immigrants feeling entitled to benefits and the erosion of our culture to accommodate other cultures, especially the stupidity of thinking flying our flag is somehow racist or causing anyone offence. Patriotism is growing (thank God). It's about time we found the French in us and focussed on protecting our borders from the invasion of single men of fighting age!

Zov · 24/08/2025 22:38

SumUp · 24/08/2025 22:37

This post is sponsored by Britain First ⬆️

Ooooh, another prize. BINGO! Grin Keep 'em coming. You're soooo predictable!!!! 😆

Supersimkin7 · 24/08/2025 22:38

St George’s flags are delightful, not remotely racist. And easy to paint.

Probably easier to start trouble about something else.

EchoedSilence · 24/08/2025 22:39

Zov · 24/08/2025 22:38

I've got one ta. Grin And I fly it proudly........

I'm sure Tommy will be very proud of you.

Zov · 24/08/2025 22:39

IfYoureLeavingTakeMeToo · 24/08/2025 22:37

You took the words right out of my mouth..

To be devasted the roundabout in my town has a crappy 'flag' painted on?

I nearly threw up when I saw it this morning - what a horrible shock

Seriously?

How do you feel about the Sistine Chapel?

😆

Zov · 24/08/2025 22:39

EchoedSilence · 24/08/2025 22:39

I'm sure Tommy will be very proud of you.

Bless. Grin

FoxBaseBeta · 24/08/2025 22:40

Fucking hell, I've never read so many disingenuous replies. Everyone knows full well, much of the current flag dawbing is nothing to do with actual patriotism.

Silverbirchleaf · 24/08/2025 22:40

If people are being patriotic, why weren’t the flags flown for the Lionesses?

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