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To be devasted the roundabout in my town has a crappy 'flag' painted on?

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Liesmorelies · 24/08/2025 21:19

I nearly threw up when I saw it this morning - what a horrible shock.

It's a very small town in the Midlands near a city. Yes it's ex-mining but does reasonable ok now, not deprived eg no contextual offers for my dc for uni, but not massively desirable or trendy. Has a Labour MP now but hasn't always in recent years. Voted for Brexit but only just. In 2019 more people voted against Tories AND Brexit than for them - split the vote so we still got a Tory, but still.

In other words, I did not expect this. It's horrible - looks ugly and badly done even before you get started on the thinking behind it. AIBU to ring the council on Tuesday and ask when they are going to deal with this vandalism?

I did a four hour round-trip on the motorway today too and the amount of flags on bridges was shocking - just make it stop.

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healthyteeth · 25/08/2025 13:34

pippapumpkin · 25/08/2025 13:21

Give me your facts to the contrary then. It’s common sense because it’s blindingly obvious. Not everything has to be intellectualised to be understood. Sometimes the simplest explanation is the explanation. Every month new figures come out about what immigration is costing us. From the UC bill to the hotel bills. Enjoy your tax rises that are coming though, shame people who want this circus to stop can’t opt out and leave people who think this is acceptable to foot the bill.

No it isn’t obvious. Correlation isn’t causation! Just because we live in a time of economic uncertainty doesn’t mean that immigration has CAUSED it.

Facts;

The UK economy has faced many recent challenges eg austerity, Brexit, COVID-19, inflation, government underfunding and energy price shocks—but immigration is not the cause of these problems.

Many studies, including from the Office for Budget Responsibility and the Bank of England actually show that immigration has a positive or neutral effect on economic growth.

Immigrants often fill key labour shortages, especially in sectors like healthcare, transport, hospitality, and agriculture!

Think about why you have fallen for this myth that immigration = poverty…

  • Media narratives often focus on immigration as a “problem” or threat.
  • Politicians use immigration as a distraction from economic mismanagement.
  • People experience real problems (e.g., housing shortages, NHS strain), and look for simple explanations—immigration becomes an easy target.

The perfect scapegoat

the5thgoldengirl · 25/08/2025 13:34

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80smonster · 25/08/2025 13:34

Liesmorelies · 24/08/2025 21:27

Bunting and actual flags may well look pretty. A badly painted St George's Cross slapped onto a mini-roundabout does not. That's before you consider the other issues.

OP, follow these instructions very carefully: you need a black cat suit, black gloves, black trainers and a black balaclava. Also some paints in various colours, sneak out in the dead of night and paint large, gaudy flowers over the flag, and if you can manage a dove, too.

illinivich · 25/08/2025 13:35

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 13:30

When you said 'sure' sarcastically.

And your response to my orginal question made no sense to me. Saying 'quota' didnt explain anything.

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 13:35

Hoardasurass · 25/08/2025 13:32

That is not what I'm doing as well you know.
What is am doing is pointing out what is going on and yes the figures I quoted are for reported and convicted sexual assaults as we dont have any other accurate figures or statistics. If the government would keep honest records (including the sex of the accused) about reported sexual assaults and put all that information out in the public and lead a conversation about what they show we could remove that weapon from the far right but they won't instead they had to be forced to publish the few statistics we do have by the far right who are using it to push their own agenda.
You forget that if we cannot name or a describe the problem we cannot fix it. Running around claiming that everyone who points out the problem as excusing white rapists and accusing them of racism and worse makes you part of the problem rather than the solution.

I don't know that, you are siding with Reform and the flag shaggers who are known abusers and rapists many of them.

So you say that you know the figures and now admit that we do not know the true picture. The government records almost all of the ethnicities and that information is readily available to the public. I have the 2017 data right in front of me. It says the majority of ethnicities and some unknown. Which will always be the case.

Yes the problem is men. Men of all ethnicities raping and abusing because of their misogyny. The problem is misogyny.

Well when you exclude the cover ups on white rapists then one wonders why?
Why did you do that? What was the aim?

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 13:36

illinivich · 25/08/2025 13:35

And your response to my orginal question made no sense to me. Saying 'quota' didnt explain anything.

Why did you say 'sure'?

It was a comment, single comment that implied you didn;t believe me. If you wanted more of an explanation why not say - please can you explain.

How would 'sure' get me to explain?

Mushypeasandlemonjuice · 25/08/2025 13:37

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😂😂 oh sweetheart, if you knew me you’d understand how absurd an idea that is. As you don’t, I can only say that you’re proving all of my concerns to be based in sad reality.

Kossak · 25/08/2025 13:37

Liesmorelies · 24/08/2025 21:27

Bunting and actual flags may well look pretty. A badly painted St George's Cross slapped onto a mini-roundabout does not. That's before you consider the other issues.

I'm gobsmacked by all the people on here who think it's just fine to demonstrate your xenophobia by flying these flags or painting them on everything. Let's face it, anyone who has convinced themselves that this is 'pretty flags and bunting to make the place look nice for visitors' is either lying to themselves or living in Cloud Cuckoo Land. What it's actually saying is 'foreigners go home' but in less polite terms. England in particular has taken leave of its senses, encouraged by a totally obsessed media. There are pockets of this madness in Scotland, but at least Perth Council just issued a fine, decent refutation. I wish people would wake up to the slow creep of fascism before it's too late.

healthyteeth · 25/08/2025 13:37

FOJN · 25/08/2025 13:16

Why should anyone take your concerns seriously now?

People have been trying to have a conversation about immigration for years. Brexit was a shot across the bows and rather than sit up and take notice the remainers continued their campaign of insults.If people tell you they can't get school places, GP appointments or a house to rent it's not advisable to tell them they are stupid racists.

Most of the political left insulted the very people they thought owed them a vote and the right paid lip service to doing something but did nothing and thought they could fool people by sleight of hand. Labour won the last election with fewer votes than they lost with in 2019, it was less of a win and more a vote against the conservatives. People voted for change and got more of the same. Large sections of the population have been disenfranchised by the entire political establishment which effectively cedes ground to people with more extreme agendas.

You were warned and now you want people to take notice of your concerns? It's a bit too late for that, perhaps YOU should have listened earlier.

I don’t disagree that many people (including myself) are disenfranchised. Politics is a sham. Politicians of all colours are awful.

Doesn’t mean immigration is causing all your troubles. See my post above for what is really causing all the problems in the UK.

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 13:37

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Oh imagine living in those times! How awful it must've been.

LizzieW1969 · 25/08/2025 13:38

Greenwitchart · 24/08/2025 22:33

The current flag shagging has nothing to do with genuine patriotism unfortunately.

It is about thick, hate-fulled far right agitators using it as a way to create a hostile atmosphere for immigrants/non whites.

Nothing to be proud of and we as council tax payers will end up funding the cleaning up of roundabouts and removal of flags from random places.

^This 💯, sadly.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/08/2025 13:39

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Woah. That's out of order. And misogynistic to boot.

OneFunBrickNewt · 25/08/2025 13:39

Ablondiebutagoody · 24/08/2025 21:24

I just got back from Spain. There were loads of flags and bunting out over there. Looked lovely.

Flags in Spain are not used by the Far Right to intimidate asylum seekers. Thugs and chavs don't stand outside asylum seeker accommodation in Spain literally with the Spanish flag wrapped around their bare shoulders trying to burn down hostels with asylum seekers alive inside.
That's what happened last summer.

the5thgoldengirl · 25/08/2025 13:39

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godlikeAI · 25/08/2025 13:39

Blondiebeachbabe · 25/08/2025 13:26

I am an English woman, but I live in Scotland. People here have always been proud to fly the saltire - it's often seen in gardens. Same as in many, many countries around the globe.

Only the English are somehow made to feel racist by flying their OWN fucking flag. And all the lefties can't see that as a problem. Unbelievable how easily they have given away their own identity, just in case they (gasp) offend someone who has illegally invaded our shores. How weak and pathetic. Maybe you should bow down to them and kiss their feet while you're down there.

I wish our roundabouts had flags painted on them, I really do. I love Scotland, I love England, and I am PROUD to be English.

I am going on holiday soon, and fuck it, I am going to buy a Union Jack beach towel. And any loony leftie who doesn't like it can get to fuck.

Errrm because… context. Flag on public building, fine and nice. Flag on your house, not my cup of tea but whatevs. Flag draped around your shoulders at an anti migrant protest - probably quite aggressive. They’re not all the same thing and we’re not all stupid enough to think they are.

The express purpose here is to sow division. That’s it.

DashboardConfession · 25/08/2025 13:40

Kossak · 25/08/2025 13:37

I'm gobsmacked by all the people on here who think it's just fine to demonstrate your xenophobia by flying these flags or painting them on everything. Let's face it, anyone who has convinced themselves that this is 'pretty flags and bunting to make the place look nice for visitors' is either lying to themselves or living in Cloud Cuckoo Land. What it's actually saying is 'foreigners go home' but in less polite terms. England in particular has taken leave of its senses, encouraged by a totally obsessed media. There are pockets of this madness in Scotland, but at least Perth Council just issued a fine, decent refutation. I wish people would wake up to the slow creep of fascism before it's too late.

We've been here before. People's memories are short.

Unfortunately until Reform get some MPs and demonstrate how they cannot stop immigration and "small boats", let alone have any idea how to run the everyday backroom stuff in government, these voices won't shut up.

MycatLarry · 25/08/2025 13:40

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No problem, autocorrect is a real trouble maker!

OneFunBrickNewt · 25/08/2025 13:40

MiddleAgeRageMonster · 24/08/2025 21:25

Are you usually so dramatic?

Are you usually this accepting of racism?

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 13:40

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Or she fell in love, learnt about the religion and made her own choice. Freedom to choose or do you not support that idea? I find it terrifying that you do not support women's right to choose her own religion.

Not all men are like yours.

Applesonthelawn · 25/08/2025 13:41

There's flags everywhere in Scandinavia and Germany. It's really pretty normal and your reaction is just weird.

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 13:41

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Oh I am sure it is, I was on about living in those times being awful.

Mushypeasandlemonjuice · 25/08/2025 13:42

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 13:30

It is disgusting isn't it? My partner is not white and we have never faced such open racism. We have spent so much time together and last summer we faced some racism if we walked together on the street. That died down in the winter as the racists are frightened of the cold and now it has re-emerged.

We will not stop walking together nor will they break us with their comments of him 'taking our girls' as if I would shag the likes of those knuckle draggers if I wasn't with him.

It is very much openly racist now and quite often celebrated. Thankfully the cold weather is meant to hit tomorrow and they will all be hiding again.

I’m so sorry you’re facing this. Part of me wants to fight the fascism by wearing a bright pink burka but the sensible part of me says think of the kids..and that part then says by bowing down, what am I teaching them? Can I ask where you live? Is it something you feel everywhere or?

FreezeDriedStrawberries · 25/08/2025 13:42

OneFunBrickNewt · 25/08/2025 13:39

Flags in Spain are not used by the Far Right to intimidate asylum seekers. Thugs and chavs don't stand outside asylum seeker accommodation in Spain literally with the Spanish flag wrapped around their bare shoulders trying to burn down hostels with asylum seekers alive inside.
That's what happened last summer.

Well said. Big difference.

pippapumpkin · 25/08/2025 13:43

healthyteeth · 25/08/2025 13:34

No it isn’t obvious. Correlation isn’t causation! Just because we live in a time of economic uncertainty doesn’t mean that immigration has CAUSED it.

Facts;

The UK economy has faced many recent challenges eg austerity, Brexit, COVID-19, inflation, government underfunding and energy price shocks—but immigration is not the cause of these problems.

Many studies, including from the Office for Budget Responsibility and the Bank of England actually show that immigration has a positive or neutral effect on economic growth.

Immigrants often fill key labour shortages, especially in sectors like healthcare, transport, hospitality, and agriculture!

Think about why you have fallen for this myth that immigration = poverty…

  • Media narratives often focus on immigration as a “problem” or threat.
  • Politicians use immigration as a distraction from economic mismanagement.
  • People experience real problems (e.g., housing shortages, NHS strain), and look for simple explanations—immigration becomes an easy target.

The perfect scapegoat

I have come to my opinion after taking in sources and official statistics over the course of the past few years, as well as the evidence to my own eyes and your AI query to prove me otherwise doesn’t wash.

It’s only in the past few months we have even been able to have an open discussion about the effects of migration, media narratives constantly take the pro immigration stance so for you to think you can say I have swallowed media manipulation and you haven’t, is a pot kettle situation.

I am not a right wing nut. I have had quite the journey coming from being a socially liberal, help people who need it type of person to how I feel about immigration currently. The flag stuff is a culmination of people like me who have been historically tolerant and embracing realising that we’ve been taken the piss out of. I actually would prefer you to be right and we don’t have anything to worry about and it’s right wing hyperbole. But when my bills go up every month, it’s revealed we’re on the brink of economic collapse and spending a billion £ a month on foreign welfare coupled with the fact there’s strange men walking around my town with hoods up and coverings pulled up to their eyes in 25 degree weather, and my child’s school is fenced off and practicing lockdown procedures, it’s hard not to notice our way of life is being eroded before our eyes.

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