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To be devasted the roundabout in my town has a crappy 'flag' painted on?

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Liesmorelies · 24/08/2025 21:19

I nearly threw up when I saw it this morning - what a horrible shock.

It's a very small town in the Midlands near a city. Yes it's ex-mining but does reasonable ok now, not deprived eg no contextual offers for my dc for uni, but not massively desirable or trendy. Has a Labour MP now but hasn't always in recent years. Voted for Brexit but only just. In 2019 more people voted against Tories AND Brexit than for them - split the vote so we still got a Tory, but still.

In other words, I did not expect this. It's horrible - looks ugly and badly done even before you get started on the thinking behind it. AIBU to ring the council on Tuesday and ask when they are going to deal with this vandalism?

I did a four hour round-trip on the motorway today too and the amount of flags on bridges was shocking - just make it stop.

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TrixieFatell · 25/08/2025 00:56

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I suppose you could put one on the roundabout and spray paint over it.

We had someone spray paint Ainsley Harriot on a roundabout sign. Now that was genius!!

rockstarshoes · 25/08/2025 00:57

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And another one! Out in force tonight boys!

the5thgoldengirl · 25/08/2025 00:57

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Fetaface · 25/08/2025 00:57

TesChique · 25/08/2025 00:54

🙄 sure, i made that giant leap with zero insinuations from you. Youre right. You said all of those things completely sincereky and without a hint of classism.

Im sure everyone on this thread sees yiur posts like that too.

Sorry

Yes, I see what teenagers are wearing and dressing like. You associated the latest trends with working class when I associate it with teens. Most teens.

the5thgoldengirl · 25/08/2025 00:58

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TesChique · 25/08/2025 00:59

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 00:57

Yes, I see what teenagers are wearing and dressing like. You associated the latest trends with working class when I associate it with teens. Most teens.

Youre so right, so sincere and not at all disingenuous.

Climbingrosexx · 25/08/2025 01:00

ChrisMartinsKisskam · 24/08/2025 23:16

Em why is it a problem to be proud of being white

I’m brown and proud to be brown
so why can’t a white person be proud to be white

For the majority of people it isn't about colour it's about being English / British and you should be allowed to be proud of that, whatever colour you are without being called racist.

ChrisMartinsKisskam · 25/08/2025 01:00

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 00:54

Jesus Christ, what made you do that? They caused the NHS issue to start. It was a great time waiting in queues for ambulances and not having any Drs to help.

Your experience is not mine

the5thgoldengirl · 25/08/2025 01:03

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Pastaandoranges · 25/08/2025 01:03

I saw this in a news piece online today. I am mixed, ok fine for flags of a country to be flown in the country. But painting a roundabout is just not really helping the cause, and by cause, i am not even sure what the cause is, because it is being interpreted very diffetently by different people. The cause seems to be varied from being proud to be british or english suddenly, to a we want our country back (from who as last time I checked our elected government was still in power), to we just like our flag, to extreme racist views. If there was a unified cause then I could understand it at least.

ViolaPlains · 25/08/2025 01:03

Liesmorelies · 24/08/2025 21:19

I nearly threw up when I saw it this morning - what a horrible shock.

It's a very small town in the Midlands near a city. Yes it's ex-mining but does reasonable ok now, not deprived eg no contextual offers for my dc for uni, but not massively desirable or trendy. Has a Labour MP now but hasn't always in recent years. Voted for Brexit but only just. In 2019 more people voted against Tories AND Brexit than for them - split the vote so we still got a Tory, but still.

In other words, I did not expect this. It's horrible - looks ugly and badly done even before you get started on the thinking behind it. AIBU to ring the council on Tuesday and ask when they are going to deal with this vandalism?

I did a four hour round-trip on the motorway today too and the amount of flags on bridges was shocking - just make it stop.

Get a grip.

Friendlygingercat · 25/08/2025 01:04

I dont think that defacing public areas with paint - often poorly done - is appropriate. However I am in favour of public buildings and individuals (should they wish) feeling able to fly the flag of their country and taking pride in it. That includes the flags of the devolved nations as well as the Union flag. I dont have anywhere to fly a flag where it would be seen. However I have sent for some small Union flag decals for my door and window which will only be seen by any immediate caller. For the record I have been a Conservative all my life but voted Reform in the GE. I am not a poorly educated oik but have the highest academic qualifications its possible to get in UK.

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 01:04

TesChique · 25/08/2025 00:59

Youre so right, so sincere and not at all disingenuous.

Your classism showing again?

TesChique · 25/08/2025 01:04

Anyone ekse have visions of the op being like that old catherine tate character who screamed at everything ? Thats what i imagine her homecoming to be like

ChrisMartinsKisskam · 25/08/2025 01:05

Climbingrosexx · 25/08/2025 01:00

For the majority of people it isn't about colour it's about being English / British and you should be allowed to be proud of that, whatever colour you are without being called racist.

i agree
Im Brown English British and born in England and proud of all 3

my husband is white English and British and Also proud of all 3

We are the same dispite our difference in colour

TesChique · 25/08/2025 01:05

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 01:04

Your classism showing again?

Youre so right

Fetaface · 25/08/2025 01:05

Climbingrosexx · 25/08/2025 01:00

For the majority of people it isn't about colour it's about being English / British and you should be allowed to be proud of that, whatever colour you are without being called racist.

And for many it is about having the chance to show their racism without being challenged.

Plantatreetoday · 25/08/2025 01:07

Liesmorelies · 24/08/2025 21:29

I haven't seen people in other countries slapping paint around their infrastructure. May be wrong though.

Cough cough
Havent you seen any pictures of Northern Ireland
Wait till they get their brushes out and start painting the kerbstones

I agree it’s intimidating
If it was happening in roundabouts near us I’d be out there scrubbing them clean

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/08/2025 01:08

MistressoftheDarkSide · 24/08/2025 22:52

It would be just a national flag if it wasn't being obviously weaponised.

All this "patriotism" is just a cover for vitriol with an easy target.

I've just seen a video on Facebook showing two self proclaimed "geezers" painting crosses above a parade of shops that included a takeaway. They were telling a small child they were doing it for "their country" and their future. Almost surprised they didn't break out into a chorus of "tomorrow belongs to me". When a woman in her national dress passed by they openly mocked and abused her. They also directed something aggressive at a kid of a out 10 perhaps, who wasn't "white".

So be as "patriotic" as you like, but if you're in favour of this movement, whether you like it or not, that sort of behaviour is what you're sanctioning.

Interesting that no-one has explained their opinion of or tried to explain away this incident which is doing the rounds of social media.

Very interesting.

Menopausalsourpuss · 25/08/2025 01:08

rockstarshoes · 25/08/2025 00:50

I’lm informed & unaware? I just couldn’t be bothered to type the whole thing out again!

https://hopenothate.org.uk/2025/08/22/operation-raise-the-colours-organised-by-well-known-far-right-extremists/

someone needs to educate themselves and it isn’t me!

I wouldn't click on anything from that dreadful bunch of far left extremists. They have created alot division and indeed their leader Nick Lowles falsely tweeted that a Muslim woman had been attacked with acid during the Southport riots leading to Muslims rioting - he should have been charged like Connelly.

Velmy · 25/08/2025 01:09

Menopausalsourpuss · 25/08/2025 00:43

What a load of bollocks. It's like you've never heard of the grooming/rape gangs which is still very much on people minds as there still hasn't been an enquiry ( and they'd have been one years ago if it was white gangs preying on Asian girls). There have also been racist murders of white people, they just don't get publicity as doesn't fit the agenda.

Well that's quite the strawman isn't it!

I'm well aware of all the things you mention, particularly the grooming gangs as I worked in a role heavily involved in combating online child abuse in the 00s. So believe me, I know far more than I'd like to about that particular issue.

I'm not at all sure what that, or racist crimes against white people, has to do with anything I said though. I certainly didn't say anything to suggest that non-whites don't commit crimes against white people, or that white people are never the victims of racially motivated crime...you appear to have come to that conclusion off your own back.

For clarity - I think the authorities' failures in tackling certain grooming gangs for fear of appearing racist is one of the biggest derelictions of duty my lifetime. And yes, I'm obviously aware that white people can be the victims of racist crimes.

If you could please explain what any of that has to with the post you replied to, I'll happily respond.

Itstwelveoclocksomewhere · 25/08/2025 01:10

Velmy · 25/08/2025 00:50

I don't like how the previous poster articulated it, but genuine question - have you seen any videos of middle/upper class presenting people out painting roundabouts?

Or is this another case of certain powerful/influential groups/individuals weaponising a currently hurting working class for their own ends?

Look at all the posters feigning patriotism and refusing to acknowledge the reason the flag was painted.

MN is supposedly full to the brim of self proclaimed 'middle class' people (despite the numerous threads about living in poverty). Therefore, given MN is clearly an accurate representation of the UK female population including an equal number of middle and working class (although I've always strongly suspected it leans more to the working class) it seems the majority of both 'middle' and 'working' classes are in favour of painting flags and agree with what it represents.

CFWorkstories · 25/08/2025 01:12

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HandMadeInYorkshire · 25/08/2025 01:13

This a parody account, yes?
Please tell me that you're joking?

Velmy · 25/08/2025 01:13

Climbingrosexx · 25/08/2025 01:00

For the majority of people it isn't about colour it's about being English / British and you should be allowed to be proud of that, whatever colour you are without being called racist.

You are allowed to be proud of being English. Nobody has ever suggested otherwise, or tried to stop anyone being proud of being English.

Do you have any examples?

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