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What do you think of the flags?

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Latesummersunset · 21/08/2025 18:05

Apologies if this has been done already.

I live in one of the areas where the flags were started. We couldn’t understand what they were for until it popped up in the news. Apparently the councils are going to be taking them down.

I don’t really have much of an opinion either way but my concern is that they’ll soon become tatty, fall down and leave a mess everywhere. But it seems lots of people are loving them. They do look quite cheery at the moment.

What do people think?

Yabu - they are a mess/racist/health and safety hazard

Yanbu - they are cheerful and patriotic. Keep them

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TalkToTheHand123 · 26/08/2025 22:22

Midnights68 · 26/08/2025 22:21

Small boat crossings (and migration generally) have increased since Brexit.

Nigel Farage championed Brexit.

He didn't agree the terms though.

awkwardasfuck · 26/08/2025 22:30

Midnights68 · 26/08/2025 22:21

Small boat crossings (and migration generally) have increased since Brexit.

Nigel Farage championed Brexit.

For his own gain and look how that's gone

awkwardasfuck · 26/08/2025 22:31

TalkToTheHand123 · 26/08/2025 22:16

What a ridiculous reply.

The more boats, the less money people will have in their pockets. As they say, everyone has their price.

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Bullshit. It comes out od the foreign aid we already pay. Go learn.

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 00:00

awkwardasfuck · 26/08/2025 22:31

Bullshit. It comes out od the foreign aid we already pay. Go learn.

Exactly. Taxpayers money. So if the costs of the boats go up, taxpayers pay more. How much more tax are you prepared to pay each month before you say enough is enough?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 00:07

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 00:00

Exactly. Taxpayers money. So if the costs of the boats go up, taxpayers pay more. How much more tax are you prepared to pay each month before you say enough is enough?

Can you give a workable solution to the 'small boat' issue? What do you think the government should be doing?

InOverMyHead84 · 27/08/2025 00:07

I grew up in leafy Hampshire, then went to university in the West Midlands.

What I considered patriotic and just having a good time at home (Displaying the flag during sporting tournaments, wearing around shoulders during games, proudly stating I am English! Not British...) very quickly dressed me up as someone potentially racist at University. Including another student seeking me out to assault me during late night hall of residence fire drills.

Anyone should be able to be proud of who they are. While I now appreciate the historic context more now, this is not something I, or anyone of the modern generations had any direct part of. For good or bad (And there is both in our collective history.)

Our actions now make us, why not display the flag and have that reflect what is good about this country. Our British, and by direct link, English values of inclusiveness and diversity. The flag is for us all, of all people working, contributing and living in our nation.

I refuse it being a symbol of hate.

Smilersam · 27/08/2025 00:13

Zipzaps · 21/08/2025 18:23

I think people should be able to fly their national flag on their own property if they choose (hint, they can). Those attached to public property should be removed, as any other banner or flag is.

If you love your flag so much you want to display it, you should know which way up it goes. A vast % of the ones I've seen are upside down!

Upside down is a sign of distress...the Country is in distress. So knock on the doors with the upside down flag and find their reasoning.

Smilersam · 27/08/2025 00:15

InOverMyHead84 · 27/08/2025 00:07

I grew up in leafy Hampshire, then went to university in the West Midlands.

What I considered patriotic and just having a good time at home (Displaying the flag during sporting tournaments, wearing around shoulders during games, proudly stating I am English! Not British...) very quickly dressed me up as someone potentially racist at University. Including another student seeking me out to assault me during late night hall of residence fire drills.

Anyone should be able to be proud of who they are. While I now appreciate the historic context more now, this is not something I, or anyone of the modern generations had any direct part of. For good or bad (And there is both in our collective history.)

Our actions now make us, why not display the flag and have that reflect what is good about this country. Our British, and by direct link, English values of inclusiveness and diversity. The flag is for us all, of all people working, contributing and living in our nation.

I refuse it being a symbol of hate.

Bingo 👍

YelloDaisy · 27/08/2025 05:46

Do they still teach the union flag at Brownies today? I learned which way up in 1962 in my group

FrippEnos · 27/08/2025 07:19

MiloMinderbinder925 · 26/08/2025 17:39

Why it started is well known and Britain First have contributed plus it's endorsed by Tommy Robinson. I'm not interested in some argument about patriotism, like I said this hasn't happened in a vacuum. It's part of a far right agenda. The icing on the cake is Farage jerking off about mass deportation.

It helps to look at the bigger picture.

"The bigger picture" always depends on which side of the fence your throwing shade from.

The only real truth is that the more these flags are pulled down and painted over the more truth you give to those that you are so against by proving that you "can't fly the flag".

And lets also be honest in that other flags that have been considered offensive have been left up for longer and in some cases haven't been taken down due to the violent response that the councils believe that they will get (just FYI not St George's cross)

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 07:48

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 00:07

Can you give a workable solution to the 'small boat' issue? What do you think the government should be doing?

Less deterants. More deportation. Not rocket science.

SleeplessInWherever · 27/08/2025 07:55

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 07:48

Less deterants. More deportation. Not rocket science.

Unless I’ve misunderstood the meaning of deterrents, I’m not sure less of them would help.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 11:21

FrippEnos · 27/08/2025 07:19

"The bigger picture" always depends on which side of the fence your throwing shade from.

The only real truth is that the more these flags are pulled down and painted over the more truth you give to those that you are so against by proving that you "can't fly the flag".

And lets also be honest in that other flags that have been considered offensive have been left up for longer and in some cases haven't been taken down due to the violent response that the councils believe that they will get (just FYI not St George's cross)

It's not true that the councils don't believe they'll get a bad response if they take down the English flags. That's why some aren't doing it despite it being on council property.

The bigger picture depends on whether you look at each event on a case by case basis or look at them all together given the rise of the far right and those vying to get into power.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 12:51

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 07:48

Less deterants. More deportation. Not rocket science.

I said workable and you mean more deterrents.

Wordsmithery · 27/08/2025 13:18

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 26/08/2025 17:44

I find it really hard to separate the flags from the UKIP/Britain First/Farage type attitudes, which is sad. Being proud of your country shouldn’t be a bad thing - I am proud of a country that welcomes people from all cultures, that looks after the dispossessed and the refugees, and I am sure that country is still here - I see it in the counter protests. They are the people who are worthy of the name patriot, to me.

Completely agree.

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 13:36

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 12:51

I said workable and you mean more deterrents.

More deterrents I mean 😂. Quite easy. Don't roll out the red carpet. Only day trip would be a 1 way boat trip back to France.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 13:50

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 13:36

More deterrents I mean 😂. Quite easy. Don't roll out the red carpet. Only day trip would be a 1 way boat trip back to France.

Workable. That means actual solutions, not slogans.

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 15:27

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 13:50

Workable. That means actual solutions, not slogans.

Provide tents rather than hotels or even better, send them back to their country.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 15:35

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 15:27

Provide tents rather than hotels or even better, send them back to their country.

You're just parroting Farage. It's quite sad really.

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 15:46

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 15:35

You're just parroting Farage. It's quite sad really.

It's true though. Our current PM is an absolute embarrassment.

Digdongdoo · 27/08/2025 15:47

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 15:27

Provide tents rather than hotels or even better, send them back to their country.

Why tents? If you don't like the hotels you'd like a tent city in your local park even less. Such a daft thing to say.

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 16:00

Digdongdoo · 27/08/2025 15:47

Why tents? If you don't like the hotels you'd like a tent city in your local park even less. Such a daft thing to say.

Not in my area though. Some derelict land or former army base. Somewhere which will make them think twice and then urgent deportation or overseas processing.

SleeplessInWherever · 27/08/2025 16:20

TalkToTheHand123 · 27/08/2025 16:00

Not in my area though. Some derelict land or former army base. Somewhere which will make them think twice and then urgent deportation or overseas processing.

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Why tents? Do you prefer your asylum seekers damp?

They will not come, and if they do we’ll make them cold and rained on.

Lovely.

MumOfManyAliases · 27/08/2025 16:55

MiloMinderbinder925 · 27/08/2025 13:50

Workable. That means actual solutions, not slogans.

What, like “smash the gangs”, “country first, party second” and “all our plans are fully costed”?

IstillloveKingThistle · 27/08/2025 22:29

yellowspanner · 23/08/2025 00:01

These illegal immigrants are being housed and fed at our expense.
Our taxation is paying for their support. If they weren't here no hotel owners, of any political persuasion would be benefitting.
And when Reeves increases my taxes I will blame these illegal immigrants.
And putting Palestinian flags up in Jewish places is not at all the same as putting up the British or the English flag in England.
I don't live in Palestine so I don't want to see their flag up anywhere in the UK.
I want and expect to see either the Union flag or the cross of St George. It is our national flag so it should be flown from all public buildings

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