Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

AIBU to think that racism is getting a lot worse of late.

898 replies

AliceMaforethought · 20/08/2025 18:13

Just read this awful story in the Guardian. Awful and makes me feel so angry and so unsafe as a half Black woman.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/20/family-in-fear-after-tommy-robinson-shares-video-of-black-man-with-white-granddaughters

OP posts:
Thread gallery
11
Dorisbonson · 21/08/2025 15:03

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:02

Subsidise immigrants, how?

Through the taxation system???

Do you live in the real world

lkjhgfdsa · 21/08/2025 15:03

SpottyCheeseEater · 21/08/2025 14:50

Then do it the legal way, like I did!

There is no legal way for asylum seekers to enter the country.

Bushmillsbabe · 21/08/2025 15:04

TooBigForMyBoots · 21/08/2025 14:52

One of the main reasons women and children dont go first is the risk they will be sold into slavery.Sad

Even if they travel with men? Women and children do make it here, the family I work with, she begged him to wait until enough money saved for all 3 of them to go, he said no!

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:05

Dorisbonson · 21/08/2025 15:03

Through the taxation system???

Do you live in the real world

Everyone is subsided by taxation, or do you not use roads for example?

Bushmillsbabe · 21/08/2025 15:06

lkjhgfdsa · 21/08/2025 15:03

There is no legal way for asylum seekers to enter the country.

Yes there is, on arrival at any UK airport or port, can state that wish to claim asylum. They are interviewed, claim is started and depending on circumstances, can go to stay with friends/family or are housed by the UK government

SleeplessInWherever · 21/08/2025 15:07

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:05

Everyone is subsided by taxation, or do you not use roads for example?

They’re British roads, for British people.

Dorisbonson · 21/08/2025 15:07

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Dorisbonson · 21/08/2025 15:09

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:05

Everyone is subsided by taxation, or do you not use roads for example?

There are net taxpayers and tax eaters.

Asylum seekers very rarely become net taxpayers, their children very rarely become net taxpayers. The subsidy each immigrant requires in their life time if they retire here is circa 500k more than the amount of tax they pay in (if they work).

Do you understand now?

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:10

Dorisbonson · 21/08/2025 15:09

There are net taxpayers and tax eaters.

Asylum seekers very rarely become net taxpayers, their children very rarely become net taxpayers. The subsidy each immigrant requires in their life time if they retire here is circa 500k more than the amount of tax they pay in (if they work).

Do you understand now?

Edited

Do you understand the difference between refugees, asylum seekers and migrants?

JHound · 21/08/2025 15:11

SleeplessInWherever · 21/08/2025 15:07

They’re British roads, for British people.

What about tourists, business travellers etc?

How are they supposed to get around.

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:12

@Dorisbonson Can you share you source(s) for those numbers?

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/08/2025 15:12

SpottyCheeseEater · 21/08/2025 14:54

Through family sponsorship visa. Many of asylum seekers are from Pakistan, Vietnam, these countries are not even at war.

You do know that being at war is not the only reason to seek asylum?

JHound · 21/08/2025 15:12

SleeplessInWherever · 21/08/2025 15:07

They’re British roads, for British people.

It’s a sad indictment of MN that I thought this was serious at first! 😂

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:13

Bushmillsbabe · 21/08/2025 15:02

There are sub groups being persecuted in Vietnam, a close friends on mine family sought asylum here when she was young, came here as a family. Unfortunately her grandparents were too frail to make the journey and they were killed.

The Vietnamese are also some of the most trafficked in the world.

TooBigForMyBoots · 21/08/2025 15:13

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

What are you talking about?Confused

JHound · 21/08/2025 15:13

Dorisbonson · 21/08/2025 15:09

There are net taxpayers and tax eaters.

Asylum seekers very rarely become net taxpayers, their children very rarely become net taxpayers. The subsidy each immigrant requires in their life time if they retire here is circa 500k more than the amount of tax they pay in (if they work).

Do you understand now?

Edited

Source?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:14

Bushmillsbabe · 21/08/2025 15:06

Yes there is, on arrival at any UK airport or port, can state that wish to claim asylum. They are interviewed, claim is started and depending on circumstances, can go to stay with friends/family or are housed by the UK government

Edited

Visa?

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:17

Bushmillsbabe · 21/08/2025 15:06

Yes there is, on arrival at any UK airport or port, can state that wish to claim asylum. They are interviewed, claim is started and depending on circumstances, can go to stay with friends/family or are housed by the UK government

Edited

Why don't they just do that instead of risking their lives on small boats in a busy shipping channel

thepariscrimefiles · 21/08/2025 15:17

ForWittyTealOP · 21/08/2025 13:42

Also we - non-bigots - are supposed to empathise with them and understand their racism. That's changed. Nobody thought we should consider whether the NF had a point of view. Now anti-racism is cited as a reason why racists are emboldened!

In the 1970s, 80s and 90s the racism was overt and a badge of honour for the people espousing those views. The BNP and Combat 18 prided themselves on being racists and neo-Nazis. There was no ambiguity or plausible denialism with 'There Ain't No Black in the Union Jack'.

Now, it's all covert, 'I'm not racist but ....', 'are you thinking what I'm thinking'.

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/08/2025 15:18

Bushmillsbabe · 21/08/2025 15:06

Yes there is, on arrival at any UK airport or port, can state that wish to claim asylum. They are interviewed, claim is started and depending on circumstances, can go to stay with friends/family or are housed by the UK government

Edited

That is not technically true. It is only partially true. They do not need to be arriving at an airport or port. There are asylum claims in country from people legitimately already here. It also does not require an airport or port. They must seek asylum upon arrival in a territory, or as soon as possible afterwards. If they delay that may count against a claim.

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/08/2025 15:22

TopPocketFind · 21/08/2025 15:17

Why don't they just do that instead of risking their lives on small boats in a busy shipping channel

How do they get on the plane or ship without a visa?

The simplest way to deter the small boats is the one currently being piloted. Allow people to have their claims processed from a third country. If they have the claim accepted they have permission to travel to the UK. If it isn't then they already know that under no circumstances will they ever be legally able to settle in the UK.

BuildingAshes · 21/08/2025 15:23

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 14:54

That's a shame because I believe what I wrote was very clear. You said that everyone you know and the majority of the population talk about nothing but immigration and blame everything wrong in the country on foreigners. I offered alternative explanations for some of the issues you raised and you're accusing me of 'bleating on about immigrants'.

This is the "I'm not you are" defence.

Edited

In fairness, we are all on here talking about it! I don't think anyone is talking about 'nothing else', we'd cease to function if that were the case, but it'd be daft to suggest it's not a hot topic 🤷

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/08/2025 15:23

Dorisbonson · 21/08/2025 15:09

There are net taxpayers and tax eaters.

Asylum seekers very rarely become net taxpayers, their children very rarely become net taxpayers. The subsidy each immigrant requires in their life time if they retire here is circa 500k more than the amount of tax they pay in (if they work).

Do you understand now?

Edited

Evidence for that please?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 21/08/2025 15:23

thepariscrimefiles · 21/08/2025 15:17

In the 1970s, 80s and 90s the racism was overt and a badge of honour for the people espousing those views. The BNP and Combat 18 prided themselves on being racists and neo-Nazis. There was no ambiguity or plausible denialism with 'There Ain't No Black in the Union Jack'.

Now, it's all covert, 'I'm not racist but ....', 'are you thinking what I'm thinking'.

Hate crime and equality laws as well as people potentially losing their jobs over social media posts may have something to do with that.

thepariscrimefiles · 21/08/2025 15:24

SpottyCheeseEater · 21/08/2025 14:50

Then do it the legal way, like I did!

What sort of visa did you apply for? A student visa, a work visa, a spousal visa? You say that your DH is British. Did he sponsor you to come to the UK? If so, that is hardly an option for asylum seekers from war torn or repressive regimes like Afghanistan.