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Kid is always at our house-bit rude?

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Timeitwasohwhatatimeitwas · 10/08/2025 15:03

Dd has a friend on the road, he’s at our house a lot to play, which I don’t mind at all, he’s a lovely boy and they play nicely together.
Yesterday he was here from 2.30-7.30 and stayed for dinner-all fine
Whenever my Dd asks if he can play, it’s always at our house, she’s been there a few times, but they always have to play outside. She’s even asked if she can play at his for a change (did her this was cheeky) and he said he wasn’t allowed but could come to ours

My friends and I generally take it in turns to have playdates, does anyone else find this a bit rude?

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ThisZanyPinkSquid · 13/08/2025 11:59

This irritates me!! I have a 7 year old who we let have many play dates with a couple of his friends. Both once has it been reciprocated by one of these friends!!

Hayfield123 · 13/08/2025 14:24

maybe she has a controlling husband that doesn’t like other children in. I had a friend like this when I was a child. It was an easier life for her mum if nobody ever went in. My mother soon realised that it wasn’t the type of house she wanted me in so invited my friend over all the time.

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