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AIBU to think that no make up and that bob on Pamela Anderson is aging

150 replies

Rowlinginthedeepanddeeper · 10/08/2025 14:38

Not on her she looks amazing but for lost of us lesser beings its a very hard look to pull off ?

OP posts:
Nitgel · 10/08/2025 16:45

Pamela looks like she's had enough of being fucked over by men. I hope she continues to find her happiness as she seems to be a decent person who was caught up in a time that was shite for attractive women. So many casualties from that time.

SunnyPrague · 10/08/2025 16:46

I think she looks wonderful. It’s a shame she overplucked her eyebrows when she was younger but good for her for owning it.

I hope that she and Liam Neeson enjoy a glorious romance together.

IcedPurple · 10/08/2025 17:02

Slightly off topic, but both of Pamela's sons are gorgeous young men.

NuffSaidSam · 10/08/2025 17:03

slightlydistrac · 10/08/2025 16:36

I agree with you - nothing wrong with it at all, however I'd much prefer 'ageing'.
🙂

I'm sure the OP would prefer you not correct her spelling. It's possible to be wise with age, but also not a dick...

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 10/08/2025 17:03

IcedPurple · 10/08/2025 17:02

Slightly off topic, but both of Pamela's sons are gorgeous young men.

And bright, too. Through their help she made her Netflix doc, and this new chapter started there.

IcedPurple · 10/08/2025 17:05

PeggyMitchellsCameo · 10/08/2025 17:03

And bright, too. Through their help she made her Netflix doc, and this new chapter started there.

I didn't know that. Sounds like they have a really strong relationship.

KimberleyClark · 10/08/2025 17:05

Vintagenow · 10/08/2025 16:19

Agreed. Pamela is gorgeous with lovely skin. The rest of us mere mortals with our less than perfect complexions need a little help! Although my 58 year old friend never wears make up and has the skin of a 20 year old, it's like she's reverse ageing. She does have very long, not bobbed hair and got rid of a huge weight recently in the form of an arsehole bloke, so that might have something to do with her glow.
My teenager begged me never to get a bob, also have very long hair in my 50's, which my mother hates, so it shall be staying long 😂
The only downside to long thick hair is it's bloody hot in your 50's. I've felt like shaving it off on many a hot night!

Why are you letting your teenager dictate your hairstyle?

TyroleanKnockabout · 10/08/2025 17:10

DelphiniumDoreen · 10/08/2025 16:19

She’s no less self obsessed than she was. Before it was tits and tan. Now it’s bare faced and wide eyed.

Look at Amanda Holden. She has a stunning figure but what a bloody self obsessed arse she is. I guess it goes with the territory.

It’s a good job I don’t work in TV!

I don’t know, I watched that documentary and she seemed quite down to earth and pleasant. 🤷‍♀️

PInkyStarfish · 10/08/2025 17:11

She looks lovely but it’s her eyebrows in the thin plucked line that age her.

Blondiney · 10/08/2025 17:13

The prior facelift makes it much easier for Pam to embrace her 'natural' beauty.

kim204 · 10/08/2025 17:15

Are we talking about the Met photos? I thought she looked amazing in the 2024 pics with make up by Pat McGrath but this year - well a fringe that severe doesn't look good on anyone IMO, especially when you have to pencil in your eyebrows from over plucking. She's definitely wearing some make up as well there IMO, just made to look very natural.

IcedPurple · 10/08/2025 17:15

SunnyPrague · 10/08/2025 16:46

I think she looks wonderful. It’s a shame she overplucked her eyebrows when she was younger but good for her for owning it.

I hope that she and Liam Neeson enjoy a glorious romance together.

Are they really dating?

I kind of assumed it was a fauxmance to hype their film.

TreatTreat · 10/08/2025 17:19

I hate it when women are negative about other women for no reason at all. Pamela looks good for her age. We should be championing women, not for their looks, bit for being strong, and independent and for working bloody hard. Being a woman is difficult. Let's all congratulate each other for getting where we are today because we've all been through a struggle or two but here we are bringing up kids, keeping life ticking over. We're doing fucking amazingly.

GhostInTheWashingMachine · 10/08/2025 17:32

We don't have a clue what a "natural" Pamela Anderson would look like.

She may not (always) wear makeup but she has most definitely had Work Done even if not actual surgery.

YelloDaisy · 10/08/2025 17:40

The fact that Jane Fonda at 87 looks 30 in her pics means surgeons can work magic and anyone who says so and so looks great for her age actually means they’ve had stuff done. And all this so and so has only had a little Botox is bollox - they probably had teeth done ,and not just whitened and a lot more - they’re not going to advertise the fact they’ve had injections as, obviously from the veiled criticism on here ,not everyone approves.

333FionaG · 10/08/2025 17:43

hazelowens · 10/08/2025 15:42

I am 47, I have a bob, my hair is all grey as I have grown it out. I don't wear make-up unless it's a special occasion and I've been told I look younger than my years. My mum always looked younger because she had great skin. She died at 63 and didn't have a wrinkle on her face. I hope I look like my mum at that age.

Picture of my mum a couple of months before she died.

Sincere condolences on the loss of your mum.

Kindly though, she doesn't look youthful in that photo, she looks radiantly happy and contented but quite obviously in her 60's.

YelloDaisy · 10/08/2025 17:44

And criticising PAs eyebrows because they’re not ‘fashionable’ is nuts -a year or so ago everyone had black straight edged eyebrows, next year it will be something else. I think it’s a shame we’re stuck with everyone having to have tumbling tresses - no matter how straggly they look, I like the bob and cropped hair -so neat and flattering compared to straggles.

Cynic17 · 10/08/2025 17:53

What's wrong with looking the age one actually is, FFS?

I appreciate that it's difficult in Hollywood, so chapeau to Pamela for ditching the make up (and of course she looks great).
But it's absolutely fine for the rest of us to do the same..... I'm 60. All my friends know I'm 60. I probably look 60. What's the issue?

DoubleDoubleDown · 10/08/2025 18:07

Her look is very typical of the area. Generally speaking people here age very well. It's down to a very active outdoor lifestyle, great fresh food and that West coast air. It's magical. Of course being very wealthy also helps you enjoy the best of everything.

slightlydistrac · 10/08/2025 18:33

NuffSaidSam · 10/08/2025 17:03

I'm sure the OP would prefer you not correct her spelling. It's possible to be wise with age, but also not a dick...

Yet you chose to come on here and correct me... does that make you a dick?

Luckyingame · 10/08/2025 18:37

It's fine.
And I'm sure there IS some makeup.

hazelowens · 11/08/2025 13:55

333FionaG · 10/08/2025 17:43

Sincere condolences on the loss of your mum.

Kindly though, she doesn't look youthful in that photo, she looks radiantly happy and contented but quite obviously in her 60's.

Thank you for the condolences, she will be gone 8 yrs this October. Possibly it was her being happy made her skin look good as I said if I look as good as my mum looked at 63 I'll be happy.

Mustbethat · 11/08/2025 14:01

TreatTreat · 10/08/2025 17:19

I hate it when women are negative about other women for no reason at all. Pamela looks good for her age. We should be championing women, not for their looks, bit for being strong, and independent and for working bloody hard. Being a woman is difficult. Let's all congratulate each other for getting where we are today because we've all been through a struggle or two but here we are bringing up kids, keeping life ticking over. We're doing fucking amazingly.

Yet you still place conditions on her appearance- she looks good “for her age”.

no, she looks good. End of.

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 11/08/2025 15:24

@hazelowens your Mum looks beautiful there, very happy and very smooth-skinned. So sorry for your loss. You never stop missing them xxx

hazelowens · 11/08/2025 15:40

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 11/08/2025 15:24

@hazelowens your Mum looks beautiful there, very happy and very smooth-skinned. So sorry for your loss. You never stop missing them xxx

No you never do. It was a very sudden death, she hadn't been unwell but that morning she was very confused and had fallen out of bed, my dad couldn't get her off the floor so phoned for my partner to go up and help, he told my dad if she was no better in 2 hours to phone an ambulance. Ambulance was called and I was called to go and sit with her. That was around 1.30pm. Doctor said she has a urine infection which is making her a bit confused and she was dehydrated. He was going to start antibiotics and a saline drip to get fluids into her. 7.30pm we were told to go home as nothing was happening, doctor said come back tomorrow after 9 and I bet we will have got your mum back. She will be in over the weekend but she is in the right place. I go home have a shower put pyjamas on and get settled down at 10.25 they called and said get up here now so my sister and I go up and we are sat in the room and the doctor said I'm sorry but your mum's heart gave in and we tried everything but we couldn't bring her back. It turns out that she had been diagnosed with angina 10 yrs earlier and no one told her. She was at the doctor's at least twice a month as her heart would be racing at 160 beats a min but doctor would say for her that was normal. If the doctor who gave her the fluids and know that he wouldn't have had the fluids going in too fast as her heart just couldn't handle it.

Didn't mean to ramble on sorry xx

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